Is it OK to say "maybe" if a woman wants to know you like her?

[Incredible]

Today I had a facebook conversation with an older women (I was out with her once). She is old enough for not to be attractive for every man, but I am OK with it. And she seems to be sexually pretty active. She sent me few nude photos of herself and her vagina and then asked if it is motivating enough . In order not to be needy, like every guy, and to create a little bit of intrigue, instead of "yes" I said "maybe". After that I immediately asked if she wants me to visit her tomorrow - she replied she is too busy tomorrow. I may be overanalyzing it or too theoretical, but I would like to understand "the logic" behind it.

So what do you think of saying "maybe" (especially if a girl's sexappeal is questionable)? It can create a little bit tension and be used for teasing, but on the other side I have a bad feeling for supporting female uncertainty and that I'm also acting like a "fuckin' woman that doesn't know what she wants".

 

[Raqimus]

You really did not need to say maybe... when she sends you something like that there is no need for the games and if you said yes, you would not have been appearing needy. When she asked and then you said maybe and then tried to get with her immediately... she knows its a game and now you have to play it.

Its incongruent, saying maybe then trying to get with her. She was qualifying herself to you lol. It could also depend on how you said the maybe. If you said Maybe then yea thats cool but then i don't think she would of said she was busy without an explanation. I feel like you just said maybe. Which is dull and not at all creating tension, etc and really makes her question if you like her. She is older and as you said not so attractive, she doesn't need these games.

Intrigue not needed... she was sending you nudes lol. Saying it a certain way can generate intrigue but here it wasn't needed.

 

[Incredible]

Actualy I said it like this: "maybe ", so it is pretty indecisive. Something was telling me I'm trying good think with wrong person...

 

[Raqimus]

Yea thats passable then, and yea good thing, wrong person. She didn't need it.