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I made a new thread because I didn't like the title of the previous thread. Anyway, these are the new field reports:-
04/03/25 (street)
Approach 1:- Girl seemed receptive when I said hi. But I dunno why I started to smile/laugh too much when delivering my direct opener. She said "no, sorry" after I used my direct opener. I shouldn't have smiled so much. I wasn't matching her energy.
Approach 2:- Ignored me.
Approach 3:- She was in a rush. She ignored me but I kept talking, then she stopped and listened to me. I used my direct opener, she was receptive. I started talking to her and she was listening however, she told me she was in a rush so I ejected. I should have told her I am in a rush too and introduced myself and exchanged numbers.
05/03/25 (street)
Approach 1:-
Me:- "Hey excuse me"
(she removes her earphones but seems irritated that I stopped her)
Me:- "Hi, do you speak English?"
Her:- "Yes" (still seems irritated)
Me:- "I saw you and I wanted to meet. I noticed your fashion sense.... "
(she starts smirking, her whole demeanor changes from "irritated" to "amused")
Her:- "Sorry I have a boyfriend"
I eject
06/03/25 (street)
Approach 1:- Girl seemed receptive but she was in a hurry
Approach 2:- Girl was very receptive. We talked for a while. I ran out of things to say and tried to number close early. She said she has a bf. I could have tried to go for an instant date but I overthink this a lot because I run out of things to say
Approach 3:- She didn't stop but I remained unreactive and kept talking, then she stopped. However, she rejected me after I used my direct opener. Not receptive.
07/03/25 (nightclub)
Approach 1:- Self-ejection
Approach 2:- She seemed interested but her friends dragged her off
Approach 3:- She held my hand but then went away. Could have tried to talk more to her.
08/03/25 (nightclub)
Did handful of approaches. One approach that could have maybe worked:-
Me:- "You wait!"
The girl stops
Me:- "Hi, I am Julian" (handshake)
Girl:- "Hi" (smiles)
She stops for me and I start speaking. She definitely was interested in me.
Girl:- "Sorry my friends are waiting"
Her friends were two steps in front of her.
Me:- "What about me?"
She was smiling and still waiting. But I let her go. I should have tried to go talk to her friends to win their approval to let her come with me.
09/03/25 (street)
Approach 1:- She said she has a bf after I used my direct opener. Maybe I should have still continued.
Approach 2:- Receptive. Talked for 20 minutes. I asked for instant date too soon (after just 2 mins in the convo) and didn't ask for it confidently. She was still willing to talk more but I ejected. Number closed and she replied to my text but may flake.
Approach 3:- It was too weak. I did it at night.
Me:- "Hey excuse me, do you speak English?" (approached from side)
Girl:- *ignores me*
I give up, turn my back on her and move on. Then I hear a "yeah" from the back.
Me:- "I saw you and wanted to meet you"
She rejects me.
10/03/2025 (various places)
(street)
Approach 1:- Self-ejection.
(college canteen)
Approach 2 :- Receptive. Had a good convo but my friend was waiting. I didn't ditch him unfortunately and number closed. Fuck man, I really shouldn't number close. This is such a bad habit of mine.
(street)
Approach 3:- Neutral. I still ploughed and she hooked into the convo then I tried to number close as I was going to the gym and didn't have time for an instant date but she said she is seeing someone.
Side note:- Approach 1 from 25/02/25 gives too many excuses whenever I try to ask her out but still replies to me. Giving up on her.
Consistent approach journal
Hi, this is my journal for daygame and nightgame. I try to daygame with mostly direct openers to save time. I will be making ONLY weekly reports to share my progress because daily reports wouldn't motivate me as much. Currently I have been consistently approaching for a week. However, since I...
www.skilledseducer.com
I made a new thread because I didn't like the title of the previous thread. Anyway, these are the new field reports:-
04/03/25 (street)
Approach 1:- Girl seemed receptive when I said hi. But I dunno why I started to smile/laugh too much when delivering my direct opener. She said "no, sorry" after I used my direct opener. I shouldn't have smiled so much. I wasn't matching her energy.
Approach 2:- Ignored me.
Approach 3:- She was in a rush. She ignored me but I kept talking, then she stopped and listened to me. I used my direct opener, she was receptive. I started talking to her and she was listening however, she told me she was in a rush so I ejected. I should have told her I am in a rush too and introduced myself and exchanged numbers.
05/03/25 (street)
Approach 1:-
Me:- "Hey excuse me"
(she removes her earphones but seems irritated that I stopped her)
Me:- "Hi, do you speak English?"
Her:- "Yes" (still seems irritated)
Me:- "I saw you and I wanted to meet. I noticed your fashion sense.... "
(she starts smirking, her whole demeanor changes from "irritated" to "amused")
Her:- "Sorry I have a boyfriend"
I eject
06/03/25 (street)
Approach 1:- Girl seemed receptive but she was in a hurry
Approach 2:- Girl was very receptive. We talked for a while. I ran out of things to say and tried to number close early. She said she has a bf. I could have tried to go for an instant date but I overthink this a lot because I run out of things to say
Approach 3:- She didn't stop but I remained unreactive and kept talking, then she stopped. However, she rejected me after I used my direct opener. Not receptive.
07/03/25 (nightclub)
Approach 1:- Self-ejection
Approach 2:- She seemed interested but her friends dragged her off
Approach 3:- She held my hand but then went away. Could have tried to talk more to her.
08/03/25 (nightclub)
Did handful of approaches. One approach that could have maybe worked:-
Me:- "You wait!"
The girl stops
Me:- "Hi, I am Julian" (handshake)
Girl:- "Hi" (smiles)
She stops for me and I start speaking. She definitely was interested in me.
Girl:- "Sorry my friends are waiting"
Her friends were two steps in front of her.
Me:- "What about me?"
She was smiling and still waiting. But I let her go. I should have tried to go talk to her friends to win their approval to let her come with me.
09/03/25 (street)
Approach 1:- She said she has a bf after I used my direct opener. Maybe I should have still continued.
Approach 2:- Receptive. Talked for 20 minutes. I asked for instant date too soon (after just 2 mins in the convo) and didn't ask for it confidently. She was still willing to talk more but I ejected. Number closed and she replied to my text but may flake.
Approach 3:- It was too weak. I did it at night.
Me:- "Hey excuse me, do you speak English?" (approached from side)
Girl:- *ignores me*
I give up, turn my back on her and move on. Then I hear a "yeah" from the back.
Me:- "I saw you and wanted to meet you"
She rejects me.
10/03/2025 (various places)
(street)
Approach 1:- Self-ejection.
(college canteen)
Approach 2 :- Receptive. Had a good convo but my friend was waiting. I didn't ditch him unfortunately and number closed. Fuck man, I really shouldn't number close. This is such a bad habit of mine.
(street)
Approach 3:- Neutral. I still ploughed and she hooked into the convo then I tried to number close as I was going to the gym and didn't have time for an instant date but she said she is seeing someone.
Side note:- Approach 1 from 25/02/25 gives too many excuses whenever I try to ask her out but still replies to me. Giving up on her.
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