Seppuku's Journey into Seduction

[Seppuku]

January 4 - Past Year, New Year

2015 has been a year of amazing learning. In total, I have been able to have sexual interactions with 18 different girls, that is 14 with full sexual intercourse, and 4 with some other form of sexual contact (blowjob, sucking boobs, fingering etc...). The first 7 months of the year I slowly built my online dating skills... But my results greatly improved starting from august, when I started to apply the same day lay strategy. My date-to-lay ratio simply doubled, from one lay in three dates before, to two out of three after. Also, I voluntarily lowered my standards (as advocated by Chase is one of his articles) to include women down to 6 on a scale of 10. It is of course less satisfactory to bed a 6, than a 9 or 10... although I much prefer a 6 with a very high sexual drive than a 9 with low libido and little experience. On the other hand, bedding more women allowed me to increase my confidence, sexiness and skill. The culmination point was my success in pulling lays within a short time frame in Singapore, Laos and Thailand. Finally, as I started to become aware of a post sex retention problem, I spent the last quarter of the year reflecting on how to build successful relationships rather than simply lays. Drexel Scott, Franco and Black Dragon were huge sources of inspiration (will need to reread Ricardus). I started to apply my new learning to Olivia, Jenna and Gina.

I expect 2016 will be a very busy year at multiple levels. It is my intention this year to leave my current salary job in Doha, get out of Qatar, settle in South East Asia, and get my own consultancy business started. After 8 years in Middle East I have accumulated enough savings to be able to sustain myself (plus what I pay to support my children) for a period of time on a relatively decent lifestyle. It is however going to be my primary objective to restore a sustainable source of income within the next three years.

As for the place where I will settle, I am currently hesitating between Cebu, in the Philippines, and Bangkok in Thailand. I have ruled out Manila because of the criminality there, and also the awful traffic situation. Bangkok is a central hub, easily accessed from anywhere. Cebu is more remote, nearly all travels happening through Manila, and a longer distance from Europe. However Cebu is an easier place from the point of view of language, everybody there speaking a good English, so it will be easier to integrate there. Although in Bangkok I should easily manage my way in English, the language will always remain a barrier. I don't have to make a final choice now, so I will probably stay a little bit of time in both cities. In both Bangkok and Cebu, I already have at least one girlfriend living there.

I still want to continue to learn the seduction game. In 2016, I will work on increasing my standards (only girls 8 or more). And I will focus on learning how to build meaningful relationships with quality women, spending the time required for relationship building and management, aiming at setting up what Franco and Black Dragon call "Multiple Long Term Relationships".. Yet in seduction one cannot afford to drop the inflow of new women. Considering the busy 2016 plan, I am setting a "light" target of 12 minimum new lays for the year, one per month in average. It requires getting about 15 new contacts, and one or two dates, per month, maybe ten hours max in a month.

Now, let us see how things will play out!

 

[Seppuku]

Jan 9 - Gina, Abby, Elisa

Gina
On Friday, Gina came to my home by 6:30 pm to bring me a soup and do me some body massage. I have been a bit sick from a cold this week, so she wanted to treat me a bit. So nice of her. After the dinner and the body massage, we have a fuck session. I'm still a bit weak from my cold. She comes but I don't go all the way.

Elisa
This wonderful fuck from September is back today, quite unexpectedly. Last time I had discussed with her she intended to return to the Philippines on November 13. So to my surprise she was back on my WeChat this morning with quite a story.

What a story. I learn that she is still in Doha. When we met, she had just broke up with her BF... Although what she told me back then was, no boyfriend in 3 years here. When I went to my September Asia trip, she returned to Mr. BF. Now the reason she tells me all this today, is because for some reason some pictures of her and me were leaked, and the BF saw it. She told him that we met only once and nothing happened. She’s afraid that the BF might try to contact me to double check the story.

I tell her that I don’t mind if she has a BF, I mind if she’s honest and respects me. I tell her she lied to me a lot, then blocked me on wechat. She apologizes. I tell her she's probably with the wrong guy if he's so upset. She says they were together 3 years. I doubt anybody will try to contact me. But if this happens, discretion is part of the Seppuku honor code.

LR: Abby

Another long standing business finally brought to a happy conclusion. It's another rinse and repeat of my usual, no need to make it a formal LR.

About a year ago I contacted her on wechat. That was back the first week of Jan 2015 when I returned from France and looking to start over the dynamics again. Abby was 23 at that time, a private nurse taking care of a sick child in a family, and working on night shift. Her day off was the Saturday, and back then it was the day I devoted to my children. So needless to say that the logistics made it really tough to conclude. On Valentine's day, thanks to the "Valentine effect" on single girls, she recontacted me and we managed to have a quick micro date, a lunch date on a Saturday. Her face was sort of cute but her body was quite shapy and I wouldn't mind my hands on her curves.

It remained mostly under radar until last November when I recontacted her. My children are no longer with me and I'm free on Saturday daytime, so it's a completely different story now. We organized a lunch date some time in December, and she came with a friend. After that we kept in regular text while I was gone to Asia for vacations.

Today is the first Saturday since my come back... And we finally meet the two of us only. I take her at her place at 11:50am. When she’s in the car I tell her the plan: we go to QDC (the State's alcohol/pork monopoly, and only alcohol retailer in the whole of Qatar) to buy some alcohol and pork. Then we return home and I cook an omelet with pork bacon. Then I drive her back before 5 (she starts her night shift at 6:30 pm). She’s fine.

We reach my home and she helps me in the kitchen. Then we serve the omelet with a glass of red wine (wine from Sicily - delicious!). There has already been a little make out in the kitchen before. More make out. I touch her a bit. But she says she has her period and we end up lying on the sofa, her head on my shoulder, sleeping. Now I remember the exchange with Ray that the period excuse is possibly a leadership test or LMR, worth insisting through. So at some point I take her out of the sofa and tell her “come on” then lead her to the bedroom.

In the bed it’s much more comfortable. I get her to remove her top and bra and start sucking her boobs and she really likes it. She asks if I have a condom, and yes, I have plenty. Smirk on her face “Why do you have plenty?” Basically asking if I’m fucking plenty of girls. I escape: “I have condoms, if I need it”. She says she has a little bit of blood left. “We just need to put a towel”. I have an old one. Fortunately she doesn’t notice it’s tainted from another woman’s period lol.

Now we’re all naked. After a little foreplay I put my condom and take her. There are traces of blood indeed, so little. She likes it on top and comes first. I take her also from behind, then back to missionary and it’s me coming. We have a nap and I drive her back. She’s a 7. She has a nice shape body, a nice ass and very soft skin. It was a pretty enjoyable fuck in spite of being first sex.


Note: all these girls are recurrent girls, met or contacted before. To this, add Jenna and Olivia. Plus Lucy my ex girlfriend who is discreetly coming back. A larger part of my time is now about managing existing interactions, as opposed to finding brand new girls.

 

[ray_zorse]

Re: Seppuku's Journal - dating in Doha

Fortunately she doesn’t notice it’s tainted from another woman’s period lol.

LOL. Thanks for the shout out. And thanks for your kind reply the other day. It's really good to be able to help each other out. I decided fuck r/ship mgt for a little while and stop giving her so much attention. I did my own priorities for a bit and felt better. I don't think there is any issue of becoming dependent fortunately, but your wise advice was still quite eye opening. Anyway I have resolved to send her home next week until the weekend and to do some other approaching. It will be tough to reverse a precedent but since it has been holiday time I think it should be possible. Hmm.

Ray

 

[Seppuku]

Re: Seppuku's Journal - dating in Doha

Ray,

I decided fuck r/ship mgt for a little while and stop giving her so much attention. I did my own priorities for a bit and felt better.

Very good! I realize what I wrote on your journal is a very strong opinion. Women's betaization is largely unconscious and coming from a good perspective, and if we're going to live with a woman we'll have to go there to some extent. For now I try to avoid it, but it's plenty of lustful females around who'd love to catch me in their net ;-). All I'm saying is, remain vigilant, and keep some options.

I managed, fortunately, to keep a good relationship with my ex wife and her family. I guess both of us understood it's for the broader good of our children. No lengthy legal battles, I'm so grateful of this. In spite of a failed love relationship (very early on in the marriage) we managed to grow some mutual respect. Yet she really viewed me all these years as a "walking wallet" (and still does, although she lost hold on me)... So I know what I'm talking about.

Anybody reading this, especially the younger guys in this board, I advise them to be very careful.

OK for now!
Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[Seppuku]

January 22 - six girls

I want to report the following, which happened today. I was at the supermarket, at the checkout counter and the cashier is pretty. I'm initially not looking at her but I can see from corner vision that she glanced at me. I look at her now and she smiles. I smile back and tell her "Hello cute cute!", and she laughs. While she scans the items she gives me this small customer survey to fill in, with a pen. Honestly I've already filled the same survey two times this week. Without hesitation I write my phone number and name on the survey, give it to her and tell her "Text me". She seems excited and smiles and wants to know from which country I am. "France! I will text you sir" Sure, no problem. I ask her name, chat a little bit, then leave. Let's see what happens, but she seemed really into it, it's a 50% chance I would say. Should do that more often

Apart from this, I've got no real time for brand new girls, just already quite busy managing several interactions, 3 in Qatar here and 2 long distance. I've had some matches in Badoo and Tinder but really no time to follow up.

Abby
I haven't seen Abby since last time. She's available only on Saturday and the previous Saturday she was unwell. It is now agreed to meet tomorrow. She's already starting to frame it in BF/GF more, and suggested we go boating on the Bay. I am planning to give her the all too important second fuck. We'll see about boating.

