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I’m creating a new journal for seduction because 85% or more of my old one has been about self-improvement. And a fresh start might be conducive to an action-oriented mentality. I’ve also changed my username.
I don’t really have the patience to do a properly organized SWOT so here goes…
At this point by far my largest barrier to success is logistics. While I have done my best to free myself from limiting beliefs, I do believe intellectually that logistics issues tend to polarize things into ONS vs. LTR because they make setups in between harder to make work.
Today, my parents agreed to put me up in a hotel, subject to a limited budget (I’m not concerned, given that they recently supplemented the everyday cutlery and bought my sister an excellent tablet), as a sort of late birthday present. This is a significant opportunity.
I should define what success with women means to me. Right now, my initial goal to find a healthy relationship whether it’s fwb or something more. Right now it’s admittedly not that important to me compared to the whole moving-out thing and then proceeding towards my dreams, but the various needs that can only be satisfied by a woman are important ones and addressing them might help me be more focused on the prize.
Ideally, I’d like a one-sided LTR. All great conquerors started out with an excellent base from which to branch out from, and a solid bond of mutual devotion would be a good starting point from which to share the love. Many elsewhere might call these fantasies, but this community understands that the possibilities are generally much wider than what people’s cognitive beliefs limit them to. Heck, a lot of my non-sex-related dreams are pretty ambitious as well, yet I have a fairly solid roadmap to achieving many of them.
In practice, we’ll see.
I don’t really have the patience to do a properly organized SWOT so here goes…
At this point by far my largest barrier to success is logistics. While I have done my best to free myself from limiting beliefs, I do believe intellectually that logistics issues tend to polarize things into ONS vs. LTR because they make setups in between harder to make work.
Today, my parents agreed to put me up in a hotel, subject to a limited budget (I’m not concerned, given that they recently supplemented the everyday cutlery and bought my sister an excellent tablet), as a sort of late birthday present. This is a significant opportunity.
I should define what success with women means to me. Right now, my initial goal to find a healthy relationship whether it’s fwb or something more. Right now it’s admittedly not that important to me compared to the whole moving-out thing and then proceeding towards my dreams, but the various needs that can only be satisfied by a woman are important ones and addressing them might help me be more focused on the prize.
Ideally, I’d like a one-sided LTR. All great conquerors started out with an excellent base from which to branch out from, and a solid bond of mutual devotion would be a good starting point from which to share the love. Many elsewhere might call these fantasies, but this community understands that the possibilities are generally much wider than what people’s cognitive beliefs limit them to. Heck, a lot of my non-sex-related dreams are pretty ambitious as well, yet I have a fairly solid roadmap to achieving many of them.
In practice, we’ll see.
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