Seppuku's Journey into Seduction

[Seppuku]

May 27th: week in review

It is still a busy life here. Dated four girls, fucked three of them, setup two dates with two other girls for next week.

Sunday evening I'm on my own at home. By 10pm I've already indulged myself with a few glasses of wine, when Ginger texts me that she wants to see me. We didn't meet since our fuckdate about a month ago. It's late, I'm tired, but OK, let's go. I join her at 10:45 in a club next to her home. She greets me at the entrance and take me to a separate table. We are joined by her Chinese friends there, have a drink, enjoy the music, for about an hour. Looking at her friends, I would say they're prostitutes (and Ginger as well I guess). Never mind, as long as Ginger doesn't ask me for money. After one hour we exit the club and I drive Ginger and one of her friend to their home. Fifteen minutes in the car with Ginger before she leaves.

Monday, I have an unexpected date with Lily, another Chinese woman. I was supposed to date a Kenyan young woman, then Lily's sister, this evening. Lily is older than my usual type of girl, but she's still very pretty, has a huge pair of very well packaged boobs, and follows my lead very well. It ends up into my new LR: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13941

Tuesday, my balls are getting very heavy. Abby my GF couldn't make it on our regular weekend fuckdate, and the last two evenings I went out with girls but didn't fuck any of them (yet). Technically I didn't fuck anyone in a week (since Cindy my previous LR). Since I didn't see Jennifer in about ten days, it's the ideal time to call her. We have a late meeting this evening and another good fuck session. Feels better.

Wednesday I have this drama unfolding with this American girl. Our interaction has been going on for more than a month. I described it in details here: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=13935. The other guys on the forum suspected a large scale scam. For me I still think she was just a girl with a lot of problems in her life, used to get everything she wants out of men, and expecting to dump all her problems on my shoulders. If it was indeed a total scam then it is a very elaborated one because all her story and pictures and everything was very consistent from day one. Anyway contact blocked and deleted, good lesson for me.

Thursday is date two with Lily, ending with a very exciting seduction at home.

Friday I have Abby my GF at home the whole day, we fuck good and celebrate her birthday (she is turning 25). Later the evening after Abby returned home, I have Sarah coming back to me on Whatsapp. We have a video call and agree for a lunch tomorrow Saturday.

Lucille and Joy: Lucille was one me the whole week. Joy texted me spontaneously as well. I am thinking of seducing Lucille, and see Joy's reaction after that. LOL. Date agreed with Lucille on Monday.

 

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May 28th - Annual objectives review

This post is long overdue.

At the beginning of the year I posted a number of objectives for 2016. At first in this journal: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=8805&p=70743#p64483 then later on here: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=9089&p=65503#p65367.

Since then there has been a number of changes in my professional situation. After two years I have finally been awarded the internal move I was hoping for within my company. This is going to renew my interest for my current company for at least a year if not more. Then, my initial plan to settle in the Philippines is deferred to later. Same for my plan to start my own independent business.

At the same time it means I have much more free time than anticipated to devote on learning seduction. It is end of May, I have laid 9 new women this year, have more coming in the radar, so my latest objective of 10 new lays for the year now seem almost already obsolete.

Based on the stream of success in the past two months, I will set myself the objective of 20 new lays for 2016. It should be achievable, while still keeping myself on my toes. I anticipate a reduction in activity in June (Ramadan time here) and July (annual leave with my children in France). It still leaves me with 5 full months to achieve my target.

Another thing I want to revisit is my "only 8+ girls" objective. It is not realistic, and not even desirable. I still need the feeling of abundance from the 6+ I have done so far. As soon as this feeling goes away, I notice an increase in flakes and LMR. Not good, need to keep the upward spiral going on. Also, I have a number of instances where the sex with a 6 girl was more satisfying than the sex with an 8 girl. Going out with an 8 girl is more satisfying because of the social reward, the ego boost you feel from being seen with a more beautiful girl. But in the bed, it is potentially a different story. Got to know what one wants. I go first for the gratifying bed experience, and cool, drama free relationships, no matter if she's a 6 or an 8.

Let us summarize my goals for 2016:

• * 20 new lays (full intercourse) for 2016 - I currently stand at 9
  * Girls 6+ are eligible
  * Increase the post sex retention rate and get more recurring girls
  * Learn to establish fulfilling relationships in my own terms

And now let us see if I can get there!

 

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June 12th - Incredible week in the Philippines

I had been three times in the Philippines before, and the online matching had always been extremely promising - both Badoo and Tinder. However each time I was there, I had a girlfriend full time in my bedroom, so no chance to give a real try... Until this time around.

On Friday, Feb 3rd I arrive in Cebu (the second largest city in the Philippines) for personal business. My business there keeps me busy all day long but leaves my whole evenings free - plus an entire Sunday. I have booked a small suite, with living room and separate bedroom, which makes things easier, so now, time for action! Until my departure on Sunday 12, I managed to fuck a girl every day, except on the Friday when I decided to make a break. Frankly incredible.

Saturday 4th - LR: Miss Renchelle
Tinder match from late Friday evening. 28 years old single mum of two, we agree to see each other the next day. On June 4th I text her appointment details, some coffee shop in Ayala center - 5 minutes walk from my hotel. I meet her there at 7 pm as agreed. A little fatty but I decide she’s pretty enough. We have a quick drink in the coffee shop - I ask her to sit side by side with me, and start building comfort immediately by making her talk. When the conversation falls a bit I fill in the gap with my own stories. We get out of the coffee shop, and I take her hand (I made no physical contact before as a way to build expectation). As I take her hand, I wrap it up by mentioning how we can’t hold hands in Qatar, and she laughs and relate, and now I know that she likes me.

We reach a restaurant and now she’s the one suggesting I sit next to her. Good, and when I sit, she puts her hand discreetly on my leg. Once more, I know I’m in. We have the dinner, and I keep a cool but neutral body language to keep her guessing and build more tension. She’s now the touchy one almost all the time... chasing!.

Dinner over, we leave the restaurant and I initially mention a rooftop bar in a nearby building where I once went. However instead of taking her to this bar, I take the direction of my hotel, and suggest we have a little wine and music there. She says OK and follows my lead very well. I talk to fill the space as we walk, and take her straight to my room without further comment. I put some music, order two glasses of wine then show her some videos on youtube. Glasses of wine served, now I begin by putting my arm around her shoulders. She puts her head on my shoulder a while, then we make out. She pulls back a bit, I’m now off her and we pay attention some time to the music, then when I feel she’s touchy again I escalate, this time more strongly and decisively. I can sense she’s getting aroused. Her neck, then her tits. She likes it, she extracts her boobs to feed me, and I play my tongue on her nipples. Her clothes off, I take her to my bed. We have a first round of fucking, maybe 20 minutes, she moans a lot, I don’t come yet, then we have a break. Second round, another 15 minutes, I finish her doggy style.

Her comments after the fact: "When is the last time you had sex?" "Me, about ten days ago" (Well technically not quite accurate - I forget about my regular Jennifer 5 days before, or my attempt with Sarah a week ago). "It’s quite scary!" "Why? men need to have sex more often than that!". After that I will open to her - to some extent - about my activity as a seducer and also all my amazing new learnings on women mindset.

Sunday 5th - LR: Emma
I had met Emma in February when I was there last time (I had called her E. on my post dated Feb 24th). Back then I couldn't pull, my GF Jenna was in hotel room lol, so I did a quick one hour coffee shop date, building her excitement and leaving her wanting for more (didn't kiss her!). We had kept touch on WhatsApp throughout the three months, but I didn't tell her yet that I was here.

So on Saturday I text her the surprise "Guess who is here in Cebu?" then we proceed to setup a lunch date on Sunday. We meet briefly at the same coffee shop then choose a restaurant and have a quick lunch. I can tell she's super excited. I had told her to bring along her swimming suit, so the pulling is extra easy, I just bring her to my hotel (she expects the swimming pool there although I never mentioned it explicitly) then straight to my room. Once there, it's heavy make out and bed within 5 minutes. That's the power of leaving her wanting for more, we had to finish what we started last time. At 4:30pm she leaves the hotel.

Sunday 5th evening - FR: Dahlia
Dahlia is a Tinder match from my last visit here. Although we didn't chat then, a few days before I made a round of "Hi" through my matches of last time and this one responded. As soon as Emma is gone, I notice that Dahlia texted me to ask for a meeting, and I setup a date at 7pm. She arrives (very) late, so I meet her with a little bit of cold to build some tension then bring her to a restaurant that I want to try. The tension cools down and I now work on building rapport and comfort. After the dinner we go out, and since I don’t feel her fully into me I suggest drinks at this rooftop bar close… But she doesn’t want. OK so then I suggest to have beers at my hotel (she likes beer), and she agrees. Five minutes later we’re in my bedroom. I put on some background music, but she doesn’t like it, never mind, I leave my music anyway. Beers arrived, after our first sip I start my thing, and get to kiss her. She’s now acting like a sleepy dead weight all over my shoulder. I decide to go to next step and lead her into the bedroom. I sit on the bedside, have her standing in front of me and run my hands over her body. She is still half into it.