Gina
I met with Gina on Friday 15th. She bought a massage oil and had plenty of plans to give me massage. We went to see "The Revenant" together and gosh, what a great movie. Back home I initiated a very quick cooking then we went on the sofa for an express fuck. She's so damn excited. After dinner we resumed the sexual operations in my bedroom. After that, she innocently suggested to stay over at my place for the night, which I declined. I think I will take some distance now.

Jane
Jane is orbiting around again. There was a Pakistani guy, which incidently she doesn't find attractive, who asked her for marriage, and she called me for advice. "What the hell are you going to do when he'll bring you in Pakistan?" then I spend some time to try to talk some sense into her brain. I explain that so many guys here will be ready to say just anything to get into a girl's pants... Etc... There is also a plan to meet sometime soon, although again it didn't work out last Saturday. She definitely needs Dr Seppuku's infamous treatment.

Genna
Genna from the Philippines gave me a micro drama. She's the one with whom I've been open about non commitment. She is now getting crazy that I might be fucking many girls (which is the case by the way). I triggered the drama against my better judgment when I started to tell her some anecdotes. Well, I've learned my lesson and won't do anything like that anymore. There was a breach in diplomatic relationships for 24 hours, then all resumed as before.

Olivia
Olivia, in Bangkok, is seeking video calls with me every night, and gets crazy if I don't answer once. I had to be harsh again. Honestly I like her, but if she's like this it's going to be difficult. If I ever settle in Thailand she will be on me all the time. I have taken extreme care to explain that I'm not intending to provide for another girl, as I already have my own children to tend to.

Lucy
In addition to that, I have resumed interaction with my previous GF, Lucy. Lucy is an angel, and the several months together she gave me a smooth, quiet, drama free relationship... the trademark of High Self Esteem, Low Sex Drive girl. (Low sex drive but we were nevertheless fucking 2 hours a day during our two weeks trip to the Philippines. It actually means a good self control on her sex drive). She returned to the Philippines for good and started job search. On my side, there were some uncertainties regarding my current career in Qatar and was considering going. Are we ever going to meet again? In the face of all this uncertainties, I thought it was better to let her go... She's 30 and if she finds a man that can marry her and give her kids, its much better for her because I won't do any of this. So in October last year, I spoke to her and let her go. She was silent one month... and reverted to me. Since then our interaction has slowly resumed. As I'm planning a short trip to the Philippines next month, we have agreed in principle that we'll try to meet then. (It is also agreed that I'll meet Genna there. It's going to be an interesting time again lol).

 

[Seppuku]

January 23 - Abby update

In the morning, she texts me to move the appointment to 1pm (instead of 11am). Before accepting I tell her that we'll have less time together. She says she's free until 6pm (instead of 5pm usually - she prepares for her night shift work). OK then, agreed.

In the car she asks where I'm planning to take her for lunch. It's a leadership test in my opinion. Many girls I had last year were asking me the same question straight. If you're not too confident about taking her home, you may pussy out. Don't get your resolve weakened by this (as I did with Joy last April), man up and state your intent clearly. "I'm planning to take you home for lunch. Cooking the salmon shouldn't take more than 30 minutes. After lunch, if we have time, we'll see about boating on the bay. If we don't have time, we'll do boating another day." Said without hesitation in the voice, and I also addressed her boating request from yesterday. She agrees without problem.

At home she tries to derail the plan again. The salmon is cooking and we already had a few kisses. Suddenly she asks for watching a horror movie. "Not now" I say, and I make out with her. After the lunch I take her by the hand and lead her to my bed. She's horny as fuck and takes out her clothes. We have a very good fuck time. I like her body, cute small/medium boobs and nice wide ass. She gets crazy when I eat her pussy (I couldn't do it last time as she was still on period). She has a strong orgasm while riding me on top. As usual I come last. After that we have a good nap and I drive her home.

I believe a girl is not fully yours until you had the second fuckdate. Here, I see she gave me at least three tests. Shifting the date at the last minute and derailing the plan. Leadership resolve when she makes you state explicitly that you're taking her home. Trying to derail the plan further into watching a horror movie. The day before she threw this boating idea. Testing your leadership and resolve, again and again. I held strong. And in the end she was very happy with the outcome.

Good lesson.

Incidentally while I was fucking Abby, I had two missed calls. One from Jane, on a day off, expecting me to pick her up. Sorry darling. Another call from another girl with whom I've been texting since October. That's why it's going to be hard to reach my 2016 new lay target of 10. Too busy with present girls.

EDIT. And unfortunately no news of this cashier, although she looked genuinely interested. It's alright. I should do more of the same. Girls at cash counters are usually under stress and high social pressure. Discreetly giving away my number on a piece of paper is probably the best way to proceed.

 

[Seppuku]

January 31 - Angie

FR: Angie

Girls are masters of deception, and this is particularly true online. Once in a while, you'll have a girl that looks very nice on picture, but which is not nearly as nice in real.

I chatted Angie in Badoo last week and we decided to meet this evening (it's her off day). During the day, as we chat, she tells me she’s fat. When a girl tells you that, it means she’s really fat. But OK, I decide to see how fat is fat and proceed.

I go all the way to the Villagio Mall to meet her, and yes, she has a really fat, large belly. She doesn’t dress nice, which doesn't. Her face features would otherwise be nice. I decide I won’t go overboard with her. We go to the Japanese restaurant as discussed. It turns out that there’s at least 40 minutes of waiting. So we decide to go to the Italian restaurant at Mariott. When we reach, we’re told there’s 1h30 of waiting because completely full. OMG. She doesn’t want to go to the Strata bar because “she does not go to bars often”, nor the W hotel “expensive place” (the Italian restaurant there has normal price, though). Starts to piss me a bit. OK so I will give you a cheap crap. We go at Nando’s in the City Center. Family restaurant with the children crying. Have cheap fatty food. We have a silent time eating our stuff, face to face.

I’m about to eject… But I ask her if she wants to have drinks now. She says yes. And now she wants to see the Strata. Well ok. We go there and have some wine. Nice panoramic, City view. Up to now I have taken her hand occasionally and she seems to like it. In the Strata I take her hand… and she starts to caress and massage my hand and fingers as we speak. I make her talk but don’t pull out my full magic because well, I have decided to up my standards this year and she’s below. But she seems excited about me. Could really grab these boobs. I have the inner debate. To fuck or not to fuck. OK give a try.

So after the Strata I ask her if she wants to see my flat. “It’s OK” which means yes, in my book. Five minutes later we’re on my sofa. I put on on music and serve a bit of white wine. She’s in my arms and feels a bit nervous. We have a makeout and she kisses real good, very passionately. I can tell she’s excited, but she has her “No one night stand” on the forehead. Don’t feel like fighting this, I don’t feel like going all the way through LMR etc… because it’s not worth it, she’s below my standards (minimum 8 as per this year’s resolutions). OK I drive her home. Bye bye darling ;-)

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In the meantime I am still seeing Abby during the weekends and she's a very good fuck, really love her ass. Communication is cut with Gina, she was after the BF/GF thing and when I talked to her about this she self ejected. Jane has been on my back again on Saturday, calling me at the wrong moment when I had movers in my home. I told her I'm free after 6pm. Later I contact her back but she declines, saying that she "prefers when it's around 4pm" Sorry darling, busy day.

 

[Seppuku]

February 6th - Night out with the guys

Busy life
I'm now pretty busy preparing for my upcoming year. My plan is to leave my safe, high paid salary job and establish myself in Asia as an independent consultant. The stuff I'm essentially working on are: where am I going to end up? what are the accommodation prices there? What are the visas available? I also try to develop some contacts around the professional projects that I want to undertake (and maybe some first client). And the corresponding marketing material. I'm currently preparing a trip to Cebu, Philippines, to go and check the real estate there... And visit my current, and past, Philippines girlfriends (Jenna, and Lucy, respectively) which are there.

With this, I have no time really to go fishing around. I have many matches in Badoo and Tinder that I leave and do nothing about. I have an ongoing girlfriend here (Abby) that I see once in a week. My exciting life of the last 6 months of 2015 is a bit fading... momentarily I hope.

Night out
In my office we have a new colleague (a German guy, I was one of those interviewing him for the job), he's new to Doha and looking for pointers to the lifestyle here. Another colleague and myself decide to take him out on this Saturday 6th evening. He turns out to be a very clever and friendly guy... And also experienced in woman. My first time to meet an experienced guy since I gained experience myself. After a dinner we end up in the Kempinsky Lounge (one of the nice bars here). He mentions a number of African current and past girlfriends, and I relate since I had a few Kenyan girls. I can gauge his experience. Two years ago I would have no idea

There are two pretty and sexy girls opposite our table. I can see that our German friend has noticed them as well. He tells us that he needs to speak to them. I encourage him to do so. Smart guy: he asks the waiter to bring a cocktail to each of the two girls. We continue our discussion. The waiter bring the girls their cocktail, they have a happy surprise expression on their face. The waiter tells us that they thank us. I tell the German guy, you should go and speak to them now. He goes and approach them. Seems to go well. After a while he comes back with us. He told them that he would introduce us. We chat a bit. Time to go. No way I'm going to be the shy guy in the back. I look them firmly in the eyes, smile and introduce myself while shaking their hand. The other two guys let me do without a word, giving me some sort of boss aura. Stealing the show. I speak with ease and confidence, no unnecessary excitement, control my voice and sexy smile. I ask their name and nationality, jobs... They're from eastern europe, flight attendants in Qatar airways. Basic chat. OK time for me to go. One of the two girls, that I like the most, is just next to me. I take out my phone and ask her number. She obliges. After that I tell her I'll be in touch, shake their hand, then leave. Later this night I text her "Hey nice to meet you tonight. I'm Seppuku" and she answers 45 mins later.

