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The following story is the reason I ended up on this site. Props to everyone who hold the site up, Especially Hector Castillo whose articles helped me to widen my knowledge and learn more about myself.
I saw a lady I made out with 3 years ago in a club and she couldn't kept eyes off me. First time it happened when i walked into a club and an old acquaintance started hugging me. We were both quite drunk so I didn't pay much attention to what he was talking about and looked around instead. Then I saw her (i recognized her instantly my first crush after all) sitting on a couch 3-4 meters away looking at me, i stopped my eyes at her until she looked down (eye contact was about 3-4 secs), she had 0 emotion on her face, I gave her a little smirk and kept moving on. Second time it was on a dance floor. My dance skills are definitely above average for a non-dancer, so i was cruising all around the dance floor giving 0 damns about surroundings, eventually had 2 kissing sessions with 2 girls in 2 hours (nothing special i know, when I get drunk I'm all about the dance). At one point i locked eyes with her again. He was dancing with another dude. I had huge smile (friendly one) on my face before eye contact and i kept it that way during it. Again it lasted for 3-4 seconds and she looked down with an emotionless face. Third time happened when me and my friends were about to leave for next place. We were chatting outside when i looked left. I saw her looking at me while walking towards me, we had eye contact for 2 secs, she looked down again as before. I had this huge smile on my face from talking to my friends when our eyes locked and kept it once again.
TL;DR - Saw a girl I made out with 3 years ago. Had multiple eye contacts with her (3-4 secs). She showed 0 emotions, but looked down every time. Man is confused.
Now travelling back in time 3 years (16 year old me)
I had no experience back then, hadn't banged anyone and kissed 1 girl, parents had quite conservative views about sex, marriage and all that so it was quite hard for me to start out. We were sitting near a table with a friend, a chick he had took and me. I was just casually teasing them when a girl walked into room and sat next to me (there were only 4 of us there). So we started teasing them together and 3 mins later we were talking where should we go to honeymoons. After that she jumped on my lap (was a ladykiller unconsiously) and we started making out. Back then it seemed like it came outta nowhere. Now... it's pretty self explanatory. After making out with her (i was quite shit for obvious reasons, but managed to give that sexy lip bite at the end), I stood up and walked few meters away and tried to keep the conversation going but was quite confused about what happened. So i just stood and thought whoa..how...why...And few minutes later she was making out with another dude. I felt super awkward back then and walked away. Great way to start my way though (no sarcasm). After that I had huge crush on her. Asked her out about a month later like romantic dudes do in 80's movies in Facebook and obviously got rejected by "i don't go out with strangers". After that I removed her from facebook.
TL;DR: Guy with no experience gets a kissing session out of nowhere with a girl he had been flirting with subconsciously after 3 minutes. Guy gets confused, leaves and the girl makes out with another dude right after.
What confuses me was her face - 0 emotions, she just stared me and looked down. I can't decide if she's just wondering who is this familiar face or she wants to bang me (knowing which one makes opening easier).
TL;DR the whole story: Guy sees a girl she fucked up badly with 3 years ago, but the guy doesn't understand girls' signals. Long eye contats with a look-down, but no emotion.
I'm probably going to see her again as I moved back to the city (200 000 habitants). As she's smoking hot in my eyes I'll be giving a shot on her anyways when i see her, but yeah, the question is did she recognize me. If she did what are her possible thoughts?
I saw a lady I made out with 3 years ago in a club and she couldn't kept eyes off me. First time it happened when i walked into a club and an old acquaintance started hugging me. We were both quite drunk so I didn't pay much attention to what he was talking about and looked around instead. Then I saw her (i recognized her instantly my first crush after all) sitting on a couch 3-4 meters away looking at me, i stopped my eyes at her until she looked down (eye contact was about 3-4 secs), she had 0 emotion on her face, I gave her a little smirk and kept moving on. Second time it was on a dance floor. My dance skills are definitely above average for a non-dancer, so i was cruising all around the dance floor giving 0 damns about surroundings, eventually had 2 kissing sessions with 2 girls in 2 hours (nothing special i know, when I get drunk I'm all about the dance). At one point i locked eyes with her again. He was dancing with another dude. I had huge smile (friendly one) on my face before eye contact and i kept it that way during it. Again it lasted for 3-4 seconds and she looked down with an emotionless face. Third time happened when me and my friends were about to leave for next place. We were chatting outside when i looked left. I saw her looking at me while walking towards me, we had eye contact for 2 secs, she looked down again as before. I had this huge smile on my face from talking to my friends when our eyes locked and kept it once again.
TL;DR - Saw a girl I made out with 3 years ago. Had multiple eye contacts with her (3-4 secs). She showed 0 emotions, but looked down every time. Man is confused.
Now travelling back in time 3 years (16 year old me)
I had no experience back then, hadn't banged anyone and kissed 1 girl, parents had quite conservative views about sex, marriage and all that so it was quite hard for me to start out. We were sitting near a table with a friend, a chick he had took and me. I was just casually teasing them when a girl walked into room and sat next to me (there were only 4 of us there). So we started teasing them together and 3 mins later we were talking where should we go to honeymoons. After that she jumped on my lap (was a ladykiller unconsiously) and we started making out. Back then it seemed like it came outta nowhere. Now... it's pretty self explanatory. After making out with her (i was quite shit for obvious reasons, but managed to give that sexy lip bite at the end), I stood up and walked few meters away and tried to keep the conversation going but was quite confused about what happened. So i just stood and thought whoa..how...why...And few minutes later she was making out with another dude. I felt super awkward back then and walked away. Great way to start my way though (no sarcasm). After that I had huge crush on her. Asked her out about a month later like romantic dudes do in 80's movies in Facebook and obviously got rejected by "i don't go out with strangers". After that I removed her from facebook.
TL;DR: Guy with no experience gets a kissing session out of nowhere with a girl he had been flirting with subconsciously after 3 minutes. Guy gets confused, leaves and the girl makes out with another dude right after.
What confuses me was her face - 0 emotions, she just stared me and looked down. I can't decide if she's just wondering who is this familiar face or she wants to bang me (knowing which one makes opening easier).
TL;DR the whole story: Guy sees a girl she fucked up badly with 3 years ago, but the guy doesn't understand girls' signals. Long eye contats with a look-down, but no emotion.
I'm probably going to see her again as I moved back to the city (200 000 habitants). As she's smoking hot in my eyes I'll be giving a shot on her anyways when i see her, but yeah, the question is did she recognize me. If she did what are her possible thoughts?
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