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I've been experiencing a lot of LMR lately. I've become very charming and have pretty good fundamentals. I am able to pull girls a lot faster but when I start escalating I'm hitting a brick wall with LMR. 3 nights in a row I've gone out and talked to a lot of girls.
The first night I met some friends at a bar and one girl in their group seemed really into me. I went back with them and her to their dorm and with her to her room. We get on her bed and are making out. She says "we are not having sex." I just say alright and keep going. Now here should I have stopped and given her the cold shoulder so she would come crawling back to me? I'm pretty sure she would have. I know ignoring it is one strategy too. Did I handle this well? Anyway we continue making out and I keep escalating and feeling her up. I go to take her pants off and she resists. I go back to making out and fingering her. I eventually take her pants off and start eating her out. She's really into it moaning and all. We go back to making out. Her roommate walks in on us and the girl I'm win is like oh you can come in. Her roommate says no that's fine and leaves. We go back to making out. Her pants are still off. I take my pants off but I'm getting a ton of resistance. She pins her knees against my hips so it's hard for me to lean in. She repeats "we're not having sex". And I say alright again completely calm. She eventually stops and gets up saying "I need to go find my roommate you should go" at first I'm like "no she's fine. Can't I spend the night?" She says no and leaves. I get up and leave short after. I text her "what's up" the next day and no response. That's over.
Next night I go to two parties. First party I'm Playing beer pong with some cute girls flirting a little bit. They aren't that receptive but I leave with their numbers. One texts me and one doesn't the next day. Second party, it's a small party I know about half the people. Only like three girls to talk to and I talk to all three haha. I end up in a bedroom with one and I start making out with her. She says "we shouldn't do this" I ignore it and keep going. I'm kinda drunk at this point so it gets a little sloppy. We go out of the room (the vibe was off) and we do some shots. I end up leaving without her number.
Third night I'm back at the bars with some friends. I'm with my wingman, he's become a close friend. I helped him get laid and keep her as a FWB a week earlier. Different story. I'm texting this girl in my calculus class whose number I got for "studying purposes". We had a calc test that morning and I texted her saying we should meet at a bar to celebrate our last calc test. We studied in a group the night before and I was on off flirting with her and I was getting mixed reactions from her. We end up meeting at a bar and she's with two friends. One is her smoking hot twin sister that goes to the rival college and her other friend who is hot but not as hot. So I start talking to the girl I know and my friend talks to her friend. It's more of a group conversation we are all taking to each other. I'm getting mixed signals again from her and I start taking to her sister more. Neither seem really interested and kinda bored. I suggest we go to another bar and we get up and head over. They head out first and me and my friend follow and we discuss our game plan. He says he can fluff talk her friend but it's not going anywhere and I decide to go for it a little more. We get to the other bar and we talk a little more but nothing flows and there isn't any vibe. They leave soon after. I talk to a bunch of girls after they leave but my game is kinda thrown off and I'm not getting much reception. My friend soon leaves to go hook up with his FWB I helped get him the week prior. So I'm by myself now and I keep approaching girls and seeing where things go. I open this one girl who happens to be from England, she's an exchange student and we vibe really well. I suggest " hey let's go grab a seat" and she says sorry I have a boyfriend. I respond with "it's just sitting down haha" she laughs but responds with" I know it's more than that, but I had fun talking to you" so not much gained but she was fun to talk to. She's actually with a big group of exchange students and I talk to more exchange students. I have a great conversation with this one girl who is also from England. She has a cool accent and we dance a little and we are all having fun. I end up getting her number and Facebook (international phone so Facebook was easier to text). But the night is still young and their isn't really any more girls to approach. I go talk to some friends at the bar, but end up going back to the foreign group. They are having a lot of fun dancing and whatnot. There are some Australian guys going hard and I talk to them about differences of Australia and US. Same group as the two girls from England. I stick around a little too much. I end up walking back with other friends later in the night. Overall I had at least 20+ approaches and most had good conversations. But nothing led anywhere besides one number. I never ended up texting that girl, maybe I should now. It's been about two or three weeks. Things kinda got awkward when I stuck around too much after I got her number. Anyway. It was a good night and lots of good conversations and approaches. I'm approaching a lot more girls and there is a lot less approach anxiety.
