Member Poll November 2024: Who Should Be "Skilled Seducer of the Month"?

[Chase]

All right gents: who's it going to be for November 2024?

Who is our next Skilled Seducer of the Month?

Last month I interviewed @Kaida, who's been tearing it up at his university.

Who do we want to be our next seducer to wear the crown?

Potential SSOTM criteria:

• This member has posted a particularly impressive LR or multiple good LRs
• This member has shared some great value-giving tactics, mindsets, or strategy posts
• This member has been active in the community and contributed tons of value
• Anything else where the member is adding lots of value, helping, inspiring, innovating, etc.

Remember that we want to focus in particular on a seducer's performance over the past month (lifetime achievement awards are cool too... but those would be a separate interview, not SSOTM).

Chase

 

[Kvothe]

Nominating @alleniverson

I know he hasn't been on the forum long, but I know him IRL, and he's absolutely been killing it as far as I can remember, and I think hearing from him would be amazing for lots of members

 

[James D]

@alleniverson has my vote too.

Was scouting the lay reports for some inspo and his were really helpful!

 

[Atlas IV]

+1 for @alleniverson

 

[KJ Francis]

Agreed, would definitely like to hear from @alleniverson

It would also be really interesting to see an interview from @thats_a_penis_disgustang once he gets some lay reports. There has to be something interesting you can dig into after 2000 approaches in a month in Moscow subways, and he has adjusted his strategy after feedback here.

Same with @Ybatman just very curious to hear Chase dig into the old school stories and strategies, then what life is like post cryogenic dethaw. So please post up some lay reports as well.

 

[Bismarck]

allen has my vote.

 

[Chase]

A.I. it is!

Dude has been on a tear.

Also, it would be really cool to interview my old basketball idol

 

[Stark]

How about @James D

Allen has been on a roll with back-to-back lays, not denying he does deserve the vote. He has been killing it.

I go with James this time, his insights are well-documented over a period of time. His progression has been quite impressive and seems to be peaking now. As someone mentioned on the forum, he's one of the best in daygame at the moment.

 

[Teevster]

@James D is (has become) solid. It deserves some recognition.

@Fluxcapacitor ?? that last LR was juicy. But he has also been consistent over the years. However, some more activity (in october) may be required to make the spot.

Who is this @alleniverson guy? Now I am super curious to check this dude out. Awesome stuff to see so many good people pop up during my latest inactvity.

The interview with @Kaida was killer - I totally could resonate with his story (I started out in 2007, at 14). Super cool to see young guns taking up the mantle.

Best,
Teevster

 

[Chase]

FYI, recorded the interview with @alleniversion a week or two back but just got it to the transcriber earlier this week. Interview won't be out until December. Not sure if we should consider that "November's SSOTM, released in December" or just make him the December SSOTM.

I'm thinking we should make @James D the next SSOTM? Lots of votes for him here and he's certainly posted a bunch of awesome reports. No LRs in November but I think we can let him carry them over from October / prior months

Who is this @alleniverson guy? Now I am super curious to check this dude out. Awesome stuff to see so many good people pop up during my latest inactvity.

He's killing it. He was at 47 lays on the year when we talked a few weeks ago IIRC. Probably more now; he's on very high momentum.

It was a great chat but it's going to take a minute to proofread the transcript; was like a 90-minute conversation!

-C

 

[James D]

I'm thinking we should make @James D the next SSOTM? Lots of votes for him here and he's certainly posted a bunch of awesome reports. No LRs in November but I think we can let him carry them over from October / prior months

Appreciate it!

I'm sure there's a more deserving member though.

I have been on my lowest momentum during these last weeks.

Feels kinda wrong to take the title in those circumstances.

Perhaps sometime next year when/if the momentum kicks back in

 

[Kvothe]

personally i vote for James D for the next one-regardless of momentum. He deserves it.

 

[theReason]

I'm sure there's a more deserving member though.

I have been on my lowest momentum during these last weeks.

Whole board on low momentum…

But if this is a formal rejection, I nominate professor @Gorili

For this and (retroactively) this.

 

[Bismarck]

Flux and James D.

