I recall Chase writing somewhere that the level of attraction of a girl for you is highest when you go in without a rubber and jizz inside her the first time you smash. And while it is true that Pelusita has had 10s asking him to go in raw and finish up inside them, I have not had any positive experiences with cumming inside girls during the first smash sesh in recent years.
In the more remote past, I don't remember, but I think I was going raw as a matter of course. As in, I never suited up, since I firmly believed condoms are for sailors. Girls also didn't mind. However, it meant that I was often having to go to the STD clinic, which you can interpret as a waste of time.
In 2023 I lost a handful of hotties due to cumming inside them (
Christmas Cums Early,
Freaky Fresh Fanny,
25-y-o cute petite Japanese). Granted, in 2024 I lost
26-y-o thicc Mediterranean pretty girl for other reasons (she started wanting to "talk about us" after first bang, another potential sign that it was too much too soon) albeit having gone in raw, and I didn't lose
Slave to the rhythm (just haven't been in the city where we met since then) despite having gone raw all night.
I think it's more important to make her cum and to not cum yourself, or only after a long time. But it could also be that we are all trying to find order in chaos and randomness. If I do my best to treat her like a gentleman, give her quality sex/good memories, follow standard texting protocols, and she still ghosts, I would rather believe she was going to ghost anyway and remove her from my mind.