Let's start a good vibes thread... Whats your style of game?
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How I meet girls: Direct Daygame, with some nightgame sprinkled in. Once I move to a new location I want to start going out at night much more often.
Type of girl I do best with: Still haven’t figured this part out, but I generally do much better with very attractive girls and have a harder time with girls who are closer to what I consider average. I give too much weight to what others might say of a girl I might see and that causes me to go for average girls less.
My appearance: I'm tall. I’m narcissistic enough to think I have a super attractive face. Body is ok, a work in progress. I’ve lost the gut I had a while ago, but still a little chubbier than I want and trying to put on muscle.
Personality: I’ve been told I’m confident, eccentric, and smart. I am decently funny but have a harder time being sexual, which I’m working on this year. Generally sarcastic but in a way that makes teasing fun. Becoming better at having chase frames and other premise based topics more natural. I’m an extremely quick study and learn very fast, which also makes me lazy. I have a hard time sticking to one thing for a long time (I think pick up is the only thing I’ve been this consistently working on in my life)
Game Style: Focused on the basics. I’ve effectively only been learning for 9 months of my life. Direct day game, and good at building comfort, and definitely an attractive to women, but have a hard time coming across as a lover. Doing night game makes me become more sexual and moving fast.
Favorite girl experience: Spanish girl I met and ran into a few hours later. Went on an insta date and convinced her to ditch a friend for a few hours and we had sex. Pierced nipples too.
What got me into "game": was visiting family staying with my grandparents the summer before my senior year, and searched up how to talk to girls in college. Spent hours upon hours reading GC that summer.
One thing I wish I knew before: I should have made different friends when I was younger and also just hanging around more girls. I was awkward and too scared of what my social circle would think if I talked to girls, so missed out a lot in high school. Thought I’d change in college, but ended up staying with a very similar crowd, who are great friends for other parts of my life, but not for getting girls. Trying hard to make up for those mistakes now.
How I meet girls: Direct Daygame, with some nightgame sprinkled in. Once I move to a new location I want to start going out at night much more often.
Type of girl I do best with: Still haven’t figured this part out, but I generally do much better with very attractive girls and have a harder time with girls who are closer to what I consider average. I give too much weight to what others might say of a girl I might see and that causes me to go for average girls less.
My appearance: I'm tall. I’m narcissistic enough to think I have a super attractive face. Body is ok, a work in progress. I’ve lost the gut I had a while ago, but still a little chubbier than I want and trying to put on muscle.
Personality: I’ve been told I’m confident, eccentric, and smart. I am decently funny but have a harder time being sexual, which I’m working on this year. Generally sarcastic but in a way that makes teasing fun. Becoming better at having chase frames and other premise based topics more natural. I’m an extremely quick study and learn very fast, which also makes me lazy. I have a hard time sticking to one thing for a long time (I think pick up is the only thing I’ve been this consistently working on in my life)
Game Style: Focused on the basics. I’ve effectively only been learning for 9 months of my life. Direct day game, and good at building comfort, and definitely an attractive to women, but have a hard time coming across as a lover. Doing night game makes me become more sexual and moving fast.
Favorite girl experience: Spanish girl I met and ran into a few hours later. Went on an insta date and convinced her to ditch a friend for a few hours and we had sex. Pierced nipples too.
What got me into "game": was visiting family staying with my grandparents the summer before my senior year, and searched up how to talk to girls in college. Spent hours upon hours reading GC that summer.
One thing I wish I knew before: I should have made different friends when I was younger and also just hanging around more girls. I was awkward and too scared of what my social circle would think if I talked to girls, so missed out a lot in high school. Thought I’d change in college, but ended up staying with a very similar crowd, who are great friends for other parts of my life, but not for getting girls. Trying hard to make up for those mistakes now.
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This should serve as a reminder that I still have lots of work to do in order to improve my women life...
How I meet girls: my lays have been from social circle and online. I also did some day and night game before, but no results from that. Currently it's mostly from social circle, although I'd like to get back to day game.
Type of girl I do best with: Feminine girls. For some reason, most of them are brunettes, play music and wear glasses. They tend to be the kind of cute innocent girl that you can't imagine being a bad girl in bed.
My appearance: Middle eastern, 1 meter 77. Short hair (balding). I wear simple clothing and match the colors.
Personality: chill, laid back, confident
Game Style: I rely more on non-verbals, especially eye-contact and touch and now also facial expressions. Conversation-wise I go with flow. Vibe tend to be warm as I talk more about the girl and get to know her.
Favorite girl experience:
What got me into "game": I had caught oneitis for two girls, and I hadn't experienced that before. I used to be the one in control when meeting girls, and girls used to be the ones admiring me. But then I attended university, and it seemed like these girls had some game too. I didn't understand the dynamics were reversed back then. I saw one of them with a guy eventually and let her go. I declared my feelings to the other a year after we met, but she only saw me as a great friend (not surprisingly). We stayed friends for 2 or 3 months after that. In the meantime I searched for pick up sites and eventually discovered David Tian (and I saw he was distancing himself from GirlsChase these days - weird!). A search on his name on Google also let me to find a podcast with him on GirlsChase, and I have been hooked on GC since then. I also read about the friend zone, something I had never heard of before despite being 21. I told the girl that I couldn't be her friend anymore since I wanted something else from her, and she couldn't give me that. She tried to save it during that final conversation, but after that I heard no word from her. Maybe I wasn't such a great friend as she made it seem like.
One thing I wish I knew before: girls are chameleons. A lot of what they say, you can't take at face value. Some do it because it's fun. But some also do it because they care a great deal about their appearance, they're risk averse, they're insecure etc. etc. And when you understand that and accept it as part of the female nature, you don't take them so seriously. They're silly and cute beings, always adapting to their environment. Make her the kind of chameleon you like.
