Learning Verbal Game

[h8tehh8ers]

If you could pick one source to get your feet wet learning effective verbal game....

Who would be your source?

Hitting up the loud dance floor type venues isn't working out for me. I believe I need to develop some verbal game and hit up more quiet bars and lounges.

 

[Zanardi]

I think the best way is to read alot and to develop lots of experience in talking to girls.

 

[Derek da man]

You may already be doing these but just in case:

1 - Learn to read a girls body language and understand when she is inviting you to open her. There's a good article on Girlschase about diving girls into 3 categories - Red, Yellow and Green. Your wasting your time with the Reds, Yellows may have possibilities but Greens are inviting you to come and chat. You'll get a lot of Reds, a few yellows and not many Greens but by going straight to the Greens you aren't wasting time with those that aren't going to give you anything anyway. I couldn't find the article again, maybe someone else can post the link. There are also some good books that explain how to read a girls body language and they present it in a very practical way rather than lots of fancy words.

2 - There was a line in a pop song a couple of years back about the dance floor not being a good place to pick up but the bar area is as you can chat. If that's not for you try different venues as some bars attract singles some couples, and so on. This is a good article about different venue types which is good. https://www.girlschase.com/content/increase-your-lays-pt-ii-strategies-5-venue-types

 

[Velasco]

For me there's 3 elements to verbal game you'll want to master

• Self amusing
• Vibing/flirting
• Framing

Self amusing for early game (approaching/warming up/reaching the hook point)
Vibing and framing is what you'll do throughout the interaction (i.e. when you're not vibing, you should be framing. When you're not framing you should be vibing).

Now for me, the best guys for each category to learn from:

• Self amusing I like this video from Austin Summers
• Vibing/flirting I like Coach Kyle's stuff
  and JP (Todd V's assistant)
• Framing I like Alek Rolstad's frame control stuff on GirlsChase: https://www.girlschase.com/content/frame-control-methods-get-women-bed-fast To watch someone who uses Alek's stuff in videos, I like Markus Wolf's infields on UltimateManProject:

 

[Chrance]

You shouldn’t avoid the dance floor. It’s really no different than off the dance floor, just louder and everyone is moving around more.

A natural way to develop talking skills is to simply get a girlfriend, ideally one that is social with a good personality, who you talk to and joke around with on a regular basis. This helped me immensely. All of that talking you do with your gf affects your daily tempermant, hence your general vibe. Whenever you think about something cool or funny, tell it to your gf. How you behave around her is how you will behave in set once your social anxiety settles down. Getting a gf is an easily accessible and therapeautic experience, like owning a nice dog. You could say it “raises your value”. I think I added more muscles to my face by having a gf in one year than I did through 4 whole years in college.

Once I get the time I’ll try to respond more to this thread with specific resources in order to answer your question as you desired.

 

[h8tehh8ers]

I already have a few girlfriends

 

[h8tehh8ers]

Can anybody think of any more frames that I don't have listed here that I should make routines for?

Sexual Liberated
Adventurous
Spontaneous
Non-judgmental about sex
Slut Labeling
Discretion
Madonna Whore complex / Life Woman with experience
Not just going to pump and dump her

 

[Velasco]

Can anybody think of any more frames that I don't have listed here that I should make routines for?

Sex God Frame - you know how to fuck