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As of this Monday, I'll be back home with my parents for summer break. I'll have a LOT more dates than I normally would because I live in a suburb 20 minutes from a big city. That means I'll get an almost unlimited number of Tinder matches, and I'll be able to Day Game a lot harder (when I'm in school, I only talk to like, 4 or 5 girls per day at most because I didn't want to earn a reputation on campus).
The drawback is that I have terrible logistics. I have two issues:
1. If I meet any girls in the city, I feel like it's logistically difficult to set up a date near my house. This is mainly because there's a lot more to do in the city than in the suburb. So there's no good reason for a girl to come meet me that far out.
2. I'm living with my parents. This was HUGE obstacle to getting laid for me last year. But now that I think about it...I made some untested assumptions. So the obstacle might have been more mental than real. I assume that pulling a girl home will be awkward for her and for me because having my parents walking around the entire time would make us feel uneasy. Furthermore, my room is right next to my parent's. So if I do end up having sex with a girl, it's very likely that they'll hear it.
Because of this, I've devised some alternative possibilities, none of which are ideal:
- A cheap motel/hotel. <-This would work great. But I don't understand how the pull would work. What would be my reason for asking her to check in to a hotel with me?
- My car <--Tried this many times last summer. Had more failed escalations in those two months than I did my entire life. I think part of the reason for this is because the chance of getting caught made some of the girls feel pretty uneasy.
- Bringing them home very late at night. <--This works, but that would mean bringing them home at 2 am or later. Which basically means the date always has to be drinks at a bar or club on a weekend. Needless to say, this isn't always possible. Especially since a lot of the girls I meet aren't 21.
- Bringing them home before my parents get home from work. <--This is another option. But the problem is, I don't know what my parents work schedule is like because its very malleable. In fact, a lot of the time, my dad works from home. Plus, scheduling dates for only that time period isn't always feasible.
- Their place <--This works fine, but only if they have their own place. Most girls I meet during the summer are home with their families from college just like me.
So my question for you guys is, is it really a big deal to pull a college aged girl back to my parents house when they're there, or is it all just in my head? If so, do you have any recommendations for an alternative place to have sex?
The drawback is that I have terrible logistics. I have two issues:
1. If I meet any girls in the city, I feel like it's logistically difficult to set up a date near my house. This is mainly because there's a lot more to do in the city than in the suburb. So there's no good reason for a girl to come meet me that far out.
2. I'm living with my parents. This was HUGE obstacle to getting laid for me last year. But now that I think about it...I made some untested assumptions. So the obstacle might have been more mental than real. I assume that pulling a girl home will be awkward for her and for me because having my parents walking around the entire time would make us feel uneasy. Furthermore, my room is right next to my parent's. So if I do end up having sex with a girl, it's very likely that they'll hear it.
Because of this, I've devised some alternative possibilities, none of which are ideal:
- A cheap motel/hotel. <-This would work great. But I don't understand how the pull would work. What would be my reason for asking her to check in to a hotel with me?
- My car <--Tried this many times last summer. Had more failed escalations in those two months than I did my entire life. I think part of the reason for this is because the chance of getting caught made some of the girls feel pretty uneasy.
- Bringing them home very late at night. <--This works, but that would mean bringing them home at 2 am or later. Which basically means the date always has to be drinks at a bar or club on a weekend. Needless to say, this isn't always possible. Especially since a lot of the girls I meet aren't 21.
- Bringing them home before my parents get home from work. <--This is another option. But the problem is, I don't know what my parents work schedule is like because its very malleable. In fact, a lot of the time, my dad works from home. Plus, scheduling dates for only that time period isn't always feasible.
- Their place <--This works fine, but only if they have their own place. Most girls I meet during the summer are home with their families from college just like me.
So my question for you guys is, is it really a big deal to pull a college aged girl back to my parents house when they're there, or is it all just in my head? If so, do you have any recommendations for an alternative place to have sex?