How I meet girls: my lays have been from social circle and online. I also did some day and night game before, but no results from that. Currently it's mostly from social circle, although I'd like to get back to day game.
Type of girl I do best with: Feminine girls. For some reason, most of them are brunettes, play music and wear glasses. They tend to be the kind of cute innocent girl that you can't imagine being a bad girl in bed.
My appearance: Middle eastern, 1 meter 77. Short hair (balding). I wear simple clothing and match the colors.
Personality: chill, laid back, confident
Game Style: I rely more on non-verbals, especially eye-contact and touch and now also facial expressions. Conversation-wise I go with flow. Vibe tend to be warm as I talk more about the girl and get to know her.
Favorite girl experience:
- a past FWB came to my place after she had been to a party. A guy called her every weekend for some weeks hoping to get laid, and this time was no excuse (it was 2 am...) One minute into the call, I had enough. I took off all my clothes and put my dick in front of her face. She gave me the most silent blowjob I have ever experienced in my life, but the whole "we shouldn't be doing this, it's so wrong" vibe made up for the silence. A few minutes passed. When she had enough of him, she just hung up. No explanation or goodbye. "Finally I can make some noise!"
- And something, different girls have done: blowing me while I'm driving them to my place. I have yet to try that on the highway
What got me into "game": I had caught oneitis for two girls, and I hadn't experienced that before. I used to be the one in control when meeting girls, and girls used to be the ones admiring me. But then I attended university, and it seemed like these girls had some game too. I didn't understand the dynamics were reversed back then. I saw one of them with a guy eventually and let her go. I declared my feelings to the other a year after we met, but she only saw me as a great friend (not surprisingly). We stayed friends for 2 or 3 months after that. In the meantime I searched for pick up sites and eventually discovered David Tian (and I saw he was distancing himself from GirlsChase these days - weird!). A search on his name on Google also let me to find a podcast with him on GirlsChase, and I have been hooked on GC since then. I also read about the friend zone, something I had never heard of before despite being 21. I told the girl that I couldn't be her friend anymore since I wanted something else from her, and she couldn't give me that. She tried to save it during that final conversation, but after that I heard no word from her. Maybe I wasn't such a great friend as she made it seem like.
One thing I wish I knew before: girls are chameleons. A lot of what they say, you can't take at face value. Some do it because it's fun. But some also do it because they care a great deal about their appearance, they're risk averse, they're insecure etc. etc. And when you understand that and accept it as part of the female nature, you don't take them so seriously. They're silly and cute beings, always adapting to their environment. Make her the kind of chameleon you like.
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How I meet girls:
I have mainly focused on nightgame over the years.
Type of girl I do best with:
All kind of "ethnic" girls are attracted to me pretty much from the get-go. Latinas, middle-eastern or other dark-haired girls give me IOI-pretty much at every venue i go to. Hood-girls often gives me IOI.
Over the years as i developed my game i attract more my type of girls, blonde, tall and blue eyes. I'm also getting these kind of girls on a regular basis nowadays.
Appearance:
Muscular but not ripped. 1.74 cm tall, latino, with long hair and full black beard, olive-coloured skin.
Personality:
Extroverted and very social. This quarantine is a real mood killer for a person like me that gets energy from meeting people.
Game Style:
I'm both direct but also indirect through my style of game. I try to use diffrent approach depending on the target and on the situation. I very often kino fast and get the interaction sexual through verbal game. Hanging out alot with Teevster developed my verbal-game to new levels. The combination between my fast kino and more hypnotic verbals have multiplied my lays the last three years. I never pulled this quality and quantity ever before.
Favorite girl experience: I have plenty of crazy stories and Teevster posted one very funny one from those two strippers that thought we were Steve Angello and Sebastian Ingrossso from the SHM
Another crazy funny one was also with Teevster. We were vistiting Hector Castillo from here in Bucharest, Rumania. We went to this gangsterish bar on a Sunday. I felt it was a very bad vibe and told him not to look the dudes in the eyes. All the dudes in the place looked like military/police/. We found some hot young italian-chicks to talk to outside the bar. While we were talking to our sets this huge tall guy agressivly grabs Teevsters ass from behind. I tell the dude to back off and he is furious at Teevs I stand in the middle and dude tell me "i'm not having a problem with you, it's with him i have a problem with" and again tries to swing at Teevster over my head. Apparently this other huge shaved dude appears and tells the first dude to back off. In two seconds he hits him and there is a huge fight right in front my eyes, Dude who grabbed Teevs ass is now getting kicked and everyone is fighting now. Chairs are flying in the air and i just stand their prepared to join in. Suddenly Teevs drags me back and tells me to get the fuck out of there. I agree and we get away from there with the girls.
Girls are now very aroused from all the violence and they invite us to fuck them in their AIRBNB apartment they rented. So i go up there and fuck my girl and when we are finished Teevster went up and demolished his girl in their bedroom. This was a fun experience but could have ended very badly.
Another fun story was some years ago when i traveled to Cuba alone some years ago. I was staying there for two weeks and with four days left of my stay i had run out of money. I was staying at this flee-eaten hotel with literally no glass in the windows. I had to find some rich tourist gal before i froze to death or got eaten by cuban-cockroaches. (Not fun)
I went out to the local club and talked to many hotties. Suddenly i heard a girl talking in a spanish-dialect i know very well. (It's from the country my parents come from) A amazingly hot, young brunette with big wide eyes and white teeth waslooking at me as i approached. I started speaking with her in spanish, quickly kino-escalated on her and she was mine. My luck was that she was staying in one of the richer hotels in Varadero, a five star one with all inclusive. She snucked me in to her room and i was in paradise. I got a superhot broad to fuck as much i wanted, i had free food and alcohol at the bars. I stayed at her place until i had to travel back. Heard she got her own psychiatric clinic in her homecountry and works as a psycologist there.
