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So I started doing daygame again after several years of focusing on bars and online.
Very important information: My main goal is to get an amazing girlfriend. I’m full of banging mediocre girls for now.
A couple of weeks ago, I grabbed the number of a super cute and super hot girl.
She is probably the hottest, cutest and sweetest girl I’ve ever dated.. I’m falling a little for her.
Long story short, I took her in a date to a place with amazing pie, had some beers... conversation never stopped, she was into me, I was into her... everything flowing.
At some point, our ages came up. We both thought each other was 26... I am actually 34, she is 23. I thought that would be a dealbreaker but she insisted on qualifying herself saying that she had dated a guy older than me before.
The restaurant closes, everything is going fine so I tell her that I’ll make a nightcap for her and took her to my apartment.
The moment she goes in, her body language changes. She is nervous.
I keep making conversation. It flows but she is nervous.
I make her a nightcap... 15-20 minutes later, I go for the kiss... she reciprocates with really sweet kisses... then she says she gotta go.
I tell her to stay 5 minutes more, I kiss her again... she kisses me... then steps up and say it’s time to go... I tell her, give me a last one... we kiss and the leave.
It was looking like a huge LMR was on its way so I didn’t fight it... sweet kisses should last for now.
At this point she is very compliant.
I drive her to her home and ask her for her hand. She gives it to me and I place it in the back of my head. She complies caressing my neck and head.
We get to her home, I kiss her last night, tell her she is special to me. She says we should go for wings next week.
Next day I text her saying I think she is super sweet... and nothing... SHE GHOSTED ME
I wait three days and text her inviting her to go to for wings as she suggested. NO ANSWER.
I wait three more days and text her “hey, is everything OK”. She says yes, ask me about me and the silence...
So I shared this with my sister and a close friend (not a playboy)... they tell me I went too fast.
I’m like “What?, she was complying all the time”
So 5 days later I try a Hail Mary.
I send a 2 min video message throwing the ball in her court, tell her that I really liked her, I think she is special, maybe I went too fast and ask her to tell me what is going on so I can try to fix it... if she is interested.
She replies one day later telling me she had a huge family issue and wasn’t responding messages... she likes me and wants to see me again but makes it clear she wants to take things much slower.
So I may be able to save this one but I want to fix this so it doesn’t happen again.
It seems that the girls I can get from daygame are way more conservative and less DTF than the ones I’m used to.
Has anyone had this problem changing niches? How can I tell when I should move “slower”?
Very important information: My main goal is to get an amazing girlfriend. I’m full of banging mediocre girls for now.
A couple of weeks ago, I grabbed the number of a super cute and super hot girl.
She is probably the hottest, cutest and sweetest girl I’ve ever dated.. I’m falling a little for her.
Long story short, I took her in a date to a place with amazing pie, had some beers... conversation never stopped, she was into me, I was into her... everything flowing.
At some point, our ages came up. We both thought each other was 26... I am actually 34, she is 23. I thought that would be a dealbreaker but she insisted on qualifying herself saying that she had dated a guy older than me before.
The restaurant closes, everything is going fine so I tell her that I’ll make a nightcap for her and took her to my apartment.
The moment she goes in, her body language changes. She is nervous.
I keep making conversation. It flows but she is nervous.
I make her a nightcap... 15-20 minutes later, I go for the kiss... she reciprocates with really sweet kisses... then she says she gotta go.
I tell her to stay 5 minutes more, I kiss her again... she kisses me... then steps up and say it’s time to go... I tell her, give me a last one... we kiss and the leave.
It was looking like a huge LMR was on its way so I didn’t fight it... sweet kisses should last for now.
At this point she is very compliant.
I drive her to her home and ask her for her hand. She gives it to me and I place it in the back of my head. She complies caressing my neck and head.
We get to her home, I kiss her last night, tell her she is special to me. She says we should go for wings next week.
Next day I text her saying I think she is super sweet... and nothing... SHE GHOSTED ME
I wait three days and text her inviting her to go to for wings as she suggested. NO ANSWER.
I wait three more days and text her “hey, is everything OK”. She says yes, ask me about me and the silence...
So I shared this with my sister and a close friend (not a playboy)... they tell me I went too fast.
I’m like “What?, she was complying all the time”
So 5 days later I try a Hail Mary.
I send a 2 min video message throwing the ball in her court, tell her that I really liked her, I think she is special, maybe I went too fast and ask her to tell me what is going on so I can try to fix it... if she is interested.
She replies one day later telling me she had a huge family issue and wasn’t responding messages... she likes me and wants to see me again but makes it clear she wants to take things much slower.
So I may be able to save this one but I want to fix this so it doesn’t happen again.
It seems that the girls I can get from daygame are way more conservative and less DTF than the ones I’m used to.
Has anyone had this problem changing niches? How can I tell when I should move “slower”?
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