Sorry this kinda turned into a field report.
The first night I met some friends at a bar and one girl in their group seemed really into me. I went back with them and her to their dorm and with her to her room. We get on her bed and are making out. She says "we are not having sex." I just say alright and keep going. Now here should I have stopped and given her the cold shoulder so she would come crawling back to me? I'm pretty sure she would have. I know ignoring it is one strategy too. Did I handle this well? Anyway we continue making out and I keep escalating and feeling her up. I go to take her pants off and she resists. I go back to making out and fingering her. I eventually take her pants off and start eating her out. She's really into it moaning and all. We go back to making out. Her roommate walks in on us and the girl I'm win is like oh you can come in. Her roommate says no that's fine and leaves. We go back to making out. Her pants are still off. I take my pants off but I'm getting a ton of resistance. She pins her knees against my hips so it's hard for me to lean in. She repeats "we're not having sex". And I say alright again completely calm. She eventually stops and gets up saying "I need to go find my roommate you should go" at first I'm like "no she's fine. Can't I spend the night?" She says no and leaves. I get up and leave short after. I text her "what's up" the next day and no response. That's over.
Next night I go to two parties. First party I'm Playing beer pong with some cute girls flirting a little bit. They aren't that receptive but I leave with their numbers. One texts me and one doesn't the next day. Second party, it's a small party I know about half the people. Only like three girls to talk to and I talk to all three haha. I end up in a bedroom with one and I start making out with her. She says "we shouldn't do this" I ignore it and keep going. I'm kinda drunk at this point so it gets a little sloppy. We go out of the room (the vibe was off) and we do some shots. I end up leaving without her number.
Third night I'm back at the bars with some friends. I'm with my wingman, he's become a close friend. I helped him get laid and keep her as a FWB a week earlier. Different story. I'm texting this girl in my calculus class whose number I got for "studying purposes". We had a calc test that morning and I texted her saying we should meet at a bar to celebrate our last calc test. We studied in a group the night before and I was on off flirting with her and I was getting mixed reactions from her. We end up meeting at a bar and she's with two friends. One is her smoking hot twin sister that goes to the rival college and her other friend who is hot but not as hot. So I start talking to the girl I know and my friend talks to her friend. It's more of a group conversation we are all taking to each other. I'm getting mixed signals again from her and I start taking to her sister more. Neither seem really interested and kinda bored. I suggest we go to another bar and we get up and head over. They head out first and me and my friend follow and we discuss our game plan. He says he can fluff talk her friend but it's not going anywhere and I decide to go for it a little more. We get to the other bar and we talk a little more but nothing flows and there isn't any vibe. They leave soon after. I talk to a bunch of girls after they leave but my game is kinda thrown off and I'm not getting much reception. My friend soon leaves to go hook up with his FWB I helped get him the week prior. So I'm by myself now and I keep approaching girls and seeing where things go. I open this one girl who happens to be from England, she's an exchange student and we vibe really well. I suggest " hey let's go grab a seat" and she says sorry I have a boyfriend. I respond with "it's just sitting down haha" she laughs but responds with" I know it's more than that, but I had fun talking to you" so not much gained but she was fun to talk to. She's actually with a big group of exchange students and I talk to more exchange students. I have a great conversation with this one girl who is also from England. She has a cool accent and we dance a little and we are all having fun. I end up getting her number and Facebook (international phone so Facebook was easier to text). But the night is still young and their isn't really any more girls to approach. I go talk to some friends at the bar, but end up going back to the foreign group. They are having a lot of fun dancing and whatnot. There are some Australian guys going hard and I talk to them about differences of Australia and US. Same group as the two girls from England. I stick around a little too much. I end up walking back with other friends later in the night. Overall I had at least 20+ approaches and most had good conversations. But nothing led anywhere besides one number. I never ended up texting that girl, maybe I should now. It's been about two or three weeks. Things kinda got awkward when I stuck around too much after I got her number. Anyway. It was a good night and lots of good conversations and approaches. I'm approaching a lot more girls and there is a lot less approach anxiety.
Sorry this kinda turned into a field report.