Good times and a great memory from my trip!
What got me into "game":
My friend was ranting about this book that was "revolutionary" i was constantly dismissing him until one day i was bored and read it, "The game". I got so blown away from it i had to look up the links in the back of it. I found the link to MASF.com and registered an account there. I quickly started to try out what i read there and from then on i was hooked. My life changed drastically since that day and i thank the community so much to the person i'm today.
One thing I wish I knew before:
Girls are mostly attracted to status before looks. An ugly guy with huge social proof is much more worth to a girl than a hot guy being weird and lonely.
I have mainly focused on nightgame over the years.
Type of girl I do best with:
All kind of "ethnic" girls are attracted to me pretty much from the get-go. Latinas, middle-eastern or other dark-haired girls give me IOI-pretty much at every venue i go to. Hood-girls often gives me IOI.
Over the years as i developed my game i attract more my type of girls, blonde, tall and blue eyes. I'm also getting these kind of girls on a regular basis nowadays.
Appearance:
Muscular but not ripped. 1.74 cm tall, latino, with long hair and full black beard, olive-coloured skin.
Personality:
Extroverted and very social. This quarantine is a real mood killer for a person like me that gets energy from meeting people.
Game Style:
I'm both direct but also indirect through my style of game. I try to use diffrent approach depending on the target and on the situation. I very often kino fast and get the interaction sexual through verbal game. Hanging out alot with Teevster developed my verbal-game to new levels. The combination between my fast kino and more hypnotic verbals have multiplied my lays the last three years. I never pulled this quality and quantity ever before.
Favorite girl experience: I have plenty of crazy stories and Teevster posted one very funny one from those two strippers that thought we were Steve Angello and Sebastian Ingrossso from the SHM
Another crazy funny one was also with Teevster. We were vistiting Hector Castillo from here in Bucharest, Rumania. We went to this gangsterish bar on a Sunday. I felt it was a very bad vibe and told him not to look the dudes in the eyes. All the dudes in the place looked like military/police/. We found some hot young italian-chicks to talk to outside the bar. While we were talking to our sets this huge tall guy agressivly grabs Teevsters ass from behind. I tell the dude to back off and he is furious at Teevs I stand in the middle and dude tell me "i'm not having a problem with you, it's with him i have a problem with" and again tries to swing at Teevster over my head. Apparently this other huge shaved dude appears and tells the first dude to back off. In two seconds he hits him and there is a huge fight right in front my eyes, Dude who grabbed Teevs ass is now getting kicked and everyone is fighting now. Chairs are flying in the air and i just stand their prepared to join in. Suddenly Teevs drags me back and tells me to get the fuck out of there. I agree and we get away from there with the girls.
Girls are now very aroused from all the violence and they invite us to fuck them in their AIRBNB apartment they rented. So i go up there and fuck my girl and when we are finished Teevster went up and demolished his girl in their bedroom. This was a fun experience but could have ended very badly.
Another fun story was some years ago when i traveled to Cuba alone some years ago. I was staying there for two weeks and with four days left of my stay i had run out of money. I was staying at this flee-eaten hotel with literally no glass in the windows. I had to find some rich tourist gal before i froze to death or got eaten by cuban-cockroaches. (Not fun)
I went out to the local club and talked to many hotties. Suddenly i heard a girl talking in a spanish-dialect i know very well. (It's from the country my parents come from) A amazingly hot, young brunette with big wide eyes and white teeth waslooking at me as i approached. I started speaking with her in spanish, quickly kino-escalated on her and she was mine. My luck was that she was staying in one of the richer hotels in Varadero, a five star one with all inclusive. She snucked me in to her room and i was in paradise. I got a superhot broad to fuck as much i wanted, i had free food and alcohol at the bars. I stayed at her place until i had to travel back. Heard she got her own psychiatric clinic in her homecountry and works as a psycologist there.
Good times and a great memory from my trip!
What got me into "game":
My friend was ranting about this book that was "revolutionary" i was constantly dismissing him until one day i was bored and read it, "The game". I got so blown away from it i had to look up the links in the back of it. I found the link to MASF.com and registered an account there. I quickly started to try out what i read there and from then on i was hooked. My life changed drastically since that day and i thank the community so much to the person i'm today.
One thing I wish I knew before:
Girls are mostly attracted to status before looks. An ugly guy with huge social proof is much more worth to a girl than a hot guy being weird and lonely.
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Another one joins the "I am brown but attract tanned dark haired girls crew" lol. I don't do too hot with latinas myself for some reason but we might just be noticing a trend.
Another one joins the "I am brown but attract tanned dark haired girls crew" lol. I don't do too hot with latinas myself for some reason but we might just be noticing a trend.
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I think it’s pretty easy. Girls get attracted to guys that looks like someone they already met and where good to them, a postitive anchor. Because of segregation most upper middleclass white-girls grow up in areas and schools where most guys where as white as themselves. A white guy is therefore in their mind ”safer” and they probably have more stuff in common.
Following the same principle darker girls or ”hood-girls” find me ”safer” because they probably have a positive anchor to a dark dude with beard from previous experiences. Most middle-eastern girls that gave me strong IOI before they started talking to me where convinced i was arabic for instance.
With good game, good fundamentals and a good social skillset you can make a girl that would not normally even consider you fuckable turn around and find you superhot. These days my lays are almost 100% hot young white girls.
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I don't know man, you can argue it either way, being "exotic" and the foreigner effect is very well applauded throughout the seduction community. For one night stands and flings, I'd say you are in a bad spot being "safe" or "familiar".