 

[KJ Francis]

Yeah the whole thing runs on a slightly offset lag anyways. James still deserves the recognition; if anything it's overdue. Plus the idea is we get to glean more insights from Chase digging into their head. Like Allen had 47 lays in the year so far? It's the rest of us who really benefit from these interviews tbh.

Whole board on low momentum

Keep up your journal man! I'm rooting for your "virgin to tribal elder" success story you mentioned. Why don't you get a wing?

Also @Sidhrnsksijf deserves a shout out for losing his virginity from a cold approach and going through a classic day game process. And his opener was "Hi". Can you imagine smoothly leading that scenario with confidence when you've never even put your dick inside a girl before? It's a success story that came out of the newbie assignment we can point beginners to as proof of concept.

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[Skills]

Flux and James D.

both are good, james d more active so james d...

Low momentum in winter is expected...

 

[James D]

Appreciate the love y'all!

 

[Chase]

FYI:

Forgot to post the link last month, but @alleniverson's interview (transcript to keep his voice anonymous) went up here:

Skilled Seducer of the Month, December 2024: Allen Iverson

Traveler, romantic, and prolific seducer Allen Iverson (not the basketball player) discusses his adventures and seductions. Here’s how he gets laid. Contents 1. Reading Signals, Natural Game 2. Adventure & Momentum 3. Allen Iverson’s Game 4. Attraction Reality vs. Propaganda 5. Allen Over the...

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Interview with @James D is live now here (audio podcast interview):

Skilled Seducer of the Month, January 2025: James D

Our Skilled Seducer of January 2025 is forum member James D, who’s posted a string of impressive day game lays (including several same-day public sex day game lays). In this interview, Chase Amante chats with James about his experience, his vibe, various sticking points he’s encountered over the...

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Both great conversations!

Chase

 

[Teevster]

I love these threads, as they help me stay up to date with up and coming guy, so I can check them out. Unlike what many other think, I do not want to sit on the throne of "best PUA" for ever. I have contributed with my parts throughout the years and I am deeply proud of that. But these days, I am more inteigued and take more joy in looking at the new stars.

My hope is that one day I feel like taking a coaching session with one of these guys - and I will gladly pay for it (I will of course expect them to give everything - like all high end coaches are expected to do). Nothing would excite me more.

 

[KJ Francis]

Damn @James D I didn't realize how young you are. Happy belated birthday, by the way. You previously mentioned the language barrier to me, and I don't know if this is purposeful (since it's recommended as a vocal tweak) or a result of the second language thing, but I think your slow speaking pace is something to be emulated.

That's pretty cool you coached with Alek. Maybe things will come full circle one day as he mentioned.

Two questions if I may ask...

1. Could you expand on how the one-sided monogamy discussion initiated and played out with Monica? I've done this before, but it was the girl who brought it up in our first month. She was one of the most sexually open minded girls I've met though, so it's not really an average, replicable case.

2. Would you ever return to night game? Is the only barrier that you're worried about being unable to stay sober? It's funny we only knew about your day game era, because I once wondered to myself what would happen if you winged with a guy like Hue, and your day game skills were put to the test in his club environments, and his night game skills were put to the test in your environment's daytime malls, etc.

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Oh and since you mentioned relationship skill-building now, you might find value in Sixty's Relationship Roulette book.

Review: 60 Years of Challenge's GREAT eBook Series

Just finished reading a series of eBooks my pal 60 Years of Challenge sent me about three months ago. Apologies are in order to 60 for my feet-stuck-in-tar pace there, but things have been on the crazy side in my life the past, oh… year or so.

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Additionally, his Relationship Roulette book is in a league of its own. I was fortunate to have been trained by one of the very few cats who put a large degree of import and experimentation and education on relationships; but I’d have to say that 97.5% of the guys in the seduction community don’t have half a clue on how to run a relationship, and probably think of “long term” as being 6 to 8 months. 60 shows a relationship awareness that I’ve seen in very few gents in this industry – if you have any interest at all in building and maintaining the right kinds of long term relationships with women, his Relationship Roulette book is one that should be placed prominently in your library.

I don't think it's for sale, but it's the last section of his Complete Game Revision System - very easy to find online.