- Joined
- Jan 2, 2013
- Messages
- 100
I've been on girls chase since winter 2012. Hard to believe its been three years. 2015 was a year with my most ups and downs since committing to bettering myself with women. I started off the year strong with an almost lay on new year's. Things picked up even more once I mastered Tinder after watching the intro video on this site (also, thank you Drake for the song lyrics). From Feb to May, I got crazy good matches. Not all of them were hits but in late March/early April, I finally got two lays within two weeks of each other.
But summer hit and nothing was working. I can't count how many flakes I had, and how many numbers dried up. I made it out with my dignity, recommitted myself to texting better and started working on my abundance mentality. I soon started getting options from all sides (going out, online, reconnecting on facebook believe it or not) and even salvaged some dates by calling her on the phone. The flakes still came, and I had a few too many times where I found myself at a girl's place unable to overcome her resistance. But right now I still have a lot of options, and I'm looking to be more aggressive in my sexual communication. My approaches and chats are solid-- as long as I have logistics and she isn't madly in love with her bf, I'm usually good.
My goal is still to have as much sex as I want or to at least start a solid fling with a girl. I definitely need to work on moving the girl quicker when on a date. And I've improved on getting second dates (even without sex) or at least keeping her interest after the first date.
So final report:
More numbers than I can count from out and online
24 dates/meetups with 20 girls
4 makeout sessions/kisses only at end of date
6 back to her place to fool around but no sexual contact
2 sex
But summer hit and nothing was working. I can't count how many flakes I had, and how many numbers dried up. I made it out with my dignity, recommitted myself to texting better and started working on my abundance mentality. I soon started getting options from all sides (going out, online, reconnecting on facebook believe it or not) and even salvaged some dates by calling her on the phone. The flakes still came, and I had a few too many times where I found myself at a girl's place unable to overcome her resistance. But right now I still have a lot of options, and I'm looking to be more aggressive in my sexual communication. My approaches and chats are solid-- as long as I have logistics and she isn't madly in love with her bf, I'm usually good.
My goal is still to have as much sex as I want or to at least start a solid fling with a girl. I definitely need to work on moving the girl quicker when on a date. And I've improved on getting second dates (even without sex) or at least keeping her interest after the first date.
So final report:
More numbers than I can count from out and online
24 dates/meetups with 20 girls
4 makeout sessions/kisses only at end of date
6 back to her place to fool around but no sexual contact
2 sex
