Question about Gunwitchs "You remind me of my ex girlfriend" opener.
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That never happens, because you follow up with a rainbow ruse: "are you from around here?" and no matter what she responds, you have a response to her response - now you've shifted the focus onto her, and she'll start focusing inward, so the first comment will be completely forgotten.
Check out Gun's article: https://www.girlschase.com/content/what-tell-girl-get-her-interested-you
Check out Gun's article: https://www.girlschase.com/content/what-tell-girl-get-her-interested-you
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just answer in ways where you are either carefree aka rolling of it.
Or flirty which is the main opportunity if you do it right since one smart part of the opener is that it hints between the lines that youre attracted and that shes like the women you normally date. This is good flirting. and provides for good flirts. If shes iffy use carefreeness to take her down a lighter path and disarm her potential crudeness.
Point being dont be scared w her response. WORK her. i wrote a long outline at nextasf how the most important thing w opening is NOT the opener but how you handle the response she gives. So get a lil agile there and focus your attention on it as a key opportunity to influence her well.
also if you go direct like this you wanna stay centred in it despite her being a lil insecure w it. Maybe softn it a lil. Maybe not. thats ofc unless you add a pull to it aftewards.
Or flirty which is the main opportunity if you do it right since one smart part of the opener is that it hints between the lines that youre attracted and that shes like the women you normally date. This is good flirting. and provides for good flirts. If shes iffy use carefreeness to take her down a lighter path and disarm her potential crudeness.
Point being dont be scared w her response. WORK her. i wrote a long outline at nextasf how the most important thing w opening is NOT the opener but how you handle the response she gives. So get a lil agile there and focus your attention on it as a key opportunity to influence her well.
also if you go direct like this you wanna stay centred in it despite her being a lil insecure w it. Maybe softn it a lil. Maybe not. thats ofc unless you add a pull to it aftewards.
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Use it to introduce seduction oriented topics. And don't hesitate to exaggerate or make shit up either
I like to describe the first time i met my ex girlfriend and the feelings involved. Except, i'm exactly describing what the girl in front of me is feeling...if i suspect she's feeling connected i will talk about feelings of connection with my new girlfriend
"When we first met we were really curious about each other...and we ended up having a really strong connection...you know the lurch in your stomach from those powerful butterflies ..and you realize. HOLY SHIT. this is happening."
Another, is to introduce thinmans sexual archetypes into it. Let's say you suspect the girl is a SUB. Well, when describing the nature of the relationship between your girlfriend, you would touch on themes of dominance and submission. Or, for OCP you highlight how quick it happened and how novel and wild of a ride it was...like a rollercoaster
I like to describe the first time i met my ex girlfriend and the feelings involved. Except, i'm exactly describing what the girl in front of me is feeling...if i suspect she's feeling connected i will talk about feelings of connection with my new girlfriend
"When we first met we were really curious about each other...and we ended up having a really strong connection...you know the lurch in your stomach from those powerful butterflies ..and you realize. HOLY SHIT. this is happening."
Another, is to introduce thinmans sexual archetypes into it. Let's say you suspect the girl is a SUB. Well, when describing the nature of the relationship between your girlfriend, you would touch on themes of dominance and submission. Or, for OCP you highlight how quick it happened and how novel and wild of a ride it was...like a rollercoaster