Outcome
I meet the German guy at the office the next day. He actually stayed with the girls after that, until late at night (like 4 am). They went to another bar. He grabbed the number of the other girl and told me that my girl seemed to be into me. When he asked her number as well, she told him "ask your friend. Do you think he will give it to you?" "No". OK this sounds like genuine interest so my little show of last night seem effective.

Later in the afternoon I engage the girl on Whatsapp. She gives me barriers. This chat unfolds over three hours in the afternoon.

Me: You have flights scheduled soon?
Her: Yes, tomorrow early morning
Me: Are you here Tuesday? It's a national holiday
Her: No, in Berlin
Me: Great. Send me a picture please? (I usually do this as a compliance test)
Her: Why you need my pic?
Me: To look at it ;-)
Her: I don't give my picture to persons I don't know
Me: Fine. Doesn't hurt asking
Her: All good, no worries
Me: Would be nice to catchup some time. How does Wednesday evening look for you?
Her: I'll come back from Berln only on Thursday
Me: OK. I will be on a business trip on Friday morning.
(no further mention of meeting later on. Rather keep her guessing)
Me: Send me pictures ;-)... Of Berlin!
Her: Sure
Me: How old are you?
Her: Too many questions. But I'm not old
Me: OMG. I guess you're not old indeed ;-) Questions go both way of course!
Her:

Well the stars didn't align. She's out until Thursday and I leave Friday early morning. In three weeks time when I'm back it's likely going to be cold, but will give a try anyway. She was not very compliant, but I'm not worried about this. What matters is I have kept my cool and my frame, persisted without chasing, and kept her guessing.

My experience with STD in Qatar
On another note... Well, the guys here had warned me about it. Normally i'm a full condom guy, but late last year I had relaxed the discipline a bit. Could be that the girl asked to "fuck her bare" or simply that I didn't have a condom at hand. So on Jan 4th I start to feel a burning sensation of urine when I pee. Since I've already had urinary infection some decades ago I naturally assumed it was the same.

I normally avoid doctors. The last time I saw one was in 2010. But here I had to do something, so I kicked my ass and went in a private hospital here. Initially the GP asked me if I "had discharges" and I said no. She prescribed me some pills for urinary infection plus a reference to a doctor from urology. I took the pills for about a week but absolutely no changes. Pee is burning when urine is dense, and itching from inside when urine is not dense. So I went to see that urology doctor.

To me, urology has to do with the analysis of urine. Here it turns out that urology is also the place for STD. Not sure how it is in the West, but it would really look like a Qatar thing, not openly recognizing STD for what it is because sex is "sinful". Well, given all the guys from the Gulf I saw in Bangkok, they must have their loads of STDs here anyway. Another thing, I am told as soon as I arrive in the urology department, that STDs are not covered by insurance companies. Another Qatar thing. Insurance companies cannot openly cover this, as it would endorse "illicit, sinful sex".

I tell the nurse guy that it will be up to the doctor to decide the nature of my problem. I finally meet the doctor and he seems very knowledgeable of the topic. He asks me if my condition could be related to "anything that I have done". And yes, in December I had sex with several women, although I cannot say it this way, so I tell him that I had a "partially protected sex" with a woman in Bangkok, and "not a prostitute, a normal woman". He examines me and actually finds traces of discharge (which I hadn't noticed). So it is confirmed, I had "acute urethritis" caused by an STD.

Now, he tells me that if we go for actual tests to further determine the exact nature of my STD, it would have to be reported (and my name) to the Ministry of Health "for statistics purposes". No way of course, because who knows what they'll do with this information. So he suggests to give me a generic treatment, based on the most likely disease causing the symptoms. These possible diseases are, namely, chlamydia, or trichomonas. Both can cause urethritis, although most of the time they cause no symptom at all (and the carrier of the disease is not even aware of having it). He prescribes me a specific antibiotics for each disease. All of this at my expenses, but no worries, I want to heal first and foremost.

That was two weeks ago, and the symptoms have disappeared now.

Since January, being in doubt of what I had, I made sure all my sexual intercourses were fully protected, so no worry that I had gave the thing to one of my girls here. Now the question is who passed it to me. The incubation period is between one and 3 weeks (until appearance of symptoms). This would point to either Jenna, or this Lao girl (although it was a little bit less than a week... 5 days). I also met Olivia, but I had sex with her in October (somewhat unprotected) and got nothing back then. 70 pct of people who have these disease develop no symptom at all and wouldn't be aware they have it.

This will be my lesson. Will restore a strict condom discipline. And I will take the other advice I got from Ray and other guys, will do a complete checkup... Once I get out of Qatar, later this year.

 

[Seppuku]

February 12th - Night out in Abu Dhabi

Just a quick update form my last post. The latest tests have confirmed I'm clear of STD. It was most likely Chlamydia although I will never know for sure. Now to my today's post.

I am on a two weeks holiday and heading to Cebu, Philippines where I intend to check the real estate there. There are seemingly very attractive rental yields and potential for capital appreciation as well. I also expect a five day sexual marathon my Jenna my girlfriend there. Since I'm flying with Etihad Airways I decided to make a little stop in Abu Dhabi and stay a couple of days with a good friend of mine.

Night out with my friend

I used to live here five years ago, and there are a lot of changes... Starting with proper bars with DJs and alcohol licenses (it used to be only in hotels). So on Friday evening I go out with him to such a bar. Plenty of guys, but also many girls by themselves, and interestingly some Emiratis guys dressed western style.

I am not much into night game and cold approach (I'm doing mosty online apps) and I recognize it's a weakness in my game. Need practice. As soon as I arrive, I approach two filipinas sitting by themselves at the bar, “Hey girls, I’m Seppuku, let’s take a picture together?” and we take a selfie shot. I sit near them… Then notice there’s a cocktail in front of my seat. “Anyone sitting here?” “Yeah ” OK, so I just move one notch. Then an old guy comes (it was his seat and cocktail) and start hitting on them big time. Honestly he might not be much older than me but he looks older (or more like, I look younger than my age).

I'm with my friend the whole time and we have an ongoing conversation the whole evening, more on that later. We comment on Mr Old Guy and the girls next to us. He’s too much try hard, and the girls body language is not that open to him. They glance at me once in a while. My friend says one of the two seems into me. “But the problem of these girls is they can’t say no”. Later on, they leave, and I think they’re on the way out to escape Mr Old Guy. I stand up and follow them, then stop them. “Excuse me! One minute please!” Soft but firm, smiling. I ask their phone number. They give it. I will send them the shot I took.

Later at my surprise they come back to the bar (I realize they just went to the restroom). Mr Old Guy is right back on them. He’s too funny, try hard, and dressed poorly. Not a reader of GC obviously! A muscular guy comes in as well and start hitting on them too. Busy night for the girls My guess is, they’re more into Muscle man. But for some reason he eventually leaves, and they’re back with Mr Old Guy.

I’m into my conversation with my friend. We both agree that Old Guy will not succeed tonight. Ultimately when we leave, I go to the girls, wink at them, touch their bare shoulders, say bye and tell them I’ll be in touch. My guess: I approached confidently and earned points. I stopped them on the way to toilets and got their numbers, and earned some points. Then (partly because I was into the chat with my friend) I didn’t engage into the competition and left them alone with the loser, and lost points there. My learning: taking phone numbers in confidence.

The chat with my friend

My friend is 35 and I realize he has so much wisdom about girls. Back in the days when I used to hang out with him, I was not myself nearly this level. He tells me “Girls are just silly. All you need is the balls to approach them, that makes them excited.” I tell him of my recent experiences and mention there’s a virtuous circle. He agrees. “The more girls you have, the more confidence you get, the more it shows out, and the more you get girls”. About marriage, he tells me he made a clear deal with his the future wife. “I want to marry because I want to have a family. Don’t give me monogamy talk. I want to keep my freedom to do what I want on the side”. She agreed to it, as long as she does not know what he does. That’s the deal between them. He keeps fucking girls on the side, and she’s not asking questions. This way, their marriage is likely to last. So much wisdom, I wish I had known of all this in my younger age. He learned all this at age 18 for older mentors. Learning from the right people is a talent.

 

[Seppuku]

February 14th - Valentine update

The Valentines Day is essentially a girl thing. It's about showing to Society that they're not single, and able to catch decent fish. And when they have a fish, it's about testing their power over the poor guy, checking that he behaves as a good boy. The cruel joke is for the girls who don't have a V date. For them it's a reminder that the clock is ticking and they're still single. Overall, the best strategy for a guy is to avoid a Valentines date if possible. It's a massively beta thing.

So what is my "Valentine score" this year?

The first one in the dance was J., a girl from Dubai that I never met, and with whom I chatted some time last June. I contacted her two weeks ago to see if I could arrange a quick meetup on the 13th as I expected to be in Dubai this day. But she framed the meeting as a valentine date. Sorry darling, I don't do valentines dates. So the meeting never took place.

Then my regulars, Jenna and Olivia, from Philippines and Thailand respectively, both sent me Valentines greetings, to which I politely responded. Olivia waited 0:00 am on 14th, Bangkok time, to send me the pictures of roses and eternal love. Jenna was strangely silent on the 14th, until I open up with "Good morning" (Usually it's her opening me). Then chat engages and later on she sends me V greetings.

Abby, my Doha GF, learned I was travelling on the 14th and mentioned we would have a sad Valentine, to which I said we'll do a replacement after I'm back.

