I noticed that few low status girls ignore me. But those girls aren't ugly. They've got a beautiful face, but may not be really sexy. I face a similar situation in my IT class. She ignores all high status men in our class, including myself. But she sometimes talk with a couple of guys who are equally low status. So I wanna know why do such low status women hate/dislike/ignore high status men?
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She probably perceives men of "high status" as douches or cocky. Are you friendly? Do you initiate conversations with said "low status" girls? If not that could be feeding her assumption of you being a douche. I think you should abandon the status system. Because you perceiving yourself as "high status" could be giving off a vibe of superiority, which is not good. Work on being friendly and approachable while maintaining a sexy vibe. Superiority does not equate dominance. either, I find bring r
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Then if you want her go and talk to her, if not don't worry about. It could be that she's shy or even a bit insecure making her avoid new interactions out of fear. Whatever her deal is you won't know until you talk to her
She might have low self esteem, she is thinking that guys with high status are out of her reach. She thinks her value is too low in comparison to value of high status guy. Maybe she was rejected in the past by high status guy and now she is avoiding them, or she is afraid of the possible rejection.
It is the same with most guys, they see beautiful, sexy high status girl/woman who is outgoing, and they don't even talk to her because they think she is way out of their league. They wouldn't be able to get over possible rejection so easily...
Try to lower your value, decrease your body language, don't be so confident and so open...
It is the same with most guys, they see beautiful, sexy high status girl/woman who is outgoing, and they don't even talk to her because they think she is way out of their league. They wouldn't be able to get over possible rejection so easily...
Try to lower your value, decrease your body language, don't be so confident and so open...
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Bring her into your world don't force yourself into hers. Talk to her be relatable, be sexy, be interested, be interesting, and she' ll like whether she's, shy or has self esteem issue you have to bring her into your world and let her know you can be comfortable around me, you can trust me.
She could also be self righteous and think you're a player. You see it as her being low value but she might consider you low value simply for the fact that she thinks you're a hoe, especially if you have a reputation. Even if that's the case, same thing you need bring her into your world.
She could also be self righteous and think you're a player. You see it as her being low value but she might consider you low value simply for the fact that she thinks you're a hoe, especially if you have a reputation. Even if that's the case, same thing you need bring her into your world.
I've never talked to her. Not a single word. So how does she know, whether I show too much value or not?
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So how do you know that she thinks about you that you are a high status male and she is low status girl (whatever that means)? How do you know she doesn't talk to high status guys when she is out of classroom?
Does she have some obligation to talk to you, just because you think you are high status man (whatever that means)?
But at least now we know where the problem is. You are assuming that she is ignoring you. Just because she doesn't come to you and talk to you doesn't mean she doesn't like you nor don't want to get to known you.
She may think or assume that you don't talk to her because you are high status (whatever that means), that your nose is too much up in the air and wouldn't bother with someone who has low status (whatever that means). Or that you are not interested at all. Why would she think otherwise if you don't talk to her? Should she think that you are interested in her if you don't talk to her?
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So how do you know that she thinks about you that you are a high status male and she is low status girl (whatever that means)? How do you know she doesn't talk to high status guys when she is out of classroom?
Does she have some obligation to talk to you, just because you think you are high status man (whatever that means)?
But at least now we know where the problem is. You are assuming that she is ignoring you. Just because she doesn't come to you and talk to you doesn't mean she doesn't like you nor don't want to get to known you.
She may think or assume that you don't talk to her because you are high status (whatever that means), that your nose is too much up in the air and wouldn't bother with someone who has low status (whatever that means). Or that you are not interested at all. Why would she think otherwise if you don't talk to her? Should she think that you are interested in her if you don't talk to her?
I'm online from my phone, and for some reason I can't quote your lengthy post Drck. Anyway, honestly dude, are you drugged? Or if not, aren't you the same guy posted 4 hours ago? You seems to have forgotten everything you mentioned in your first post.
Not sure where you going with that... You didn't even talk to her, it would of course be totally different if you did and she blew you away (along with other high status guys).
Another thing is, just because you think or feel that you are high status guy doesn't mean that others perceive you that way. That is why I was asking you what do you mean by that. She may, for example, perceive you as low status man; she may see you as low status male because you don't have balls to come after her and talk to her.... you just can't know how she sees you...
Just trying to help you man, no big deal, to me it looks like you are assuming too many things without actually knowing what is the real deal. Simply go talk to her and you might be pleasantly surprised...
Another thing is, just because you think or feel that you are high status guy doesn't mean that others perceive you that way. That is why I was asking you what do you mean by that. She may, for example, perceive you as low status man; she may see you as low status male because you don't have balls to come after her and talk to her.... you just can't know how she sees you...
Just trying to help you man, no big deal, to me it looks like you are assuming too many things without actually knowing what is the real deal. Simply go talk to her and you might be pleasantly surprised...
Drck said:
Really don't have to talk with her, because I've got lot other girls to seduce.
The only reason I decided to ask this from you guys is that, she is one of the very few girls who acted like that. Usually I get a lot of attraction from almost every women. So there is no reason to waste my time on such a weird girl.