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Tuesday February 5
Approaches: 10
Invites Home: 1
Result: Intentional Rejection
Today I had some pretty successful opens throughout the day and ended up with four different numbers. However, even though I spent little tidbits of the whole day approaching – actually all between client visits in the city – I didn’t ever ask a single woman home all day. The most I did was invite girls to instant dates.
Well, I was about to go home – and actually, I did go home. I gave up at around 9pm as I was sitting at a café and watched so many hot girls walk by. I just felt tired, though – so I called it quits, walked into my building and went up the elevator, and walked into my apartment. I then pondered and felt like shit – this means I’d have to restart the game. Which is also failure – but actually, an even bigger failure.
So I put my shoes back on and walked out again, and went down the escalator and onto the street. It had been about ten minutes.
The mission was different this time – get rejected.
I approached two girls in five minutes, and the second girl’s conversation went like this:
I turned and walked another block, then turned around and went home.
What I realized is that very few men would ever do such a thing – like ask a girl home within 30 seconds of meeting her. It is in no way smooth, but it is very raw and honest – in a way that a woman has probably never seen before.
Haha, not really – most guys aren’t smooth. That’s the real problem.
Approaches: 10
Invites Home: 1
Result: Intentional Rejection
Today I had some pretty successful opens throughout the day and ended up with four different numbers. However, even though I spent little tidbits of the whole day approaching – actually all between client visits in the city – I didn’t ever ask a single woman home all day. The most I did was invite girls to instant dates.
Well, I was about to go home – and actually, I did go home. I gave up at around 9pm as I was sitting at a café and watched so many hot girls walk by. I just felt tired, though – so I called it quits, walked into my building and went up the elevator, and walked into my apartment. I then pondered and felt like shit – this means I’d have to restart the game. Which is also failure – but actually, an even bigger failure.
So I put my shoes back on and walked out again, and went down the escalator and onto the street. It had been about ten minutes.
The mission was different this time – get rejected.
I approached two girls in five minutes, and the second girl’s conversation went like this:
ME: Hey, I noticed you walking over there and I just had to come tell you that your style is absolutely lovely tonight!
HER: Thank you! <stops and turns>
ME: I’m GP
HER: I’m <Name>
ME: Where are you headed, <Name>?
HER: I’m going to meet my boyfriend downtown
ME: Oh, well, what do you say you hold off that plan for a bit and come have a glass of wine with me at home? I’m right there down the street <point down street> and I’ve got red wine, white wine…
HER: Oh, umm…I can’t….but it was nice to meet you <big goofy shocked smile>
ME: <Big smile> it was so nice to meet you too! Have a great night!
I turned and walked another block, then turned around and went home.
What I realized is that very few men would ever do such a thing – like ask a girl home within 30 seconds of meeting her. It is in no way smooth, but it is very raw and honest – in a way that a woman has probably never seen before.
Haha, not really – most guys aren’t smooth. That’s the real problem.