On the surprises side now. A., a girl from Bahrain with whom I chatted some time but never met in real, sent me a happy V. K., a girl I matched with in Singapore but didn't really chat with, sends me a "happy Valentine in advance".

At lunch time, I was having the buffet in this international hotel, and one of the cute waitresses seemed to be smiling to me from afar, although I couldn't say for sure. When I go to the cash counter to pay she's here. As she processes my payment, she smiles to me and say "Happy Valentine, sir!". I muttered something back and didn't react fast enough on this.

Finally, Jane comes last in the dance and sends me a happy V.

As a side note, later in the evening Olivia reverts to me. She's full of questions, like why is she still single, and what do I want from my life. On the still single question, I tell her, rather sharply, that she's single because she chose to like the guy from Qatar 5000 km away, rather than a guy from Bangkok. It's not the first time that I say this. Her usual answer is that here guys are very bad. Well, no surprise with all the sex tourists. Really the Valentines Day is a cruel joke for some women.

 

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Feb 24th - A week in the Philippines

So I went all the way to Cebu, the second city in the Philippines, with the purpose of checking the real estate there, and also spending some time with my Philippines girlfriend Jenna. And as each time I'm there, it's like wow! My Badoo and Tinder accounts give me about 20 to 25 matches per day in total, which is much much more than I can reasonably handle. There is obviously some further selection to do within these matches - careful of all the ladyboys, working professionals and gold diggers there. But even like that there is still ample material to work with!

I arrived there on the 15th evening, and it is agreed that Jenna will join me at the hotel starting from the 17th, so the time is very short to get to something concrete. I pass the details here, but I will manage to have 4 mini dates "on the side" during my stay, while my GF waits for me at the hotel doing online work... although unfortunately unable to pull. So it's really dates "to see" and test the waters.

Evening date with C. Things didn't engage well. We matched in Tinder but later in the course of our chat, she asks if I need a city tour guide. Typically feminine: advertise her charms on Tinder but actually selling city tours. I decline and say I'm not looking for any sort of professional services. "So your just looking for your date to show you around?" she asks. "There's nothing wrong with this." Later in the afternoon she asks if I have found anyone for a date, and I say no, so she says she's available in evening. So I get to see her in person. She's pretty. I take her to a restaurant nearby, and she shows signs of uneasiness when I take her hand (something I do now systematically in the very first minutes of first date with a girl), but I hold firm. The dinner goes well. Quality food for 8 dollars per person. I make her speak about her ex BF. After we're done, I take her hand and tell her, let's go, then lead her to a the nearest taxi. "Where are we going" and she says she expected to go back home. I tell her that we go to my hotel for drinks. She doesn’t want, and finally I let her go. It’s the first time that I try to pull a girl and she resists (and escapes) the pull. When she’s back home, I text her that i find it a bit impolite, with a pretty girl, to not at least try to make love to her. “It’s a homage to her beauty”. Some blah blah, then good night, then off.

Lunch date with K. Another Tinder match. I meet her at 11am for lunch on the 17th - but my GF Jenna is supposed to join me around 3pm at my hotel, so the time is short again. She’s fatter that anticipated from her pictures, but otherwise nice smile and pretty. Coffee shop, restaurant, I deep dive her story while taking her hand and playing with her hair, and there is no awkwardness. After the lunch we walk around in the mall, hand in hand. I have an internal debate: she’s fat and I really don’t need another fatty to my list... But on the other hand she's very much into me. She says something about the present moment, and I answer "Yes, we're holding hands like teenagers, and not doing some more adult things ;-)" To which she responds that she can walk with me to the hotel. OK, that will solve the debate. We’re in the lounge of my hotel and when I get out of the restrooms she’s her on a sofa. "Would you come with me?" I take her hand and lead her straight to my room. She sits in the sofa, I sit next to her, she says something and I respond "I’m going to give you a proper goodbye" then make out with her. As I kiss her I start to grab her boobs and kiss them. But clock is ticking, she has to be back to work soon, she looks the watch and I tell her "I know". She stands up and leave the room. She will continue to text me many times the rest of the week, but I more or less let it die out.

Quick coffee date with J. J is actually a girl that I matched with on Badoo in July last year when I was here. She found out on Badoo that I was around and reconnected me... and chased me for a few days - I was busy with the real estate, and with by GF. On Friday morning I finished my visit of another apartment, and Jenna is working at the hotel. I text J that I’m available for lunch if she wants to join. She lives nearby and joins me 30 minutes later for a coffee. She’s thin and sexy, luminous smile. We’re having coffee and I deep dive her. I take her hand almost immediately, I sense some lack of comfort, she lets me do nevertheless. When the time is over I take a selfie of us. After our meeting, she turned silent. She was nevertheless the first to text, very late this night, to complain that I never message her. In spite of what she says, I guess something didn't go well, she seemed so much into me before meeting, but not that excited in person... Or she wasn't sexually available after all, despite claiming being single. It's alright.

Coffee date with E. It's my last day here, and I manage to free myself up from my GF, some time around noon. I’m at Ayala center and take a quick look at all the girls who messaged me in the last week. There is one who actually asked if I would meet her. She seems to live close. I text her if she’s available for lunch or coffee. She wants to meet at 3pm. I tell her the stars don’t align because I have a meeting with the real estate agent. She finally agrees to 2:30, and I tell her I push my meeting to 3:30. So… We get to meet at 2:30 for a coffee. She’s thin and very pretty. Looks a little petite and girlish, but she’s 27 years old. The contact is better than with J. She is a bit surprised that I take her hand… But apparently she likes it because she becomes touchy too. We discuss our stories. She lived with a man 8 years but is looking to move on now. She asks what I think of asian girls. She warns me of ladyboys here, I joke about the “ladyboy surprise”, then ask her if she’s one. I’m now touchy, take her hand, grab her by the arm, invade her personal space, caress her hair, etc… Overall it goes well. When we leave, we walk out a couple of minutes then I take a selfie of us… and as I’m close I take advantage and steal a kiss on the cheek, she appreciates, we say bye, I take and kiss the back of her hand, then cheek again (no make out if I can't close). I’m off. We text later at night on Viber. She will turn out to be very excited about me and to this day we are still in touch.

Cold approach I'm not a master at street & mall cold approach, but this place seems to be very good for this.

On my first day I'm on my own in the mall, and I see a stunning girl some 20 meters away... then chicken out. Later I see her again, she's a bit further away and I'm behind her. I think of going, but it seems she has felt my presence so now I look like stalking here and creepy. Just give up. The best time to approach was of course the first time.

Later the same day I see two girls standing there, I approach both like "let's take a picture", and take a selfie with the prettiest of both. Strike a chat, but very soom the cutie says "do you need company?" which sounds like offering professional service. I say "it depends" then eject out.

Even more later there's a girl walking my way and seems to look at me, I remove my sunglasses and catch her eyes, smile, then say "hello!", she smiles back and answers "Hi!" but the she's already passed. It took 5 seconds.

I enter a real estate agency. I say hi to the girls and talk to the sales lady. As she leaves to fetch a document, I take a seat next to a charming girl who smiles at me. “No don’t be shy, you can stay” as she’s about to stand up and leave the sofa all for me. “Let’s take a picture” and I take a selfie of both of us. Smiles and laughs. The sales lady comes back and takes a selfie of the three of us. I chat with the cute girl about how I can send her the picture, and she wants to add me on Facebook. Her facebook is private so I have to send her a FB message “Please invite me”. The sales lady wants now to invite me on Facebook. Instead, I give her my Viber so that we keep touch for business purposes. As we talk conversation goes on where I’m from and what I do, and I start talking about me with three ladies watching me. I touch the cute girl and tell her “to your benefit, I’m single” with a wink, all girls laugh. Etc… When I leave, they all laugh and start to chat excitedly. Later this week I will interact more this sales lady who seems pretty flirty and into me. I guess she's excited at how I hit on the younger girl at the agency. She's in her late forties but still sexy. I keep it strictly business.

At the Ayala mall, there is a young woman walking with her daughter. She’s pretty and a bit shapey. I approach her and politely ask for the nearest bank. She smiles and displays positive body language. She says she’ll walk me part of the way. I stick around and ask about her daughter’s name. We walk and I ask her name. “Apple” “I see. Like the fruits? But I prefer pears”. She laughs. “It’s alright, I like apples too.” Time to separate, she goes up, I go right. I shake her hand. She enjoyed the whole episode.

All in all, it was all very positive experience there girlwise, even if I didn't take any new girl to bed. I'm in the process of purchasing and apartment there. If I relocate there I'm going to be *very* busy!

 

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March 19th - Two dates back to back

Happy to report some good news, the internal professional move within my organization, that I have been expecting for long, finally materialized. It turns out that I will stay in Qatar for a little longer, instead of leaving, as I thought earlier. What it means, in terms of this Journal, is that now I have more clarity on my immediate professional whereabouts, and I will be able to devote more time to my learning of the seduction game. (My expected move and settling in Asia is just deferred to later).

In January I had to let go Gina, because of her high expectations about me. Early in March I had to let go Jenna, my GF from Cebu. Here in Qatar I was only seeing Abby (now my only regular GF). She's cute and has a nice shapey body, and I enjoy fucking her. The end result is, I am now "de facto monogamous", and according to BlackDragon, for girls it smells exactly the same as regular monogamous, i.e. beta. And indeed, lately, I have experienced a sort of dry spell - reminiscent of my situation in August 2015, right after I separated from my then girlfriend Lucy. I have had three dates in Doha, plus a few in the Philippines, where I have been unable to lead the project to a successful end.

