Met a Girl Yesterday, Am I Too Late?

[Start_ed_young]

Yesterday I was introduced to this girl, she was a friend of my friend and somehow I haven’t managed to meet her until yesterday.

She our friend ask me if she could swap batteries. I looked over at her and sort of nodded in her direction and said “her?”
They were like “yea, can I?” I wasn’t needing it then anyway so I said, “ yea, alright, as long as I can barrow your charger.”
She said, “yea sure, thanks!”

After that we talked about how she should just skip class since she didn’t want to go. She ended up leaving and I saw her a short while after. I pulled her from her friends and returned her charger, and she was like “Thanks! I’m “name” by the way.” I says, “yea it’s cool, I’m young!”

Today I saw her on 3 different occasions today. Each time she said “hey, Young!” Really enthusiastically. I haven’t really had a chance to have a conversation with her, but I just gave a slight hair flip on her direction with my sexy walk and said hey with a slight wave. All my friends have tried with her and they complain about getting friend zoned.

Am I too late to make a serious effort with her? If I do, should I just catch her when I’m the hall and start a conversation about her? I could tell her to meet me in the hall during certain time of a class. I think I’ve got a basic idea of how to make it work, I just don’t like the fact that she’s really close with the girl I most recently got flaked by, but at least her friend hads some level of interest towards me

 

[NealIRC]

If the answer is "Yes, it is too late now." does that mean you won't make your move?

So I think you know what you gonna do, if the answer is she will reject you for not going as fast, then it is probably worth finding out and worth knowing that she will reject you.

So go do what you gotta do.

 

[Start_ed_young]

Hey Neal,

I gotta say, your perspective on this seems pretty solid, no arhuements here.

 

[Marcellus]

Bro,

You just met this girl yesterday and you think it's too late? Come on haha you've got heaps more chances.

Plus I'm pretty sure this is a school setting so you're going to be seeing her around often, just don't take like weeks or so to start talking to her and spitting some game. She might think you're uninterested at that point.

Also remember to show sexual interest towards her, pretty much guarantees you don't get friend zoned.

-Marcellus

 

[Start_ed_young]

Hey M,

You might be right. I just always here “move fast”. So when I realized that I saw her three times in one day, and didn’t attempt to escalate even onece, I thought “well, that’s over with”.
I probably have more time like you say, I think I need to try to deep dive.

Thanks for you response bro. Probably had a good chance today, but I saw her during a fire drill and didn’t approach her since she didn’t see me.