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Some background: ran into a girl I sort of already knew through friends at a wedding recently. I somewhat saved her from a touchy drunk at the wedding and thereafter we danced, talked, drank, and then she came to my after party. We fooled around that night as she stayed over. We basically got too drunk to seal the deal and passed out. Two days later, we met for dinner and drinks followed by a movie at my place. Again, no sex, just some kissing and whatnot.
The next day was nye. She invited me to go to a party and stay at her place since we both had the next two days off. She was feeling a bit sick but we went to the party, had a blast, kissed at midnight, and decided to head to a bar closer to her place. There we drank and made out. I didn't have to go in for the kiss, she basically came out and told me she wanted to makeout. Shortly after we went back and did everything but fuck since she was on her period. She said she doesn't like doing that while during her time of the month especially since we just started hanging out. I didn't sweat it and just played it off cool.
The next day, we laid around, watched movies, grabbed dinner, and a movie. I ended up staying the night again and we were both pretty hungover and getting sick so there wasn't much more than kissing.
All in all, I'm trying not to think about this girl too much or get too caught up in that she is absolutely grogeouS, smart, funny, and super cool. We've been texting and she has said how much fun she had and how she loved how she felt when we are together. But I'm the one that basically implied it first. Now I feel as though she is one up on me in that she has the power. We both text each other. I have texted a bit more and called her once since but she didn't answer. And she is the one that will go a few hours or so before responding or not at all. But she does text me first sometimes and begins with "hey love" or something along those lines.
I know she's a solid girl with a good rep from what I've been told by some friends that know her. But you know how girls are tricky. This girl is basically like my dream girl and I don't want to be overbearing, push her away, or seem to needy, or available. We are supposed to go ice skating and grab dinner and I'm supposed to stay at her place Sunday night. As far as sat, it's her friends bday party and I can't go because of work.
I'd really just like some help on how to get the power back in my good graces? Or suggestions on the next few days so as to get her thinking about me more and wanting me more than I want her.
Sorry for such a long post but I needed to get this out. I think ive been playin it pretty cool and relaxed so Far except for my text game and thinking about her too much. Thanks for the help in advance.
The next day was nye. She invited me to go to a party and stay at her place since we both had the next two days off. She was feeling a bit sick but we went to the party, had a blast, kissed at midnight, and decided to head to a bar closer to her place. There we drank and made out. I didn't have to go in for the kiss, she basically came out and told me she wanted to makeout. Shortly after we went back and did everything but fuck since she was on her period. She said she doesn't like doing that while during her time of the month especially since we just started hanging out. I didn't sweat it and just played it off cool.
The next day, we laid around, watched movies, grabbed dinner, and a movie. I ended up staying the night again and we were both pretty hungover and getting sick so there wasn't much more than kissing.
All in all, I'm trying not to think about this girl too much or get too caught up in that she is absolutely grogeouS, smart, funny, and super cool. We've been texting and she has said how much fun she had and how she loved how she felt when we are together. But I'm the one that basically implied it first. Now I feel as though she is one up on me in that she has the power. We both text each other. I have texted a bit more and called her once since but she didn't answer. And she is the one that will go a few hours or so before responding or not at all. But she does text me first sometimes and begins with "hey love" or something along those lines.
I know she's a solid girl with a good rep from what I've been told by some friends that know her. But you know how girls are tricky. This girl is basically like my dream girl and I don't want to be overbearing, push her away, or seem to needy, or available. We are supposed to go ice skating and grab dinner and I'm supposed to stay at her place Sunday night. As far as sat, it's her friends bday party and I can't go because of work.
I'd really just like some help on how to get the power back in my good graces? Or suggestions on the next few days so as to get her thinking about me more and wanting me more than I want her.
Sorry for such a long post but I needed to get this out. I think ive been playin it pretty cool and relaxed so Far except for my text game and thinking about her too much. Thanks for the help in advance.