In the kinds of environments I have been in (top 10 party school and trendy areas of major US cities with the hottest bars/nightclubs), I find that ethnic women actually have a strong preference towards white guys, even moreso than their own men (Asian American women being the biggest ones but Latinas not that far behind). To a degree, I even find this true for Indian and Middle Eastern girls these days. I hear it is rare in California to see a hot Middle Eastern girl born and raised in the US go for a Middle Eastern dude.
At my university, it was guaranteed that if an Indian, Asian, Arab, or Latin girl was hot; she primarily went for white guys or had more than a handful of flings with one. Men of her own background were more for LTRs or stable relationship, not sex. Once again, this is a large party school in the northeast constantly rated as a top 5 party school (some years number 1) in the US.
My theory is that on one hand ethnic women have a bigger motive to try to "fit in" and they gain more by dating a white guy compared to a white girl who can afford to just pick the best guy.
I am in the opposite boat as you, I primarily do the best with white girls (albeit overwhelmingly brunette) and struggles come with more ethnic women. As of right now I have zero interest in going for the barbie girl type and prefer a Salma Hayek anyday.
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We are talking about different things here. Being a foreigner when traveling is a whole different thing than living in for instance Scandinavia and having a non-white background. An American black dude has a shot with the hottest white girls in Scandinavia as opposed to a african-immigrant looking exactly the same but living here. Actually even for flings and hookups girls are risk-aware, they prefer to hook up with a more “safe looking dude” from her own ethnic group than risking to be “raped” by an unknown ethnic dude. There are of course always exceptions to this rule, like white girls loving blacks and latinos for instance. But even then these girls going for a specific ethnic group are choosing a “safe” guy because they already had positive experiences with these.
When it comes to rich and more highly educated girls i also noted ethnic girls (latinas or middle-eastern) are often drawn to white dudes. I think this is like you say due to them wanting to fit in a white world. But to be honest, when drunk and horny a latino-dude will probably be the quickest choice for a latina even in a environment like this.
Latina-girls have always been the easiest targets for me, we have lots in common and they feel i’m safe. These days I actually avoid latin girls, if they are not like a 10 i would just pass it because they don’t feel like a challenge anymore.
Just my 2 cents on the matter
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I think it might be more to do with a girl's culture than human nature maybe, not sure if biology has any say. For example, white westerners are constantly told to judge others as individuals and not be racist like their ancestors were so white women are more likely to hear someone out and give a hot guy of any race a chance. White women I find discriminate more based on how hot you are or how your style is rather than your ethnicity. Even the much desired blondes aren't that loyal to the white race from what I find.
Take Asian girls for example, from a very materialistic and shallow culture where white is worshiped, so they leave their own behind in favor of whites. Similar to just about any ethnic girl who came to the US at an early age, she wants to fit in badly hence she avoids going for her race, especially if she was raised around whites.
Take white girls raised in midwestern boringness, they fucking LOVE ethnic and black dudes.
Now I notice that of all the races, I do relatively well with white women. I do especially well with white women who have dark hair and the swarthy look (along the lines of Emily Ratajkowski, Gal Gadot, Olivia Culpo, Irina Shayk, etc.), it is a done deal. Does not matter if she is from Ireland, Scandinavia, Eastern Europe, or even fucking Alabama; done deal. It got a point in 2019 where my wings and guys close to me would lazily shoot their eyes over to a girl with that look at that bar telling me it's my turn.
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How I meet girls: daygame mostly;
Type of girl I do best with: I don't know, yet. Now all I want is lots of experience;
My appearance: won't going to the elegant-type;
Personality: non-conformist;
Game Style: finding one in progress...
Favorite girl experience:
What got me into "game": wanting to know how to really get girls;
One thing I wish I knew before: don't lose time.
Type of girl I do best with: I don't know, yet. Now all I want is lots of experience;
My appearance: won't going to the elegant-type;
Personality: non-conformist;
Game Style: finding one in progress...
Favorite girl experience:
What got me into "game": wanting to know how to really get girls;
One thing I wish I knew before: don't lose time.
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What got me into game: socially awkward youth, a loner, due to being a third culture kid always moving to a new country every few years during my childhood. Kind of stuck to my brother and sisters for socializing. Was the class clown in high school. Played strategy PC games.
At the end of high school I was still a virgin. Popped my cherry aged 19. Didn't have long-term friends due to globetrotting upbringing and tense home situation, and didn't really fit in anywhere. Was smoking doobies from 14-19 years of age. Residually from then on. Tried most drugs recreationally but never became addicted to any.
My brother's friend recommended me a book his friend had read, this friend of his was a very rich kid, the book was Strauss's The Game, which I devoured in 2009 and then joined mASF in its dying days. Later moved to nextASF, then sedfast.
My appearance: 1.80m tall (5'9) was intermediate-level powerlifter (132.5kg squat, 150kg dead, 92.5kg bench) in 2014 weighed 85kg lost 10kg muscle mass since herniated disc L5S1 2016 still rehabilitating should be healed in a few months gonna rebuild muscle after that. Southern-European. Hair color was blonde as a child now dark brown. Have a hairy chest, arms and legs. Wear my hair short, crew cut, shave it myself. Fashion style minimalistic used to be preppy now a bit more sporty.
How I meet girls: from May 2014 to February 2020 primarily warm approach/social circle as a tour guide. The girls would come on my walking tours and I'd close them discretely during the tour when we were relatively isolated from the rest of the group chatting one-on-one. Typically there'd be some back and forth over WhatsApp, I'd meet her at a square close to my place, take her for a drink in 1 or 2 bars (I live in bar district), then walk her home, and fuck. I fucked 52 girls this way, and could have fucked many more.
