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- move from a major city for example Miami, to a more favorable sexual market place for example WEst palm (hotter women than Miami and Broward, less competition). In other words move from a major city Miami, to a second or 3 type city (palm beach in my case 3rd type city in south Florida)... This may have also draw backs cause less quantity but more quality, but less male competition. ( I am not competin with professional sports players for example).
- move to a college town, the con is that when school is out, you will not get supply of young women...
I feel like there are major US cities and then there is Miami and man, no other city has been this big of a puzzle for me.
What has worked for me is:
1. Daygaming on Lincoln Rd and meeting a cool tourist
2. Getting into a prime venue like Socialista and connecting with a cool girl although it is a tough venue to get into
3. Meeting the odd tourist or new arrival at the new Wharf (they call it Regatta)
4. Getting into some exclusive private events and running game
5. The odd night in Wynnwood at Dirty Rabbit when I meet a cool tourist
6. Used to be gaming Seeking Arrangements for girls that are down but towards the end of 2023, that died down by a lot. Women caught on to it thanks to Myron Gaines from F&F giving dudes advice on how to game it and the site being swarmed by guys treating it as Tinder, was good when it lasted.
It is like if you go for anything other than a tourist or new arrival, it ain't happening in this city.
What has not worked for me:
1. Daygaming in Brickell, that place is depressing. Go to BCC and see Sugar Baby after Sugar Baby walking out
2. Any of the apps, I get the worst results in Miami and so do most guys I know that travel frequently
But @Skills I notice that compared to women in other cities, the women in Miami often have angle and I can see why so many guys here end up following the likes of Fresh and Fit. Like in no other city in the US have I been on a date and had a girl try to hustle me for some cash. Women here are just predatory man and I feel like you have to be careful. Hate to stereotype but I run for my life if the woman I have cold approached has a Russian accent, like I am done with that set.
So it is not even enough that you approach and get it going right, now you have to make sure she isn't trying to scam you or con you or pull some last-minute play. It has helped me gain some street smarts in regards to dealing with women but man you run into that stuff so much here.
I have to say that to date, it has been the toughest city I have gamed in. My worst rejections have come in places like The Wharf (and now Regatta), Wynnwood and LIV.
Like I went back to NYC this past November, did over 50 approaches, and the rejections I got were rather kind and soft by nature. Women would smile and say they have a boyfriend but they never wanted to hurt you. Here in Miami, women are nasty for the sake of being nasty. Women here go out of their way to make a rejection sting and hurt, like out of their way to be rude and treat a guy like crap. I have not seen this to the same extent in LA, NYC, Atlanta, San Diego, Chicago, or DC.
There is a lot to love about the city but man, it is kicking my ass in a way no other city has. The silver lining is when I do get laid and get results, it feels that much more vindicating but I do not know how anyone who is a lifelong local here can ever be a happy dude.