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Incredible

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Hello, short intro.. there works a girl in a nearly market, that I saw several times before and said hello to her, but not with the intention to meet her. For example last time I was going to pay, she refused to look at me, so I slowly walked to her letting her feel her own silence and then said - hey how are you, chief (or something like that). She laughed and then I left. Today I was there again, I saw her at a cash register so I grabbed some beer and went directly to the cash register - she clearly avoided the contact by going away from cash register and another worker came insted of her (maybe her mother :)). And she looks like she is not very comfortable with when I say hello to her like to a friend.

I cannot decide what should I do next. I'm not sure if she's just testing me or doesn't want me to meet her. What would you do?
 
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andersen09

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Incredible said:
Hello, short intro.. there works a girl in a nearly market, that I saw several times before and said hello to her, but not with the intention to meet her. For example last time I was going to pay, she refused to look at me, so I slowly walked to her letting her feel her own silence and then said - hey how are you, chief (or something like that). She laughed and then I left. Today I was there again, I saw her at a cash register so I grabbed some beer and went directly to the cash register - she clearly avoided the contact by going away from cash register and another worker came insted of her (maybe her mother :)). And she looks like she is not very comfortable with when I say hello to her like to a friend.

I cannot decide what should I do next. I'm not sure if she's just testing me or doesn't want me to meet her. What would you do?


It sounds like something made her feel uncomfortable before you said hi. What I would suggest is ignore her a little bit and let her see you having fun with another cashier or a friend. And after a few days, go back to her as if nothing happened and continue like normal.
 

ViPizzle

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What exactly is your goal with this girl? You mention you didn't have the intention of meeting her..so do you like this girl and want to connect with her? Or are you just puzzled as to why she is acting "stand-offish" towards you? A little more clarity on where you want to lead your "relationship" with her would be helpful in providing you better feedback. And what are your ages by the way?
 
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