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@Starboy I was the one who deleted my earlier reply, I don't like to impose my views even when I think someone isn't taking the best approach.analysis on point like usual
I wasn’t sure if she’s legitimately unavailable or actually wants me to persist that was the purpose of me posting. Some of the other responses are misleading or off the mark(curiously one is deleted I can’t even edit my own responses anymore with this update) implying i’m chasing her, giving her too much attention, if she really was interested she’d make time for a high value guy. Meanwhile this is the first and only time I actually made the intitiative to set something up (which as the man you’re supposed to do anyways it’s not chasing unless it’s excessive and obvious she’s not interested). Also i’m reciprocating whatever attention/interest she showed me in person and in earlier texts I didn’t post.
The whole too cool for school shit is not necessary for a girl who’s sold on you and just backfires. I didn’t try to do something with her sooner because I knew she was going to leave and be a nurse within a matter of months wasn’t necessary for me to.
I’ll lay low and do what you and @Rakehell suggested if she decides she wants to push to meetup sooner i’ll let her make that decision.
Guys can get the girl from all sorts of different angles, as long as they are fine with what they have to do, and are happy with the resulting relationship dynamic.
Sounds like you have a plan here, best of luck!