So I'm hoping the following LR marks the end of this dry spell: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13375

FR: Night out in Doha - crazy woman.
My German colleague - let's call him Harry - has a plan to meet some thai girl on Thursday evening... And she'll be coming with a girlfriend. So he kindly suggests that I join them. It will be in a new skybar at the 61st floor of Kempinski hotel, and I have never been there, so that will be a perfect chance to discover the place.

I meet Harry there around 8pm - not yet crowded - and we have a very friendly chat around a glass of red wine. The city view from 61st floor is stunning. The girls come around 9:30pm. They're cute, both Thai women in their late 30s (more than my usual age, but ok). It seems I make a very positive impression on them (I can tell). Harry and myself are two attractive guys, we know it, and it shows. Harry lets me know the one he is interested (after all, it's supposed to be his girl). Both are equally cute so I don't mind. I step in and sit in the middle of the two girls. Move welcome, big smiles. I engage S. (my target) and the other girl moves to sit with Harry. It's a good time, get to know chat, good vibe. I take the phone "it's selfie time!" and take a nice shot of both of us. She loves it. "I will send it to you!" and let her enter her phone number. I see her under Whatsapp and send her our pic. What a very nice and natural way to get a phone number and send an ice breaker message, love it. After that we continue to chat and I become a bit touchy. She seems to like it. At some point I take her hand... she smiles, remove her hand from mine but lingers it touchily on my forearm.

We ultimately leave the place and go to the irish pub in Sheraton. Very noisy, live band, crowded, plenty of drunk guys. I stay a little bit with my girl. Then leave about one hour before close. Too noisy here, don't really like it. Also, she will feel my absence while being hit by all the drunkards, I don't feel challenged, I already know she likes me.

The next day, she's the first to text at around 11:30am. I also get the texts of my friend. I infer that the rest of the evening was a bit lame and I left at the peak. I chat her a bit but don't setup a date for now and leave her wanting more, again. In fact, the same evening I'm having the LR with Laurie.

On Saturday, I text her first around 1pm, and we agree to meet at the coffee shop inside the museum at 5:30 pm. Later I leave my home by 5:10.... and get stuck into heavy traffic. Unexpected, I would say, on a Saturday. And I take 50 minutes to reach, instead of planned 20 minutes. And guess what, the miss S gets crazy upset on Whatsapp because I'm 30 minutes late. As I drive through the traffic, I initially think this is a joke, but no, she's really upset: I made a mess, I knew the time, I should have left earlier, I don't respect her, etc... I'm now almost there, I text her "You need to tell me if you still want to meet" and she asks me to decide for myself. "Obviously, you're upset, it's not a good idea". She says I made a mess, but she's already here so she'll wait if I'm close.

Now this is not OK. Had my share of anger-prone girls in my life. This one already making drama before our very first one-to-one date, what is it going to be like if we go on? So it's already a no go, but I'm almost there so I will face her.

I meet her like a man who expects to deal with a crazy drama queen. But she tries to defuse the tense ambiance. Things cool down a bit and we're soon having a normal conversation around a drink. Can't resolve myself to drop her there after 30 minutes face to face... I want to prove her wrong and show her who I am. But instead of me inviting her home for dinner, I take her to the Thai restaurant. We have a dinner. She is the one touchy, not me. I pay the bill (55$ total, it's nothing for me). Then we go to the parking. I know she's expecting more, but sorry darling, I shake her hand, look her in the eyes, and say "Don't be upset. I respect you" then leave to my car. Later she texts "Thanks for dinner. Next time I invite you to XXX restaurant" I politely respond thank you, you're welcome, then off.

The reason we are learning seduction is to be in a position to chose, and veto out of this sort of behavior.

 

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April 3rd - Back to basics

I am currently experiencing a dry spell, and I see concurrent causes:

* With the successes of the past year, overconfidence makes me neglect some of the acquired basics
* Complacency and laziness mean I don't push things as much as I should do, wasting several new contacts
* I am getting really used to having real sex at least once a week, and I find porn completely boring. As a result I'm starting to get needy if I don't have my dose.
* Relationships are a good thing overall, but also a drag for learning seduction. Even after dropping a few girls (Gina, Jenna, ...) I still have one regular GF here in Doha plus a few "long distance flings" texting me every day and night. Yes it keeps me occupied, but the time and energy is not used looking for new girls.

On March 26th, my GF Abby was not available on our usual Saturday meet. So, on Saturday evening I invite Laurie to join me and friends for the new Batman v Superman movie. After the movie I take her home and she starts to give me the same scenario as the first time (the no kiss crap), on the same sofa where she avidly swallowed my dick a week before. When I drive her home I tell her in a very calm and collected tone, that I have basic expectations from a girl. Since then, no more contact.

After that, mid week, I find myself in a very needy state. I resist the temptation to text Lucy, Angie or Elisa (my ex GF) but can't help drop a text to Rachel (my GF from late 2014). That's awful. It is time to focus again on the basics, and get new girls on a consistent basis. I read back my notes from last year. Let's write it again here:

* Each new contact should be immediately followed up by proposing a date
* It's counterproductive to contact new girls if no immediate date slot available
* Need to kick myself out of laziness, and out of comfort zone
* More aggressive, push, and push fast

Objectives:
* One date per week at least. This is in addition of my weekly meet with GF Abby.
* About 10 new contacts per week. This should be modulated according to circumstances, such as if date slots are already taken by recurring contacts from last week
* Track my contacts and follow up with each of them

So, starting on the 29th, I engage into a systematic WeChat approach campaign, and by Friday 1st I get 7 new contacts.

3 contacts: bad logistics.
1 contact: very young (21) for me. She resist my picture compliance request and answers "let's see" to date request.
1 contact: to follow up

This leaves me with two new contacts: Deborah, and Ginger (my FR++: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13522)

Deborah is a very pretty Filipina, 27 years old. From the pictures, I would rate her an 8. I contacted her on Wednesday 30th. Good vibe. When we first chat she's on an evening out with her girlfriends. She initially tests me a little: "I want my friend at same level as me" (referring to our relative job status) and I answer "I don't care what my friend does for a job. I care about who she really is. Who are you?" etc... I think I handle myself well. By 11 pm she suggests I join her with her friends. I'm already in bed and I wouldn't make it there before 11:45pm, and I have a job tomorrow. Well, about a year ago, I would have kicked my butt to go there, never mind if I sleep 3 hours later. That's what I mean by "kick myself out of laziness, and out of comfort zone". After that the interaction went in the background, until today, where I revived the chat and setup a date for coming Wednesday. To be continued.

 

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April 8th - Three dates in a row

Quite a lot of dates this week, no need to add much contacts. I nevertheless get 7 new contacts.

* 1 new with bad logistics (she may have 4 hours of off time sometimes in may - lol - poor girl)
* 2 I'm not too interested
* 2 chat is off very quickly - time wasters
* 1 potentially interesting contact - Tina, see below - to follow up next week

From last week, follow up with two contacts Ginger and Deborah. 1 extra potential opening with another.

Ginger
I have already described my interaction with Ginger from China in my FR++. There has been some further exchange since then, described here: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13522&p=68901#p68901

After that I have pinged her by text on Wednesday with no answer. It's now for her to revert to me, or off.

FR: Date with Annie - April 5th
At 6pm, the same day I was trying to pitch a dinner at my place to Ginger, I got the surprise Whatsapp text from Annie, a Tinder match with whom I chatted a month back but never met. She seems restless, super bored, and decided to do something tonight. She suggests a dinner tonight. “OK why not?” We agree on the intercontinental.

She’s supposed to take a taxi and reach around 7:30pm. But by 8:15 I have no news, although she did text that she was on the way, by 7pm. At 8:15 I text her “This is not serious. If you change your plans on the way to the city, you should have the decency to inform me. Good evening”. I return home and eat my dinner. By 8:40pm she texts me back about how sorry she is, and some bullshit explanation. We agree to meet anyway at 9, at Intercont. I take her to the Strata.

I tell her that her cover story is not neat, and get to understand that she was in fact meeting friends at the city center. The incident is quickly closed and soon the good mood comes back. She says she’s cold (wearing a sleeveless shirt), and takes a light sweater from her bag. I touch her bare skin on the arm. "Either sexy, or not cold ;-)" She laughs and don’t put her sweater. We order wine and food. OMG she doesn’t like the smoked salmon (she thought it was grilled). I joke her that it was clearly written smoked salmon on the menu. She starts to feed me with the salmon. I say I’m controlling my weight. She says she lost 5kg in the last month, to 50kg down from 55. I take the chance to touch her belly fat and comment playfully.

After these couple of incidental touch from me, the touching dynamics changes completely. I’m relaxed and leaning back on my chair, but oriented away from her, turning my back to her a little bit. Great posture! Now it’s her into me, and initiating all touch. I’m always acutely aware of the touching dynamics and the subcommunication going on. I can tell she likes me. We end up holding hands, I think at her own progressive initiative.

On the communication side, she explains how she was engaged with a man here, who ended up cheating her. All diplomatic relations broken after that. She’s clearly looking for marriage. I disqualify myself clearly, saying I’m not going to marry again, and explaining my views. I also explain my past relationships (three girlfriends). Overall the mood is very good and fun. As said, on the touching side I can tell she likes me a lot. However she only has one hour available, so no time to attempt a pull. I leave it here. We finish, then I put her in a taxi to al Wakra and tell her goodbye. She texts me first… But from the next day, nothing.

Very likely she has integrated that I’m not a husband candidate. It may not be over. Let us see how this evolves into long game.

