So after a psycho ex made me rethink my life when it comes to women-going from waiting for the one and coming from a Christian family background and etc- I found girls chase and began soaking up as much as possible and learning from my mistakes. I've gotten good at the middle part (deep diving and touch and moving and etc)and noticing if a girl is fawning over me but I still suck at approach. Unless I'm introduced to a girl I either use the she's not my type excuse in my head or just don't know how to approach successfully if I'm not sure how to actually approach. The thing I have no experience in right now is the pull due to me being a virgin (by choice cause I want to have sex with someone I'm attracted to cause I coulda easily done it by now) and until September the only logistics I've ever had are my vehicle or if lucky her place. So two questions:
1) instead of focusing on a girl or two should I instead just be trying to notice if a girl is interested me and approach then?
2) met this girl one night at a club and she was totally into me and we had fun but logistics didn't work out or I woulda happily pulled (went to diff colleges and Knox is 1hr drive where we met). Finally able to go on a date again few weeks ago but just an info date and again no logistics cause I just meet up with her as passing thru her city on way to my aunts in Knox. Got another date with her this Sunday since she had to reschedule one on Wednesday. She seems into me and apologized for missin the date and wanted to meet up Sunday. Only problem is if it goes like last time it will be a evening date cause I gotta head out by night and same for her. Also she constantly tells me how awesome she is (guessing it's her trying to get compliance). So I'm thinking I go on this date and have fun and try to escalate things and try and make sure next time we meet up I have better logistics. Oh and she was kinda boring when not drinking but that's usual and she was nervous seemed like last date and asked a lot of questions. Also she pretty much planned the date (shows me around town) tho she did everything I suggested.
Any help appreciated thanks y'all.
1) instead of focusing on a girl or two should I instead just be trying to notice if a girl is interested me and approach then?
2) met this girl one night at a club and she was totally into me and we had fun but logistics didn't work out or I woulda happily pulled (went to diff colleges and Knox is 1hr drive where we met). Finally able to go on a date again few weeks ago but just an info date and again no logistics cause I just meet up with her as passing thru her city on way to my aunts in Knox. Got another date with her this Sunday since she had to reschedule one on Wednesday. She seems into me and apologized for missin the date and wanted to meet up Sunday. Only problem is if it goes like last time it will be a evening date cause I gotta head out by night and same for her. Also she constantly tells me how awesome she is (guessing it's her trying to get compliance). So I'm thinking I go on this date and have fun and try to escalate things and try and make sure next time we meet up I have better logistics. Oh and she was kinda boring when not drinking but that's usual and she was nervous seemed like last date and asked a lot of questions. Also she pretty much planned the date (shows me around town) tho she did everything I suggested.
Any help appreciated thanks y'all.
