If the text is done right, she will invest, and if done right she will get to the point"dye to go out with you"
I think the problem we are having and that we will keep having is that we will risk talking past one another. My earlier post to WIA was more a clarification than a debate..
You may believe that I was trying to religiously defend a categorical position such as "it is always impossible to seduce a girl over text". But truth is, I did not. My name is not Blackdragon.
You CAN probably turn a girl around with text. Again anything can work. The question is NOT about whether something works or not, but whether it is a good (the best) strategy - as in the most powerful and most efficient strategy.
This changes everything. I care only about what works the best on most girls possible. I care about nothing else.
To clarify: I am not saying it is impossible to seduce a girl through texting (i.e. get her from 0 to 100 with the help of letters). What I am trying to say is that it is probably the worst strategy in regards to:
- Efficiency
- Strength
- Time and investment from your end.
Basically:
1. Minimal texting is the best call with
compliant girls
2. Video-messaging (and back in the days, calling) was a better way to deal with those
"not-so-compliant" girls.
But, I feel this was not really the answer you were looking.
So I will provide some more info.
Before I continue, I hope we can agree on these two premises:
1. Texting is a weak form of communication (lack of control and lack of presence and so on - weak, in comparison to IRL interactions)
2. Some girls are bombarded with texting (over IG, FB, Snapchat and so on)
So this brings us to the instawhores: which guys like you and me are prone to bump into, since we are doing night game. The chances goes up even higher if you happen to go to gay clubs (as the fashion/instagram crowd goes there) or high end venues/clubs with selective crowds (where people go to be "seen" rather than hooking up). I deal with tons of women like that due to the venues I usually frequent..
Now let us say you are dealing with one of these attention seeking women: how much impact will your text have on a girl with 8000 instagram followers (who also have snapchat, tinder and so on). It will probably have little impact, and in the rare cases where it does, I believe the cause was that she was into you despite your magical texting (either from the get go or as a result from interacting with you IRL).
Sure, I know my good old 8 types of orgasm routine is powerful, but what is it worth if the girl will just ignore your text because she just happens to receive at least 50 texts from different guys? (and the number 50 here is not even exaggerated).
I simply do not believe texting work on these women unless she is deadly into (as a result from your IRL encounter). In which case, minimal texting is key, because it sets you apart from all the needy internet guys who messages her all the time. It is key that you are not "one of them". I will let Pablo take over the discussion from here, since he is THE expert with these women (actually better than I am - and I am not doing too bad either).
But hey, not all women are like that? And yes I agree. And from my experience,those women with who I have in fact managed to have intense some back-and-forth with through texting, where even things got sexual, have usually been:
- More reserved women (as in reserved socially - i.e. not active on social media, nor partying every week end etc)
- More geeky women
- More introverted women
- And also average looking women, or ugly girls (not claiming you only deal with those!)
- I will leave out girls I have already fucked from this equation.
By no means am I saying these women are of lower calibrated than the typical instawhore, in fact I consider them superior to them. The women listed above can be equally hot if not hotter than those attention whores.
But the point is, they are just a fraction of women. Some will be attention whores (ALL women are attention seeking and all can throw you into the validation loop, but the instawhore is just a much more hardcore version) and some will be more... normal.
So... you may say "ok ok, then seducing through texting work on these more NORNAL women" and on the other hand, it may simply not work on instawhores.
Well sure, but then again you never truly know who is she TRULY is. Maybe she secretly has an instagram with 15 000 followers (this innocent girl I once met had 12500 followers on IG) . I am fully aware that in most cases one could easily tell whether a girl is of such type, but sometimes it is not that easy.
That said, with my strategy I do not have to worry about any of this, since my strategy WORKS on both categories of women. But not only does it work with the typical Instawhore, but it works EVEN BETTER with the girl who may had been receptive to "texting-seduction".
But I think you and I are dealing with a slight difference in demographics. Maybe your demography is more... limited. I can understand why a guy your age would find those instagram girls annoying. I do not blame you for this, but one needs to take this into consideration.
To finish things off, I want to mention that to this day, I still have not read a single STEP-BY-STEP guide on how to seduce a girl from 0 to 100 through texting in a way that is easy to reproduce (by others) and that gives a clear model on how to proceed in most situations.
Until one can provide me with that, I will stand by my words.
And empty claims that I "do things wrong" (what am I doing "incorrectly" may I ask) will simply not hold, and I doubt any serious readers will fall for such trollish rhetorics. I know what I am doing lol.
Best,
Teevster