FR: Date with Deborah - April 7th
As said, I initially arranged the date on the 6th. However something came up on the 6th that emotionally affected her. She texts me to apologize and cancel the date. I don’t freak out or express any sort of frustration. “Sorry to hear. Anything serious?” “OK, get well”. etc… For the moment I didn’t even suggest a replacement date. The next day she’s the one to suggest the replacement date… for the same night.

We meet at 7:30pm in the City Center Mall and proceed to the Italian restaurant in Marriott hotel. All the staff there knows me and welcomes me, which gives me some social preselection, the (female) manager even compliments me as a handsome man. Deborah is petite, extremely pretty and feminine, cute like a magazine image, I would say 8 at least. She has a very soft voice. We sit side by side. I sense her reservation so I don’t engage in touching for now, and start deep diving her story.

She’s 27, she came here 2+ years ago, wanting to experience working abroad. She’s not married or single mother like so many other filipinas that I met before. She’s from a women only family and discovered who her real father was at age 24. She’s currently remitting money for her half sisters to study. She’s had an unfortunate boyfriend experience here, which happened like 6 months ago. The guy needed money. They go to a Filipino lender. He lends money against passport. Somehow, she ends up putting her own passport in guarantee. Then later they break up. After that, the guy decides not to pay back. And now she’s stuck without passport and couldn’t go back to the Philippines for vacation. She made an arrangement to pay back by installments, in order to recover her passport. How crap. I tell her that at least it’s a good lesson. No lending within a relationship.

When we finish the restaurant we go out and I take her hand. She lets me do but her reaction is genuine shyness. I am starting to get a picture that she’s HSE/LD (High Self Esteem, Low Drive), somewhat the same model as Lucy my ex GF. This means patience and persistence.

I take her to the Strata. The waitress here and the entrance staff saw me three times this week, with three different girls, lol. We order drink and I try to replicate the posture I had with Annie two days before, namely laid back and relaxed, close to her but turned a little away from her. I continue to make her talk. She still has her reserved physical attitude. It’s now me starting to chat her, I want to build up more comfort. I talk about deep subjects and get all her attention. Towards the end I think her attitude is getting more open and receptive. However it would be counter productive to pull at this stage. Still more comfort - and tension - necessary. We’ve been face to face about 2 hours now. I turn towards her, look into her eyes, take her hand in mine and compliments her. Her skin is very soft, and I keep touching it gently. I gently caress her hair, cheek and neck, compliment her long, black hair. I explain why I think asian girls are, in average, more feminine than western girls (in my view). I gauge her reception. Receptive, but shyly looking away at times. I think she likes it overall, there was no negativity, just shyness. She will need a bit more time, so I decide it’s time to take her home. In the taxi, I take her hand in mine and sense she’s more comfortable. Game is on, to be continued.

Engaging Tina - April 8th
I engage in a new chat with Tina. She’s a potential interest. Very pretty (7 or 8), she lives with her relatives (and not company accommodation, meaning she has freedom). She’s in a 9 to 5 job meaning she will have free evenings and simple logistics. In our initial chat, she initially resists my picture request but finally sends one to me after my playful response. She disqualifies herself (“I’m not pretty”) which I use as an excuse to get the picture from her, and later qualify her “You’re very pretty!” when she sends it. Then she compliments me many times. When she says she’s single, I disqualify her “OMG. Looking for marriage ” then she qualifies herself “I’m not looking for marriage, just enjoy myself as a single” hahaha masterful technique, I should use it more. I float the idea of a meeting some time, and she’s open.

 

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April 11th - Quick notes about last week

Some further reflections about last weeks dates.

Ginger
Failed escalation, it's done. I tried to push for a dinner at my place but she denied. Later she texted me with compliments on my profile picture... And I rushed in with another date proposal. She sent a smiley then said "I want to go with you but I won't have the time!". In my view she was playing a little bit with me, and tried to put me in chasing mode.

Annie
She was really into me, but with only one hour available, there was no material time to pull. Also, she was definitely looking for a husband, and I took great care to disqualify myself, saying I'm not planning to marry again. I don't expect to see her back soon. She'll be looking for other husband candidates.

Deborah
The more I think about it, the more I see that she was not that much into me. To my regret, because she was a beauty. There has been further exchange later during the weekend, some initiated by her, some by me. But it's lacking the excitement of our initial chats. I'm not writing it off completely yet. There are two options: I try a second date and see if it's welcome. Or wait for now and wait for more interest on her part. The second option is "reactions not results", the first is "follow the process", should be the logical one. I guess it's what I should go for.

But for now, I have more dates coming. On Saturday and Sunday I engaged into a systematic Badoo campaign. Screen the girls currently online and message the interesting ones, systematically, with a simple "Hey, I'm Seppuku". Out of 16 messages, I got 9 answers, 5 messages were Read but not answered, and 2 messages weren't even read. Out of the 9 answers, I got two dates lined up, plus two other phone numbers. Until I clear these dates, it's useless to engage more girls.

The first of the two dates, due Sunday, turned to be a flake. The second is due tonight. In addition, today I get approached by a girl on Badoo. I secure the date for tomorrow evening.

And also, I have another date planned on Wednesday with a girl from my work. It's an interesting story, I will write more on this.

That's three consecutive dates Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.

Tina
Another note, Tina which looked so promising on Friday, will probably yield nothing, based on our casual chat on Sunday evening. Once again, beat the iron when it's hot. I should have tried to secure the date on Friday when I initially chatted with her.

 

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April 18th - Week in review

This week I tried a systematic Badoo approach campaign - I had never tried it in a systematic way. It goes like this: 1. screen the girls online, between 20 and 32 years old, 2. approach the ones I like with a simple "Hey! I'm Seppuku", 3. build a little rapport and propose a date soon.

I sent 26 messages. Out of these 26:

* Unread: 4
* Read, not answered: 6
* Matched but not yet texted: 1
* Answered, to follow up: 5
* Answered, difficult ligistics or prostitute: 4
* Answered, other: 1 (profile deleted)
* Almost dates: 3
* Dates: 2

Including the match, that's 6 to follow up. I can also select a few of the "read, not answered" and try a second message.

Dates

* The first of the three dates was my LR: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13581&p=69126#p69126

* The second date was a non event. As soon as I see the girl in real, it's a no from my side. She's looks older than her pictures (she must have put some old pics). Although she's still decent (some sexy shapes), she "feels" low value. I take her to a quick dinner, then later I take her excuse "I don't like bars" to drive her back home ("I was initially thinking we would go for a drink"). In fact she hinted several times at my apartment, and it could have been an easy one. But from my angle, it was a no.

* The third planned date didn't occur. It was a date planned from my work, with miss D the cute receptionist. There is some history behind this. I started to game this girl late 2012. At that time I was still digesting all the readings from GC, and not yet there. Even though I was already reading the "why persistence works, and why chasing doesn't" I was still crippled by lack of abundance, and eventually turned needy and chasey anyway. It all ended in a big fuck up, but then as time passed, I stop chasing her but kept a sexy vibe. So it was a little success three weeks ago when she started hinting at a date, unprompted by me. On the day of the date, a few hours before, she cancels with a "headache" excuse. I really don't mind the flake, because I don't want to venture too much on my workplace (it's Qatar here, a fancy rumor at my work wouldn't do). And it's anyway a little success on itself.

* On Thursday evening I was chatting with two girls from Badoo, almost got a date setup but finally didn't work out. So Friday morning I recontact miss H. from WeChat the previous week. I arrange a date with her for Friday evening. The FR++ is here: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13612&p=69312#p69312

Ongoing interactions
Abby
On Saturday I meet my GF Abby. She is very sweet. I know her excitement around me, because she quickly turns extremely talkative when we meet. This is raw sexual energy which comes out as a need for excited communication. When we're home, I remove her trousers and leave her with just a tee shirt on top of her underwear. After the lunch she's more talkative than ever so I start rubbing her pussy through her pant, while kissing her. When she's warm, I bring her to my bedroom, remove her pants, and place her on the bed. "You want me to kiss her?" No need to ask, I know the answer, she's craving it. I lick her good, wooden tongue on her clit, and she's getting very excited. I put her on all four and give her my dick for dessert. She doesn't leave me time to put the condom and climbs directly on me. She likes to be on top, she has her way to rub her clit, and quickly comes within a few minutes. Then I take her from behind, she has such a large sexy ass and tight pussy, it's just a pleasure. We have a nap. After one hour, I wake her up and take her again. I like her. She's not the most pretty of the GF I had, but she's sweet, the sex is very good with her, and she gives me a drama-free experience.

Ginger
My FR++ from two weeks ago. We have reconnected to each other many times on WeChat in the last two weeks. Lots of tease from both side, but all effort for a second date failed - she's now playing hard to get. Tonight the same scenario is unfolding. I decide to break through.

Me: France likes China
Her: China also likes France [french flag]
Me: Good. France travels to China
Her: [tongue emoji] OK

Then as I drive the her place I tease her with many vehicle icons. When I reach I send her my google map location. But she's not that great with maps and Doha and it takes her a while to understand that I'm here on the bottom of her building. She finally shows up and climbs in my car. I suggest we go to a nearby bar but she doesn't like because she's not properly dressed. So be it I just drive around. She's very excited to see me and takes my hand in hers. She speaks chinese, me english, we don't understand each other but it's just fine. I keep it short and drive her back. Kiss in the car. The first is small, I make her understand it's too small. Then we have a longer one. I did this, overall, to revive our interaction and spice it up a little. Let's see now.

 

[Seppuku]

May 1st - Alive and well

I'm happy to report that the Seppuku system is alive and well. Three new lays since last post. Including K, my LR from earlier this month, and my regular GF Abby, that's 5 different girls this month. So I am very happy to see that the "dry spell" that I felt at the beginning of the month, was put to an end in a matter of weeks, through the systematic application of a method. The skills are still here, the confidence comes back quickly, and it's good to know.

