Journal Chapter 1: Solo Night Game - Obliterate AA and Find Good Venues

[KJ Francis]

I wouldn't consider that an AI as I feel it has to be more calculated like making eye contact, bumping into you or sitting next to you, but possibly it was an IOI. For the head and shoulders chick It couldn't be shyness because otherwise she wouldn't have approached the dude next to me.

yeah that makes sense... though I guess I would consider any pre-approach IOI as a subconscious AI. or like a testing AI. like from the evolutionary perspective, her womb wants a persistent man so that her child will be a go-getter in life who accomplishes things generally and with women will go on to pass the genes on further. so things like bitch shields, resisting moving with you at first, or LMR are tests to screen out the less persistent men whose genes she doesn't want. so I see the hair flip and the hover as the same thing... screening for men who take action and don't give up easily. women rarely approach because this is in itself natural selection.

and with the shyness point, I think girls will way more easily chat up a guy they're not sexually interested in who is right next to them. same with me personally, I have no problem saying hi to some ugly girl or old lady in the elevator, but if she's hot I get AA.

That doesn't work for me, trying to out think or out rationalizing out of my AA just makes it worse. So far the thing that works best for me is shutting my brain up and just going for it. Well at least in day game that has been working.

yeah this is the reason for the three second rule - making it a habit to approach before you mind talks you out of it.