The rest of my notches came from other warm approach scenarios (foreign exchange student house parties third year of college, etc.) as well as night and day game cold approach. Most of my cold approach notches came from day game.
Close to 100 notches total at this point, only a few left.
Type of girl I do best with: I haven't fucked my "personal 10", to use the numbers scale which I don't usually. Most of my girls have been for ONS or meeting them twice or three times, as tourists tend to then leave, and have been what I would class as cute/hot, not the hottest. Have had a total of two long-term fuck buddies, one for 6 months the other for 1 year.
Personality: I'm loud, extroverted - though I can also enjoy my alone time - low in agreeableness and politeness, average in compassion and industriousness, high in orderliness and assertiveness, can be a bit neurotic (more so recently due to getting fired and C-19, usually not much). A bit of an asshole basically haha
Game Style: was all about Sleazy and physical dancefloor "seduction" when I started, but I'd say my style in day game today is verbally indirect using direct non-verbals (mostly EC) but also a bit of physicality (hand-holding, etc.) to egg the seduction along.
Favorite girl experience: it's a tie between the hottest girl I've been with, in 2015, which was amazing sex, and who made a tattoo to remember me when she went back from whence she'd come, and was still sending me nudies last year, 4 years later, even though we haven't seen eachother since 2015...and a crazy story where I fucked this 19-year-old girl from my college during a school trip to a military base in the WC at 10:00am after fingering her on the bus on the way there. She became my fuck buddy for 6 months.
One thing I wish I knew before: for girls, it's not so much the way you look, but more about how you make her feel. Your looks matter mostly to you. If you want to get buff and ripped, this is so that you can feel better about yourself, but can also be a trap if you then rely solely on that external factor for your internal validation. Like Teevs wrote in one of his GC articles recently, it's best to have your eggs (in this case your value) in more than one basket. Also, your maxxed looks shouldn't be a cop out to then settle for average (below you on the looks scale) girls to protect your self-image.
At the end of high school I was still a virgin. Popped my cherry aged 19. Didn't have long-term friends due to globetrotting upbringing and tense home situation, and didn't really fit in anywhere. Was smoking doobies from 14-19 years of age. Residually from then on. Tried most drugs recreationally but never became addicted to any.
My brother's friend recommended me a book his friend had read, this friend of his was a very rich kid, the book was Strauss's The Game, which I devoured in 2009 and then joined mASF in its dying days. Later moved to nextASF, then sedfast.
My appearance: 1.80m tall (5'9) was intermediate-level powerlifter (132.5kg squat, 150kg dead, 92.5kg bench) in 2014 weighed 85kg lost 10kg muscle mass since herniated disc L5S1 2016 still rehabilitating should be healed in a few months gonna rebuild muscle after that. Southern-European. Hair color was blonde as a child now dark brown. Have a hairy chest, arms and legs. Wear my hair short, crew cut, shave it myself. Fashion style minimalistic used to be preppy now a bit more sporty.
How I meet girls: from May 2014 to February 2020 primarily warm approach/social circle as a tour guide. The girls would come on my walking tours and I'd close them discretely during the tour when we were relatively isolated from the rest of the group chatting one-on-one. Typically there'd be some back and forth over WhatsApp, I'd meet her at a square close to my place, take her for a drink in 1 or 2 bars (I live in bar district), then walk her home, and fuck. I fucked 52 girls this way, and could have fucked many more.
The rest of my notches came from other warm approach scenarios (foreign exchange student house parties third year of college, etc.) as well as night and day game cold approach. Most of my cold approach notches came from day game.
Close to 100 notches total at this point, only a few left.
Type of girl I do best with: I haven't fucked my "personal 10", to use the numbers scale which I don't usually. Most of my girls have been for ONS or meeting them twice or three times, as tourists tend to then leave, and have been what I would class as cute/hot, not the hottest. Have had a total of two long-term fuck buddies, one for 6 months the other for 1 year.
Personality: I'm loud, extroverted - though I can also enjoy my alone time - low in agreeableness and politeness, average in compassion and industriousness, high in orderliness and assertiveness, can be a bit neurotic (more so recently due to getting fired and C-19, usually not much). A bit of an asshole basically haha
Game Style: was all about Sleazy and physical dancefloor "seduction" when I started, but I'd say my style in day game today is verbally indirect using direct non-verbals (mostly EC) but also a bit of physicality (hand-holding, etc.) to egg the seduction along.
Favorite girl experience: it's a tie between the hottest girl I've been with, in 2015, which was amazing sex, and who made a tattoo to remember me when she went back from whence she'd come, and was still sending me nudies last year, 4 years later, even though we haven't seen eachother since 2015...and a crazy story where I fucked this 19-year-old girl from my college during a school trip to a military base in the WC at 10:00am after fingering her on the bus on the way there. She became my fuck buddy for 6 months.
One thing I wish I knew before: for girls, it's not so much the way you look, but more about how you make her feel. Your looks matter mostly to you. If you want to get buff and ripped, this is so that you can feel better about yourself, but can also be a trap if you then rely solely on that external factor for your internal validation. Like Teevs wrote in one of his GC articles recently, it's best to have your eggs (in this case your value) in more than one basket. Also, your maxxed looks shouldn't be a cop out to then settle for average (below you on the looks scale) girls to protect your self-image.
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Great thread!
How I meet girls: Most common way has been through social circle game as that is how game usually works down south in America. Runner up would be online dating and finally, bars and nightlife. Lately it has been all online dating though.
Type of girl I do best with: While I used to struggle with them the most growing up to the point that they were the only women I struggled with, I'd say tanned brunettes (usually white). Mediterranean, Latin, and just plain white girls with that look. Jewish girls seem to also take a big liking to me. I've always done well with blondes and redheads.
