So yesterday I went out to my favorite nightgame venue, let's call it ML. I went out with 3 other guys, let's call them I, B and R.
I is a 16 yr old guy who is pretty new to this going out stuff but has had some gfs and is pretty smart. I envision him being leagues beyond any of us in the future.
B is a pretty smart and quickwitted guy who is pretty newbie to all of this but I believe that if he gets a handle on his anxiety and keeps practising he can get very far. Hes 22
R is a 19 yr old natural who has been gaming in one way or another almost his entire life. Seeing him gaming yesterday and speak on it was amazing because a lot of fundamental concepts that we study he already has incorporated naturally into his psyche. He has pretty strong fundamentals, is a really good active listener and also isnt afraid to move forward with a chick. I believe that instead of me teaching him a lot of stuff it is going to be the other way around with this guy.
1) 2set:
So we get into the venue and separate, I had already been with B to this place so we just started walking to look around. I find these two mature blondes and we start gaming them. It was a very rough start because B was pretty anxious and fucking up a lot and I wasn't also doing that good. I was worried about leaving our 2 other friends behind so after a couple of mins we ejected.
One of my mistakes was to not relax into the interaction, which is a common pet peeve of mine. It also didnt help that my wing wasnt all that good either.
2) 4set:
After finding our two friends and talking with them a bit I see this 4 set walking by and I stop them. Immediately B and R launch into talking with a girl each. I was logistically disadvantaged and had to wait for a bit before being able to interact with the remaining chick. B's girl ejected after some time to go buy something, R's girl hooked immediately (it was amazing to see it happening first hand) and I kept my girl somewhat interested until things died down.
I also made the same mistake of not relaxing myself with the girl. This is something that R pointed out doing with his girl and which was a determining factor in her hooking so fast, which is funny. I also didn't know when to advance or what to say at times and I was just deep diving into her.
Besides me fucking up and not really knowing what to do I think it was great how all of us latched into one girl immediately, we had a pretty good dynamic in our group.
R faced a couple of chodes trying to steal her girl but he dealt with them pretty efficiently, even calling one of them a dumbass to the girl's ear after the guy said some dumb shit. After some time I told B that we should go and help him by getting rid of the chodes and we did, after that R really hooked with the girl and they exchanged contacts with a promise of going to a date.
After this I went with 'I' and then with 'B' to handle a couple of sets but nothing was really interesting, girls wouldnt hook because I either had a pretty bad wing or I would just fuck up on my own.
However, the last set was pretty interesting
last) 2set:
I find B talking to these 2 cute chicks and so I go in, at first I introduce myself and talk with them but then I concentrate on the one i'm closest to and most interested in. My wing really fucked up a lot of things in this interaction, even going so far as to ask for both chicks' instagram (even when I had already asked for my chick's instagram) but what I think was very interesting in this set was how I responded to a couple of tests from the other chick.
Appearantly B had already been talking about me and so the chicks immediately started bombarding me with questions, a couple of them being loaded questions. My chick asks me at one point
Girl: Who were the chicks you were talking to back there?
I: Heyy we just met and youre making a scene, are you that jealous?
After she justs laughs and gives me a bombastic side eye. It's the first time that I joke around with a girl like this. I used to just rely almost entirely on my deep diving skills and my kino so it did mark and improvement.
We exchange contacts at the end of the night and we parted ways.
Overall it was a strange night, I am still recovering from catching a cold and being pretty sick for over 2 weeks and there were a lot of things that were particularly different about this night than others. Like my friends coming with me and me being a bit nervous and watching over them so they dont feel left out. It was also amazing how much strong fundamentals and general good mindset can make your night, of which R was the best example taking out 3 instagrams, 2 being very strong leads and one a mid to weak one.
