@Ilovegoingthere,
it makes total sense to me that you are here. you're feeling frustration and doubt about dating and relationships, and want reassurance that they can happen to you. and what better place to get that than a mens dating site?
except on this thread, you haven't quite found that reassurance yet, adding an extra layer of frustration into the mix for you. so thats why im going to give you some.
ill say a few things.
while it may seem like you need good looks to get guys approaching you, or asking you out, its simply just not the case. theres tons of guys out there who are not focused on looks. take me for example. i will happily get involved with a girl who has a lovely, positive energy - even if she's not the best looking.
you're also not alone in this. ive had some friends who were girls who didn't get approached, and they truly believed it was because they weren't so good looking - but it was because of the environment they were in. like, for example, my introverted friend lucy. she didn't really go out to activities much. but one day she signed up for a cooking class, and was super surprised when a hot guy in the class approached her and started flirting with her! one thing led to another and they're actually married now.
you WILL experience guys approaching you, relationships and everything in between - you deserve it, and it could start happening as soon as today! it's just a matter of finding yourself in a situation where you're meeting the right guy at the right time and place.
of course, you could speed up that process a little bit by taking matters into your own hands, but i promise you it will happen to you by fate, regardless.
how do you feel about this? im here to support you and im listening