New member of girlschase here
So I'm in quite a fix concerning a girl
Basically there's this extremely beautiful girl in my college whom I've been eyeing since Freshers week , however I never really got the proper opportunity to come across her and introduce myself etc
We don't have any classes together either so that's another of my issues and only see her during lunch breaks
I do know some of the guys from her class though from Freshers week and I've locked eyes once or twice with her but never made an approach , so the other day I thought fuck it and went ahead to sit with her group since I already knew some guys in her circle and introduced myself to her just to get some rapport and comfort with her and her core social circle , we did make some small talk but that's about as far it went during that single interaction. She's generally a very polite and helpful girl so it's hard to know if she's really interested
However from what I've discovered is that she has a crush on another guy in her class who's not a direct part of her close social circle but they respect him and are well aware of the fact that she likes him and from what I could gather he's getting close to her.
I saw her sitting alone in the cafeteria today , while half of her circle was sitting across the room , I thought about approaching her ,but didn't want to come across as a leech / creep to her and her social circle and I've just introduced myself and would feel like coming on too strong so I didn't go about it.
Bear in mind I'm in a small college and social pressure and circle matter here , unlike in a university where people don't have a core circle.
It's been a bit more than a month since college started and I'm just a newbie to her and her friends
How do I go about this problem
I'm sorry for the long post.
So I'm in quite a fix concerning a girl
Basically there's this extremely beautiful girl in my college whom I've been eyeing since Freshers week , however I never really got the proper opportunity to come across her and introduce myself etc
We don't have any classes together either so that's another of my issues and only see her during lunch breaks
I do know some of the guys from her class though from Freshers week and I've locked eyes once or twice with her but never made an approach , so the other day I thought fuck it and went ahead to sit with her group since I already knew some guys in her circle and introduced myself to her just to get some rapport and comfort with her and her core social circle , we did make some small talk but that's about as far it went during that single interaction. She's generally a very polite and helpful girl so it's hard to know if she's really interested
However from what I've discovered is that she has a crush on another guy in her class who's not a direct part of her close social circle but they respect him and are well aware of the fact that she likes him and from what I could gather he's getting close to her.
I saw her sitting alone in the cafeteria today , while half of her circle was sitting across the room , I thought about approaching her ,but didn't want to come across as a leech / creep to her and her social circle and I've just introduced myself and would feel like coming on too strong so I didn't go about it.
Bear in mind I'm in a small college and social pressure and circle matter here , unlike in a university where people don't have a core circle.
It's been a bit more than a month since college started and I'm just a newbie to her and her friends
How do I go about this problem
I'm sorry for the long post.