Then because she’s not fully into it, and I don’t want to risk running into rape accusations here in the Philippines, I now verbalize the thing. "I want to make love to you, but I won’t do anything if you’re not comfortable to do". Finally she decides for "not today". Because she’s now lying like a dead weight on my bed, I tell her that she should leave, because if she stays for the night I don’t guarantee gentlemen behavior. We get a taxi for her and she returns home.

Monday and Tuesday - LR: Miss Z
Absolutely my craziest lay ever, she has the body of a porn actress, we fuck two whole nights and she comes 18 times in total. Here is the link to the LR: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=14044

In hindsight, I think it's my first encounter with a party girl. Thinking about it, I buy her story with her BF. A German guy, based in Germany, she's been seeing on and off for over a year and whom she later discovered was married when she received a phone call from his wife. It's been a messy break up apparently. She has an amazing sexuality and she needs to satisfy these crazy bodily needs once in a while. She catches a handsome foreign guy once in a while (like she did with me), then tries to build herself some appearance of respectability, the ASD thing. My guess is that her "engagement" status is some sort of Facebook bullshit, because frankly she doesn't behave like a woman in love, who belong to her man. Well, whatever.

The thing is I felt the early symptoms of oneitis. With a girl like this it would be a very crazy thing to be in love. After she left my room Wednesday morning I kept silence on chat.

Wednesday 8th - Emma again
Emma tried to chat me Monday and Tuesday and I was fully occupied so I left the chat unanswered until Wednesday morning. Since she's now questioning my silence, I decide to be frank and tell her that "this city has its temptations". She gets the picture but seems cool about it and want to meet nevertheless. We meet the same evening for dinner then I bring her to my room. She is extremely wet and I lick her... but at the last minute unfortunately my dick falls flat. Miss Z had really drained me dry. Emma sucks me into revival, but the effect does not last... So no luck today. She does not seem disappointed and it's me the most sorry of us two. We cuddle, then she leaves.

Dahlia texts me that she wants to meet me again, and I tell her tomorrow evening.

Thursday 9th - Renchelle again
Emma texts me that she wants to stay a night with me. Later in the day I agree to it for tonight, telling her that I won't have time after that. In the meantime I text Dahlia that it is not a good idea to meet, because "You know what I wanted to do last time". Better having a good sex with Emma than fighting my way through LMR and shit tests with Dahlia. However Emma does not see my message until 8pm in the evening, and she says she's not available this evening. It's now about 8:30 and I have no plans for tonight... But Renchelle texts me again, like "what are you doing now?". We agree to meet around 9:30 in my room. Second round of fuck with Renchelle.

After our round of fuck, Renchelle asks "How many girls have you dated since we last met?" But I have already opened up with her - to some extent - about my seducer self. So I tell her "Three". She's like WTF, says its fine, but she's a part of it, feels like "just one of the girls". She doesn't want me to accompany her downstairs to the hotel lobby because the staff will see her as "another of his girl". Social reputation, OK fine.

But knowing all this about me, she still sticks around. We will have more rounds of texting after she left and she wants to see me more... But no luck, now I don't have time.

Friday 10th - Break from dating
Well, not completely. I will arrange a very quick coffee date with a match from Tinder - just an informational date, no pull. The girl is absolutely cute. I just hope I can keep in touch with her until the next time.

On Thursday I got back in touch with my ex GF Lucy, who now leaves about two hours drive from Cebu. We have agreed to meet on Saturday. I have a plan to fuck her, and I want to love her properly. As my dick has been very demanded since the beginning of the week, I decide to have a break from fucking tonight in order to be in good condition when I meet Lucy. It's like in the Bible, on the seventh day he takes a rest.

Saturday 11th - my ex GF Lucy
I had let her go October last year... She was not happy with the long distance, and back then I didn't know if our paths would ever cross again, so it seemed like the right decision. But on Thursday I was pretty happy with the thought of seeing her again. And when we finally see each other this Saturday, it is a happy meeting.

We meet at 12:00, have a coffee, a lunch, then I take her to my bedroom and we fuck all the afternoon. She stays overnight and leaves at the same time as me the next day. This time around, I tell her than we leave the things open, exactly as they are today, and I won't close any door. Should our paths cross again we will see. But I tell her to remain open also to other men. Better a guy right here, than a guy thousands of miles away by Viber. Then I'm off to airport.

Sunday 12th, late evening, I'm back to Doha. It's been a crazy week. Not enough time to fit everyone. I also made several very promising contacts that I hope to keep alive until my next trip.

 

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June 18th: Great weekend

I was back to Doha on June 12th evening, and spent the first few days to adjust my sleep to the timezone. While I was away there were a few horny females here building up the anticipation of my return - LOL. So... it's Wednesday 15th, weekend approaching, time to get organized. Sarah (my FR in this journal, May 23rd entry) has been video calling me many times while I was away, and she texted me earlier this week that she would come to spend the night over on Thursday. However this Wednesday she texts to cancel the meeting, as she has a friends birthday celebration coming up. So my Thursday evening is now empty. I text my recurring fuckdate Jennifer, but she has something too. So I arrange the Thursday evening with my GF Abby. She's about to leave Doha for good, so that will be our last time. I'm not that fond of her to be honest, but it will be good to take her one last time.

Thursday evening, Abby in my home for a final fuck.

LR: Sarah. Friday (day off in Muslim countries) Sarah is back to me and asks me to pick her at home at 1pm. I bring her in my home. She's not hungry and I had my lunch already, so it's straight escalation. She puts a token resistance, that I greet by pulling back and paying attention to my computer. When she's back to me I resume escalation. "Let's go to your room?" she says, and I take her to my bedroom. We have this great fuck, then a nap. At 4pm I drive her back home.

It is the culmination of a long game that started on April 27th, and which has been unfolding over the last two months, my journal entries May 1st, May 23rd, plus an unreported short interaction on June 1st.

FR: Zoe. Zoe is this girl that came along with my date Lucille on May 16th (my journal entry May 23rd, and May 27th - I called her Joy there, it doesn't matter all names are made up here). Lucille is the single one, and Zoe is engaged to some man in the Philippines, but it turned out that Zoe is much more pretty and sexy than Lucille, and she was highly excited around me from the beginning. The May 16th date turned out to be a great fun with the two girls, and I kept gaming Zoe and got her number. Since then there has been on and off light chat on Viber with Zoe.

It is Friday evening, about 8pm, and I get a greeting text from Zoe. She is off today, and she texts me about what I'm doing now. A girl texting you "what are you doing now" is a girl that wants to meet you asap, you can't ignore it. So I decide to join her in Ezdan Mall where she is. It is going to be a short, informational date. When I arrive she looks happy to see me, but at the same time nervous. Many of her coworkers are off today and also in this same mall, so it is about her social reputation. For about 15 minutes we walk in the mall, with me behind her at a distance, in case others see us... then I take her to my car and drive her to another place, where the risk is smaller. We end up having a brief date in a Starbucks coffee. It is busy, noisy and crowded, I hate it, but it will do the job for a brief date. She is excited and does all the talking.

She will be married in December in the Philippines to her boyfriend of seven years. The marriage is in fact arranged by the families... but in fact she is in Qatar for 6 years and have been into a long distance relationship with him all the time. It is of course very hard. He had a girlfriend (she even met his girlfriend), and she also got a boyfriend here in Qatar. Well in my opinion her marriage will be an unhappy one. At least she will get the social status of being married. She already expresses the wish to see me in the Philippines. When we're in the car I hold her hand and she accepts my touch very well. As I drive her back, she has this comment "why is it that I meet a friend just before I leave?" - here friend in the boyfriend sense. We decide that this date will be our secret (we won't tell Lucille or anyone). I ask her to let me know when she is off next time. She will be returning in the Philippines for good in July, but I hope I can take her home once before that.

FR Gianna from Kenya, and her lesbian friend Perrie. Gianna is this girl I met on Badoo, and that I was supposed to meet on May 23rd (my journal entry May 27th). She didn't show up, on that evening I ended up meeting Lily instead (my LR). The interaction later recovered, and picked up after I returned from the Philippines last week. We agreed on a date this June 18th. At the last minute she wants to bring in a friend. Well I have done that before, and frankly it's fine by me, but I put up a token resistance before agreeing. Because she's not alone, we agree on a first date dinner at my place.

We have an awesome evening three of us. These girls are a lot of fun, and like so many Kenyan girls, very sexual. Perrie the lesbian ends up rubbing her ass against my dick in an African dance, I will grab the boobs and nipples of my sexy date Gianna, run my hands under her dress, and make out with her. On a later thought, although Perrie many times mentioned that "she doesn't do dicks", and said she's a lesbian, I could have tried to push for a threesome.

