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What do you mean underage? How old are you?
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At that age I would focus more on your fundamentals than on seduction. Many of the actual "pickup" techniques taught here aren't going to work nearly as well for someone your age, and they are geared towards the end goal of having sex with a woman, which it doesn't sound like you are ready for quite yet.
I'd focus on dressing better, being more confident, and building strong connections with other people regardless of gender. Learn how to be a leader. You may not end up wanting to be the leader of your social groups due to the amount of work and responsibility involved, but having the capability to flip that switch on is absolutely crucial for seduction and for social interactions in general
Building strong connections with other humans and getting people to like you are skills that will be incredibly useful at every stage of your life. If you are consciously thinking about those things and working on improving them, being as young as you are I can almost guarantee you that you will have a massive edge over most people in the social arts by the time you are in your 20s.
God knows I wish I'd found a forum like this back when I was 15 instead of waiting til I was 22
I'd focus on dressing better, being more confident, and building strong connections with other people regardless of gender. Learn how to be a leader. You may not end up wanting to be the leader of your social groups due to the amount of work and responsibility involved, but having the capability to flip that switch on is absolutely crucial for seduction and for social interactions in general
Building strong connections with other humans and getting people to like you are skills that will be incredibly useful at every stage of your life. If you are consciously thinking about those things and working on improving them, being as young as you are I can almost guarantee you that you will have a massive edge over most people in the social arts by the time you are in your 20s.
God knows I wish I'd found a forum like this back when I was 15 instead of waiting til I was 22
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A lot of the stuff here applies to all age groups - mostly the self-development and mindset material, which is the backbone of seduction at any age. I would start there.
If you're interested in getting laid in high school, you'll find some of the stuff here doesn't quite apply. Daygaming, for instance, will likely result in lower results because most women in your age group are hesitant at getting stopped by strangers in public, and for good reason. It's certainly possible, but I'd focus your efforts elsewhere. Work on the mindsets especially, and try to cultivate a mature sexuality that most men your age won't begin to grasp until later.
The vast majority of your potential right now is in social circle. A lot of the stuff the college age guys are trying out should work in high school with some modification. Be well known, have a great vibe, and focus on being genuinely sexy. Most high school guys suck at that, and most high school girls don't get good sex until college or later as a result.
If you're interested in getting laid in high school, you'll find some of the stuff here doesn't quite apply. Daygaming, for instance, will likely result in lower results because most women in your age group are hesitant at getting stopped by strangers in public, and for good reason. It's certainly possible, but I'd focus your efforts elsewhere. Work on the mindsets especially, and try to cultivate a mature sexuality that most men your age won't begin to grasp until later.
The vast majority of your potential right now is in social circle. A lot of the stuff the college age guys are trying out should work in high school with some modification. Be well known, have a great vibe, and focus on being genuinely sexy. Most high school guys suck at that, and most high school girls don't get good sex until college or later as a result.
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wasnt going to reply but i feel this is bad advice. High s hool girls arent any different than adult or college girls the only difference is experience.
girls are girls and they dont automatically go from seduction advice not working at 17 to working when they turn 18.
i aplroached girls in highschool before i discovered gc and I can tell u there is no difference. shes still a girl that wants good dick and nothing changes in seduction.
girls are girls and they dont automatically go from seduction advice not working at 17 to working when they turn 18.
i aplroached girls in highschool before i discovered gc and I can tell u there is no difference. shes still a girl that wants good dick and nothing changes in seduction.
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Read Richard's advice in this thread: viewtopic.php?f=3&t=3831
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Oldguy: thanks for the advice now I guess the question is how to run social game properly...
Cacc: I agree with the idea that girls are girls but it's just some of the tricks on here might need a bit of tweaking for my purposes while I'm at this age.
Backstory: You legend, thanks for showing me that article I can't believe I missed it
Cacc: I agree with the idea that girls are girls but it's just some of the tricks on here might need a bit of tweaking for my purposes while I'm at this age.
Backstory: You legend, thanks for showing me that article I can't believe I missed it
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My advice is to be very careful. Cacc is saying "girls are girls just try all the normal pickup techniques" but I think that is a bad game plan for someone in highschool.
Once you can drive and get older your options will open up, but currently you likely have ONE social circle as a source for all of your friends and all of your potential women. Even if its a big school its still one continuous circle, because everyone is going to have class with someone who knows someone else who knows whatever girl you are making moves on. Fucking up now is going to have major consequences for you that dont exist for most of the people giving you advice here because we are adults with multiple circles and pickup options.
You are at a point in time where you are still figuring out basic social dynamics. Trying to "run game" in highschool when you have no idea what you are doing can easily backfire and ostricize you. Being a cool, socially saavy, fundamentally sexy dude is going to help you with everything with no downside risk. If you start practicing physical escalation or going deep into aggressive pickup techniques when you aren't socially calibrated you are risking coming off poorly and developing a bad reputation. Yes, these techniques can still be effective if you are good at them, but at your age its very unlikely that you will be.
If you feel like you are ready to practice more advanced aspects then go for it, but I would recommend tiptoeing into the water instead of jumping off the dock.
Take this from someone who fucked things up in highschool and was miserable but has found success as an adult
Once you can drive and get older your options will open up, but currently you likely have ONE social circle as a source for all of your friends and all of your potential women. Even if its a big school its still one continuous circle, because everyone is going to have class with someone who knows someone else who knows whatever girl you are making moves on. Fucking up now is going to have major consequences for you that dont exist for most of the people giving you advice here because we are adults with multiple circles and pickup options.
You are at a point in time where you are still figuring out basic social dynamics. Trying to "run game" in highschool when you have no idea what you are doing can easily backfire and ostricize you. Being a cool, socially saavy, fundamentally sexy dude is going to help you with everything with no downside risk. If you start practicing physical escalation or going deep into aggressive pickup techniques when you aren't socially calibrated you are risking coming off poorly and developing a bad reputation. Yes, these techniques can still be effective if you are good at them, but at your age its very unlikely that you will be.
If you feel like you are ready to practice more advanced aspects then go for it, but I would recommend tiptoeing into the water instead of jumping off the dock.
Take this from someone who fucked things up in highschool and was miserable but has found success as an adult
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Yeah that's what I meant by tweaking, I can't do anything too big I'd have to say I will have to adopt Hector's Slowburn style to keep under the radar. At least until I have fundamentals handled then if I want I can start trying the other tricks on here. With less of a risk involved but Lostnumber you seem experienced in this field any major fundamentals to focus on I've got fashion mostly down and moderate social skill nothing to be to be too proud of either way...