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Posting a Field Report for this experience, because I had a good laugh at the situation.
I saw this Asian girl on the beach today that I thought was pretty hot. I'd already seen her yesterday walking around somewhere else, but she disappeared in a building before I got the chance to open her. This time I saw her sit down on the beach somewhere on a little hill, again difficult to open because I'd either have to come from behind, or stand like 1m below her. So I didn't approach her right away. Also due to a mix of AA, and wanting to go for a quick swim first.
I jumped into the cold water. While I was swimming, I see the Asian girl walk towards where my stuff was and sit herself down like 10m up the beach. I come out of the water, I'm a bit cold now because of the wind and wrap my towel around myself. I wait a bit to let the wind blow me dry, then decide if I don't open her now she will probably either get away again, or some other dude will snatch her first. So I walk over to her to open.
I say "Excuse me? Quick question"
She sticks her palm out right away, and says "No thanks."
I persist and say "Are you from Germany?"
Girl: "No" (with a puzzled look)
Me: "Korea?"
Girl: "Yes"
Me: "I wanted to tell you, you look really stylish, I love your style!"
Girl: (sticks hand out again) "No thanks!"
Me (smiling): "No thanks? Okay, no worries!"
The girl smiles back as me as I say no worries. I walk back to my stuff and lie down to dry in the sun.
After a while some guy appears right next to me, sneaking around and taking pictures. I'm thinking is this guy gay? He keeps smiling. He appears to be Korean as well.
I get dressed, walk around a little, and the guy disappears. I lie down again (now fully dressed) and forget about him. I look over to the girl once or twice, she's just lying there on her back chilling, and not checking me out or anything.
Suddenly the guy reappears right next to me and asks, "Excuse me, I really like your style! Can I take a picture of you?"
I have to suppress a laugh and say "No thanks!" He insists and says "Just a picture with you in the background." I say "No!" but have to grin to myself. I'm still not really looking at the guy. He says "I love your style!", quite enthusiastically. I say thanks, but again without looking directly at him. He finally buggers off. I burst out laughing.
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I found it hilarious how he used the exact same line on me that I used on the girl moments before! Why does this kind of shit happen to me? Are the pickup gods trying to show me something? "Here, this is how it feels when you get approached!"
Sometimes I think, I wish I could be bisexual. I'd probably get laid 24/7/365. At least!
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KOREAN GIRL REOPEN
So that was the funny part of the story. But I decided to give the Korean girl another go. She was a red from the start, but I wanted to tell her what just happened anyway because I found it so hilarious.
I get my stuff to leave, and as I do, I walk past her and reopen. This time she is much more receptive! Maybe because I'm grinning all over. I walk up to her and ask her "Did you see that?!"
She says no, so I tell her the whole story. I don't remember what I said exactly but it was probably something like this: "This guy just came up to me and told me he loves my style! He said the exact same thing to me that I said to you. And he's Korean! But I'm not even into guys! lol"
I'm not sure if she even understands me. She just sits there and smiles her mysterious Korean smile at me. She seems to be acknowledging, but later tells me her English isn't very good.
Anyway she's much more open now, so I sit next to her and get chatting a bit. Exchange names and shake hands. Find out she's been here for 5 days, and today is her last day. (Most tourist girls tell me it's their last day!) I ask her why? I don't remember what she answered. Probably something like I have to leave.
I try to find out logistics and ask her what she's planning to do on her last day. She says she doesn't know, so that's a good sign.
I ask if she visited other places in Europe, she say "No only here". I say this is an awesome place to be, tell her where I'm from and that I moved to this country. She asks me why, and I tell her I love the vibe here, the beach, the weather... looking around and gesturing at the scenery. She agrees.
I ask her what city she's from, she tells me some city name I never heard of. I tell a little story about my friend who's married to a Korean girl, he lived here before but now lives in Asia with his wife. Can't remember what her reaction to that was, I think she just smiled and didn't answer much. At some point she also tells me her English isn't that good.
I make sure to compliment her on her style once more, and compare hers to mine for similarity. We are wearing similar colors, black trousers, white shirts (top in her case). She's smiling. At one point she looks at her phone and I think she wants to show me something, so I get closer. But she sticks out her palm again and says "Bye!" (it appears she's getting a call). I say "Oh, you want to be alone?" She says "yes."
I say "Okay, it was nice talking to you. What was your name again?" She tells me, and I shake hands with her once more. Holding it a bit longer this time. Her hand is warm and soft.
Then I leave her to take her call.
---
Before I leave, I walk around the beach for a while just to digest the whole absurd situation. I have to laugh out loud several times as I walk. People probably think I'm crazy.