Anyway, a very sexy interaction, I will write it up fully later on. And, I still expect a second date one on one with Gianna, directly at my place.

Upcoming this week. I'm supposed to meet Lily tonight. I expect to meet Jennifer again. And hoping to have another date with Zoe, hopefully at my place this time.

 

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June 26th: 36h sexual marathon

June 20th - Chinese Lily, again
She messages me on the 19th - just back in town after 3 weeks in China. We agree to meet this June 20 at 9 pm. I take her at Ezdan hotel, her place, and bring her straight back home. The mood is very good, there’s a lot of comfort. We put music, have a little wine. She doesn’t like the cherries. My arm around her shoulders, I work my way with the kisses. She gives in a little, then withdraw, then again, but it’s progressing. When I kiss her in the neck I begin to feel the signs of arousal. She caresses my dick through the trousers, I ask her if she remembers his name. “His name is Paul!” then I grab her left boob “her name is Katya”, then right boob “her name is Sofia” and kiss them both. We take a peek at the view from my window, I have shut all lights to be in complete dark. I’m behind her watching the view over her shoulder and run my hands all over her body. She turns around and we make out. She lies in the sofa and unbutton her trousers. I unbuckle my belt and top button. Then proceed to remove her jeans. She says no, with a smile, but I remove anyway, and she helps me. I then remove mine. I’m now playing with her pussy while kissing her. She’s very wet. Her shirt off. I ask her to come to the bedroom but she says she likes it here. I bring the condom, then remove her underwear, then start shagging her. She still have these massive boobs, I had almost forgotten how it felt like. We have sex the rest of the evening, until 12:30. The second time is much better than the first. I feel she enjoys it much more, she comes at least two times. Her on top, these huge boobs swinging over my face. Then from behind, then adapted missionary. Extremely exciting.

At some point as we are shagging, she asks if I had sex in the Philippines, and I say yes. I tell her I won’t be lying about it. She’s cool. The tone stays relaxed all evening long, and I like her.

June 22nd - failed meeting with Zoe, and fuckdate with Gianna
I propose Zoe to have a dinner, just her and me, on her next day off. On Wednesday 22nd, she's off, and I suggest we meet around 7:30pm. It's 2pm when I text this, but she answers that she will let me know later if she's free. Doesn't fly by me, basically she will maybe (or not) let me know by 8pm if she's free at 9. I tell her "It's alright, maybe another day. Enjoy your off". So now I don't have plans for tonight, and Jennifer my regular doesn't answer the texts. Fortunately Gianna texts me she's on a night shift, starting by midnight, so we arrange this second date. As expected, it's now a piece of cake to have her straight to my place. Here is the LR: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=14119#p71522

Later in the evening I notice that Zoe texted me indeed, around 8:30pm. I would really love to fuck her before vacations. She will be gone after that.

June 25th and 26th: 36h Sexual marathon
* June 25, 1pm - Sarah. I pick Sarah at her place at around 1pm and bring her to my home. Quick cooking, get her to help me, then lunch on my sofa, beginning escalation, then I bring her to the bed. Although usually I can hold myself very well and stay hard for an hour or so, here I'm so excited that I come within ten minutes. We have a brief nap then I take her again. I feel I can come a second time but hold myself, because I'm hoping to get more plans tonight and want to keep some left. Drive her back at 4pm.

* June 25, 10pm - Lily. I text her at around 5pm, but she only answers at 9. I pick her at her place and bring her to my home. No wine, just water, fine. After 30 minutes bonding time, I take her to my bedroom. I want to remove her dress, she says no with a smile, and I remove anyway. Ah, these boobs again She is very excited, takes initiative, goes down to my dick and sucks me. Condom on, I take her in adapted missionary, she comes quickly in a very loud voice. We do again, at some point she removes my condom, OK fuck it, I continue raw, adapted missionary again. She comes again very loud. I take her from behind and finally come myself. After we're done, she asks me if I had sex with another. I tell her two girls each day "one for breakfast, and one in the evening just before sleep". She laughs, and I escape the question.

* June 26, 7pm - Gianna. I bring her home, she helps me with the cooking. Good dinner, I remove her clothes and she has black underwear on her black skin, she's very beautiful. In my bedroom, I take her in adapted missionary. She gets excited and a little wild on my dick. A bit too strong, that makes me soft. My dick is in a moody state, I guess a little tired by all the effort, haha. Later on I take her again, and she comes (I think). I finish her doggy style, she has this majestic African ass which makes the position very exciting. In the idle time between our two sessions, she wanted to play with my dick, but she's clumsy, she squeezes my dick awkwardly. Ah girls. Also, I notice that she is starting to get me comply. "I am thirsty" she says after our fuck session. She wants me to get up and bring glasses. "Yes, me too! Can you go in the kitchen and bring two glasses, please?" Lots of inertia from her (she's waiting I change my mind and go) but she finally goes and bring water. Later she will get me to bring her her clothes (this time I do - knowingly). Haha, the first attempt at betaization. I will now put her in the background for some period, keep her waiting.

Jennifer. I didn't manage to meet her since I came back from the Philippines - there was a failed attempt on Tuesday 21st, but she had to cancel at the last minute. I want to keep her around, too. I should fuck her soon, problem being I go to summer vacations soon, and not sure when I can arrange that. For now, I need a little idle time! My abds are still aching from all the fucking.

Chase's Adapted Missionary: It seems that I'm starting to do it right. The "clean angle of entry" got me confused. It's pubis against pubis, the dick well inside her and pressuring her clit with the base of the shaft. Small amplitude. When she's about to come, help with the hands on her shoulders from beneath. I am starting to get consistent results now.

Laycount: 6 months into this year, I have had 14 new girls on full intercourse, plus one unresolved LMR. My objective for the year is 20, it seems I am set to reach it or more. Overall, I have a target figure of a lifetime 50 girls minimum.This 50 figure is what Franco (from francoseduction.com, another great seduction mind!) defines as the "expert seducer" threshold. I currently stand at a lifetime laycount of 35. Wonder if I can get the 15 missing before year end.

 

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July 2nd - Weekly update

I find now that if I don’t have real sex in 2 or 3 days at least, I get really needy. Need my fix! What a big change from before! In my pre-seduction years I had become self sufficient with masturbation on porn, and could go on for years without real sex (shame to admit it). By late last year, things were much better, I would get real sex every 3 weeks or better, and would masturbate on porn about once a week if nothing better in sight. Since January I started to have sex regularly with my GF Abby (about once a week) and was off online porn the whole time. Since April I fucked 12 new girls, that’s about 4 per month, plus plenty of recurring sex with existing girls. It’s a boost in testosterone. If I don’t have a real sex in 2 or 3 days, I really miss it! It's a good thing, but also a threat to outcome independence.

I find myself in such a state on June 28th, but no luck for me, none of my 4 recurring Doha girls is available, and same on 29th. The plan is to meet Sarah on Thursday 30th, Lily on July 1, and Gianna on July 2. In fact, my next sex will turn out to be on July 1.

Jennifer: On the 28th evening she’s out on a part time job, and 29th she’s out with her cousin. She doesn’t seem in a hurry to see me. Didn’t fuck her in 4 weeks, and she may be auto rejecting. What a pity, I will miss her huge boobs. I hope I can revive this after I return from my summer break.

Sarah: She invited herself for a night at my place on 30th evening. We even discussed what to have for dinner. But on the 30th, a few hours ahead of our meet, she texts me to cancel our meeting. Again (she did the same a week before). But this time, it doesn’t fly. Need to handle that firmly.

Me: Again! It’s your choice. You can’t keep doing like this all the time
Her: Sorry
Me: It’s OK, it’s the last time I give you a chance to do this.
Her: blah blah excuse (going to auntie’s place)
Me: Last time you choose your friend, now you choose your aunt. Your choice.
Her (1hr later): OK if you want, I will come there, then at 9pm you drop me at my home
Me: No
Her: Why?
Me: A woman wants to be with me, she needs to treat me nice

She comes back later in the afternoon, and I tell her no again, cancelled is cancelled. She suggests the Friday, I tell her no, we will see. Either she picks up the message and behave nicely, or either she doesn’t, and she’s out. It's make or break, I don't care. If she's out, that will free me up some time for getting new lays.

Lily: Many texts this week. After Jennifer couldn’t make it on the 28th, I tried to have Lily at home but she has her period. So I setup the meeting with her on Friday (my guess that the period will be over then). When I meet her finally, she is definitely very horny, caressing my dick across trousers etc… But she gives me the period excuse. “It’s alright, we’ll put a towel”. She keeps insisting about her period, but at the same time extremely aroused and horny. Then pull back. She’s on and off many times. I get her to remove her dress and suck her boobs, then take her to my bedroom. Place her on my bed. Against her insistence. Then rub my dick against her pussy, through panty. She’s too horny. “Let me check” she says, and she goes to the bathroom. After that I fuck her for a good 30 minutes. She comes in a loud voice. We have put a towel under her, but I don’t see any trace of blood. We cuddle a little, then go to living room and start a movie. She’s again stroking my dick, takes it out of my trousers and sucks me. Im eating her enormous boobs through the tee shirt. Take her to the bed again, then fuck her, and come very quickly. No condom today. I ejaculate on her belly. She asks why I didn’t come inside. I tell her that if she wants to have a child, she should ask me before if I want too. And indeed, this morning she texts me to say she wants me to father a kid with her. It's a responsibility, I tell her. She says she doesn't want my responsibility. I tell her no children without my consent. For now we will continue to see each other.