New LRs

Ginger: this very pretty Chinese which gave me LMR in my home two weeks back - finally ended in my bed, here is the LR update: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13522&p=69491#p69485

Jennifer: my date from last week, for which I had an initial negative reaction. She popped back on my Whatsapp on Thursday with so many hints at massage, I simply didn't have the right to ignore her. It all ended well, and turned out to be a pretty sexy interaction. My LR: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13666

Miss M: a Badoo contact from two weeks back - finally ended up in my bed too. My LR: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13704

Other interactions

FR: lunch date with Kimberly, married woman
Promising interaction with Kimberly, another chinese woman in her early thirties. New thing for me, she's married, with one daughter, and her husband is working here. I've had several separated ex wives, but not a currently married, in couple woman. I contact her on Apr 19th in WeChat. Very quickly in our chat she hints at marriage frustration and mentions the word "extra marital affair". I propose if she'd like to meet in real. She's open to the idea, but currently has kid and husband logistic problem. The chat is off for a few days, then she reverts to me on Monday 25th and says she'll be out of Qatar from May 4th, until August. So I naturally ask if she thinks she can be available for a quick meet before she leaves. We agree on a lunch time, 27th, at the four seasons hotel 5 mins away from my office. She has to come with her daughter because no nanny. OK fine. So I meet her over lunch break on Wednesday 27th. I am coming straight from office, so it's suit and tie. She is very pretty, taller than I imagined from her pictures, dressed well sort of chinese style, a little make up but not too much. I greet her, look her straight in the eyes and smile. She's with her daughter. We proceed to the restaurant and our lunch. Position is face to face, it's a lot of people around, so we have a civilized lunch together, chat and relate about many things. It's time that I return to office. I stand up, she does the same, I look deep into her eyes, smile, take her hand "very nice meeting you", then go. It's as much physical as I can get given the social setting. Later I ask if she could make herself available for a brunch on Friday. Not easy, because that's when her husband is off. The stars should align better after she comes back to Doha in august, she says. Let's see if our interaction survives until then.

FR: Sarah
I contact her on WeChat on April 27th. Another separated Filipina with one kid, came to Doha to earn a living, she's a baby sitter living 15 minutes away from my home. She video calls me. She's very cute, nice smile, thin but not too much. 23 minutes call. Later the same evening she asks when is my off day, and if she can visit me in my place. I tell her that I'm out on Thursday evening (technically I have a returning fuck date with Jennifer). She asks me to pick her when im done with my night out, and to sleep at my place. I tell her it's much better on Friday. So we decide I will take her at her place on Friday morning 10am, and we're due to have a late breakfast in my home. She says she's free until 6pm so I implicitly agree to a Friday with her at my place. However, I guess the sexual tension is too high for her. On Thursday 28, she reverts to me and says her sister suggests that Friday we both go to the mall with her at 1pm. I say not OK with me, I'd rather stay at home and rest. I take the chance to call our meeting off as she would probably be better with her sister. Tell her that we'll schedule a proper meeting another day. She then chases me in the evening (I'm busy with my fuckdate Jennifer).

FR: Leah
A long standing Badoo interaction. She's thin, pretty, very sexy long hair, half filipina and half spanish. Our chat has been on and off, initially a brief chat on Apr 30th, 2015, then a longer interaction in August, where she gave me her number, had a call, and we switched to Viber. We resume chat on March 20, when I noticed she looked at my Badoo profile. She gave me her new number (the previous one was discontinued it seems), we had a phone call then. Then on 23rd April I recontact her because it's her birthday (I knew it from one of the chat apps, and she's not aware about this app anymore) so I surprise her with a birthday cake emoji. All the time in one year, she's acted very bitchy, almost mean to me. But I always knew it was a test and not her real self (of which I had a glimpse on our first call in august). So I persisted and skillfully deflected all her tests. Today she contacts me back on Whatsapp, then calls me. Her tone is nice and friendly and feminine, not the bitchy persona, and she says she's grateful for my patience. She acknowledges she acted bitchy with me, and I tell her that I always knew it was not her real self. Seems that all other guys dropped it against her bitchy behavior, so me persistence paid off. She's the one mentioning about setting up a meeting soon. After the call, it's her normal persona, she's much nicer on chat, and she sends me a couple of pictures of her at my request.

FR: Ann
Sunday evening I'm home with no plans, and I start browsing profiles in Badoo. Ann, 35, notices I visited her profile, and texts me. Very quick chit chat, she tells me she's off today and I immediately suggest we have a dinner. We switch to Whatsapp, she sends her location and an hour later we meet in real. I know we only have two hours ahead as she needs to be back at 10pm. So no time to try funky stuff, I just take her on a short dinner drinks date. She's still pretty for 35. When we're out of my car I take her hand in mine and lead her, she likes it and follows very well. I do a lot of deep diving and connection building, and start a slow touching game. She is into me, and as I driver her back she is caressing my hand and forearm. Very promising.

The After

Miss K from Kenya (my earlier LR). She very soon showed some possessive behavior in chat. Like suggesting she might pop up to my place any time, or outright asking if I'm at Kempinski right now. This smells like lots of trouble, so I stopped chatting her and it was off.

Miss H from Hong Kong (my FR++, LMR). It turns out that she's still in love with her ex BF, and it's a messy break up. During the date she was posting pictures of the view from Strata in order to make ex BF jealous. 3 weeks later it seems the same game is still ongoing between them. I tell her to get better before we can see each other again.

Ginger: my FR++ turned into full LR. After that it seems that she got caught into an evening job and it became mission impossible to meet her, although we kept chatting and kept our link. Seems to be more logistic than buyer's remorse, she still seems into me.

Jennifer: Second fuck date detailed here: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13666&p=69881#p69881. The setting up of second date was hilarious. She has these very nice big boobs (rare with asian girls) and a nice sexy ass. She loves to be taken dominantly, in all positions, and is quite vocal. We get to have an open talk. She asks me how many girls I bring home in a week. Interestingly, again, she knew intuitively I was getting girls since our first meeting. She seems open minded. Although she claims she wants a serious relationship, she describes how a british guy asked her for a serious relationship in Badoo, and how she walked him in the park. She says, so many men in Badoo pretend they're serious just to get a one time sex then disappear. No surprise a no bullshit guy like me is a better option then.

Miss M: second meeting in my home on Friday night, we have another sex session. Technically I now have three regulars.

 

[Seppuku]

May 6th - Busy life

Well, life is getting very busy Three girls in my bed this week:

Ann: My new LR this week, she got me busy, Sunday, Tuesday and Wednesday nights. Here's the LR: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13762

Miss M: On Thursday evening, I have my last week's LR, miss M, coming over for dinner (and dessert ;-)). Unfortunately she is turning to be a little weirdo, and I'm not sure I will keep her long.

Abby:On Friday I get Abby (my GF) at my home and spend the day with her .

I didn't have time to fit in Jennifer, but I need to arrange time for her the upcoming week, because I certainly want to keep her around.

FR: Leah
This one is just a bag of troubles. I reported last week our initial contacts. On Monday evening, she calls me at office. She’s excited. She wants to arrange a date the next day. She says she’ll come with two girlfriends. Well, fine with me. Since they’re three, I suggest they all come to my place for a dinner. Her response: first meeting ever to my place, no way. Me: “Come on, you are three girls, I’m the one who should be shy”. Since she starts having all sort of headaches, I just kill it off and suggest I take them to the Italian restaurant at Marriott. But she doesn’t like Italian food. She wants Japanese. So I suggest we all go to the intercontinental. They serve sushis and drinks. It seems to be a deal, but she wants me to pick them up at their accommodation in Al Wakra (45 minutes drive from my place). Plus driving back, that means 3 hours drive. She also says she wants to go swimming. I say no, no swimming. OK, so after the sushis she wants a night club. I say no deal. I restate it. A date with you only, no swimming, no night club. But no, she can’t be alone on first meeting. OK so no deal, I tell her. She starts blackmailing me: “If you don’t agree, better not to talk anymore”. I say yes. “I’m not going out alone”. I say "yes, good for you, safer. But not me.” “Not me also” “Sure. Good night” “Go away, I’m not forcing myself to you”. “I’m already gone, no need to ask”. “Shut up” “Pleasure to oblige” “I don’t care”. I cut it here.

Her nice plan is like, the pussy guy drives her girlfriends and herself around Doha for three hours. Pays the drink for all. Pays the night club. Her coming on her own by taxi? That’s not gentleman. Her coming to my place with her friends? Can’t do that on first date. My answer: no way.

The next morning she’s back “Sorry about yesterday”. “If it’s my first date I bring my girlfriends. Second date both of us. Yes or no”. “No. I offered two nice propositions, you turned them down both. Tonight I’ll do something else. Have a nice day” “But tonight is my only free evening” “The first plan was the best. You girls come on your own by taxi. I invite you all for dinner, we spend evening then I drive you all back”. She’s adamant about the night club. So still no deal. “Seems that what you want is to go to a night club. You girls don’t need me for that. We don’t have a deal. Have a nice day ahead”. “Your idea of dinner at your place, no need, we have food at our accommodation” “Sure. Enjoy your evening”. Then I’m off this girl who spells a lot of troubles. Likely a HD/LSE girl, bad deal.

The same evening, I was fucking Ann instead, a much more interesting and satisfying deal.

 

[Seppuku]

May 21st - Statistics

Well it's been two weeks since my last update, and many things have happened, including my latest LR with Cindy: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13876

I will make a separate post on the latest dates and interactions, many of them were quite interesting, but for today I would like to write down a number of statistics. Yes, I'm a statistics lover.

