Journal Chapter 1: Solo Night Game - Obliterate AA and Find Good Venues

[KJ Francis]

I wouldn't consider that an AI as I feel it has to be more calculated like making eye contact, bumping into you or sitting next to you, but possibly it was an IOI. For the head and shoulders chick It couldn't be shyness because otherwise she wouldn't have approached the dude next to me.

yeah that makes sense... though I guess I would consider any pre-approach IOI as a subconscious AI. or like a testing AI. like from the evolutionary perspective, her womb wants a persistent man so that her child will be a go-getter in life who accomplishes things generally and with women will go on to pass the genes on further. so things like bitch shields, resisting moving with you at first, or LMR are tests to screen out the less persistent men whose genes she doesn't want. so I see the hair flip and the hover as the same thing... screening for men who take action and don't give up easily. women rarely approach because this is in itself natural selection.

and with the shyness point, I think girls will way more easily chat up a guy they're not sexually interested in who is right next to them. same with me personally, I have no problem saying hi to some ugly girl or old lady in the elevator, but if she's hot I get AA.

That doesn't work for me, trying to out think or out rationalizing out of my AA just makes it worse. So far the thing that works best for me is shutting my brain up and just going for it. Well at least in day game that has been working.

yeah this is the reason for the three second rule - making it a habit to approach before you mind talks you out of it.

 

[FunGuy]

This weekend was uneventful nothing noteworthy happened. Y'all can skip reading this as it will be boring read.

Week 7:
This weekend was a bit odd and I guess it has to do with Thanksgiving being a few days away. Black Friday deals also went live through the weekend so the mall day game sessions were hectic AF.

Friday Night:
I wanted to try 2 new locations, I was planning to use one of them as my new warm up spot. It was decent so I might keep it in rotation. 2nd new bar was too much of a sausage fest. After the 2 new bars I wanted to scout a new area so I drove around and noticed a few places that caught my attention so took a mental note of some of the names so I can research them once I got home. I ended the night at my go-to Karaoke spot and it was obnoxiously crowded, I never seen it this packed. I spotted the lone wolf from last week as I was walking out, she was walking somewhere so not sure if she was alone this time. There was no place to sit or even stand comfortably so I was forced to leave.

Saturday Night:
I hit up the live band bar that was previously 2/2 with the mamasitas. This night unfortunately it was a sausage fest. I was there early enough to grab a seat and stayed there for a while to see if chicks would start coming in but nothing so I went to the spot 3 mins away. That spot was also a sausage fest so speed walked to my car so I can hit up another area. I wanted to check out the new spot I was scouting on Friday but the Karaoke spot is on the way there so I popped in real quick. Again it was obnoxiously crowded so I immediately walked out and hit up the new area. Went to 2 bars in the new area and omg they were BOTH my perfect vibe! Plenty of chicks and no chairs by the bar area so everyone is standing and its easier to approach and its not weird to just stand around. Also the music isn't loud so you can talk without yelling. I wasn't yet comfortable or acclimated to these spots so I didn't do any approaches and just explored these venues and got a feel for the vibes. Lastly I hit up the karaoke spot again super late and it was STILL obnoxiously crowded, usually after 12:30 it starts dying down but everyone was still there. I literally grabbed some food ate and came back a 3rd time like almost at 1am and it was still crowded, very weird.

Day game sessions:
Both Saturday and Sunday were horrible I did 5 approaches at the mall and got blown off by all 5. First time in years that I got a rude response from opening, one of the chicks side eyed TF outta me. I wouldn't have approached one of the chicks because there was no space so I had to come in from awkward angle, but she was a 9 so I approached her anyways but she walked right past like she didn't see or hear me like I was John Cena . Its black friday shopping so I'm guessing chicks were stressed trying to get their shopping done and weren't receptive. Ironically my state and eagerness to approach actually increased, so what Glow mentioned earlier is true about getting points for approaches so definitely appreciate that tip.

Short and uneventful entry this week so no TLDR section.

 

[FunGuy]

Been traveling on and off since Thanksgiving so haven't been going out much. Found out that night life is super slow here from like the week before Christmas til like the 2nd week of January so there's like a 3 week period where its dreadful to go out. Regardless I did notice some sticking points from the few outings I had during December:

Sticking Points:

• Clunky openings on sets that are preoccupied in their own convos. I generally try to avoid opening those type of sets as I usually look for sets who look bored and are people watching but lately I'm not running into many sets like that so am forced to open difficult sets. I've noticed that subconsciously there's a part of me that feels like I'm interrupting them and it manifests itself with tentative body language and makes it hard to get the sets attention. Will experiment with being more assertive and high energy for opening those specific sets instead of going in like a pussy who is scared to interrupt their conversation
• I get stuck on a2 with quieter chicks. I ran into a handful of interactions with quiet chicks and it just feels weird trying to hit on them when they give boring answers to everything.
• When I get into talkative state I tend to just black out and get into chatty free styling mode instead of stacking forward to either being more flirty, physically escalating, or any type of compliance. What always ends up happening is that I end up talking about BS for like 45 minutes but I don't snap out of it until the convo starts to die down and by then the momentum is too low to smoothly stack forward

What To Do Next Time I'm Out:

• Keep in mind to STACK FORWARD FAST
• Open more assertively and high energy on preoccupied sets
• Remember to field test the game plan I have for quieter chicks to see if it helps me get past a2 with them