Gianna: After Jennifer and Lily couldn’t make it (on 28th again), I tried to have her come home, but she too, is on period. So I agreed to meet her on Saturday. She is starting to have more girlfriends requests. This morning she asked me:

Her: Will I get a bottle of wine for my birthday, love?
Me: Excuse me, gift is my prerogative

She already exhibited this sort of behavior last time, when she requested I bring her a glass of water. I need to be very careful of her compliance requests, and reject them. In spite of this incident, she comes to my home later around 7. She's gorgeous and sexy, we have dinner and it's an immense pleasure to fuck her good. When we're done and about to leave, she asks again about the bottle of wine. Ahhhh. Alright, but that will count as her birthday gift.

Miss Z: My incredible LR from early June in the Philippines, she’s back big time at last! My guess is she is now available emotionally. We have talked about meeting again in September. She sends me many pictures, very sexy ones. She's frankly the most, or second most beautiful girl I've ever slept with in my life (the other contender is my first girlfriend 24 years ago... She was such a beauty too!). I would very happily have much more sleepless nights with her, she has the body of a porn actress and she is extremely sensual.

Upcoming summer break. Tonight I fly back to France. It's been about a year since last time I went in my home country. I will likely be off pickup and seduction for three weeks. I will have my children with me, so I will be in daddy mode. And meet friends and relatives. A very good break in perspective.

 

[Seppuku]

July 30th - Back from summer break

About a month that I didn't posted here. It was a very nice summer break in France, visiting my friends and family that I didn't see in ages. My kids were with me for their summer vacation, too, so it was a very nice catch up with them. My son 13 years old is now nearly as tall as me, and to my satisfaction he is a quite mature young man. I've been telling him that well, if he'd like to, I could give him a hint or two about girls... I know he's interested but not in the mood to confide to daddy too much about that. I guess we were all the same at this age!

Overall these four weeks, I had a very nice break, and also a break from seduction. There was a moment when my 19 years old niece brought in a beautiful blonde girl friend with her. As I could see she's already experienced (to some extent), I had no qualms about her age and switched my game on. Seems my game and charms were doing well, deep diving, touch, etc... from her positive signs. But well, with my niece, mom, and children around I didn't see myself bringing her upstairs. So I just managed to connect on Facebook with her. Let's see if this could be revived later on in the future.

Apart from that it was overall pretty flat girl-wise. My usual online dating tools, Badoo, WeChat, Tinder didn't give me anything in France. In fairness, the place where I live is a pretty far range from the main cities. If I ever come back to settle in my country I will have to rethink my avenues to getting girls.

Relationships wise, with my Doha girls there were a few issues (all on chat apps).

• * Gianna my Kenyan girlfriend acted again like I owe her gifts. I applied Blackdragon's advocated "Soft Next" technique, namely stopping all communication with her for a few days. I made sure she knew I viewed her texts and chose not to answer. She kept texting and texting with no answer from me. After three days I resumed texting like nothing happened. It's been doing well since then and we have a plan to see each other tonight.
  
  * Communication went well with my Chinese Lily for the first two weeks. Then, not sure why, she went crazy. I guess I was not texting her as often as she had wished. But well, my annual trip to France, sorry not much time. After she started to display signs of craziness (negative emoticons and stickers) I told her to "stop this". Then she stopped all texting altogether. Since the problem was wholly on her side, I just waited she solves her own issues, and stopped texting too. Either she reinitiates, or it's done. Finally, three days ago, she recontacted me, and we arranged a meeting last night at my home. She initially showed a little resistance to my physical contact, so I gave her the good therapy by stopping paying attention and watching my movie. She was finally the one esacalating, and we were soon back on track for an hour of good fuck. She came in a loud voice, then me.
  
  * Jennifer - no more news so far. She did check my Badoo profile mid July, probably checking my location.
  
  * Sarah - Came back briefly but got crazy again and ejected. I don't give a damn about her anyway now.

Other recurring girls

• * Lucy - having regular communication with my ex GF again since our June fuckdate.
  
  * Miss Z - she was back early July big time, then disappeared again. These ons and offs are likely related with what's ahppening on the side with other guys. No worries, she will be back. I have hinted about a couple of days stay in a resort in September. I guess she'll be back. If not, who cares, I'll find another girl to bring along.

New girls

Got a few new contacts since I came back. The real promising one is off Tinder - 28 years old cute filipina. We switched to Whatsapp and are looking to setup a date depending of her work schedule. There's a tentative Monday agreement, to be confirmed.

Another one from Badoo. She's really pretty from the pictures, but 41 years old. That's way above my usual range. Would need to confirm that she's actually that pretty. Second she's in need for a relationship, and I already framed myself more or less out. She asked if I had a girlfriend, I said I have six, one for each day of the week except Sunday (my rest day, like in the Bible). Apart from this I put some anti marriage frames, and said people usually jump in relationships too quickly. Didn't hear from her after that - LOL.

 

[foggy]

Re: Seppuku's Journal - dating in Doha

Thank you Seppuku for turning me onto Blackdragon. I have been reading his material lately. Keep up the good work!

 

[Seppuku]

August 4th - Roselin from Uganda

@ Backstory
you're absolutely welcome, man! GirlsChase is the best for learning seduction overall, but I really like BlackDragon's views on relationships and he's always a great read with his frank, direct way of talking. For information I also love Franco, from francoseduction.com and his book "Manual of Seduction" is a must. You won't learn much details on the technicalities of getting girls, but you will learn a lot on mindsets, women psychology and relationships. By the way I was reading in your journal your adventures with Cee / Summer and thinking of posting a couple of comments when I have time.

Today's journal entry
I have been a little lazy since I came back from holidays. I have this thing developing with Gianna my Kenyan girlfriend, she's a black beauty, and we have great time and sex together. It makes me reminiscent of the situation back in January, when I came back from my asian holidays and started developing a liaison with Abby. I sat comfortably in the relationship and didn't push much for new lays. Then I found myself later on losing my vibe and getting lots of headwinds when I started dating again.

There is a pattern. Get plenty of lays, start several recurring and concurrent interactions, drop out the girls getting negative or crazy, focus on the good one, then lose momentum on pick up, then kick my ass again and start the new cycle.

Since I came back, I probably made four or five new contacts from online apps but really didn't push much and let them slip away, out of laziness. After all, I'm getting easy and satisfying sex from Gianna and Lily. Going the easy route into complacency and laziness again. I had to act.

FR: Roselin from Uganda
So on Wednesday I got a new contact in Badoo from an Ugandan girl, and decided to go for it. It's Thursday evening, the onset of the weekend in this Muslim part of the world, and by 7pm I text her "Fancy a drink?". She wants to come up with a friend, and it's fine by me because I've handled that situation pretty well in the past. We arrange the details over the phone and I set a few subtle sexual frames very early on, e.g. "Do I need to bring antibiotics? In case we become a little... close!" after she tells me she has a cold. I also tell her that I expect the girls to dress pretty and sexy. She asks me trousers or dress, I tell her dress because it's more feminine.

I take them home at 9pm. Roselin is tall and cute (I would say 6 - nowhere near Gianna who's 8 or 9) but she has this sort of ass I could really use ;-) Her friend is from Thailand, she's a little fatty (not too much) but very cute and sweet. Both girls are dressed in black dress, quite sexy.

I take them to the Strata and it's a 5 minute walk from my home. When we're out of the car, the Thai friend wants to take pictures. I pose with Roselin, taking her by the waist... Just above this huge sexy ass.

We arrive in the Strata. There's a party tonight, loud music, all seats reserved, like a club. We hang out by the bar with a glass of wine. The interaction is casual and relaxed. There is not much deep diving because it's a noisy environment. I make sure to engage the friend equally well. Then we have more pictures, I have again my hands over her and she takes my touch very well. After that, Roselin starts to get touchy with me. She asks me out of the blue "What do you think about Roselin?" and I tell her playfully that I'm not asking her what she thinks of me - so we will both keep our part of mystery. She laughs and tells me she likes me. Now as we speak I always have my arms somewhat around her shoulders. I tell her that next I will take both of them to my home, and she says no. "You are making too many changes in the plan!" and I answer that we must remain flexible. She tries to get me into her nightclub plan, and I say no, it's too far and I don't see myself dancing until 2am. "Let's go!" she says. So now it's left unclear, I am considering driving them back home and keep it short for today. As we walk to my car, I ask again "So you're sure you really don't want to come to my home for another glass of wine?" and this time it's yes.

