Hey guys, my name is Ron. I'm a freshman in college and live on a fairly big campus so there are PLENTY of beautiful girls. I plan on starting the newbie challenge tomorrow and i have just a question that has been on my mind for a little while: I'm naturally introverted and I've attracted girls most consistently when I am quiet and kind of keep to myself, I suppose i kind of ooze sprezzatura which is of course appealing to girls. Although i never capitalize on the attraction I generate this way i was wondering whether I should try to be more open and social since I'm just starting out or if I should stick with what's worked in the past and just try to capitalize on the attraction i get from being quiet and reserved.
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Hi, and welcome to the boards. You know the answer to this 
Least effort and sprezzatura are all very well but I would regard them as tweaks to your game, if you take the GC quiz and it lists you as a "technician" and recommends a whole boatload of articles to read, then very likely a lot of them will be about improving your attractiveness by acting like more of a boss and less of a social novice, e.g. by your body language, answering challenges, etc. Then absolutely work on sprezzatura For now, 90% of the battle is putting yourself out there. Focus on that -- talking to a specified number of people per outing, being more open and animated, MAKING SHIT HAPPEN. Nobody likes a wallflower! The time you could relax and let the women do the work is when your value is already sky-high. But you gotta do the hard grind to get to that point
Ray
Least effort and sprezzatura are all very well but I would regard them as tweaks to your game, if you take the GC quiz and it lists you as a "technician" and recommends a whole boatload of articles to read, then very likely a lot of them will be about improving your attractiveness by acting like more of a boss and less of a social novice, e.g. by your body language, answering challenges, etc. Then absolutely work on sprezzatura
For now, 90% of the battle is putting yourself out there. Focus on that -- talking to a specified number of people per outing, being more open and animated, MAKING SHIT HAPPEN. Nobody likes a wallflower! The time you could relax and let the women do the work is when your value is already sky-high. But you gotta do the hard grind to get to that point Ray
ray_zorse said:Hi, and welcome to the boards. You know the answer to this
Least effort and sprezzatura are all very well but I would regard them as tweaks to your game, if you take the GC quiz and it lists you as a "technician" and recommends a whole boatload of articles to read, then very likely a lot of them will be about improving your attractiveness by acting like more of a boss and less of a social novice, e.g. by your body language, answering challenges, etc. Then absolutely work on sprezzatura
Ray
I see what you're saying and i agree with it. For right now I'm gonna just focus on putting myself out there, getting reference points and stuff like that. Save the James Bond type stuff for when I'm more experienced and advanced.