Videos Muscular dude catcalls your girl in front of you. What would you do?

[Kaida]

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I showed the video to my friends and they all said they’d fight him, but I feel like thats too reactive. A guy just says some rude words (while walking away) and gets me to turn around and fight him.

I’d look (and feel) like I’m just following his lead. Especially when he’s doing that specifically to get a reaction out of me.

On the other hand, doing nothing might lose the respect of your girl. You may look like you can defend what's yours. If you do nothing you’re most definitely getting tested by your girlfriend after.

What would y’all do in this situation to keep frame?

 

[topcat]

I’d blow him a kiss. Not joking.

 

[Skills]

I say give me couple of hundred I let you hit it..or ignore the thing is if a guy is doing this is clearly trying you directly and not about the girl...in clubs for example you don't know girl taken so no need for action, but if is clear the dude know you are together it has to go down the bf talks to much as soon as he approached he had to be punched... That look staged...

 

[StrayDog]

I’d blow him a kiss. Not joking.

The only reasonable response to something like this.

And if my girl presses me on it I'll just tease her about what a force of nature she is, and how she turns these fools into drooling putty or some shit like that.

She knows I'm not going to fix the world for her. And if she doesn't yet, some day she'll figure it out

 

[TomInHo]

I would have said “I know” when he said her ass looked phat then proceed to fuck her silly when we get home

It’s not a big deal at all

 

[reeax]

Just reply "stop street masturbation, find yourself a GF if you can". Then be ready to strike first to put him down if he decides to come anywhere near you playing tough (= consider this as a physical escalation from his side, even if he didn't attack yet).

 

[Will_V]

I'd simply give him a peripheral glance to see if he's making any moves in my direction, and ignore it. I don't like to engage people just because they want some attention.

This is my standard response to any provocation. Don't feed it, but don't look asleep. Real fighters know when someone is ready.

 

[gameboy]

I'd simply give him a peripheral glance to see if he's making any moves in my direction, and ignore it. I don't like to engage people just because they want some attention.

This. No sane girl wants you to get beat up (worst case) or in jail (if you win) because you let yourself get provoked by some random douchebag.

Real life isn't like the movies...

 

[Spyce D]

Depends on which country , city , culture, village , locality .

Depends on the legitimacy of the threat . Is it just
Words or something worse ?

Depends on can I call backup if shit goes down .

Depends on if it's just a prank video for internet .

My culture is very masculine so it will definitely lose me some respect if I just ignore it ( the catcalls )

But if someone talks to a couple in calibrated way and the man just flips over the approacher then the man will be seen as insecure and he will lose respect too .

So , it's more of a balancing act for me and how much I can get away with .

 

[reeax]

I'd simply give him a peripheral glance to see if he's making any moves in my direction, and ignore it. I don't like to engage people just because they want some attention.

This is my standard response to any provocation. Don't feed it, but don't look asleep. Real fighters know when someone is ready.

You don't always need to give aggressors a free pass .. Once in a while, you can show your girl that you are no joke .. Answer him and see where it goes. Of course you need to take into account the context. Outnumbered ? Pass. Is the guy drunk and not a threat ? Pass. Are you in Morocco and your GF is showing her shoulders ? Pass.

I am always (and look) ready to take the other guy down if necessary, so probably for that reason these situations luckily almost never happen to me. Chase spoke about this in his articles. Basically most dudes will evaluate you to see if you are an easy target or not before acting (unless they are drunk, high, or in group).

My Krav Maga instructor once started chasing in the middle of the street some guy that insulted his GF, that dumbass had to run away and locked himself in the toilets of the nearby bar .. It was real fun to watch

 

[Kaida]

It looks like most of the high level seducers agree.

But at what point of escalation do y’all think violence is necessary

Is it when he starts harassing for longer, gets in your face, or touches your girl… wheres the line?

 

[reeax]

It looks like most of the high level seducers agree.

But at what point of escalation do y’all think violence is necessary

Is it when he starts harassing for longer, gets in your face, or touches your girl… wheres the line?

Violence is necessary only when the other dude decides to use it. You don't have to wait to get hit first, though. If you see trouble, trust your gut – and strike first.

But if you're not used to handling street fights, it's tricky to know when things are about to go south. Best bet? Keep a good distance, like three meters or so, from anyone looking for trouble. And if you're with your girlfriend, make sure she's out of harm's way too. If some guy starts closing in on you, be clear and tell him to back off very loudly and ask what he wants. If he keeps coming at you, well, that's your cue.