We're now on the sofa in my living room, around some chilean wine. Roselin is now keeping some distance. I ask her to come closer and she says no. Never mind I keep my cool and relax vibe and pay a little more attention to the Thai friend. At some point Roselin tells me "You like my friend" and I say "of course, I like your friend, I like both of you". Roselin stands up and starts dancing, shaking this fantastic ass, and as she dances she asks me if I have a balcony. I stand up and get close to her, she puts her hand in mine and I take her to the window. I take her hips in my arms as we watch the view. She wants to visit my flat so I take her by the hand, sometimes on the small of her back and tour her around. When we're back in the sofa this time she sits close next to me. We're holding hands and she drops my hand on her legs. She puts her head on my shoulder as I caress her leg. She briefly kiss me on the neck lol. I wrap my arm around her waist then quickly up to her boob, then back to the waist. She "accidentally" touch my dick briefly and I call her on that playfully. When she lies over me I take the chance to confirm her ass. At some point she mentions to her friend that I'm cool and she thinks I'm a lover of women. LOL. I tell her yes, indeed I am Bottle of wine finished, the girls still want to go to the nightclub so I take them both to taxi.

Now the seeds are planted for a good second date at my place. 1. She has been very comfortable with my touch as I touched all of her body, waist, belly, legs, boobs, ass. 2. She has been to my home and she's comfortable in it.

Now, I'm very tempted to pursue, and I'm sure its going to be plenty of fun, but at the same time there are many signs that she's a strong woman, and also early signs of possessive behaviour. If I go ahead I must brace for the after. This takes me to my next thought.

What exactly am I doing with girls, game wise?

Been wondering, lately. As I write this, I have a hard time thinking about what exactly I did last night. Much of my game is now internalized so I'm not much aware of what I'm doing, it just flows naturally during the date, which makes the whole thing very smooth. It's all about sub-communication. I have zero nervousness and neediness, I exude comfort and confidence in the middle of two pretty girls. I am extremely comfortable touching her. I keep my frame and remain in control. There is also a little bit of "I know I can get her, and she knows that I know". All this is an internalized mindset, acquired from the confidence from many past success. It's very far from this very awkward couple of date that I had 5 years ago (my post labelled "October 16th" last year). I will need to write a separate, more detailed post about it.

Lily
Want to end this post with an update on Lily. Unfortunately this is headed to the door out. I really liked her, but she started showing some crazy behavior while I was away, texting me negative emoticons and stickers. Last week I thought we were back on track after she came her and fucked good. As she left my home I texted her to just let me know when she reached home safely, and wished her good night. There was no response. On Sunday more than 24 hrs later she texted to say that after she left me she went straight to the bar to have a drink. The way I felt it, she was making me guilty for it. I never responded and we didn't exchange any communication since then. I will only keep around me girls bringing me positive feelings.

 

[Seppuku]

August 19th - my African moment

Quite a long post today to catch up on the last two weeks. Things have been going well with Gianna my Kenyan girl, and I have upgraded her to girlfriend rank. Reflecting on my past experiences, I think I'm very keen to experience more African ladies. Based on what I have seen so far, they tend to be very open and straightforward with their sexuality. And, fact is I have had quite a lot of Asians so far. So I find myself opening and chatting a number of African girls on Badoo.

AIDS issue
Some African country has endemic AIDS rate - like South Africa or Zimbabwe - with above 20pct infection rate. Now Qatar enforces a systematic AIDS test to all emigrant workers in the country, which should lower the odds significantly. However if my memory is correct the AIDS test is not conclusive if the virus is contracted within 2 months of the test. Also, the test is done only once when the person initially gets the visa. So a person could return home for vacation and catch AIDS then. So I decide to avoid some of the very high AIDS rate nationals. Kenya is at about 6% of adult prevalence, Uganda is 7%. It's in my tolerable range, given the Qatar AIDS test. Ghana is 1.4%, good. South Africa and Zimbabwe are not. My first question to the girls I chat is from which country there are. I have been obliged to screen out some very attractive girls based on their country. Also, in all these countries the prevalence shoot up for the sex workers. Any girl showing prostitute like behavior (and there are many!) are also screened out.

This being said, I have already got a number of dates.

FR+ Roselin - LMR. This is the continuation of my last post's FR.
Aug 7th. Phone call. We chat a little then agree on her coming for dinner to my place the next day. But... Before the call is over, she has this need to ask me some questions, like what our relationship is going to be, will I make you my husband etc… Ouch, like me giving her a roadmap to a relationship. She drags me into more things, other guys in Badoo, their agenda etc… It quickly turns into a big headache of a discussion. It adds to my overall impression of her last time, strong willed non compliant woman, plus the fact that, at the end of the day, she's just a 6. I finally tell her that this is way too much overthinking, that I’m not into anything remotely complicated and I take things easy. I tell her that I’m not sure about inviting her home now, that we’re going to stop this discussion for now. I'm pulling out for now as It’s already a headache before we even have our first face to face date.

I bet she didn't expect anything like this. During the week, I caught her a few times looking at my profile, and I looked her back. She attempted once to engage me in whatsapp, I answered in a neutral tone. This little game continued for a while, until some time the following week I noticed a girl with an unfamiliar name and picture in my chat list. Checking the profile, it was Roselin who changed her online name and main picture. Now she caught me looking at her profile first. I text her that "I just noticed you changed names". She immediately texts me on Whatsapp and asks if she can call. Was about to sleep, so I said better next day. During the day we have a little back and forth chat. In the evening I tease her with my cooking pics, and she says would be nice to taste it. We agree to meet the next day in the evening for dinner at my place.

Aug 18th. Rosy at home for dinner. After dinner I escalate her several times with no success. I will get to extract and suck her boobs, and to caress her ass beneath the trousers. She’s extremely horny and asks to see my dick. She gets to take it in her hands and play with it, later she caresses my crotch. I take her from behind (through clothes) and rub my hard dick against her extremely shapy ass, and she's moaning... But all the time she sticks to “No. I was not prepared for this.” She says next time she'll be prepared. Well, there is no arguing logically to this. But I tell her that "it either happens, or it doesn't". She goes on explaining a number of disappointing experiences, etc... to why she is so guarded.

Well, whatever. I drive her back. Haven't heard about her since then, and haven't text her too.

FR Miss Wizz, 24, from Kenya. This one turned out to be full of shit.
Aug 9th. I recontact this girl that I first chat briefly on Badoo on June 25. Pictures show a rather pretty girl with a nice round ass. Very little blah blah then I try “Fancy a drink?” She’s like yeah, and we setup a meeting for the same night, 10:10 pm at her place. She doesn’t have ID card so I can't take her to a bar, and she wants to go to the corniche. Alright. I meet her at 10:30pm (she’s late). She compliments me on my eyes straight away, then she tells me she’s coming with her “sister”. They’ve been sleeping in the afternoon, and sort of hungry. I don’t feel the corniche plan, so I decide to take them to a coffee shop close to my place for a quick bite. We get there at around 11pm, and it’s all closed already. They’re telling me they’ll be returning to Kenya in a few days, so I decide to scrap plans and take them home. There is some resistance because they seemed to really want this corniche thing, but then they finally follow me home, and I cook a very quick rice for them, we open a bottle of wine and the sister is soon playing things on youtube (they don’t like my sort of music, oh well). Pictures time, I got both of them around me in my arms and we go for a photo shoot. It gets pretty hot... We have a picture with Wizz and me kissing, with my hand on her bare leg, and many others. I get to touch her all over her body, ass, boobs, legs… But it’s all fake, simulation for the sake of pics. When I try to kiss her “out of pictures” she tells me not to get too hot - and I pull out, as I don’t want to come across as needy. The sister actually seems more into me, I can feel it when she lays her head on my shoulder for the picture. Winnie my date seems to be all fake, capturing nice photos so she can show off. I have an insight of all the pics in her phone, and it's plenty of similar photoshoots with guys lol.

So.. not really into me it seems. Alright. I drive them back. Winnie thanks me for all “it was awesome” but still express some complaints about not going to the corniche. Her interest to go there, it appears, was to take another massive photoshoot. Going to the corniche “was the deal”, she says. I tell her that nothing was written in stone, and instead of this deal, she got another deal.

Aug 10th The next day she asks me to take her to the corniche, and I tell her that it’s a nice day for me to stay home, cook and watch a series. I tell her to come to my home for dinner. “You alone. No point brining your sister.” “Haha lol” which means no. I tell her that she can easily find another guy to take her to the corniche. It seems that she did just this.

A few days later, Badoo shows her new location in Kenya.