My appearance: Get told I look like Jimmy Garropolo (49ers QB). White mutt with some Eastern Euro and Med in him.
Personality: More happy go lucky type of personality. Positive, upbeat, and try not to ponder too much on the bad things in life.
Game Style: I want girls to come to me and only approach when I see an invitation or it is obvious. Rarely do I approach if a girl is beating around the bush. Too direct at times for my own good butt I rather be that than waste time. More of the listener, less talker.
Favorite girl experience: Happened with Alexis, a girl in my sophomore year of college. Swore I would never waste time with a tanned brunette as I had too many rejections from them. Calls me out for ignoring her when we worked together, seduction happened for months and she ended up being my first girl that was my type. Through her, fucked many more girls with that look.
What got me into "game" I could never get the girls I wanted to get even though I got girls.
One thing I wish I knew before: Enjoy women who are giving you attention and look good, don't be miserable not having what you can't have.
How I meet girls: Most common way has been through social circle game as that is how game usually works down south in America. Runner up would be online dating and finally, bars and nightlife. Lately it has been all online dating though.
Type of girl I do best with: While I used to struggle with them the most growing up to the point that they were the only women I struggled with, I'd say tanned brunettes (usually white). Mediterranean, Latin, and just plain white girls with that look. Jewish girls seem to also take a big liking to me. I've always done well with blondes and redheads.
My appearance: Get told I look like Jimmy Garropolo (49ers QB). White mutt with some Eastern Euro and Med in him.
Personality: More happy go lucky type of personality. Positive, upbeat, and try not to ponder too much on the bad things in life.
Game Style: I want girls to come to me and only approach when I see an invitation or it is obvious. Rarely do I approach if a girl is beating around the bush. Too direct at times for my own good butt I rather be that than waste time. More of the listener, less talker.
Favorite girl experience: Happened with Alexis, a girl in my sophomore year of college. Swore I would never waste time with a tanned brunette as I had too many rejections from them. Calls me out for ignoring her when we worked together, seduction happened for months and she ended up being my first girl that was my type. Through her, fucked many more girls with that look.
What got me into "game" I could never get the girls I wanted to get even though I got girls.
One thing I wish I knew before: Enjoy women who are giving you attention and look good, don't be miserable not having what you can't have.
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@Pablo ”Pelusita” Garcia
Can speak to what you noticed from a white perspective. I always naturally attracted blondes without even trying and assumed it was normal given how I am a darker skinned guy, albeit white (think Mediterranean and such). Even when I looked around growing up, I noticed that hot blondes always went for dark haired guys and it was very common to see a dark haired girl that was hot go for a blond guy. Among celebs I see this a lot too.
As a guy who loves women that could pass for family, weird way to put it but I don't know how else to say it, this used to get me down a lot. I had an easy time with blondes, black girls, Asian girls, redheads, and in some cases even ghostly pale brunettes with freckles but could not get the Emily Ratajkowski clone which was long my type. My first ever fap was Shannon Elizabeth on American Pie but I would not experience a girl with that look until sophomore year of college. Where I grew up in the south, girls with that look went for the All American Chad stereotype.
What I find odd about your experience is that at least here in America, whenever I see a good looking white girl going interracial, she is a blonde most of the times or a brunette who looks white without a shadow of doubt. Black guys with blonde girls has long been a thing but I even see blondes going for other minorities these days too.
Like you though, I also figured out a way to get my type in the end.
Can speak to what you noticed from a white perspective. I always naturally attracted blondes without even trying and assumed it was normal given how I am a darker skinned guy, albeit white (think Mediterranean and such). Even when I looked around growing up, I noticed that hot blondes always went for dark haired guys and it was very common to see a dark haired girl that was hot go for a blond guy. Among celebs I see this a lot too.
As a guy who loves women that could pass for family, weird way to put it but I don't know how else to say it, this used to get me down a lot. I had an easy time with blondes, black girls, Asian girls, redheads, and in some cases even ghostly pale brunettes with freckles but could not get the Emily Ratajkowski clone which was long my type. My first ever fap was Shannon Elizabeth on American Pie but I would not experience a girl with that look until sophomore year of college. Where I grew up in the south, girls with that look went for the All American Chad stereotype.
What I find odd about your experience is that at least here in America, whenever I see a good looking white girl going interracial, she is a blonde most of the times or a brunette who looks white without a shadow of doubt. Black guys with blonde girls has long been a thing but I even see blondes going for other minorities these days too.
Like you though, I also figured out a way to get my type in the end.
Great thread!
How I meet girls:
Daygame for the most part, lately bcuz of Corona I've been utilizing online game more. Not a fan of nightgame just for the reason of not liking to stay up very late and waking up in the afternoon.
Type of girl I do best with:
I would say older girls/women. I'm 26 myself, and most of my girls have been 30+, and some have even been 40+. Other than age, I tend to be more successful with confident, successful girls, who have their shit together (except sometimes their marriage lol).
My appearance:
I'm 6.2, bald, with a beard, and kinda lean, with a masculine voice. Even though all of that leans more towards the masculine, I actually have pretty feminine facial features, like eyes (kinda puffy) and lips (full). I'm not very muscular at the moment, bcuz I usually practice boxing, however during Corona that was impossible, so I let myself go a bit.
I like to wear plain button-up shirts and some skinny/slim pants. Jewelry is something I definitely like wearing, so I usually have 3 rings on my hands, and a number of bracelets and a watch. On my feet, I like to wear either dressy-casual shoes or Chelsea boots.
If the weather permits it, I wear a black leather jacket or a winter coat and combat boots.
Personality:
I'm generally a pretty quiet, calm, chill dude, not easily rattled. Despite that, I like to be very expressive with my hands, voice and eyes.
