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For most 17 year olds, I am highly inexperienced due to growing up in a family that discouraged assertiveness, risk taking, and just about everything interesting with the opposite sex. However, thanks to the help of GirlsChase, I am doing what AsianPlayboy would call, "Breaking the Bamboo Ceiling", and and I'm demolishing it rather quickly for my inexperience. This site has shaped my social life and the perception of women to me more than anything I could have ever imagined, so Chase, if you're reading this, you have my sincere thanks!
This happened about a week ago, but I haven't had time to post anything since December due to a tight schedule from four AP Classes at once. I wasn't supposed to even go out on the date due to my lack of time, but I squeezed it in anyway and I will try to remember as many details as I possibly can.
This was a girl who was just recently single and still had some bad emotions from her last relationship, but had moved into the locker right next to mine. I decided to ask for her number one day, and that nigh I scheduled the date a few days in advance through text and told her "I feel like I need to decompress a bit before Finals, and I was wondering if you wanted to be my partner in crime for the night! That is, if you promise not to get the two of us into too much trouble of course
" She said yes and asked what I had in mind, and told her of how much I like to go exploring in mall areas at night.. Minnesota has some cities that look absolutely gorgeous at night. I used the plenty of colorful and emotional language as I could. The date was set for after sunset.
I was wearing freshly shined black shoes, blue jeans, a black dress shirt unbuttoned three times at the top, a red shirt underneath, a shiny necklace, and Victoria's Secret cologne on my chest, wrists, and neck. I was also in a fasted state so that my hormone output would be at maximum.
I picked her up at her house and asked her where she would like to go exploring at and gave her three choices. She told me she didn't care where, so I made the decision for us, something I would have hesitated to do just a little while ago. We drove to the mall area, and on our way there and in the mall, I focused the conversation on her completely. I learned in vivid detail, her dream occupation, her hobbies, interests, family life, and personal baggage from her past, and what happened to her last relationship. I also focused on framing myself as a horrible boyfriend candidate while still maintaining a likable personality. I remarked on my lack of time, my stubbornness, how I'm easier to seduce than would be ideal, and my difficulty to work with. At one point, I outright said, "Someday I'm going to get a bunch of prize money for a worst boyfriend contest... You just watch me." After a while, I felt like we'd been walking and talking long enough and I decided it was time to leave
When we got out, night had fallen, and I had parked far away under the excuse of wishing to enjoy the walk. I continued talking as we walked and as I we got to the car, I leaned my elbow into the car, and finished our conversation thread. Then I touched her cheek and remarked that she looked adorable tonight. Then I kissed her and we made out briefly in the parking lot before I said that I wanted to continue this in the car for a while. She smiled and blushed and after a few shy expressions on her face, we both got in continued to make out..
She was smiling and blushing like crazy, and was visibly shaking. She told me while we were making out that this was her first time doing anything like this in the backseat of a car, and that she wasn't expecting the kiss because she's had to make the first move with every other guy she's been on dates with. I smiled and asked, "Really? What kind of guys have you been hanging out with?" After she remarked that she thought they were pussies compared to me, but she still too nervous to continue. I said, "I won't bite you know.. Well.. I might, but not in this context." After that we continued fogging up the windows of my car, and through the course of it, I brought my hands all over her, it was the first time I've had them in any intimate place by the way, and I was surprised at how little she resisted me. I kissed her cheek, neck, and boobs, and ran my hands just about everywhere I pleased, while she bit my bottom lip many times, ran her nails across my back, and proved my skin was not too dark for hickeys.
Despite all this, she refused to let the interaction escalate beyond that and refused to take anything off, no matter how many times I threw her objections back at her and tried to short circuit her logic. She seemed to be following something more ingrained in her than logic could remove, and saying that she was "not that easy," that "this doesn't feel right," and that she'd be more "open to it after date three." Despite the fact that she was kissing incredibly passionately, and the interaction had become plenty more intimate, she asked me to take her home. At this point, as stubborn as I was, her continued objections had worn me down greatly, but I decided it would be a bad idea to let the interaction end on her terms and without at least escalating a little bit further, so in the end, I ended up getting her bra off and got her boobs in my mouth for a while before I defogged the car, drove her home, and kissed her goodbye.
Even though I don't have the honors of posting an LR, I have to say that everything I've read on GirlsChase is coming true in my life faster than I could have imagined, and for a guy as inexperienced as I, progress is being made just as quickly. Just little while ago, I would have asked what she wanted to do instead of leading us into my own plans. I would not have planned my logistics for a backseat seduction in the dark, I would not have gone into the date planning to lay her on the first date, and I would have been too much of a wuss to kiss her like all the other guys. In short, none of this would have happened.
So that night, I have proved to myself that girls do indeed prefer that guys lead and that bad boyfriend framing works. I have proved that the confidence I picked up from this site, despite me thinking I was behind in confidence levels, is actually seen as very rare. I have proved that the Asian reputation for not being confident enough to escalate is a good thing because it catches people off guard when the stereotype is busted, and I proved to myself to what I could potentially do in the future.