FR - Jenny, 25, from Ghana
Back in Jan, I Tinder matched with this girl here in Doha. Back then, we exchanged numbers, switched to WhatsApp, then I became sick and also fully busy with Gie and Abhe. Our WhatsApp convo died, and later didn’t know how to resume and forgot about her. Lately, I noticed that she’s now in WeChat (thanks to her number in address book)… So I decided to text her out of the blue there. She may have forgotten our exchange in Jan, so I’m like a freshly new guy. I get her slowly into a chat extended over several days. “We should meet in real sometime. Fancy a drink?” She says OK and for now we have sort of agreed on Monday evening. Her pics in Tinder looked smoking hot.

Aug 14th. I text her during the day and we agree to meet at the Strata tonight. We meet at 8:15 pm in the lobby of the Intercontinental. She’s taller than me in her heels, very strong and a little fat, but smoking hot in her dungarees. We go to the elevator. She’s taking a snapchat. I come close to her my arm around the waist for a quick picture. 55th floor, we reach the Strata, get a table, order food and drinks. For now I keep some distance as we exchange some basic get to know conversation. She’s the first one to break the distance and touch me (my arm I think). I joke her when she takes more snapchats. "How many likes did you get so far?" We’re having a dinner on sushis, I teach her how to use the chopsticks, some sushis she likes, but there’s one she really doesn’t. She goes to the bathroom to spit out her sushi… and take her phone with her. When she’s back, I ask her if she took a snapchat about herself spitting out the sushi - laughs - then I tell her "You will need to chose between spending your evening with me, or with your phone". She puts away her phone at last, and I go on with a little deep diving. I’m now closer to her, sometimes take her hand in mine, sometimes running my hand in her back. I also play with her hair. She gets to explain me about the african hair - she has a hair saloon back in Ghana. She seems somewhat into me, she’s comfortable with my touch and proximity, it’s about 10:15 pm. I ask her if she drinks wine, she says she’s not going to mix drinks now (she was on cocktail). I say, "because now I would suggest we go to my home. I only have wine and whisky there". And she says fine, let’s go to your home.

We leave the bar and walk to my place (5 minutes away), and she jokes that she has heels, and I joke her that it’s about 45 minutes walk away, but maybe an hour with the heels. We reach my place. Put music (Cesaria Evora on youtube), dim lights, serve drinks (whisky for her). At this point I’ve got to say I’m a little drunk (I don’t usually let myself drunk on dates) and don’t remember all. She’s close to me in the sofa and I’m kissing her in the neck - I feel she’s not in for the mouth yet so I avoid. At some point she asks me what I want. I touch her boobs and ask her to show me these. She smiles and ask "You want to fuck me?" I take my sexy smile and say "Yeah. I wouldn’t mind". That’s probably my mistake here - I wanted to show I’m straightforward with my desire as a man and won’t tell shit. I could have tried some "You bet!" with a wink, touching her boobs instead. She now goes like "if you want to fuck me on first date, then you’ll have to pay me for this". I can’t give in to this and say that I don’t pay for sex. It’s all going wrong now. She goes on explaining that it makes her feel cheap otherwise. I’m a little pissed that she asked for money - and drunk too. She asks if I have ever done first date sex with an African lady. I have in mind Nicky and Gianna, both of them second date sex, but because I'm drunk I forget about miss K in April, and Samia in October - both first date sex. So I tell her "no it’s true, it was second date sex, but I had first date sex with some Chinese and Philippines lady, no big deal". She’s like "So you see, you won’t have first date sex with an African lady". She was like it's OK on second date, but not on first. Bullshit. But this is going the wrong way. Better keep my frame. It’s late, she wants to go back, I take her to the taxi. No messaging either way after that.

The next day I text her along the lines "never mind sex or no sex, was great time" - just to keep communication channels open. Now on this one, I could resume like after a week and ask her again. But the way she asked she's likely an experienced sex worker. A little on the risky side. I'm undecided yet.

FR - Mary, 27, from Kenya
Aug 19th. It’s a blind date... Her picture in Badoo was not a real one, but I decide to play ball. She says she's coming with a friend. As I wrote already elsewhere, I'm fine with this. The girls here are afraid to deal with a weirdo, and in this country there are tons and tons of them, so I'm fine with this. The dates with one girlfriend so far has been a lot of fun, and I have managed myself quite well - exception with miss Wizz above. Plus, I screen out all the experienced daters - and possibly sex workers.

Alright, we meet at the intercontinental at 10:15 pm. And surprise, the two black girls coming in are pretty and sexy. The friend Lucy is absolutely beautiful. Ann is pretty with a very sexy body, long legs, nice ass, thin waist. In the Strata lounge, I sit between both girls. I am cool and relaxed, start a casual conversation with them, mostly Ann, as Lucy is more reserved and silent. I get closer to Ann but don’t initiate touch yet. After a while I notice that she’s touching my legs with hers under the table. I take her very feminine hand and admire it, then leave it. A little later she’s the one doing incidental touch, on my hand I think. And when I show her the pictures of my children, I can feel her boobs touching my arm - usually a huge positive sign. All along I’m also teasing her friend from times to times - like "she’s been here 30 minutes alreay without checking her phone!" (thumbs up for approval), or about her "sex on the beach" cocktail, etc… It’s a very relaxed mood and we’re now hand in hand with Ann. I joke her that her hand is cold and that I need to warm her up, then insert my hand in her long sleeve, and check that the forearm is cold too. Picture time, I take Ann to another corner of the bar (with more light) and we take a couple of pictures together. My hand around her waist. She has a thin waist and good hips. Her face is just cute, but the rest of her body seems very sexy. I think I will enjoy fucking her a great deal. To be honest I would really fuck both of them. When we’re finished I drive them home. I have my hand on her leg as I drive and she’s caressing it. Before we leave I suggest a dinner next time and she’s ok. We have a brief kiss before parting. When I reach home she texted the first "it was a pleasure to meet you tonight, I really enjoy being with you". We agree on Monday evening, although the plan is not finalized. To be continued...

Other girls
Jennifer is back - we text on Monday and agree on a dinner the same evening. She comes at 8:30, have a dinner, chat a bit, then have another good sex session. I come very quickly - unusual, I usually hold myself and last about an hour or more. At 10:30 she's back home. LOL.

Jane texted me again. There's the idea of a meeting in the air. When I suggest she comes to my place, she asks what we are going to do, and I say I'll show her pictures of my vacations. She says she can't have sex because she has a boyfriend. I tell her that I won't tell him and that we can have our secrets. The meeting is not finalized, to be continued.

Gianna is now my GF, I see her two times a week, more or less the same template, dinner then sex. The sex is getting good. I usually make her come two or three times. She says I'm "fully qualified". As a woman she is otherwise very cool. Not calling me every two hours to check on me. Not giving me drama, even shades of drama. For now I want to keep her.

 

[Seppuku]

September 2nd - Month end update

A quick update here on the past two weeks.

Mary
First, things ended well with Mary (from my last post). We ended up in bed on the second date. It was the craziest fight over a pair of trousers of all my life, but persistence won it over. Here is the LR: The Blind Date

I took her to bed a second time about a week later. She gave me a "no" when I tried to remove her trousers, but this time the no was much much less convinced. In fact besides this token resistance, I took her to bed very easily. Again, I came very quickly.

This is very interesting. With some girls, it really requires focus on myself to come. When this is the case it also mean that the whole sex experience lasts longer (i.e. like one hour or more). It is not a bad thing per se. I also have some cases where I don't manage to come. I know it would take longer, and get tired before - not a very big deal with me because I still get a lot of satisfaction from it. But cases like here, where I come quickly (quicker than her) are rare. Not sure what's the reason for the difference - maybe she's more tight?

FR: Miriam
We meet in Badoo on Saturday, basic get to know chat then quickly agree on a date upcoming Monday. I meet her this Monday at 7:30pm at her place, I’m taking her to the Z Lounge. She’s pretty, thin, with a sexy cute ass. Wearing a sexy top, trousers and heels. In the car the vibe is very relaxed although she needs some time to warm up. When we get out of the car I take her hand in mine and guide her to the Z Lounge. We get a good table there, and order some drinks and food. I will make her warm up to me and progressively melt in my arms. The conversation gets sexy at times, like when I use a match and two nuts and dispose them into something looking like an erect dick while she's in the restroom. When she is back, she sees my art and laughs. "According to me, this looks like a dick and two balls!" "Really? Interesting. It was actually a rocket about to take off".

I’m a little tired tonight and just want to enjoy my time with her and not worry about pulling. That may come next time, or not, doesn’t matter. It overall goes well. She’s the first to text after I get back home. The next day I poll her a little over text, I get her short answer but can't engage her on chat. Well, let her come back to me then, I also stop chatting her. On Thursday she comes back, and I suggest a dinner home. The plan doesn't finalize. This is the point: if she is interested, she *will* come back. Never close the dialog, and let her come back. If she doesn't come back, she's either busy with another guy (and may still come back later after she realizes he's a loser) or not interested. It's always better not to spill your beans. In this case I will let it go for now and reengage later - unless she comes back first.

