Progress Report Four Years Later

[ramirezs316]

Hard to believe I've now been on girlschase for four years now. I didn't use the site as much as I had to this year, but it's always good to know I can come to it for advice. 2016 was a definite stepup from 2015. My online dating game improved so much that at one point I was texting over 20 girls and always had an option for a few months. As a result, I feel my in person game took a small hit. I enjoyed focusing so much on one on one dates that when I did go out by myself or was out with friends, the interactions were mixed. Of the 6 good numbers I got in person, only one yielded a date.

2016 was the year I got my first friend with benefits. We met up as friends (after a second date I messed up by being late on) early in the year, she came over two months later which led to a makeout session, then one random night we went out and I took her back to mine. Two months after that we had an amazing night of passion but ultimately decided to stay friends. And you know what? She's one of my best friends now. The feeling of being able to choose my path after sex is powerful.

Summer was good too. A girl I networked with a year prior invited me to her pool party, which she basically admitted was a ploy to get me into her bedroom. It worked, but man was it weird finding out a girl is kind of obsessed with me. Later, I slept with my first foreign girl. She was Turkish and though their was a language barrier, she was so much fun. One of the most beautiful girls I've had the pleasure of going out with. Made the sex a little nervewracking and some things got lost in translation, but she was moving out in a few weeks anyway.

Unfortunately, the last four months of the year were a dry spell. The holidays really kill momentum. I reconnected with some girls I can see this new year. And I did end up going out with a stripper--but she's still getting over a horrible breakup so that one is too slow going or probably not worth the effort. My goal for 2017 is to go out with guys who know their shit. Got a 40 year old buddy who lives the high life with the types of hot girls I'd like to experience. More sex is always the goal, and if something special emerges, that will be welcome too. Working on myself and my career is still top priority.

So final report:
More numbers than I can count from online
6 good numbers in person
40 dates/meetups with 28 girls
10 makeout sessions/kisses only at end of date
7 back to her place to fool around but no sex
6 sex with 5 girls

 

[readjusting]

Congrats man.
4 years are long but it's definitely worth.

 

[ramirezs316]

Congrats man.
4 years are long but it's definitely worth.

Thanks. Still learning and making up for lost time.

 

[StantonG]

With a report like that, do you feel that the time spent on this site has been successful? Do you feel that you couldn't have gotten similar results without the advice of this site? Better question: Do you think all your success up to now is due, mostly to this site?

 

[PrettyDecent]

Solid year, Ramiresz

Sounds like your online profile was basically a brothel for a few months..!

Nick

 

[Mr.Rob]

Well done Ramirez,

You had a few memorable milestones this year and it sounds like you're quite content and happy internally with the work that you've done on yourself. I read a book recently called "The Only Way to Win" where the author denotes how many people get addicted to external success without focusing on becoming a person internally who is becoming better in their own right.

2013 was the first year I began my seduction journey and I only slept with a few women at the very last two months of the year after having no success for the first 11 months. I felt quite content and happy internally. Compare that to 2015 where I slept with 12 new women but put so much pressure on myself to achieve this AND start my first business AND make straight A's in school. Even though I did 2 out of 3 of these (I had to quit the business that year) I didn't feel near the level of contentment and internal happiness I felt in 2013 when I had less.

Just keep that in mind as you move forward in your journey. More success can, but does not, equal more happiness. It is about who you are becoming not what you externally experience. Sounds like you're on the right track though.

Congrats on having a good year.