Hopefully during spring break I'll be able to prove to myself how open girls are to first date sex if you play your cards right
This happened about a week ago, but I haven't had time to post anything since December due to a tight schedule from four AP Classes at once. I wasn't supposed to even go out on the date due to my lack of time, but I squeezed it in anyway and I will try to remember as many details as I possibly can.
This was a girl who was just recently single and still had some bad emotions from her last relationship, but had moved into the locker right next to mine. I decided to ask for her number one day, and that nigh I scheduled the date a few days in advance through text and told her "I feel like I need to decompress a bit before Finals, and I was wondering if you wanted to be my partner in crime for the night! That is, if you promise not to get the two of us into too much trouble of course
" She said yes and asked what I had in mind, and told her of how much I like to go exploring in mall areas at night.. Minnesota has some cities that look absolutely gorgeous at night. I used the plenty of colorful and emotional language as I could. The date was set for after sunset.I was wearing freshly shined black shoes, blue jeans, a black dress shirt unbuttoned three times at the top, a red shirt underneath, a shiny necklace, and Victoria's Secret cologne on my chest, wrists, and neck. I was also in a fasted state so that my hormone output would be at maximum.
I picked her up at her house and asked her where she would like to go exploring at and gave her three choices. She told me she didn't care where, so I made the decision for us, something I would have hesitated to do just a little while ago. We drove to the mall area, and on our way there and in the mall, I focused the conversation on her completely. I learned in vivid detail, her dream occupation, her hobbies, interests, family life, and personal baggage from her past, and what happened to her last relationship. I also focused on framing myself as a horrible boyfriend candidate while still maintaining a likable personality. I remarked on my lack of time, my stubbornness, how I'm easier to seduce than would be ideal, and my difficulty to work with. At one point, I outright said, "Someday I'm going to get a bunch of prize money for a worst boyfriend contest... You just watch me." After a while, I felt like we'd been walking and talking long enough and I decided it was time to leave
When we got out, night had fallen, and I had parked far away under the excuse of wishing to enjoy the walk. I continued talking as we walked and as I we got to the car, I leaned my elbow into the car, and finished our conversation thread. Then I touched her cheek and remarked that she looked adorable tonight. Then I kissed her and we made out briefly in the parking lot before I said that I wanted to continue this in the car for a while. She smiled and blushed and after a few shy expressions on her face, we both got in continued to make out..
She was smiling and blushing like crazy, and was visibly shaking. She told me while we were making out that this was her first time doing anything like this in the backseat of a car, and that she wasn't expecting the kiss because she's had to make the first move with every other guy she's been on dates with. I smiled and asked, "Really? What kind of guys have you been hanging out with?" After she remarked that she thought they were pussies compared to me, but she still too nervous to continue. I said, "I won't bite you know.. Well.. I might, but not in this context." After that we continued fogging up the windows of my car, and through the course of it, I brought my hands all over her, it was the first time I've had them in any intimate place by the way, and I was surprised at how little she resisted me. I kissed her cheek, neck, and boobs, and ran my hands just about everywhere I pleased, while she bit my bottom lip many times, ran her nails across my back, and proved my skin was not too dark for hickeys.
Despite all this, she refused to let the interaction escalate beyond that and refused to take anything off, no matter how many times I threw her objections back at her and tried to short circuit her logic. She seemed to be following something more ingrained in her than logic could remove, and saying that she was "not that easy," that "this doesn't feel right," and that she'd be more "open to it after date three." Despite the fact that she was kissing incredibly passionately, and the interaction had become plenty more intimate, she asked me to take her home. At this point, as stubborn as I was, her continued objections had worn me down greatly, but I decided it would be a bad idea to let the interaction end on her terms and without at least escalating a little bit further, so in the end, I ended up getting her bra off and got her boobs in my mouth for a while before I defogged the car, drove her home, and kissed her goodbye.
Even though I don't have the honors of posting an LR, I have to say that everything I've read on GirlsChase is coming true in my life faster than I could have imagined, and for a guy as inexperienced as I, progress is being made just as quickly. Just little while ago, I would have asked what she wanted to do instead of leading us into my own plans. I would not have planned my logistics for a backseat seduction in the dark, I would not have gone into the date planning to lay her on the first date, and I would have been too much of a wuss to kiss her like all the other guys. In short, none of this would have happened.
So that night, I have proved to myself that girls do indeed prefer that guys lead and that bad boyfriend framing works. I have proved that the confidence I picked up from this site, despite me thinking I was behind in confidence levels, is actually seen as very rare. I have proved that the Asian reputation for not being confident enough to escalate is a good thing because it catches people off guard when the stereotype is busted, and I proved to myself to what I could potentially do in the future.
Hopefully during spring break I'll be able to prove to myself how open girls are to first date sex if you play your cards right
