Newb Learns Daygame in Asia

[Wanderer]

Lol that is a funny video hahah.

Yeah I could do it at home too I suppose. Most of the time I'm either working or traveling somewhere else tho but next time I'm home who knows.

Shit I just read I told you I'd approach a bunch of girls. I'm back. Well today I talked to one. Guess it's a start. I did however find a great daygaming spot, at Siam mall there's three exits to the metro station, and at the one closest to MBK mall there's a small square with benches off the side where you can sit and watch everyone walk by.

That's what I did. First I fell asleep almost immediately when I sat down. But when I woke up I saw a bunch of girls walking by and after a while when I saw a cute girl strolling by I gathered up some courage ant talked to her. I told her I thought she looked cute and she smiled very happily with the most adorable twinkle in her eyes. I walked her over to a bench and we sat down, I asked her some questions, tried to be interesting but probably wasn't. Doesn't matter much I've decided - tell me if I'm wrong but I think this is right - to first just focus fully on beating my approach anxiety and only then worrying about the rest. I do have quite some fear of opening girls. In the conversation however I felt at ease, but my lips were trembling so apparently I was not. After a normal conversation for a while I told her I was hungry and asked if she wanted to come along. She said no buy stayed. A minute or two later I told her it was nice to meet her because, she was very friendly, bit I got the idea she was probably either just being polite or just platonically interested. But who knows maybe not. I did asl for her number which she refused so probably not. It did leave me feeling really good.

Tomorrow a guy I met last time is flying in to Bangkok and we'll go party at Khaosan road.

Tomorrow I WILL approach at least 2 girls. Day after 3. Etc. I'm gonna build it up until it's 10 girls a day. Just focussing on beating my fear at the moment. Woke up today with fear in my stomach and did not want to get out of bed at all. Guess I'll have to get used to it. However, the buzz after just one conversation today was great, in nine days I'll be having ten a day and probably feeling awesome, once I get out of bed.

Cheers

 

[Wanderer]

Yesterday was awesome, met up with a guy from last time and we had a blast. Climbed the 'ghost tower', ate scorpions and tarantulas, did laughing gas, was awesome.

Anyway this journal is about girls haha. Talked to two girls yesterday. The first one got creeped out by me, and there are some things I should keep in mind. First of all as I was walking up to her, she was walking away, she looked to the side and I think saw me walking riiight behind her. Unlucky timing, I was only right behind her because I'd almost caught up to her. Then when I got her attention by touching her arm I didn't wait, usually do, but instead immediately looked her in the eye and said hello. She freaked out, I felt her body shock and she just looked at me with big eyes and got as far away from me as was possible and just stared at me with terrified eyes. First time that has happened. Also the first time I made eye contact immediately after touching her arm and started talking straight away, coincidence? I don't know but for now I'll stick to waiting a little in between.

Funny thing is I feel like that made me less afraid, because now I know it really doesn't matter. It made me laugh actually even tho I did want to get out of that place quite quickly.

Next girl went pretty well, she didn't seem too interested, but I got her to come sit with me on some steps. Then after some chitchat I asked her if she wanted to get lunch this week, she said sure and I got her number so we'll see.

 

[Wanderer]

Last two days were filled with khaosan road partying, problem with that is that I don't remember too much haha. However, I did lose my virginity last night - do remember that.

The first night is a huge blur, shouldn't wait with writing reports. I remember walking down rhe street with a friend and just chatting up a ton of girls, dancing with girls, messing with guys, girls, vendors a bit for fun (in conversations). One group of Thai girls we talked to almost pushed me onto one girl, the cutest, and said she just broke up with her boyfriend and needed distraction. She wasn't too interested tho.

Yesterday was largely the same, did some laughing gas, chatted up a bunch of girls. It went pretty well for a little with two German girls I think. I got a free bucket of booze from some girls, that was cool.

Then I went to a club with my friend, and we started dancing. But I'll write that story in a lay report.

 

[Wanderer]

The last couple days have been pretty awesome. Went to the hometown of that girl and she showed me a bunch of cool places and amazing food. We went to a cave with lots of monkeys in the forest around it, chilled a lot at the beach, I got blessed by a monk at a temple. And of course lots of good times at night. At first she was pretty shy, but the sex got better every time.
Leaving was pretty hard, she cried a bunch and told me she'd miss me. I told her I'd miss her too but that we'd stay in touch. She also asked if I accepted her as my girlfriend, to which I said no. That was sad but I wasn't going to lie or lead her on because I figured that would only make things worse. I think she understood tho, we had had similar conversations before.

I went out daygaming with my wing near a shopping mall, that was fun. The first girl wasn't that interested. The second girl was cute and the vibe was going quite well, even tho she didn't speak much English. A fashion designer or something like that from Indonesia. I wanted to go back to my wing so I said I had to take the metro when we were next to the station, but she was leaving early the next day. Could've asked for her number and maybe met her in Indonesia but oh well. There were some blank spots in the conversation. I think that's my biggest problem at the moment, having boring/no conversation. That wing I met is very good at that, but he's back home now. I did start talking about her making lingerie shoots for her fashion stuff and we were laughing about that.

After those two per person we approached one set of two but they just kept walking. We then just did some funny approaches where we for example didn't say any actual words, just sounds, but were very expressive with our arms and faces for laughs. Also good for being less afraid of approaching, I feel like I'm a lot less nervous now, but maybe that was just because I was with someone else. We'll see. It's really cool I met a guy who was also actually working on getting better with girls. We're also very similar in a lot of other ways. This summer we're thinking of going on a two week all out seduction session back home in Europe.