Philip S.' Newbie Assignment

[Philip S.]

Hi guys!

I am Philip, 18 years old and living in Iloilo, Philippines. To be honest I already real lots of GC articles, but then again things are different in real life.

I often approach a lot of people to try to warm myself up, but I still get nervous. Too nervous in fact that after I failed on an approach I was still shaking minutes later. I already have an on and off relationship with a really gorgeous lady who keeps chasing me but I don't think I should just be contented with her

I have no idea how to consistently introduce approaching women to my life. I am pretty good (in my opinion) if the conversation is going good, it's just that I really have a bad case of approach anxiety. But when I found out about Chase's Newbie Assignment and the story of Nino, I thought that this would be a great way for me to start be more confident to women. I also like that it's a journal that everybody can see which means it will force me to update you guys inorder to not disappoint the GC fam.

I plan on starting tomorrow, where my first assignment is to find 4 places where there is a lot of turnover of women. I will be trying to finish all of the assignments as soon as possible so that the momentum will be on me.

Getting excited to be in this journey! Good luck to me fam

 

[Philip S.]

Day1

First off, I figured out that I also have to take time into account since the only times that I will be free is at 3 pm onwards, so I didn't bother looking for good places to pick up girls at lunch time.

But I managed to find 7 different places where there is good turnover while still being convenient for me. These are: 2 plazas, 3 malls, and 1 shopping mall.

The first plaza is just one ride away from my school and wow! There are actually quite a number of beautiful girls just sitting around with nothing else to do. Got to rescue them from boredom in the future

The second plaza is even better. There are a lot more women here and the environment is calmer. Perfect for sitting down approaches. The women here are a bit older than me, which in my experience have more stories to tell when I deep dive them.

The first mall is just walking distance from the first plaza. There are numerous high schools near it too which means that most of the girls there are of my age or younger. There are also numerous shops here that cater to young people which makes turnover really high.

The second mall is a bit crowded so it could be a bit loud inside, compared to other places.The good thing is that there are numerous nursing students who do groceries here, and most of them are really beautiful. Makes me want to get hospitalized in the future

The third mall is the best of them all. So many beautiful girls of different ages. Again there are many shops here that women go to, which makes for a high turnover.

The last place is the shopping mall where I also do most of my shopping. Again it is near the first plaza so it is really convenient. Most of the women who come here to shop are more or less my age or older.

It's a succeas for day 1 and I'm happy about. Day 2 is all about paying attention to my own posture and to study other people's posture. I also observed that I am less attentive when I listen to my music. So I have to ditch them as I do my assignments in the future. Good luck to me

 

[Philip S.]

Hi guys! I wasn't able to update this journal because I was busy all week with all the presentations I have to do. But in the few hours that I was free I was able to go to the locations I mentioned in Day 1 and focused on my posture and on others' postures.

Day 2

I made a reminder in my head that I should always pay attention to my body language. And one thing I noticed off the bat is that people are moving out of my way more as compared to before. And at the times that I was able to layer clothes (I'm big into fashion thanks to Jose Zuniga) because it wasn't hot, many girls were checking me out since I feel more confident if I put more effort into my clothes. I wore double denim at that time and I am pretty sure that I am the only one to do so. In fact, one hot woman checked me out as she was passing by. Really excited about it, too bad I am still too nervous to approach.

I was also able to study the posture of others and there are a lot of things I noticed.

Most people here have a neither secure nor insecure body language. They also don't release a vibe that stands out to me. Regular peeps I must say.

Some people, who I saw have poor body language are mostly nerdy. I know that because they keep talking about Avengers and speak really fast English (we're in the Philippines).

Some people, have strong body language but are not sexy. They have a tough vibe and they generally are the only ones who didn't move out of my way as they passed by.

Lastly, I saw few people who are dressed fashionably and are confident. People that you know that they get laid. I'm aiming to be like, if not better than, those guys.

It has been a blast noticing new things. Day 3 is about eye contact and I think that this will be a great time to practice my sexy look

Adios fam

 

[Zanardi]

Day1

First off, I figured out that I also have to take time into account since the only times that I will be free is at 3 pm onwards, so I didn't bother looking for good places to pick up girls at lunch time.

But I managed to find 7 different places where there is good turnover while still being convenient for me. These are: 2 plazas, 3 malls, and 1 shopping mall.

I think you should pay attention to when those places are full with girls. For example, the first plaza may be full between 5 and 6, but it empties after 8.

 

[Philip S.]

Hi Zanardi! You brought up a really good point there! I was actually paying more attention to those places when it was convenient for me. Truth to be told I still have classes all day throughout the weeks which makes it hard for me to go to those places at the best time. But hey, if I have more free time I will do as you recommended. Thanks man!

 

[Philip S.]

I apologize if I was not able to update this journal for a long while. I was still quite busy with shool requirements, then after I was done with Day 3 the boards kept saying "404 not found". But anyways here is day 3.

Day 3

So I made eye contact with 10 strangers. Here's how it went:

1. While walking towards outside my subdivision, I made eye contact with a foreigner who was passing by. We just smiled to each other.

2. While I was in the plaza waiting for a jeepney, I made eye contact with a quite cute girl. I gave her a smirk and then she looked down and smiled shyly. Real nice

3. While riding a jeepney, I made eye contact with a 30ish y/o man. It looks as if he was hardened by life since he didn't break eye contact at me. I don't want to be in a tense situation so early in the day so I just smiled at him and looked away to the side.

4. There were a few outside students who visited my school. There was a beautiful girl reading a book by her lonesome. So I approached her with "hey what are you reading?". We kind of hit it off, talking about personal stuff up until her friends took her. Too bad I forgot to get her number but oh well, at least I approached.

5. After dismissal around 3pm, I went back to the plaza and walked around. Saw what I thought was a beautiful girl walking away quite a distance from me. Since I never saw her face and it was quite quiet in the plaza, so I thought that asking for directions to open was the best approach. Good thing I did too, because she was actually far older than me (I think 35 y/o or more). I don't really understood the concept of indirect direct approach, so if anybody here who is good at this tuning in, please teach me.

6. I approached another girl while waiting for a jeepney by asking for directions, we then talked for quite a bit. She talked a lot about of her personal story, but I was not really interested in her so I just talked with her so that I can kill time. I wish that I should have just flirted with her so that it will become consistent.

7. Made eye contact with a girl who was passing by. Gave her some eye contact flirting and she responded back too. But she's with a group of friends that's why I didn't approach her.

8. Went inside a craft store and I was assigned with a female sales clerk to assist me. Never really talked much with her but I gave her a lot of nonverbal flirting. She kept looking down and smiling, but once I learned that she was 26, I didn't push for the close.

9. Went to a mall and tried a few bomber jackets. The saleslady was quite cute and so I did small talk with her about our schools, a few minutes later she was already talking about really personal stuff. I also learned that she was already 3 months pregnant with her second child. That's a turnoff for me but I enjoyed talking with her. She even said that she never really talked about personal stuff with strangers so I think that's huge.

10. Lastly, while I was walking home, I passed by a guy who was obviously insecure. Gave me a moment of eye contact before continuing walking while looking down all the time.

So I managed to talk to quite a few girls. I don't know if that counts but I'll be moving on to day 4 which is about saying hi to 6 attractive women. Wish me luck fam hehe

 

[Zanardi]

So far so good. The fun part starts when you'll actually have to talk to people and progress beyond the opening.