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[Alvaro638]

I am 17 and I have bever kissed a girl. Some girls have told me that they just wanted to be my friend. Last girl i liked, I danced with her and I gave her mi telephone number, but whne we were going to meet, she told me that se couldnt go. She hasnt spoken to me since that.

I dont need a girlfriend to live happily, but I would like to start having success wirh girls, and I would like to know how to speak to a girl that I have never seen before. I know that it will take time, but I am sure that it will be great once I have leanrt.

How can I start? I would like to learn about these topics, and read some of your experiences.
Thanks!

 

[Marcellus]

Alvaro,
Go Check out the Newbie Assignment if you wanna start out.

Marcellus

 

[Bboy100]

Step 1: Buy Chase's ebook and/or other men's improvement advice that you trust. My personal favorites are Models that Attract women with Honesty by Mark Manson and Mate by Tucker Max.

Step 2: Apply the advice in said books religiously. Even if it seems like bad advice, try it anyways. Seduction is very counter intuitive. You can't discard ideas by logical analysis alone. They must be empirically tested.

Step 3: After trying out the material enough many times, step back and reflect. Discard what hasn't worked for you and continue doing what has. If you have any questions, write a post or FR on these forums.

Step 4: Rinse and repeat steps 2-3.


Other things you can do:
- Start to work on your beliefs, self-worth and other internal obstacles that might be preventing you from success. By "internal obstacles" I mean mindsets, how you think of yourself, how you perceive the world around you etc. Going out and applying this stuff will do some of this for you. But oftentimes, you'll need to pay specific attention to these things and consciously work to get them handled.
- Start working on yourself as a man. Get some hobbies, develop a strong circles of friends, take care of your health (both physical and mental), educate yourself on things you care about...and so on. In other words, create a lifestyle that you're proud of. You're only 17, so a lot of this isn't completely feasible yet because you're still restricted to the HS lifestyle, but you should still do as much as you can (btw, if you're not one of "the popular kids" know that you can find friends and join social circles outside of HS).

Good Luck!