Statistics on dates
My experience in seduction really started on September 2014 with my date with Carmelita. Since then I had exactly 63 dates, or a little bit more than 3 dates per month. The sources of dates were WeChat (54%), Badoo (38%), Tinder (6%), Others (2%). I am doing mostly online dating as I found it extremely efficient in Doha and it worked well for me. Interestingly, Tinder gave me next to nothing here in Doha, but it worked much better during my short stays in the Philippines.

Out of these 63 dates, there were 16 where I couldn't go further. It could be that no logistics were immediately available, or I found that the girl is not that pretty in real, or I knew she was not mentally available (like just out of a messy breakup). Either way, it's 16 cases where I decided from the start not to pursue when I saw her.

Out of the 47 "workable" dates left, there were 19 dates, not leading to sex, and 28 dates leading to sex, either partial sex (5 cases - LMR or BJ or HJ) or full intercourse (23 cases). Out of these 28, 13 were first date escalation to sex, 11 were second date sex, and 4 were multiple dates sex.

So, only including the workable dates, 60% of all dates led to sex. But I improved over time: if I only include the stats since August 2015 (when I started the first date pull), it's actually 66%. Two dates out of three, I get at least partial sex.

Age range: The average age of my date is 29.5 years old, at the time of dating. There is some disparity: 76% of my dates where in the 25-34 years old age range. 13%, below 25, and 11%, above 24.

Nationality: 71% of all them were Philippines, 7 % from China, 6% from Laos, and 5% from Thailand. Then 8% from Kenya, and 3% other Africa. I'm an Asian specialist, partly due to the demographics of available girls in Qatar... But that's fine with me!

Statistics on Badoo openers
Since early April, I started a systematic Badoo campaign, and recorded the various outcomes. Here are the stats.

I sent 67 openers, out of which:

* Unread: 25%
* Read, not answered: 18%
* Unworkable: 21%
* Lead nowhere: 17%
* Got contact details or more: 19%

Notes:
* 57% of all openers lead to a response from the girl, and therefore an interaction.
* Unworkable: 21% - The girl answered the opener, but her circumstances mean it can't go anywhere. These are prostitutes, or housemaids (awful logistics), or Risky Africa (too high AIDS rate in country), or profiles disappearing, or girls actually living in another country.
* So 36% of all openers lead to a "workable" chat. This is about 1 in 3.
* 19% of openers lead to getting her contact details - of which 6% ended in my bed.

6% eventually in my bed, out of 67 openers. It's not that bad, 1 in every 6 workable chats. Also, things are never really over. I have several girls here on "contact details" phase, that may still lead to sex later on.

 

[Seppuku]

May 23rd - week in review

Another busy week with 3 new dates, one new LR (Cindy, link on my previous journal entry) and one fuckdate with my regular Jennifer.

FR: Sarah
Sarah is this girl that I contacted on WeChat on April 27th and wrote about on my May 1st post here. She initially suggested to come to my place for lunch, then withdrew and tried to have me out with her friend. After that, the interaction has been a little in limbo... Until this Saturday, May 14th. During the night Sarah popped back in my WhatsApp after I slept. She texts me today again at noon, telling me she’s bored. My second date with Cindy is supposed to happen at 6pm, so I have a time for a quick date with her. I agree to take her home at 1:30 pm, until 4 pm.

At 1:40 I pick her at her place. She’s pretty, and seems so shy. I take her to the four seasons, beach cafe. Take her hand, make her talk. She reacts well to my touch. She has a very soft skin. I kid her on her blushing. Her initial shyness gets better, we have a selfie session. She has a good sense of humor, and it’s good vibe. It’s 3pm, we leave the 4 seasons and I suggest a coffee shop in the Gate Mall (just close to my place). As we get close to my tower, I ask her if she would come to my place for a drink instead of the Gate Mall. She says “it’s ok”, weak acceptation but I decide it’s a yes and bring her home. We have only 20 minutes because I said I would drive her back at 4. Water served, we’re in the sofa, and I take her gently in my arms, put her head on my shoulder. The vibe is a little shy, so I ask her to give me a little kiss on my left cheek. Then on my right cheek so that “no one cheek jealous”. I take the chance to give her a little kiss back. All the time I caress her forearm, so soft skin. I play with her hair. I tease her with the kiss to mouth, without going for it, kissing the cheek instead. I sense she’s not ready for the big kiss, so for now it’s getting her comfortable. I also want to have the precedent at my place set, to make it easier next time. At 4 I drive her back. She’s the first to text “Nice meeting you”.

The same evening, my second date with Cindy is cancelled and postponed to Tuesday... I text back to Sarah but she is now busy with friends. In the following few days there has been some normal texting and a little picture exchange. Our last exchange is on Friday 20 when I try to setup a meet, but she already has tight plans today... Then suddenly nothing, and it looks that I've been blocked. It seems to me that I wasn't fast enough to secure the second meet and the attraction window expired. Well nothing that I could have done better given the very date-packed week. Too bad because I liked her.

FR: Lucille and Zoe
I contacted Lucille on Badoo on May 2nd, and we have a basic get to know chat extending slowly over a few days before switching to Whatsapp. Her off day is on Monday, and she has otherwise evening duty. But the first coming Monday she has things already planned, so when the following Monday (the 16th) comes I push for an evening dinner. She says she has already planned an evening out with a friend, in the city center mall which is very close to my home. So OK, I tell her to text me later when she's there and finished with her shopping, and I'll join the two friends.

It's 10pm when she calls and I'm with them ten minutes later... And surprise. First, my date Lucille is not that pretty. And second, her friend Zoe is very pretty. I take them both to a cocktail bar in the Mariott hotel. I'm in between the two girls. My date Lucille is very quiet and reserved, and her friend Zoe is talkative, excited, flirty, and gives me lots of signs: she crosses her legs and run her hand along her thigh (more or less consciously), drawing attention to it. And she initiates the touch with me, touching my forearm during conversation. Zoe the pretty has been in Doha 6 years, and engaged all the time to a guy back there in the Philippines, the marriage will happen this coming July with the blessing of the two families. But it's been 6 years of long distance relationship, and here she is, all excited by the presence of a sexy charming man. It's now past 11pm and the girls tell me now that in fact they didn't have a dinner. They want to go to a Filipino restaurant. We all find ourselves in a taxi, three of us on the rear seat, me in the middle. Pretty Zoe takes my arm briefly... and I take the chance to do more touching. After the dinner, we all get in a taxi again and we first drive the girls back. In the taxi, I give my phone to Zoe for her to enter her number. After I left, Lucille who has been very quiet, texts me a lot - well, since my interest was obviously for her friend, she's now chasing.

Regarding Zoe, things die out in the next few days, and I'm guessing that after the excitement of the direct contact with me, the rationalization come back: I'm supposed to be Lucille's date, and she's about to marry. Anyway very interesting interaction.

FR: Rose
I contacted Rose a week before. She's a 26 years old Kenyan, been around in Doha for almost 5 years like me, and works for Qatar Airways in the cargo section. The initial interaction on May 14th is promising, but she says things like "we will meet, with time" so back then, I decide not to push too hard immediately.

On the Thursday evening, I re-open the chat with "Happy weekend to you". It's now Friday 20th, she answered my text late at night, and I try "If you're up to it, let's meet after 5pm?" "what plans do you have?" I suggest a drink at the beach cafe. "Tempting!" and we're in. At 5pm I take her home. She wasn't much into picture sending, so when I see her the first time, it's like wow, she's not just pretty, she's smoking hot! Pretty face, the nice curvy ass with thin waist of African women, and very elegant and classy. Looks like I've won a hit... But in the car she quickly mentions about her breakup. In fact, she's currently still in the middle of it, on and off many times for one year with her current boyfriend. So I decide that it's going to be a "date to see" and not take action. In the recent past I found out that both Deborah, and miss H from Hong Kong, were in fact in the middle of a messy breakup, and I know it's a waste of time and energy. The girl needs to be really available.

We do a quick drink and dinner at the beach cafe. I make her talk as much as I can, but her mood is off, and I fill the gaps with my own stories. I gently try my touching on her, take her hand in a "follow me" fashion, etc... But all very gentle. At 8:30pm I drive her back home. Too bad, but best to spend my time on available women.

FR: Elisa
Elisa is my proud LR of September last year. I seduced her on my sofa literally under her friend's eyes - although we couldn't do anything serious this day, she came back alone the next day and we had a fantastic fuck session. She is one of the most beautiful lady I had, feminine, submissive and sweet, nice large boobs and shapes. We had two fuckdates, then she just disappeared with little explanation while I was on vacation in Laos. She recontacted me briefly in January to give me explanations. Although she claimed back then to be single and not dating anyone in two years, she had in fact been together with a boyfriend for two years. As he started cheating her, she got mad at him and fucked with me in revenge, before going back to him. The guy finally heard about our sexual escapade and got mad at her, and started watching her.

Last Friday, I really wanted to get some of her news, so I finally decided myself to contact her on Whatsapp. To my great disappointment, she blocked me right away, and I was saddened a little. But well, that's life. And today, hahaha, great surprise, she calls me directly on my mobile, from another telephone. We spend some time on the phone. The issue is that the jealous boyfriend is checking her phone, so she starts using another one. After that, she texts me by SMS. It seems that we are going back in touch. Let us see the developments.

AND...

I have something potentially huge coming this week end that is going to be the ultimate test for my outcome independence. This hottie is at least a 9. I don't want to build expectations here so I prefer not to write much for the moment.