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Space Monkey
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26 year old virgin. I had dates, make-outs with several girls, some even hot asf. However, in between those minor successes, I get a lot of rejections and blow-outs. They don't bother me as much. However, my number one problem is not having a wing who is as passionate in this as me. I live in a small city atm unfortunately. So I either have to go out alone and be all anxious or go out with friends who take almost no action and I am the only one taking action.

So basically, I don't care which country you are from but I am looking for a friend who is beginner like me and maybe we can have a weekly debrief. Someone who is a massive action taker on my level. Thanks
 

Bravado

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Hi lutgardis, I am in a similar situation. I'm 23 and all my friends have girlfriend and/or do not take any action, they don't go out to social venues. I've had success in the past, but I've been the last 2-3 years almost in a dry-spell. Despite my experciences with women, I would consider myself a rookie nowadays. I also live in an small town, but I'm 30 minutes away of a city (600k)

I've noticed that i shouldn't rely on anybody to run game, only in myself. And i need to take action and get out of home more, I've been consuming too much theory lately without taking action, I would use excuses like being too busy with studies, but i'm tired of excuses.

It would be great to have a virtual wing, at least to have some accountability and to be more persistent with game.

P.S: I'm sorry if my post isn't well written, english is not my main language.
 

Steezzy

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I'm down, you can think of me as the most resourceful bartender you will ever meet.
 

James D

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Getting an accountability partner is cool.

Ensure you're actually taking action together rather than spend endless hours debating on theory.

I saw many inexperienced guys do this and I think it gives them the feeling of advancing when in reality they aren't.
 

Atlas IV

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Getting an accountability partner is cool.

Ensure you're actually taking action together rather than spend endless hours debating on theory.

I saw many inexperienced guys do this and I think it gives them the feeling of advancing when in reality they aren't.
Second this.

Also, get your ass to a major metropolitan city. Nothing will improve your game (or career/social life for that matter) more than being somewhere with endless opportunities.
 

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Space Monkey
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Hi lutgardis, I am in a similar situation. I'm 23 and all my friends have girlfriend and/or do not take any action, they don't go out to social venues. I've had success in the past, but I've been the last 2-3 years almost in a dry-spell. Despite my experciences with women, I would consider myself a rookie nowadays. I also live in an small town, but I'm 30 minutes away of a city (600k)

I've noticed that i shouldn't rely on anybody to run game, only in myself. And i need to take action and get out of home more, I've been consuming too much theory lately without taking action, I would use excuses like being too busy with studies, but i'm tired of excuses.

It would be great to have a virtual wing, at least to have some accountability and to be more persistent with game.

P.S: I'm sorry if my post isn't well written, english is not my main language.
Hey bro, sorry for late reply. I was sick and busy. Do you still wanna be virtual wing?
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

matheth

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Hey lutgardis Im in a similar situation, ive been taking on and off action for the past year or so but very inconsistently. Only a week ago i started taking massive action, last week going out 4 times a week for 4 or even 6 hours at a time.
I still struggle a lot with approach anxiety, feelings of not being enough and not knowing what to say.
Im 26 yr olds, mathematician, had a few gfs, a few lays that you can check on my profile but i still need a lot of training

Will send you guys dms
 

Aussiedude

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I found dating apps are much easier to pull then going out to bars and clubs, IF you're inexperienced. You don't have to be incredibly good looking, but you MUST have good photos. If you're a virgin I would definitly recommend dating apps to get laid. I've had a lot of succes with them. Although I am in a big city which makes them easier.

I'm seeing a chick regularly rn, who's easy going and meets easily. And have two more meet ups lined up, tomorrow and the day after. Both were quite easy to plan. So defs consider dating apps. They work for me. 25M btw.
 

Aussiedude

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Second this.

Also, get your ass to a major metropolitan city. Nothing will improve your game (or career/social life for that matter) more than being somewhere with endless opportunities.
This 100%
 
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