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My end of a year review of 2023 the bipolar mix with cringe year....

Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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- move from a major city for example Miami, to a more favorable sexual market place for example WEst palm (hotter women than Miami and Broward, less competition). In other words move from a major city Miami, to a second or 3 type city (palm beach in my case 3rd type city in south Florida)... This may have also draw backs cause less quantity but more quality, but less male competition. ( I am not competin with professional sports players for example).

- move to a college town, the con is that when school is out, you will not get supply of young women...

I feel like there are major US cities and then there is Miami and man, no other city has been this big of a puzzle for me.

What has worked for me is:

1. Daygaming on Lincoln Rd and meeting a cool tourist

2. Getting into a prime venue like Socialista and connecting with a cool girl although it is a tough venue to get into

3. Meeting the odd tourist or new arrival at the new Wharf (they call it Regatta)

4. Getting into some exclusive private events and running game

5. The odd night in Wynnwood at Dirty Rabbit when I meet a cool tourist

6. Used to be gaming Seeking Arrangements for girls that are down but towards the end of 2023, that died down by a lot. Women caught on to it thanks to Myron Gaines from F&F giving dudes advice on how to game it and the site being swarmed by guys treating it as Tinder, was good when it lasted.

It is like if you go for anything other than a tourist or new arrival, it ain't happening in this city.

What has not worked for me:

1. Daygaming in Brickell, that place is depressing. Go to BCC and see Sugar Baby after Sugar Baby walking out

2. Any of the apps, I get the worst results in Miami and so do most guys I know that travel frequently

But @Skills I notice that compared to women in other cities, the women in Miami often have angle and I can see why so many guys here end up following the likes of Fresh and Fit. Like in no other city in the US have I been on a date and had a girl try to hustle me for some cash. Women here are just predatory man and I feel like you have to be careful. Hate to stereotype but I run for my life if the woman I have cold approached has a Russian accent, like I am done with that set.

So it is not even enough that you approach and get it going right, now you have to make sure she isn't trying to scam you or con you or pull some last-minute play. It has helped me gain some street smarts in regards to dealing with women but man you run into that stuff so much here.

I have to say that to date, it has been the toughest city I have gamed in. My worst rejections have come in places like The Wharf (and now Regatta), Wynnwood and LIV.

Like I went back to NYC this past November, did over 50 approaches, and the rejections I got were rather kind and soft by nature. Women would smile and say they have a boyfriend but they never wanted to hurt you. Here in Miami, women are nasty for the sake of being nasty. Women here go out of their way to make a rejection sting and hurt, like out of their way to be rude and treat a guy like crap. I have not seen this to the same extent in LA, NYC, Atlanta, San Diego, Chicago, or DC.

There is a lot to love about the city but man, it is kicking my ass in a way no other city has. The silver lining is when I do get laid and get results, it feels that much more vindicating but I do not know how anyone who is a lifelong local here can ever be a happy dude.
 

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Here are some things I have noticed in 2023 for game:

1. Way more nightlife venues being opened that require you to bring a party with you, I am talking sit-down restaurant type of places as opposed to clubs and venues where you could cold approach. @Skills just last year they closed Story in Miami Beach but they are opening tons of restaurant-type places where you have to come with people, like its all tables and not really enough space to game in. The only highlight of last year was that they may have closed The Wharf but they opened Regatta to replace it and it is actually bigger, though its not in exactly a prime area.

Last I heard, more word on the street from some promoter friends, they plan on eventually closing Wynnwood's nightlife down in Miami in favor of residential buildings. People want to live in Wynnwood and don't want the party there so they want to move it elsewhere. The future of Miami nightlife does not seem very promising.

2. The Apps have become unbearably hard. Back in the day, if you got banned you could come back easily or you could just restart your account for new boosts. All of that is gone now, you need to practically buy a burner phone to get over a legit ban from Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. My matches have been deflated across the board. Before COVID, I could have a healthy dating life with just the apps alone but after it, I am lucky to get even 1 date a month from the 3 apps.

Hinge has been the best but I got banned from it so I going to buy a burner phone to get back on it.

3. Way more Youtube Morons on the streets approaching women with a mic to their faces. You know those stupid channels where a guy asks girls dumb questions about dating? Well, now streets are flooded with these morons approaching women. As a guy, I have had female Youtubers/TikTokers approach me and my wings for questions. I am not sure if it is a good or bad thing but I lean towards bad. Some women love that attention they get of being important and answering some Youtube channels but I find these dudes a massive nuisance.

4. Women are more aware of cold approach and game than they were before. Like I feel as if women are breaking more into male spaces and are aware of cold approaches guys do. 2023 was my first year in game where I approached women and had them ask "lemme guess, you saw some guy on Youtube do it huh?". Its strange but women are breaking more and more into every male space and learning the ins and outs of what we do. Like, they have female dating coaches now!

5. Women will approach you more these days than ever before. I have been approached more in 2023 than at any other point in my life and it is not because I became more handsome. Women just make it known if they like you more readily now and will often open you. I have not had this happen more to me than in 2023 but for some reason, I was never ready. Like some of it was straight-up girls drunk and harassing me. My wings have had the same thing happen.

6. Way more Social Circle and Lifestyle coaches taking the place of game coaches. Like I feel that this is the next step. It went from PUA to Red Pill to Black Pill and now it is moving to "max out your IG and be a promoter" vibe. You see it with guys like Andrew Tate telling dudes to lifestyle max but guys like Sartain have come on strong to the scene telling dudes the value of social media and status boosting.

It is like the guys who are young are going to two schools. Some are giving up entirely and going black pill. Others who would otherwise go to PUA are now avoiding them and going right to social media boosting, gym, eating right, and making money. The thing is I have meet a lot of the latter and they cannot talk to girls at all.
 
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@Skills I am honored to make your shit list. I went cold turkey on the forum after hitting post on the oneitis LR and am taking one little hit since this is more like an article. Chase linked it on a comment.

What text logs do you want?

Obese widow Jan 29: "I'm going to need to say no to us meeting. I've met someone and after this weekend... I only wish to see him. I need to give it 100% of my time and attention."

Feb 5": Tuesday???"

Fry cook Feb 2: "I'll definitely try and find out but I don't mind the car."

Divorcee Jan 24: "What is good for you..my schedule is flexible the next few weeks."

Retained four others in their 30s ranging from fit to chubby. Hurt two tiny good girls.

An 18 year old I used the three favorite animal game with online mimicked my "kidding" grandmaster pull

Jan 13: "Francis are you ghosting me now? I'm kidding tho"

Thank you for a fun year!

Now it's getting dark. Girls are KINKY.
 
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