My Chinese Lily
After our brief end of July sexual encounter there has been a little misunderstanding on both sides. I'm glad to say that the cold is over. We meet up two times in the past two weeks. She still have this enormous pair of boobs, it's such a pleasure watching them hanging in front of my nose as she rides me. On our idle time, she says that the waitress at Strata bar - where I took her briefly - has been making her some secret signs. She asks me if I bring plenty of girls in the Strata bar. On her insistance, I end up telling her 75, which is the approximate number of dates I had in the last two year. LOL. And guess what, she's totally cool about it. She keeps texting me that she misses me, and we're having tons of sex. Besides, Lily confirms me what I thought, her job in Doha consists in "selling girls" over mobiles. She took over the business from her sister.

Gianna
There has been a tense cold period. It started over text on a story about her dying phone. The way she framed it, she's a poor broke cutie who cannot afford to buy another phone. "Sorry for me" "I’ll stay without phone" "what to do?" "need to save for at least five month". It was smelling like emotionally manipulating me into buying her the new phone. Although I wouldn't mind helping her with this, the way it is framed, I can’t do it any more. She’ll see it as a green light for more and more. "Just explain what you are trying to do here" I texted her, then I turned full silence. It was make or break. She got furious and asked why, I told her "manipulation attempt". We didn't meet on the weekend as per our usual. This week the diplomatic relationship resumed and things are slowly coming back to normal.

The Ginger fiasco
My LR from April this year. She had been out of Doha for nearly three months and came back last week. She texts me on Tuesday and says she wants to come over to "have french food" lol. Well Tuesday I'm not in the mood, so we agree for wednesday evening. There is little dialogue - because she still doesn't speak a word of English. At around 9pm we're both in my home, she doesn't want to eat in fact, and things escalate pretty quickly. She's really in for this today, no BS. But unfortunately after I put on my condom I have an "accident" - my friend Paul falls flat and I cannot get it up. There is a second attempt... and falls flat again. Embarassing fiasco. Sorry darling. 11pm I drive her back.

Upcoming - another short trip to the Philippines
This time I'm unlikely to reproduce my exploits of June - simply because there are already some girls there waiting for me. I will likely end up fucking a lot, but with recurring girls rather than new ones. It is already agreed that I stay a few nights in Manila with my ex GF Lucy. She'll be soon gone in her new job as staff on a cruise ship - so it's likely the last time I see her in a while. My ex GF Genna has been warming up again lately, and I already told her I'll be in Cebu that week. There is also a few girls from last time, such as Miss Z, that I'm keen to seeing again.

Upcoming - my annual update, from my second year in seduction. Points learned, things currently learning, areas of improvement... and more statistics. I'm halfway there, I hope I can finish and post this on the coming week.

 

[Seppuku]

September 4th - Annual update

Time to reflect on the past 12 months. On August 24th 2015, I took Jane home for my first "first date sex" ever. Since then, I have increased my results big time. In the last 12 months:

• * 53 dates, of which
  * 29 "sexual" dates, of which
  * 24 full sexual intercourse

this is a 45% date to sex conversion ratio. Out of the 29 dates which did not result in full sexual intercourse, the breakdown is

• * 12 "minor" dates: dates where I know from the first that I won't be able to pursue to the end - she's either not that pretty, or she's in a middle of a messy breakup (thanks, but no thanks), or I don't have the logistics in place. I go to these dates "just to see" and for keeping up training and confidence
  * 12 inconclusive real dates: my magic just didn't work
  * 5 LMR / HJ / BJ. New this year, I have been able to recover from earlier LMR, and to work my way through a couple of LMR. These are either the "unresolved" LMR, or the dates that got sexual (e.g. sucking boobs, getting a blowjob or handjob...) but not to full intercourse

Excluding the 12 minor dates - for which taking to bed is not an option since the beginning - it's a 58.5% conversion ratio, as compared to 40% evaluated the same way, one year ago. It's a noticeable improvement.

I have developed a certain style of game, most of it being now internalized - meaning I do it now without much thought. In a nutshell:

• * open many girls online
  * little get to know basic chat, little rapport building, then ask out
  * strictly non chase-y, non needy texting - "let them text first" philosophy - setting the girl in the chasing position
  * one or two dates building comfort, emotional and physical, some sexy talk, lots of touch
  * pull home and escalate

Current learning points: Relationships and relationship management.

Overall I stopped doing one night stands, and unless she is giving me drama, or other external reasons, I usually seek to see her again.

• 
  * Solved: retention problems. Last year I was facing retention problems. I would take a girl to bed on first date... And she would soon disappear. It seems that I have solved that, by giving now the right mixure of lover and boyfriend vibe. Second date bed helps... But I also managed to meet again with a first date bed, so it's possible too.
  * Setting up a polyamorous frame. This, I don't get to do it consistently yet. In the past year, Jane, Jenna, Jennifer, Chinese Lily were all fully aware of my whereabouts with other girls - and yet kept on seeing me. My previous GF Abby, earlier this year, knew I was doing "side action" when I was travelling although unaware of the extent of my activities in Doha. My current GF Gianna has no idea I think, which is bad, because she'll fall harder when she finds out.
  * Relationship management. Setting up the right tone, no BF/GF things like cinema, meeting up at my place and fuck strictly every time, making her my sexual plaything, limiting the frequency of meetups. Managing drama and manipulation: still learning how to deliver a calibrated, appropriate response.

Points for improvement

Having a process that get me laid consistently has helped my mindset and boosted my self confidence. However my dating style has also become my comfort zone - I tend to redo the same old recipe that has worked well. As a consequence, it is also harder to try and learn new things and improve.

• * Calibrate the dominance level. Sheila, Iris, Lily from Laos, Jenny were cases where attraction was here in the first place, but I have lacked the dominance level to make them submit at the last moment. These girls required more dominance. Sheila and Iris managed to make me satisfy them with my hands without giving me the same. My bad. Lily was naked in my bed but tricked me with the period excuse - I had checked there was some blood but should have insisted for sex using a towel. Jenny killed me with her "Do you want to fuck me now?" frame and demanding compensation. I don't play enough with dominance. I think I'm reasonably dominant, but I don't push myself to be more dominant, and I don't calibrate my dominance level to the girl. Building more verbal compliance, and being a little bit more asshole are two ways that I haven't explored enough.
  
  * New avenues of getting girls. Online dating has its limitations. Not all kind of girls are fishing online. I am missing out on whole categories of girls. Also, I only achieve some sort of relative abundance. I am still dependent on availability of online dating, and reasonable population density around me. The real abundance comes from cold approach - daygame (night game has similar limitations as online game, e.g. only certain categories of girls...). Whereas the most beautiful girls online have incredible abundance, those who are not online are likely more accessible via daygame. My compliments to all you guys fighting up your approach anxiety to harness daygame. I have yet to even start cold approaching.

Review of annual objectives (My post dated May 28th)

• * 20 new lays (full intercourse) for 2016 - I currently stand at 15. I may miss the target. I am spending more time than anticipated in "existing" girls, learning relationships
  * Girls 6+ are eligible. In general I have now more girls in the 7 to 9 range than I had late last year. It's an improvement.
  * Increase the post sex retention rate and get more recurring girls. Already achieved. Now managing a rotation with about three girls at any given time, including a "main" girl.
  * Learn to establish fulfilling relationships in my own terms. On the way. It's one of the ongoing learning points.

 

[Seppuku]

Errata

Just going again through the numbers, I found some mistakes. Doesn't matter much but I like to keep clean records for myself. Forgot two full sexual dates, plus need to update for my latest date with Miriam, which is inconclusive to this day (but not necessarily finished). So:

56 dates, from Aug. 24th 2015 to Aug 29th 2016:

• * 12 minor dates
  * 13 inconclusive dates
  * 5 LMR / BJ / HJ
  * 26 full sexual intercourse

46 pct date to sex conversion, or 59 pct if I exclude the "minor" for which I know upfront it can't lead to bed.

BTW things are always moving. For instance, Ina or Abby, that I dated early in 2015 (Jan and Feb resp.), but took to bed 10 months+ later. Or some LMR that I was able to recover later, etc...

 

[Grand Pooba]

Re: Seppuku's Journal - dating in Doha

Hey Seppuku!

46 pct date to sex conversion, or 59 pct if I exclude the "minor" for which I know upfront it can't lead to bed.

Both of these numbers are excellent in my opinion.. I think anything above 50% is probably in the elite among men, in my opinion. But depending on your metric, it seems that you're actually in the latter for 59%, which is really, really, really good!

I have developed a certain style of game, most of it being now internalized - meaning I do it now without much thought. In a nutshell:

* open many girls online
* little get to know basic chat, little rapport building, then ask out
* strictly non chase-y, non needy texting - "let them text first" philosophy - setting the girl in the chasing position
* one or two dates building comfort, emotional and physical, some sexy talk, lots of touch
* pull home and escalate

This is good that you've found a solid process. Not sure if you're a very busy man, or if you have time, but another way to grow would be to pursue a new avenue such as cold approaching. I'm not sure how feasible this is in Doha - maybe more difficult, in fact.