But I don't care. Good times!
I saw this Asian girl on the beach today that I thought was pretty hot. I'd already seen her yesterday walking around somewhere else, but she disappeared in a building before I got the chance to open her. This time I saw her sit down on the beach somewhere on a little hill, again difficult to open because I'd either have to come from behind, or stand like 1m below her. So I didn't approach her right away. Also due to a mix of AA, and wanting to go for a quick swim first.
I jumped into the cold water. While I was swimming, I see the Asian girl walk towards where my stuff was and sit herself down like 10m up the beach. I come out of the water, I'm a bit cold now because of the wind and wrap my towel around myself. I wait a bit to let the wind blow me dry, then decide if I don't open her now she will probably either get away again, or some other dude will snatch her first. So I walk over to her to open.
I say "Excuse me? Quick question"
She sticks her palm out right away, and says "No thanks."
I persist and say "Are you from Germany?"
Girl: "No" (with a puzzled look)
Me: "Korea?"
Girl: "Yes"
Me: "I wanted to tell you, you look really stylish, I love your style!"
Girl: (sticks hand out again) "No thanks!"
Me (smiling): "No thanks? Okay, no worries!"
The girl smiles back as me as I say no worries. I walk back to my stuff and lie down to dry in the sun.
After a while some guy appears right next to me, sneaking around and taking pictures. I'm thinking is this guy gay? He keeps smiling. He appears to be Korean as well.
I get dressed, walk around a little, and the guy disappears. I lie down again (now fully dressed) and forget about him. I look over to the girl once or twice, she's just lying there on her back chilling, and not checking me out or anything.
Suddenly the guy reappears right next to me and asks, "Excuse me, I really like your style! Can I take a picture of you?"
I have to suppress a laugh and say "No thanks!" He insists and says "Just a picture with you in the background." I say "No!" but have to grin to myself. I'm still not really looking at the guy. He says "I love your style!", quite enthusiastically. I say thanks, but again without looking directly at him. He finally buggers off. I burst out laughing.
---
I found it hilarious how he used the exact same line on me that I used on the girl moments before! Why does this kind of shit happen to me? Are the pickup gods trying to show me something? "Here, this is how it feels when you get approached!"
Sometimes I think, I wish I could be bisexual. I'd probably get laid 24/7/365. At least!
---
KOREAN GIRL REOPEN
So that was the funny part of the story. But I decided to give the Korean girl another go. She was a red from the start, but I wanted to tell her what just happened anyway because I found it so hilarious.
I get my stuff to leave, and as I do, I walk past her and reopen. This time she is much more receptive! Maybe because I'm grinning all over. I walk up to her and ask her "Did you see that?!"
She says no, so I tell her the whole story. I don't remember what I said exactly but it was probably something like this: "This guy just came up to me and told me he loves my style! He said the exact same thing to me that I said to you. And he's Korean! But I'm not even into guys! lol"
I'm not sure if she even understands me. She just sits there and smiles her mysterious Korean smile at me. She seems to be acknowledging, but later tells me her English isn't very good.
Anyway she's much more open now, so I sit next to her and get chatting a bit. Exchange names and shake hands. Find out she's been here for 5 days, and today is her last day. (Most tourist girls tell me it's their last day!) I ask her why? I don't remember what she answered. Probably something like I have to leave.
I try to find out logistics and ask her what she's planning to do on her last day. She says she doesn't know, so that's a good sign.
I ask if she visited other places in Europe, she say "No only here". I say this is an awesome place to be, tell her where I'm from and that I moved to this country. She asks me why, and I tell her I love the vibe here, the beach, the weather... looking around and gesturing at the scenery. She agrees.
I ask her what city she's from, she tells me some city name I never heard of. I tell a little story about my friend who's married to a Korean girl, he lived here before but now lives in Asia with his wife. Can't remember what her reaction to that was, I think she just smiled and didn't answer much. At some point she also tells me her English isn't that good.
I make sure to compliment her on her style once more, and compare hers to mine for similarity. We are wearing similar colors, black trousers, white shirts (top in her case). She's smiling. At one point she looks at her phone and I think she wants to show me something, so I get closer. But she sticks out her palm again and says "Bye!" (it appears she's getting a call). I say "Oh, you want to be alone?" She says "yes."
I say "Okay, it was nice talking to you. What was your name again?" She tells me, and I shake hands with her once more. Holding it a bit longer this time. Her hand is warm and soft.
Then I leave her to take her call.
---
Before I leave, I walk around the beach for a while just to digest the whole absurd situation. I have to laugh out loud several times as I walk. People probably think I'm crazy.
But I don't care. Good times!
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