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Hi guys, this is an FR on my night out at a big club. To preface this, the club was mostly a sausage fest, but I still tried to approach as best as I could.
Also went with one other friend, but he was useless when talking to girls.
Started on the dance floor, trying to get the vibe right, moving to the music, mosh pit, all that sort of stuff. I was teasing girls to dance, which they giggled at.
However later I made dance floor approaches which were unsuccessful.
Tried the high five into spin thing, didn’t work for me, first time trying it, just need to be a bit more bold next time.
If it didn’t work I told the girl it was just a high five and got her to accept my frame, so it doesn’t look like a rejection per se(in her head).
Anyways excused myself to the bathroom but really I just wanted to go to the bar and lounge area to approach more chicks, and I got a much better reception.
5 second after they leave, I make my next approach.
Another 5 seconds later, I make my third approach. More of the same as the second approach, except this girl says she’s really shy, waiting for a girlfriend and doesn’t like meeting new people. Tried to run a yes ladder, but it didn’t work on this girl, tbh I just used it on the wrong girl.
I walk over to the lockers, make my fourth approach to a set of two, one of them wants to puke(seriously), they seemed chill about me coming, but near the dance floor, they were not waiting for me, I took that as a sign to back off.
However, I saw the girls from the first approach, and they were receptive.
They were right outside the dance floor, I said “Why aren’t you in there?”
They realized I was right, went to the dance floor and gestured me to join them.
I think this is where I lost them, since they ran into 2 more friends, and the fat girl and my girl kept deliberating about me.
(I think the fat girl was trying to cockblock).
So I introduce myself to her, make small chat, and as I’m about to leave, I tell her to tell the girl that I’m into that I think she’s super cute, as a last ditch effort.
She says she’s in a situationship, which imo is total bs, but she gives out her instagram and follows me back. Texted her, but probably a useless lead imo.
Overall, just trying to improve at nightclub game, the dance floor is where I have a hard part hooking girls in, I read Alek’s dance floor series game, tried to work on keeping a neutral face and moving with the music in a chill manner, rather than being a dancing monkey. Is there anything you can do to increase the odds that a girl will hook on the dance floor?
In the lounge are I think I’m better but still need improvement with leading, especially groups of drunk girls that may have cockblock friends or sick friends.
Any advice appreciated.
Also went with one other friend, but he was useless when talking to girls.
Started on the dance floor, trying to get the vibe right, moving to the music, mosh pit, all that sort of stuff. I was teasing girls to dance, which they giggled at.
However later I made dance floor approaches which were unsuccessful.
Tried the high five into spin thing, didn’t work for me, first time trying it, just need to be a bit more bold next time.
If it didn’t work I told the girl it was just a high five and got her to accept my frame, so it doesn’t look like a rejection per se(in her head).
Anyways excused myself to the bathroom but really I just wanted to go to the bar and lounge area to approach more chicks, and I got a much better reception.
Approached a blonde and brunette, blonde was immediately more receptive, even though I was more into the brunette tbh. Tbh both were super cute it’s a matter of types.
Opened them by saying they dressed really well, and that I was about to wear the same outfit as the blonde. They bantered back, which was great.
However, they were waiting for a friend who was sick(ppl can’t control their alcohol), and I told them I would help them to their uber, they said no it’s okay.
Not all is lost I re engaged them later.
Opened them by saying they dressed really well, and that I was about to wear the same outfit as the blonde. They bantered back, which was great.
However, they were waiting for a friend who was sick(ppl can’t control their alcohol), and I told them I would help them to their uber, they said no it’s okay.
Not all is lost I re engaged them later.
5 second after they leave, I make my next approach.
More of the same opener, with me complimenting her outfit, saying I almost wore the same thing.
This time, I took it a step further, and said that I was hoping that my pretend outfit would have the same cleavage showing as hers, and complimented her on that(really direct, I know), and she started bantering back.
Eventually, we started chatting about other things, she said she was waiting for a guy, and eventually left for
This time, I took it a step further, and said that I was hoping that my pretend outfit would have the same cleavage showing as hers, and complimented her on that(really direct, I know), and she started bantering back.
Eventually, we started chatting about other things, she said she was waiting for a guy, and eventually left for
Another 5 seconds later, I make my third approach. More of the same as the second approach, except this girl says she’s really shy, waiting for a girlfriend and doesn’t like meeting new people. Tried to run a yes ladder, but it didn’t work on this girl, tbh I just used it on the wrong girl.
I walk over to the lockers, make my fourth approach to a set of two, one of them wants to puke(seriously), they seemed chill about me coming, but near the dance floor, they were not waiting for me, I took that as a sign to back off.
However, I saw the girls from the first approach, and they were receptive.
They were right outside the dance floor, I said “Why aren’t you in there?”
They realized I was right, went to the dance floor and gestured me to join them.
I think this is where I lost them, since they ran into 2 more friends, and the fat girl and my girl kept deliberating about me.
(I think the fat girl was trying to cockblock).
So I introduce myself to her, make small chat, and as I’m about to leave, I tell her to tell the girl that I’m into that I think she’s super cute, as a last ditch effort.
She says she’s in a situationship, which imo is total bs, but she gives out her instagram and follows me back. Texted her, but probably a useless lead imo.
Overall, just trying to improve at nightclub game, the dance floor is where I have a hard part hooking girls in, I read Alek’s dance floor series game, tried to work on keeping a neutral face and moving with the music in a chill manner, rather than being a dancing monkey. Is there anything you can do to increase the odds that a girl will hook on the dance floor?
In the lounge are I think I’m better but still need improvement with leading, especially groups of drunk girls that may have cockblock friends or sick friends.
Any advice appreciated.