Game Style:
Definitely more of a bad boy than a nice guy vibe. Which can sometimes work to my detriment, bcuz lots of girls tend to find me attractive passively, so when talking I would do well to actually focus more on the connection.
Still, I like to be pretty direct with my intentions. Not uncalibrated, just straight-forward. I usually open direct, I give a girl some more compliments during the conversation, while also teasing her a lot and calling her out on her shit when needed. When asking her out, I tell her straight up I find her cute/interesting whatever, and that I wanna get to know her better, so that when/if we go on a date, the frame is already set.
On the date, I like to talk about sex. A LOT. And about the society, and how it judges women, and how it's not fair, etc. Basically frame the sex as great, freeing, natural and no big deal, and framing myself as a sexual savant, non-judgemental, understanding and as someone who "gets is". (Credit for this goes to Alek Rolstad, his amazing articles on sex talk are what prompted this)
Favorite girl experience:
Ooph. Hard to say. Mostly it's about displaying clear dominance in the bedroom. I'll name a few:
- A girl is giving me head while talking on the phone with her boyfriend, after which she went to see him.
- Having a girl on a leash.
- Probably fucking this out-of-this-world hot masseuse, who used to give me massages. For no other reason than she was so unbelievably hot, like my absolute perfect 10.
What got me into "game"
Cliched answer, but it's true. 2 years ago, I was just sick of not having the sex/love life that I wanted, so I started religiously googling stuff about dating, pickup, how to seduce girls etc. For a few months, I was just researching it (finding girlschase among others), but not taking action.
Then one day, I actually mustered up the courage to cold approach a girl for the first time ever. In hindsight, she was giving me all kinds of approach invitations, she circled around me, she was hovering close to me for like 10 minutes etc (waiting for her friend). Anyway, my first approach ever actually went well, we exchanged numbers and wouldn't you know it, we hooked up on our second date and she went home with me (something I basically thought never happens). And it was thanks to the advice I read here on girlschase.
In truth, I got lucky, because the girl was obviously simply into me from the start, but it did give me a nudge in the right direction and it gave me confidence that this is something that can be done.
After that, I started approaching more regularly.
One thing I wish I knew before:
There are too many. Let's just say, I wish I had known what women're really like when I was younger.
How I meet girls:
Daygame for the most part, lately bcuz of Corona I've been utilizing online game more. Not a fan of nightgame just for the reason of not liking to stay up very late and waking up in the afternoon.
Type of girl I do best with:
I would say older girls/women. I'm 26 myself, and most of my girls have been 30+, and some have even been 40+. Other than age, I tend to be more successful with confident, successful girls, who have their shit together (except sometimes their marriage lol).
My appearance:
I'm 6.2, bald, with a beard, and kinda lean, with a masculine voice. Even though all of that leans more towards the masculine, I actually have pretty feminine facial features, like eyes (kinda puffy) and lips (full). I'm not very muscular at the moment, bcuz I usually practice boxing, however during Corona that was impossible, so I let myself go a bit.
I like to wear plain button-up shirts and some skinny/slim pants. Jewelry is something I definitely like wearing, so I usually have 3 rings on my hands, and a number of bracelets and a watch. On my feet, I like to wear either dressy-casual shoes or Chelsea boots.
If the weather permits it, I wear a black leather jacket or a winter coat and combat boots.
Personality:
I'm generally a pretty quiet, calm, chill dude, not easily rattled. Despite that, I like to be very expressive with my hands, voice and eyes.
Game Style:
Definitely more of a bad boy than a nice guy vibe. Which can sometimes work to my detriment, bcuz lots of girls tend to find me attractive passively, so when talking I would do well to actually focus more on the connection.
Still, I like to be pretty direct with my intentions. Not uncalibrated, just straight-forward. I usually open direct, I give a girl some more compliments during the conversation, while also teasing her a lot and calling her out on her shit when needed. When asking her out, I tell her straight up I find her cute/interesting whatever, and that I wanna get to know her better, so that when/if we go on a date, the frame is already set.
On the date, I like to talk about sex. A LOT. And about the society, and how it judges women, and how it's not fair, etc. Basically frame the sex as great, freeing, natural and no big deal, and framing myself as a sexual savant, non-judgemental, understanding and as someone who "gets is". (Credit for this goes to Alek Rolstad, his amazing articles on sex talk are what prompted this)
Favorite girl experience:
Ooph. Hard to say. Mostly it's about displaying clear dominance in the bedroom. I'll name a few:
- A girl is giving me head while talking on the phone with her boyfriend, after which she went to see him.
- Having a girl on a leash.
- Probably fucking this out-of-this-world hot masseuse, who used to give me massages. For no other reason than she was so unbelievably hot, like my absolute perfect 10.
What got me into "game"
Cliched answer, but it's true. 2 years ago, I was just sick of not having the sex/love life that I wanted, so I started religiously googling stuff about dating, pickup, how to seduce girls etc. For a few months, I was just researching it (finding girlschase among others), but not taking action.
Then one day, I actually mustered up the courage to cold approach a girl for the first time ever. In hindsight, she was giving me all kinds of approach invitations, she circled around me, she was hovering close to me for like 10 minutes etc (waiting for her friend). Anyway, my first approach ever actually went well, we exchanged numbers and wouldn't you know it, we hooked up on our second date and she went home with me (something I basically thought never happens). And it was thanks to the advice I read here on girlschase.
In truth, I got lucky, because the girl was obviously simply into me from the start, but it did give me a nudge in the right direction and it gave me confidence that this is something that can be done.
After that, I started approaching more regularly.
One thing I wish I knew before:
There are too many. Let's just say, I wish I had known what women're really like when I was younger.
