Need Help ASAP with amazing/ shy girl

[CaptainHenley]

Howdy boys,

I have been cold approcaching lately, while doing the newbie assgiment. Results havent been great, but i am not in any way discouraged to continue.

BUT, while hanging out with some friends, i was introduced to the most beautiful girl i have ever laid eyes one up close. I am serious, she is like a model.

Yet she is the most shy and introverted girl i have met.(girl blushing by inoccent flirting, that kind of shy) I was taking to her, things were going great. But i couldnt quite read her, and I confused her shyness for disinterest. I was informed afterwards that she actually liked me, and she is extremely shy and inexperienced(19 years old, no boyfriend)

She is going on vacation in a few days, but i dont have her phone number, and it's practilly impossible for my friends to arrange another meeting.

Though they did offer to give me her phone number.

Should I accept that as a choice? Whould it make me look weak, like "i didnt have the balls to ask you then(not true, i just didnt know how to handle such girl), so i asked your friends for your phone number" ?

And if I have it, how should i proceed? What should I text? She doesnt havve mine by the way, they will not meet up with our common friends for quite a while.

Cheers

 

[Seppuku]

Hey man,

Take the number from your friends and text her. Ask her out asap, before she leaves for vacations.

Yes, it's weaker than if you had asked the number yourself. But it's still much better than doing nothing and waiting her to come back. Always strike the opportunity when it's here, because there is no guarantee the opportunity will still be there in a month time.

Try a little back and forth texts if you can, then ask her for a date in a very cool way. "Hey, let's meet before you leave ;-)" simple, cool and assertive.

On the date, focus on making her very comfortable, but always in control and leading her. Given her little experience, up to you to decide if you push for a lay or not.

I hope this helps.

Seppuku
PS. And never be afraid of losing any one girl. Once you're afraid, you become needy and chasey, and it's bad karma for you. There are tons of other girls out there, waiting for you.

 

[CaptainHenley]

Seppuku ,


Thanks a bunch for your advice.you really guided me through it.

I tried my best , but she found a guy on her vacation.

Only goes to show me how important moving fast is.


Cheers

 

[RAFox]

Seppuku ,


Thanks a bunch for your advice.you really guided me through it.

I tried my best , but she found a guy on her vacation.

Only goes to show me how important moving fast is.


Cheers

You can still snatch her away from him! If I were you I'd try to meet and seduce her despite that, because if you want her, don't give up so easily!

 

[CaptainHenley]

Seppuku ,


Thanks a bunch for your advice.you really guided me through it.

I tried my best , but she found a guy on her vacation.

Only goes to show me how important moving fast is.


Cheers

You can still snatch her away from him! If I were you I'd try to meet and seduce her despite that, because if you want her, don't give up so easily!

Hey pal,

Pretty excited by your reply!

Can you guide me through it?

 

[RAFox]

Yo, I got next to no experience in this, but if it were me, I'd text her that I want to meet her, for some drinks after work/school or something innocent - looking. You know, keep it as far from looking like an actual date as possible. When you meet, proceed as you would with any other girl.

Whenever she talks about her boyfriend, ignore it, or divert the conversation elsewhere. Avoid awkward silences like the plague, say whatever you can think of during those times.

Touch her when you laugh, or when you ask her something, show her something on her phone and get close to her in this way, be sure to sit side by side.
And when the mood is playful and fun, next time you're alone, go for a kiss!

She'll probably be surprised, just laugh it off, carry on as if nothing happened... then lead her home, tell her you want to show her something amazing, or you want to cook something for her if you can, anything.

After you're home alone, no, even when you kiss, she should get the gist of it. Escalate, kiss her passionately, take off her clothes, and then let your heart express itself!

Ah, and while some of this is my idea, most of it is out of an article I read just half an hour ago, there's a lot more detail in there:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/datin ... boyfriends

You have to think there's no way that guy can make her feel as good as you can! Grab yourself by the balls and Do It! I'm rooting for ya! Keep us updated!