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Responding To "I Have a Boyfriend"

Franco

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Hey fellas,

I rarely spend time sharing some of my personal strategies on here, but I felt like sharing a fun one today.

If you ask for compliance from a girl (or even straight up just ask her "are you single?") and she replies saying she has a boyfriend, a very fun way to spin this is as follows:

Me: I'd like to grab a drink with you tonight? Are you free?
Her: Oh... I have a boyfriend.
Me: Perfect!!
Her: *quizzical look*
Me: ...so you're saying you're NOT married then? *mischievous grin* (ALTERNATIVE: "...so no one has put a ring on you yet?! Perfect.")
Her: *laughs and blushes*
Me: I'll be available after 6 pm. Let me get your number!
Her: Haha, okay, it's... XXX-XXXX

NOTE: All of this must be done with enthusiasm and playfulness. Make her feel flattered!

Keep in mind that whenever a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, it might already be the case that she's determined she's not interested. But I know a lot of guys feel awkward when they hear this and they aren't sure what to say to still have a chance. This is a very fun one that will at least get a smile out of her and might get her to change her mind about you with your boldness and wit!

Try it out. ;)

- Franco
 

Big Daddy

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Franco,

Haha, this sounds like a fun one. Thanks for the tip.

Franco said:
I rarely spend time sharing some of my personal strategies on here, but I felt like sharing a fun one today.

I wouldn't mind more just sayin
 

Ambiance

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Stealing this;)

One of my fav responses to "I have a boyfriend" goes:

So are you saying there's no room for improvement??

Also gonna second Big Daddy in that I would not mind more FrancoTech in the slightest ;)

Ambiance
 

Start_ed_young

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Anyone else use the one that goes:

You: yea cool, we should meet later to grab a drink or something.
Her: sorry, but I actually have a boyfriend
You: ahh, no worries. He can come along too
Her: (laughs) no, but really.
You: yea, maybe not. He might get jealous
Her: (confused amused expression) haha, nice meeting, but still have a boyfriend, so bye.
You: Fine see ya.

I believe I read this one on here somewhere. I’ve used a variation of this one a few times and I believe both times the girls gave up and said something along the lines of, “alright alright, you got me I don’t have a boyfriend” I still haven’t gotten a far but likely because of other reasons, not that one line.

Another comedic one is if your going to a group thing and invite her along.

You: going to this party later you’ll come as my date?
Her: no, I have boyfriend
You: every orgy needs a witness (said in a bit of a song dingy tone)

Haven’t tried this one personally, but it should definitely diffuse awkward tension from the situation.
 

Mikedee

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Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: I don’t want to be your boyfriend

Then carry on with the conversation
 

OldGuy

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In my experience, women have no problem saying "No" if they are not interested. Saying that they have a boyfriend means they have some interest, but do not want to mess up what they have without knowing more. A girlfriend said to try again in a few weeks, although discussing a possible discreet get together can work as well (got a date and later almost a lay, but that was cockblocked).
Now if she says I have a bf after a NO, that means if you do not get the hint, the next time I will call the cops.
 

iceberg slim

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Hey fellas,

I rarely spend time sharing some of my personal strategies on here, but I felt like sharing a fun one today.

If you ask for compliance from a girl (or even straight up just ask her "are you single?") and she replies saying she has a boyfriend, a very fun way to spin this is as follows:



Keep in mind that whenever a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, it might already be the case that she's determined she's not interested. But I know a lot of guys feel awkward when they hear this and they aren't sure what to say to still have a chance. This is a very fun one that will at least get a smile out of her and might get her to change her mind about you with your boldness and wit!

Try it out. ;)

- Franco
That's fresh, I'm using that.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Skills

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that will work on the bf will cheat scenario, first you need to find out what type of i have bf scenario she is:

 
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