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How I meet girls: choosing signal approaches, Social circles, basically whatever works
Type of girl I do best with: feminine girls, Asian and black ( they love me
), libra Aries and Leo girls, can go in specific if aSKED My appearance: asian, 5'10 165 from all the coke I've been drinking, a bit of bicep muscles, mid 20
Personality: slow, clam, low key on expressions
Game Style: discreet, quieter side, voice seduction (on the deeper side)
Favorite girl experience: love at 1st sight
What got me into "game": girl chase, hector's videos
One thing I wish I knew before: girl chase lol, really. evolutionary psychology is the non-filtered version of mating in humans, understanding the game would help you tremendously from a different edge
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How I meet girls: adjusting to life out of college. day game anywhere. have been avoiding night game.
Type of girl I do best with: i do well with a lot of types of women but they gotta be up to my standards of beauty, i can't fake the attraction from my side. i've tried and if i don't think they're hot my energy just isn't there and they can feel it and things get wierd. my favorite is scandinavian (have met a few from MN, US) and girls w big asses.
My appearance: bald and hairy everywhere else, average height, could probably lose 20lbs, caucasian, late 20s. pretty simple style most the time
Personality: this one is tough for me to answer. i would say low energy, but i might be low energy cause i'm so high energy that i have to conceal because i'd rather be quiet and unnoticeable rather than deal w all the shit that comes w being high energy (people.) kinda funny, kinda serious, asshole, troll, competitive, raw
Game Style: low key high intensity. i see a girl that catches my interest i go up to her and her only and do my best to isolate her. more friendly than sexual, working on that but it hasn't seemed to be a hindrance. i think i've seen a term 'sniper game' thrown around on these forums, not sure of exact definition but i think that's the shit i'm on.
Favorite girl experience:
cayman island vacation lay
What got me into "game"
so it depends what game is. is it just doing better socially or like official gc game
i love women. had my first kiss between 6-8. met this girl at a daycare and took her in the woods. the first thing i did when we got a computer in my house was look up'boobies' (got caught cause i didn't know about search history.) never really fit in in school. then got a job as a law clerk after hs couldn't figure out how to converse w the attorneys i was working w so i started reading like how to small talk and dale carnegie books. this helped w girls a little bit but i still struggled w escalation. then i find gc and it is the most complete resource for anything social. i've been doing alright w women, but learning game really helped me tighten things up. i'm always trying to improve and 'game' is infinitely deep and complex and i think it's a rabbit hole i might not be able to get out of.
One thing I wish I knew before:
there isn't just one
Type of girl I do best with: i do well with a lot of types of women but they gotta be up to my standards of beauty, i can't fake the attraction from my side. i've tried and if i don't think they're hot my energy just isn't there and they can feel it and things get wierd. my favorite is scandinavian (have met a few from MN, US) and girls w big asses.
My appearance: bald and hairy everywhere else, average height, could probably lose 20lbs, caucasian, late 20s. pretty simple style most the time
Personality: this one is tough for me to answer. i would say low energy, but i might be low energy cause i'm so high energy that i have to conceal because i'd rather be quiet and unnoticeable rather than deal w all the shit that comes w being high energy (people.) kinda funny, kinda serious, asshole, troll, competitive, raw
Game Style: low key high intensity. i see a girl that catches my interest i go up to her and her only and do my best to isolate her. more friendly than sexual, working on that but it hasn't seemed to be a hindrance. i think i've seen a term 'sniper game' thrown around on these forums, not sure of exact definition but i think that's the shit i'm on.
Favorite girl experience:
cayman island vacation lay
What got me into "game"
so it depends what game is. is it just doing better socially or like official gc game
i love women. had my first kiss between 6-8. met this girl at a daycare and took her in the woods. the first thing i did when we got a computer in my house was look up'boobies' (got caught cause i didn't know about search history.) never really fit in in school. then got a job as a law clerk after hs couldn't figure out how to converse w the attorneys i was working w so i started reading like how to small talk and dale carnegie books. this helped w girls a little bit but i still struggled w escalation. then i find gc and it is the most complete resource for anything social. i've been doing alright w women, but learning game really helped me tighten things up. i'm always trying to improve and 'game' is infinitely deep and complex and i think it's a rabbit hole i might not be able to get out of.
One thing I wish I knew before:
there isn't just one
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How I meet girls:
Mostly in bars or online. Occasionally at parks, beaches, coffee shops, and super markets.
Type of girl I do best with:
Latin girls and blondes
My appearance:
Thin, white with olive skin, above average height and looks
Personality:
Introverted, aloof, sweet, but mean
Game Style:
Fun. I like to party and tease. Have fun and be there at the end of the night.
Favorite girl experience:
An ex. She was young and had just lost her virginity. I sexually molded her into exactly what I wanted.
What got me into "game"
One of my friends turned me on to YouTube channels about game. I did what they said and it worked. I’m far from an expert. But I have the basics down.
One thing I wish I knew before:
That you have to stay on your purpose when you have a girlfriend. I’ve lost motivation to do basic things like going to the gym in relationships. Losing value to your partner doesn’t end well.
Mostly in bars or online. Occasionally at parks, beaches, coffee shops, and super markets.
Type of girl I do best with:
Latin girls and blondes
My appearance:
Thin, white with olive skin, above average height and looks
Personality:
Introverted, aloof, sweet, but mean
Game Style:
Fun. I like to party and tease. Have fun and be there at the end of the night.
Favorite girl experience:
An ex. She was young and had just lost her virginity. I sexually molded her into exactly what I wanted.
What got me into "game"
One of my friends turned me on to YouTube channels about game. I did what they said and it worked. I’m far from an expert. But I have the basics down.
One thing I wish I knew before:
That you have to stay on your purpose when you have a girlfriend. I’ve lost motivation to do basic things like going to the gym in relationships. Losing value to your partner doesn’t end well.