Not alot of girls during day game

[Skjöldr]

One thing that hit me is that the vast majority of PUAs all live in big cities of atleast half a million inhabitants. Thing is, i live in a city with the entire municipality having a population of 150k-200k people. And it seems there aren't really that lot of girls out aged 17-24 (I'm 19) during daygame and it is frustrating me. How am i supposed to do multiple approaches an hour, unless i approach every single girl i land my eyes on?
Also, looking for a few tips to opening to girls inside shops, customers that is.

Cheers

Edit: also how to do it without walking up and down the same places over and over again showing yourself out to pick up girls.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Yeah its a tricky one. I learned daygame in a small city of 70,000 ppl. It was a lot of work but was worthwhile in that I was able to find success.

The key is you just have to approach just about every girl you get the opportunity to. When I was in the learning stage I'd drive to the mall where I could do maybe 5 approaches. Then I'd drive to Target buy a few small tolietries, do 2 approaches here. Then I'd drive to the health food store, get a snack, do 1-2 approaches here. Then Maybe hit Walmart on the way home and approach 1 girl while shopping for food.

This would take about 4 hours altogether to approach 7-10 girls per outing. I'd do this twice a week for over a year straight.

These days I just go about my day and approach girls I see or that give me IOI's.

So its totally possible to learn this way (not as good a big city obviously). But if you're hungry and motivated you'll push yourself to do it.

Edit: also how to do it without walking up and down the same places over and over again showing yourself out to pick up girls.

You just act like a customer. Even if you just buy like 1-2 small things have a reason for going into the business. Then you peel off and approach a girl here and there. In all my time of frequenting the same venues every week I never once was singled out for picking up girls. I just made sure I wasn't creeping any girls out, looking like a customer that belonged there, and was discreet in my approaches (made them look as normal as possible).

If your old enough to supplement with night game too I'd recommend that in addition to learning daygame like you are.

 

[Skjöldr]

Yeah its a tricky one. I learned daygame in a small city of 70,000 ppl. It was a lot of work but was worthwhile in that I was able to find success.

The key is you just have to approach just about every girl you get the opportunity to. When I was in the learning stage I'd drive to the mall where I could do maybe 5 approaches. Then I'd drive to Target buy a few small tolietries, do 2 approaches here. Then I'd drive to the health food store, get a snack, do 1-2 approaches here. Then Maybe hit Walmart on the way home and approach 1 girl while shopping for food.

This would take about 4 hours altogether to approach 7-10 girls per outing. I'd do this twice a week for over a year straight.

These days I just go about my day and approach girls I see or that give me IOI's.

So its totally possible to learn this way (not as good a big city obviously). But if you're hungry and motivated you'll push yourself to do it.



You just act like a customer. Even if you just buy like 1-2 small things have a reason for going into the business. Then you peel off and approach a girl here and there. In all my time of frequenting the same venues every week I never once was singled out for picking up girls. I just made sure I wasn't creeping any girls out, looking like a customer that belonged there, and was discreet in my approaches (made them look as normal as possible).

If your old enough to supplement with night game too I'd recommend that in addition to learning daygame like you are.

That is very encouraging, thank you very much.

How was your success? Did you get numbers, dates and lays from it in the beginning? If yeah, what ratio?

 

[Mr.Rob]

How was your success? Did you get numbers, dates and lays from it in the beginning? If yeah, what ratio?

Well idk how much work you have cut out for you or how fast of a learner you are. For me I had a lot of work cut out for me and needed a lot of repetition to learn and make progress.

To put it in perspective it took me 11 months of consistently going out before I got laid. It took me 18 months before I figured out how to turn a phone number into a date. I focused mostly on instant dates and pulling girls the same day. Or going on an instant date and having her come over for sex later another day.

After about a year and 9 months I switched over to night game (was burned out from driving all over the place to approach girls constantly). I guess total I laid 6-7 girls from daygame in that 21 month time frame? And then I focused almost exclusively on nightgame for the next year and a half. I got exponentially better once I got into nightgame (likely because I had more opportunity to improve).

Yeah sounds pretty bad looking back on it. But I was pretty happy with my progress at the time. I had pretty far to go when I first started with a lot of self-esteem and confidence issues and just sucking dick at talking to girls.

I'd do it all over again if I had too. Though if I could get a do over I would've saved up money and traveled to get infield coaching. Would've saved a lot of time beating my head against the wall.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

I day gamed plenty of girls at my university, which had 7k students, and the town itself had only 10k+ people. And I also fucked two townies (don't judge me), so yeah, it's possible.

Of course, I would ALWAYS recommend you move. If you want the true beauties of the world, you will need to go where they go. Sure, there might be some gem in your town, but usually it'll be tough to get her cuz there's so much competition and she's gonna be pretty picky cuz she knows she's #1 in town. Putting all your eggs in getting that 10 isn't a good move. Any big US or European city will have a 10 on every other block.

Seriously, it's something you should do.

Of course my university is a special demographic where 60% of the 7k student body is 18-21 year old girls, so that's ~4k available girls.

You live in a city of 200k...so let's say half are women.

100k.

Let's say 80% of this is grandmas, ugly bitches, not of age girls, fat bitches, etc. Women you won't want to fuck.

20% of 100k is 20k. That's 20k girls who are fuckable.

10k who are cute

5k who are pretty.

2.5k who are BEAUTIFUL

1k who are GORGEOUS

Half of them are taken.

