Is excitement actually a DLV?

[Zanardi]

The story is this: I read an article on a PUA-related site, article which stated that being excited because you met a girl is actually a DLV and you should try to hide it from her. The logic behind this is that because you're excited it means that you don't meet many girls, meaning that there are underlying flaws in your personality, reason for the girl to reject you. This is why you must try to control this feeling around her and look calm and/or slightly aloof, like you do this regularly.

Excepting the fact it's the first time I see that being excited is portrayed as a bad thing, how correct is the line of thinking above?

 

[Michal]

Overexcitement is bad. Feeling excited but having it under control is ok. Yes, it is a signal that you just found a girl who you might value more or you are more attracted to her than other girls. But women want to be liked. Lots of them are insecure. Based on what a friend told me, to her it feels like the guy is interested before he even knows anything about her, which is weird for her and does not understand it. So don't take the advice from Chase too literally or you will see a girl, get excited and then be like "game over, no reason to approach, she will think I am a loser with nothing to offer".
What you can do is something Ricardus suggested:
"mirror her emotions -1" meaning mirror her emotions but one lever lower in terms of intensity. This will make them feel like you are on the same wave length.
Or you can mask your excitement and gradually show it when a girl does something you like, as a form of qualifying her.

 

[Fuck This]

I think there is a middle ground where you show in a reserved manner that you are happy to see this woman. Usually as a reward to her for being effusive to you. You don't want to appear to be MORE excited than she is, but sincerely reward her excitement with attention and approval. Just the same way you would accept a compliment.

 

[M_Ronin]

I think the reason for your excitement is the key here. Are you nervous excited? Afraid excited? Or are you turned on excited?

This reminds me yesterday when i saw a girl on the street when I turned my back. She was such a bombshell that the moment I saw her my eyes widened. It was an automatic response. It was not nervousness at all. I was like "Dayyum".

She picked up on it as well. She tilted her head my way inquisitevely as she walked past. I was excited and it was a warm feeling. I think she felt samewise but she was walking with two men. sigh* I didnt approach though. (Still learning how to approach groups, its a tough case for me)

I ask you. Is your excitement a warm feeling? or a "lacking" sort of feeling?

 

[Overdoze]

For me its very dependent on where she is as well as the nuance of your vibe around it/nature of your excitement as outlined by many others above.

Aloof type vibes CAN provide for a striking impact on girls. or create a good tension. it shows you cant be fucked around w, have some backbone and is a sorta breaking rapport vibe.this is attractive and sexually stimulating for girls.

That alone though can be a style but its is rarely good for broader set of girls as it can provide a dark sorta vibe. Some of them cling too these but it limites your potential. most girls needs an opening vibe on top of it to see a potential for something. a hole through.

So combining aloof w others is smart. i like the many nuances outlined by the others in this thread btw. very detailed.

for me excitement is key when shes either paranoid which many girls are in clubs. if she likes you. or if shes in a flirty state.

In PIMP Julien black specifically advices to mix exciting with challenging and commanding/aloof energy you shift between in the initial part of the approach creating a roller coaster. my field experience supports that this rollercoaster initially works very well w many girls. Think a bit more advanced than push pulling the girls.