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Hey guys, been a while. I always ask for advice on here and your advice is always stellar. I wanted to apply the things I've learned and stop reading about them for a while, so I gave myself a cooling off period from here. Not necessarily intentionally, I just wanted to apply whatever I could remember as opportunities came up. It worked wonders.
My female friend had a birthday outing at a bowling place, which was connected to a bar. After the bowling we went to the bar area which had a pool table. I sauntered right over. One of our mutual friends brought along one of her friends. This girl is pure Colombian-American beauty.
I asked if she was playing pool, she said she didn't know how. I said I can teach you. She said she'd do bad. I persisted a couple more times and she came over. You can see what's coming- I took a "hands-on" approach and positioned myself alongside her as I guided her arms and hands with mine. I did this several times. I was just so zen. It was such an incredible feeling, all I could think of was "wow this shit actually works." The girls who were with us couldn't believe it, one of them went "Take notes, boys" to the other guys. It was cool, I always looked at these effortlessly suave dudes who would do exactly what I was doing and always wanted tobe that guy and I finally was. I was the guy the other guys were wishing they were in that moment, the guy with "game." And it wasn't for some ugly hoebag, it was for a genuinely gorgeous, I'm talking 9 or 10, charming woman. The kind of girl I'd get all torn up about in high school I wouldn't even talk to. If 16 year old me could see me now...
After that, two of my female friends asked if that was intentional and I said of course, to which one went "You got game!" This was from a cute woman. Man, when you hear that from the people who have real authority on it, it really sticks. I felt like a frickin king, like I was on top of the world. It was so surreal, like I finally arrived at some internal place. It all happened in something like a flash too, more or less. This was after failure after failure of implementing the stuff I picked up here. Just some core truths I really applied. I have been a member on here since I transferred to my current school, so a year and a half (June 2015?). It took over a year of trial and error after having read up and changing my internal perspective to get real results, but it also depends on "you" and how much you want to go at it, etc. But I've applied it, tripped over myself and fallen, but got back up each time. I finally just sort of owned it. The key thing was a genuine outcome independence mindset. Through that, my perceived confidence was bolstered and idk it made me more chill which only turned to produce more results. Like a positive feedback loop.
I don't even go out with the sole purpose to pick up, I just use it for girls I genuinely get interested in on some basic level, which doesn't happen too often. It's these situations I use for practice. Well it paid off in a way I can't even believe. Just bam, something I've always dreamed about finally happened. Better than a Ryan Gosling movie.
Because it was a group outing, I just hugged her at the end and our mutual friends were saying I should hop on that (name of girl) train. I'm seeing her Wednesday.
But that isn't all. I just got back from seeing this other girl (who I've actually asked about on here) and it was just a sort of friend thing. I don't know, I feel like I'm more confident and carefree and she noticed that. It's funny when the world falls in place when you stop "caring" (or at least, caring as much) about it. So I texted her when I got home saying you know what, how about we go on a real date next week. She replied, "Actually I'd really like that." So that's 2 girls in less than a week. That probably seems quaint to some of you, but they're beautiful girls and the kind I always wanted to date. Feels good to finally arrive. Funny how it just took what is essentially hard work to get them...
So yeah, I just wanted to say thank you to all of you and Chase and the guys. Not every single aspect of this is absolutely pristine and perfect, but man does it work overall. Persistence is huge. I finally just seized the "now or never" mindset and made my fantasy a reality. I've also been trying to share these techniques with other guys much, much worse off than me, college buddies. One is seeing me go at it and produce results and his gears are really starting to turn.
This wall of text was for you guys.
Always be slaying,
NJB
My female friend had a birthday outing at a bowling place, which was connected to a bar. After the bowling we went to the bar area which had a pool table. I sauntered right over. One of our mutual friends brought along one of her friends. This girl is pure Colombian-American beauty.
I asked if she was playing pool, she said she didn't know how. I said I can teach you. She said she'd do bad. I persisted a couple more times and she came over. You can see what's coming- I took a "hands-on" approach and positioned myself alongside her as I guided her arms and hands with mine. I did this several times. I was just so zen. It was such an incredible feeling, all I could think of was "wow this shit actually works." The girls who were with us couldn't believe it, one of them went "Take notes, boys" to the other guys. It was cool, I always looked at these effortlessly suave dudes who would do exactly what I was doing and always wanted tobe that guy and I finally was. I was the guy the other guys were wishing they were in that moment, the guy with "game." And it wasn't for some ugly hoebag, it was for a genuinely gorgeous, I'm talking 9 or 10, charming woman. The kind of girl I'd get all torn up about in high school I wouldn't even talk to. If 16 year old me could see me now...
After that, two of my female friends asked if that was intentional and I said of course, to which one went "You got game!" This was from a cute woman. Man, when you hear that from the people who have real authority on it, it really sticks. I felt like a frickin king, like I was on top of the world. It was so surreal, like I finally arrived at some internal place. It all happened in something like a flash too, more or less. This was after failure after failure of implementing the stuff I picked up here. Just some core truths I really applied. I have been a member on here since I transferred to my current school, so a year and a half (June 2015?). It took over a year of trial and error after having read up and changing my internal perspective to get real results, but it also depends on "you" and how much you want to go at it, etc. But I've applied it, tripped over myself and fallen, but got back up each time. I finally just sort of owned it. The key thing was a genuine outcome independence mindset. Through that, my perceived confidence was bolstered and idk it made me more chill which only turned to produce more results. Like a positive feedback loop.
I don't even go out with the sole purpose to pick up, I just use it for girls I genuinely get interested in on some basic level, which doesn't happen too often. It's these situations I use for practice. Well it paid off in a way I can't even believe. Just bam, something I've always dreamed about finally happened. Better than a Ryan Gosling movie.
Because it was a group outing, I just hugged her at the end and our mutual friends were saying I should hop on that (name of girl) train. I'm seeing her Wednesday.
But that isn't all. I just got back from seeing this other girl (who I've actually asked about on here) and it was just a sort of friend thing. I don't know, I feel like I'm more confident and carefree and she noticed that. It's funny when the world falls in place when you stop "caring" (or at least, caring as much) about it. So I texted her when I got home saying you know what, how about we go on a real date next week. She replied, "Actually I'd really like that." So that's 2 girls in less than a week. That probably seems quaint to some of you, but they're beautiful girls and the kind I always wanted to date. Feels good to finally arrive. Funny how it just took what is essentially hard work to get them...
So yeah, I just wanted to say thank you to all of you and Chase and the guys. Not every single aspect of this is absolutely pristine and perfect, but man does it work overall. Persistence is huge. I finally just seized the "now or never" mindset and made my fantasy a reality. I've also been trying to share these techniques with other guys much, much worse off than me, college buddies. One is seeing me go at it and produce results and his gears are really starting to turn.
This wall of text was for you guys.
Always be slaying,
NJB