Now, if the guy is just running his mouth and not really a physical threat, just handle it cool. Close circle, ignore him, that kind of thing. You can find a bunch of tips on handling these situations on girlschase.

 

[Tim Iron]

If someone insults you and you want to retaliate, simply insult him back. If he is showing clear signs that he wants to strike you, go on the counter attack and defend yourself. Catcalling a girl who is with you isn't an invitation to fight... a wise man would simply walk away.

 

[Skills]

Let me give you a story cause there is a disconnect In the discussion...

A sigma, alpha etc... is outcome independent, no jealous and no possessive and no territorial this are attractive traits....for example if you are with a girl dancing or talking or whatever and another dude or dudes hit on her or try to get her ignore is no big deal....

Second scenario if the dude 100000% knows that she is your girlfriend or girl 0 doubts about it, and let's say walking holding hands, you two giving no doubt body language and actions that is clearly 100,% obvious you are together is just straight trying you directly there is 0 doubt, this will cause a confrontation...in a confrontation you going back and forth talking is a waste of time othe than to say calmly let's discuss this outside venue if not in venue 0 need for confrontation other than a warning I usually say let's go outside I don't talk I don't argue I just fight cause fighters don't talk much they avoid fight but in the situation they don't talk just fight ....

I have been in clubs both normal and swing clubs guys dance and group and touch my girls 0 fucks given...no need for fight on confrontation...

I have been in situations were dudes clearly saw 1000% we were together holding both hands facing each other he broke with his hands our hands holding I kicked his ass really bad as soon as he tried talking I fucked him up...

 

[topcat]

I have been in situations were dudes clearly saw 1000% we were together holding both hands facing each other he broke with his hands our hands holding I kicked his ass really bad as soon as he tried talking I fucked him up...

i hear you. but what is the point of fighting him if “he knows you’re together”? what do you lose if you choose to ignore him?

if your girl thinks your a pussy because you did nothing that makes HER an idiot no?

 

[Rakehell]

Lol these videos are so off the wall that it has to be staged. It’s obvious that it’s less about the girl and more about provoking the dude into doing something.

Fighting a guy who’s begging for it and isn’t drunk out of his mind is pretty risky imo, especially nowadays where people aren’t really fighting anymore. Even more so because he’s walking around at daytime doing this.

He doesn’t exactly pick weak targets either. So something to think about in a actual scenario.

 

[Alpha13SC]

Coming from another angle, can be a cultural thing as well. In EE, if you would retreat from certain situations, would be a bad thing. But as well, risking your health for a girl doesn t really make sense.

On the other hand, risking your health because you feel like punching somebody and this is the perfect opportunity is something else. Everything for the lolz, right?

Alpha13SC

 

[Skills]

i hear you. but what is the point of fighting him if “he knows you’re together”? what do you lose if you choose to ignore him?

if your girl thinks your a pussy because you did nothing that makes HER an idiot no?

You still don't get it is no about the girl.... If a dude comes up to you and tells you fuck you or go fuck yourself for no reason are you going to be a doormat, you still don't get is not about the girl he is trying you directly...

 

[Skills]

Lol these videos are so off the wall that it has to be staged. It’s obvious that it’s less about the girl and more about provoking the dude into doing something.

Fighting a guy who’s begging for it and isn’t drunk out of his mind is pretty risky imo, especially nowadays where people aren’t really fighting anymore. Even more so because he’s walking around at daytime doing this.

He doesn’t exactly pick weak targets either. So something to think about in a actual scenario.

Yes is staged 0 chances of something like that happening unless a gang and the gánsters around...

 

[topcat]

You still don't get it is no about the girl.... If a dude comes up to you and tells you fuck you or go fuck yourself for no reason are you going to be a doormat, you still don't get is not about the girl he is trying you directly...

i honestly don’t give a shit. if a crazy person told you to go fuck yourself would you care? why is it different if the crazy person is big and has muscles? i get what you’re saying but it’s a matter of framing, I'm not going to let somebody throw me off my zen..i’d see myself as a bigger loser if i let a loser throw me off my square. fighting him (from my framing) is essentially trying to prove to him that i’m not a pussy which in essence is acknowledging to myself that there’s a chance i might be. in my head there’s ZERO chance im a loser so why would i need to prove it?

i do get what you’re saying i just think by fighting him you’re subtly buying into his frame, and attempting physically to reinforce your own. No need. I’m already better than you. Be gone.