Hi,
First off, it's a pleasure to introduce myself to the GirlsChase community. I have been reading articles for a while. I have studied Seduction & Dating for a few years, but at this point, if I were to consider myself "avid" at this, I'd be fooling myself.
I'm getting past a few Life experiences (and thankfully they weren't worse), so safe to stay, I'm starting over, and re-learning the scenes.
In short, I have been going to the local bars at my favorite cities, and I noticed one thing...if the bars are within private school districts, I find that a lot of girls tend to keep to themselves, are private, reserved, and are quick to ignore. Sometimes, I suspect that they've got their issues, and they won't socialize outside of their circle. I've been struggling with this for some time, and even though I'm making progress out there, I definitely want to see what I can do to speed things up some.
I am turning to the GirlsChase community for some helpful suggestions! Some of my friends are just sick and tired of hearing from me, since they have different ideas than I do, and that's OK. But anyway, here are some ideas I've constructed:
1) Traveling is a great topic. I found it working with a group of 3 girls, when they were talking about it in their "girl talk." I was able to participate, and get positive connections going. Essentially, I could find opportunities to ask, "what's your favorite place to travel to?"
2) A question I could ask during quiet times is, "Hey, got a question for ya. When you were growing up, what was your favorite Disney movie?"
3) Alternative: What do you love doing most during your free time?
It's definitely not easy to get these girls to open up, but my guess is, the more I practice getting out there, the better I can get at this.
Thanks in advance for your thoughts, I look forward to hearing them!
-Rick
First off, it's a pleasure to introduce myself to the GirlsChase community. I have been reading articles for a while. I have studied Seduction & Dating for a few years, but at this point, if I were to consider myself "avid" at this, I'd be fooling myself.
I'm getting past a few Life experiences (and thankfully they weren't worse), so safe to stay, I'm starting over, and re-learning the scenes.
In short, I have been going to the local bars at my favorite cities, and I noticed one thing...if the bars are within private school districts, I find that a lot of girls tend to keep to themselves, are private, reserved, and are quick to ignore. Sometimes, I suspect that they've got their issues, and they won't socialize outside of their circle. I've been struggling with this for some time, and even though I'm making progress out there, I definitely want to see what I can do to speed things up some.
I am turning to the GirlsChase community for some helpful suggestions! Some of my friends are just sick and tired of hearing from me, since they have different ideas than I do, and that's OK. But anyway, here are some ideas I've constructed:
1) Traveling is a great topic. I found it working with a group of 3 girls, when they were talking about it in their "girl talk." I was able to participate, and get positive connections going. Essentially, I could find opportunities to ask, "what's your favorite place to travel to?"
2) A question I could ask during quiet times is, "Hey, got a question for ya. When you were growing up, what was your favorite Disney movie?"
3) Alternative: What do you love doing most during your free time?
It's definitely not easy to get these girls to open up, but my guess is, the more I practice getting out there, the better I can get at this.
Thanks in advance for your thoughts, I look forward to hearing them!
-Rick
