Notes on Everything is all about that "self-factor". Abit disturbing.

[trashKENNUT]

HI Guys,

A recent while, I told Chase about why most guys who hate pickup or dating in general only because their families, friends didn't support them. Apparently, i have a few things to note, especially on the "self-factor". Not related but it's profound to me.

First case: Your past beliefs is too strong. Your family and friends didn't support you. Your first experience of sleeping with a girl was bad. You blame Chase. YOu blame Zac. You blame Anatman. You blame Franco. You blame Marty. You blame NJ. YOu blame everybody.

and then you tell "God" that you have sinned when it is actually about you not having the support you needed and the first experience on trying pickup was unfortunately terrible.

Second case: Slut shaming, Class warfare. Check all this out.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the ... ut-shaming
http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2 ... study.html
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/20 ... rashy.html
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/06/0 ... 18711.html

Same research but combine this with your own experience, This is all about sex and power, and women need resources.

Third Case: Ira Lapidus noted this.

"The question of why people convert to Islam has always generated intense feeling. Earlier generations of European scholars believed that conversions to Islam were made at the point of the sword, and that conquered peoples were given the choice of conversion or death. It is now apparent that conversion by force, while not unknown in Muslim countries, was, in fact, rare. Muslim conquerors ordinarily wished to dominate rather than convert, and most conversions to Islam were voluntary. (...) In most cases worldly and spiritual motives for conversion blended together. Moreover, conversion to Islam did not necessarily imply a complete turning from an old to a totally new life. While it entailed the acceptance of new religious beliefs and membership in a new religious community, most converts retained a deep attachment to the cultures and communities from which they came."[12]

The result of this, he points out, can be seen in the diversity of Muslim societies today, with varying manifestations and practices of Islam.

So what do i come to conclude?

1) Humans have the "self-factor". Layman's terms, we are fucking selfish.
2) IF you can't win them, Join them. (Chase also noted this philosophy).
3) Herd Mentality.
4) IT's not all about religion but the self, as well
5) People should not worry about which religion conquers the world. The one with the most value, wins. (and we can be hypocrites. like what is noted above on being a part of religious membership while still keeping our cultures.)

Zac