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Met a single mom on the ski hill and got her number. Texted her but she didn't text back. Seeing her again in three days.

ChefDan

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I taught this woman's children how to snowboard earlier this winter and I saw her again on the hill last week. She approached me and we talked and I became interested in asking her out. I asked her if the whole family ever goes out to ski and she said it's just the three of them. We saw each other a few more times that night from across the hill (she saw me teaching my own class without her kids and she would smile at me.) I decided I wasn't going to pass up an opportunity.

She hung around after lessons and I sat down next to her. I talked to her more and got her to give me her hand so I could inspect it for jewelry. I touched her knee and shoulder when she laughed. I told her she was absolutely gorgeous and we should get a coffee. She said I was very smooth and I gave her my phone. She put her number into my contacts and she put in her first name and last name. I'm not sure if when a girl does this, it has to do with her being older, or her being more trusting and simply giving me more information about her. She said she had to warn me she takes her kids everywhere she goes. I left to teach another lesson after that.

I texted her later that night "glad to have met you :) - ChefDan." She never responded. I'm not going to text her again but since I'll see her again, I thought I'd ask what I could do to maybe solidify a date with her. I'm going to try chase framing with her and touch her more. Should I tease her that she didn't text me back or not even mention it? This woman is 15 to 20 years older than me and a single milf. Any advice on how to get her on a date and then back to her house would be much appreciated. I know she's a fair bit older than me (late 30s) while I'm in my early 20s, so she's not going to play as many games. How do I lock this down? She's still a girl with needs after all.
 
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I think you are out of your depth in this case.

If you run into her at an Apres Ski bar and she is solo, you could take her home in a discreet manner. But it is unlikely she's going to go "on a date" with the ski instructor. This is strictly a pump and dump ONS situation. you better have your logistics locked down because she ain't gonna screw you with her kids in the cabin....
 

ChefDan

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I think you are out of your depth in this case.

If you run into her at an Apres Ski bar and she is solo, you could take her home in a discreet manner. But it is unlikely she's going to go "on a date" with the ski instructor. This is strictly a pump and dump ONS situation. you better have your logistics locked down because she ain't gonna screw you with her kids in the cabin....

I kind of feel like I'm out of depth on this one too. Is there a way I can still be cordial and talk to her politely and slightly seductively when I see her? I don't want to creep her out, but I'd like to establish that I'm fine if she doesn't want to hang out and I enjoy talking to her nonetheless. Perhaps I can pique some interest by playfully teasing that it's no wonder I can't get her out on a date, she's probably got lots of dates with hunks like me.

I would definitely get a hotel room if I got this milf out on a date. I would really have to up the chase framing when I see her in person this week and on a date (if I got it.) If I can get her out on a date without her kids, maybe to a movie late at night, then I start kissing her in the movie, I could get her to her car and escalate from there. Logistically speaking, this my best option. I know it's not all too likely but I'd still like to try what I can.

I'm just brainstorming here. Could I get her out on a date if I suggested she get a babysitter? I don't know how willing she would be to leave her kids after they fell asleep to see a movie.

Honestly, if I see her this week, I'll tease her that I probably can't get her away from her kids unless she gets a babysitter but we should catch a movie nonetheless to help her unwind because she deserves it, and it's no big commitment... just a movie. I would have to set up the date on the spot to make sure she's down.

I qualified her last week, should I qualify her this week? Probably not. Just chase frame as much as possible while pretending to have normal conversation. I sat with her for 15 minutes last week on a bench as we watched the kids ski. I could say we've already been out on a date and this our second date, a third one wouldn't be a big deal.
 

BigPapa

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Single moms are very direct in most cases . Just go for a drink or something , talk , touch her and that”s it :)
 
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