That's 500 gorgeous girls out there, and more cute/pretty ones, who are single and down to suck your dick if you got the game for it.

And with a city of 200k, you won't have reputation issues for at least a few years unless you really focus on certain areas and fuck it up bad.

Man, you got more girls available than most PUA's could approach/text/meet/date in a lifetime.

Now if you had 1,000 people in your town, I'd understand where you're coming with, but you're fine ;D

As for opening girls in shops...it's best to either

1. See them walk in and you were gonna approach anyways, so you go inside and open

2. She's really someone you're feeling or she gives you an IOI. Cuz after one approach, MAYBE TWO, you're pretty much out of options and gotta leave.

As for how to open, be a bit more quiet and try not to draw attention, but don't be a pussy either. But be very slow and calm.

A nice "Excuse me," before saying the rest will help ease the tension.

Hector

 

[Mr.Rob]

Of course, I would ALWAYS recommend you move.

Yeah forgot to mention that. This is obviously the best fix and if you can't move in the short term I'd be making moves to get out ASAP and go to where the hotties are ;0

But in the meantime the advice we laid out is your best bet and will give you a good foundation so you are a step ahead once you do move to a better locale.

 

[Tony D]

I'm in a small town at the moment and daygame here sucks. I see cute girls in cars all the time, but not on the street, in the cafe's, or at the mall. Your best bet is to play with online dating or go to bars I'd say. other than moving to a big city, or at least visiting one, you're kinda out of luck.

 

[Zanardi]

My town has 200k inhabitants and it's a horrible place for daygame. In two hours session I can pile up 4-5 approaches max, on the street, when the weather is helpful. I even got a girlfriend from street game, a relationship that lasted for 8 months. I went gaming into malls, but it's mostly the scenario I encounter on the streets, only the crowd is more packed.

Although I live 60 km north of Bucharest, and the capital has much more opportunities, going there isn't a long-term solution, because it requires about 6 hours: about 1 hour from home to the train station, 2 hours by train (back and forth), 2 hours of street game and about 1 hour of dead time.

I guess your solutions are to work with what you have or try some social circle game. However, watch out that, if you choose the first option, at one moment you may decide that the results aren't worth the effort and you may think of quitting. This may happen after a year or so of daygame and I am going through that period now. However, while this is more comfortable, it isn't helping me either, so I have to choose between two almost equally bad decisions.

I don't know how vivid your town is (mine is dead after 8 PM), so you may try gaming at different things that may happen there.

 

[Skjöldr]

Thank you everyone!

 

[Zanardi]

You live in a city of 200k...so let's say half are women.

100k.

Let's say 80% of this is grandmas, ugly bitches, not of age girls, fat bitches, etc. Women you won't want to fuck.

20% of 100k is 20k. That's 20k girls who are fuckable.

10k who are cute

5k who are pretty.

2.5k who are BEAUTIFUL

1k who are GORGEOUS

Half of them are taken.

That's 500 gorgeous girls out there, and more cute/pretty ones, who are single and down to suck your dick if you got the game for it.

This fragment shattered every doubt I had if it's best to daygame in my city, which has exactly 200k inhabitants. Thanks!

 

[Cody Lyans]

Bro, you need to do day trips then, and get outta your town for a bit. It's not expensive, you get like a bus or hire car and drive yourself out somewhere and stay in a hostel with girls and stuff. You can have lots of fun that way.
Also look into moving somewhere nicer. Why make it harder for your self or allow yourself excuses.

 

[Skjöldr]

Bro, you need to do day trips then, and get outta your town for a bit. It's not expensive, you get like a bus or hire car and drive yourself out somewhere and stay in a hostel with girls and stuff. You can have lots of fun that way.
Also look into moving somewhere nicer. Why make it harder for your self or allow yourself excuses.

My town isnt so bad when i think about it. I won't just move for daygame, but i get what you mean. There are no excuses. Maybe take a weekend in the capital. Thank you.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Although I live 60 km north of Bucharest, and the capital has much more opportunities, going there isn't a long-term solution, because it requires about 6 hours: about 1 hour from home to the train station, 2 hours by train (back and forth), 2 hours of street game and about 1 hour of dead time.

I guess your solutions are to work with what you have or try some social circle game. However, watch out that, if you choose the first option, at one moment you may decide that the results aren't worth the effort and you may think of quitting. This may happen after a year or so of daygame and I am going through that period now. However, while this is more comfortable, it isn't helping me either, so I have to choose between two almost equally bad decisions.

I don't know how vivid your town is (mine is dead after 8 PM), so you may try gaming at different things that may happen there.

Oh, are you in Ploesti? I fuck a girl from there. I'm gonna ask her how "big' it is (like if she sees lots of cute girls, etc).

I did day game in Cluj this summer and had a GREAT time (even picked up a gorgeous girl for a threesome with my lover). So anything Cluj size is 100% amazing; Ploesti might be a lil harder, but you should be fine. (400,000 vs 200,000. Not too big a deal).

I'm not saying you will have 100 girls to approach a day. You need bucharest for that. But you have enough to make something happen. Though if you're on the beginner side, then it might be a LITTLE harder, since you need time to get good, so you gotta drop some eggs.

Overall, though, you're fine

 

[Zanardi]

Wohooo! Somebody I can talk to about daygame in Bucharest and Ploiesti!

Can I PM you and continue the discussion there?

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Wohooo! Somebody I can talk to about daygame in Bucharest and Ploiesti!

Can I PM you and continue the discussion there?

Sigur