Where do you think you can tweak it to improve your rates even further?

I would like to know more about your ""let them text first" philosophy - setting the girl in the chasing position" - how you actually achieve this.

Last year I was facing retention problems. I would take a girl to bed on first date... And she would soon disappear. It seems that I have solved that, by giving now the right mixure of lover and boyfriend vibe. Second date bed helps... But I also managed to meet again with a first date bed, so it's possible too.

This happens to me even, and we do a similar polyamorous style of seduction and harem management. I think the key here is to have sex several times on the first date (night and in the morning) but even better is to spend time with her after in some kind of datey way - i.e. grab breakfast later that day.

* Relationship management. Setting up the right tone, no BF/GF things like cinema, meeting up at my place and fuck strictly every time, making her my sexual plaything, limiting the frequency of meetups. Managing drama and manipulation: still learning how to deliver a calibrated, appropriate response.

Depends on what you want. Seems like you only want FBs and not actually poly relationships, am I correct? Because if you want actual polyamorous relationships then you SHOULD be doing other things as well besides just meeting at your place and fucking. There has to be some kind of growth in the relationship.

The FB model is:
1. you text her the day of or day before to see if she's free
2. if she is, text her to hang out and drink wine. first, see if she's free (i.e. "hey, you free at all tomorrow night?") and if she is, then make plans to meet up under some premise like drinking wine or cooking a small meal together. If she's not free, say "OK cool" and text a different girl.
3. meet at your or her place, hang out for an hour or so and have a great fun time together.
4. both of you fuck.
5. she does not sleep over, you do not sleep over.
6. only see her every 7-10 days.
7. if you sense she's looking for more, break up with her preemptively by falling off, not seeing her again.

That's my model, anyway.

The limitations of the FB model are that they can sometimes be short lived - if she's looking for a relationship and you're not giving it to her, she will leave to go find that. But, you can also start this up again if you break off on good terms. I wrote a post in Advanced on this.

The MLTR poly relationship model is, assuming you have already converted her to a regular:
1. Pick a set day of the week that you're going to see this girl every week. You will always see her on this day of the week. Sometimes you can pick two set days and alternate.
2. Figure out what your vision is for the relationship. What do you want out of it? What does she want out of it? What are ways you can grow and what are things you can do together besides just have sex? For example, one of my MLTRs and I - all we do is once a month spend a weekend together in a new city we have never been to, where we check out the sights, but also fuck as much as we can.
3. You are allowed to do fun things besides stay at home and fuck. She will get bored or lose faith if there is no growth, so make sure there is growth.
4. See her once a week, maaaaaaybe twice a week, but no more. One of those should always be sexual. I make exceptions to this rule for long distance MLTRs who don't come in very often - if she's in town, she's my semi-mono girlfriend while she's in town and I will see her multiple times a week.
5. You or her can sleep over.
6. Let her do things for you like cook, clean, etc. Put her to work. One of mine makes me lunch to take to work and cooks me dinner.
7. Have fun together whether or not you're hanging out. Unlike an FB, you will be texting her often mainly to set up meets, and always stay in communication when she messages you.
8. Always keep an eye on if she wants something more. Always keep it in the back of your mind where the relationship is and what state it's in, and where she is within it. Break off preemptively if she starts to want exclusivity and you don't.
9. Two gray areas: A. you don't always have to have sex when you see her. For instance, perhaps you meet for lunch once during the week, then go back to work. B. you might do social things together once in a while - not often, but only once in a while. For instance, she invites you to a party with her friends, you go meet her and meet them, then go home together.

In both cases don't ever, ever, ever talk about other girls or anything pick-up related.

I rarely have drama in my poly relationships, I wonder what you are doing differently.

Lily was naked in my bed but tricked me with the period excuse - I had checked there was some blood but should have insisted for sex using a towel.

Exactly, just say "I'll get a towel" and then proceed to escalate anyway.

Building more verbal compliance, and being a little bit more asshole are two ways that I haven't explored enough.

You can also build compliance just through leading, leading, leading.
Bit more asshole = use push-pull, put her down in a harmless way for something she said, but then build her back up and compliment/praise her on exactly that same thing. Also, don't answer everything she asks you, in texts or in person.

Now managing a rotation with about three girls at any given time, including a "main" girl.

Three is about my limit and IMO the right amount for in-town girlfriends. I've done five before and it drove me crazy - no time for anything else in life.
I like to make my main girl from out of town, giving me more space to manage the in town lesser girlfriends.

 

[Seppuku]

Re: Seppuku's Journal - dating in Doha

Hey Grand Pooba!

Wow that's very useful feedback, thank you, it's appreciated!

Both of these numbers are excellent in my opinion.. I think anything above 50% is probably in the elite among men, in my opinion. But depending on your metric, it seems that you're actually in the latter for 59%, which is really, really, really good!

Thanks... Don't want to underrate my own merits, but there are some positive factors at work:

• * My girls are essentially asian or black girls, I'm white, I think that helps
  * It's out of online dating, so there is some mutual pre-screening - when we meet the first time, there already is some mutual attraction; plus, the girls are normally available, and if they're not, they will "forget" to mention the BF
  * Mediocre competition. Although it's 3 to 1 male to female ratio in Doha, most of the other guys are either very low status, or already married. Plus, many girls don't want to hear about arabic guys. In addition, it seems that, online, most of the guys are needy, pushy, and gross, and the girls are simply put off.

Of course, I have some skill, too...

This is good that you've found a solid process. Not sure if you're a very busy man, or if you have time, but another way to grow would be to pursue a new avenue such as cold approaching. I'm not sure how feasible this is in Doha - maybe more difficult, in fact.

Yes, it's more difficult. There's going to be more social pressure in this conservative muslim country. But not impossible I think. The question is in which venue. I'm not into nightlife, so it's going to be daygame. But here we do not have as many possibilities as in a western city, for daygame. The mall is a dull environment...

Where do you think you can tweak it to improve your rates even further?

I'm planning to release a little bit the pressure of numbers, and focus on the other areas of learning, like successful MLTR as you describe below. So I don't plan on improving these rates soon. Happy with this, for now!

I would like to know more about your ""let them text first" philosophy - setting the girl in the chasing position" - how you actually achieve this.

Yes! Need to analyze what I'm doing, and maybe write a post in the Techniques or Advanced forum. Initially, it's really me initiating, of course, but soon the dynamics reverses - typically after the first date. Then, I become scarce, answering with delays, or not at all, sometimes going silent 24hrs or more. Also unpredictable, sometimes very present, sometimes very silent, sometimes giving her good emotions, then withdraw, etc... And always flirty and sexy.

I had some entire weeks with ten or more girls chasing me on text. It's a lot of fun

Depends on what you want. Seems like you only want FBs and not actually poly relationships, am I correct? Because if you want actual polyamorous relationships then you SHOULD be doing other things as well besides just meeting at your place and fucking. There has to be some kind of growth in the relationship.

That's very helpful! The way I view things, they all start at FB level. Ideally, one of them is worthy of more, and the idea is to ramp her up progressively in status. It's the part that I am still learning. You're right, I should progressively incorporate other activities as part of the MLTR "upgrade process". And need to think of the growth. That's what I'm not doing, I see it, now.

In fact, my "main" girl Gianna (Kenyan) has been whining recently about the need to incorporate more variety in our time together. Exactly what you are saying. Will apply it now.

In both cases don't ever, ever, ever talk about other girls or anything pick-up related.

Most of the time, they have some intuition of what's going on. A few times, I become so much pressed with questions that I can't just deflect. In this case, I will just say the truth, plainly and simply. At this stage, they more or less already know the answer. And surprise, they are usually just fine! And keep coming back for more. LOL.

What's your experience? Curious to hear!

I rarely have drama in my poly relationships, I wonder what you are doing differently.

Actually I don't have much too, because I let go the ones that seem drama prone very early. But still, some occasional whining, and manipulation attempts.

You can also build compliance just through leading, leading, leading.
Bit more asshole = use push-pull, put her down in a harmless way for something she said, but then build her back up and compliment/praise her on exactly that same thing. Also, don't answer everything she asks you, in texts or in person.

Haha, more useful input! Thanks, I'll try that.

Three is about my limit and IMO the right amount for in-town girlfriends. I've done five before and it drove me crazy - no time for anything else in life.

The maximum I had is four in a week. Agreed, difficult to sustain. I need sleep!

 

[Grand Pooba]

Re: Seppuku's Journal - dating in Doha

* My girls are essentially asian or black girls, I'm white, I think that helps

Haha yeah I got that sense, though I operate in mostly the same demographic tbh. Maybe a little more variety.

In fact, my "main" girl Gianna (Kenyan) has been whining recently about the need to incorporate more variety in our time together. Exactly what you are saying. Will apply it now.

Be wary that it is possible she is interested in a monogamous relationship with you. You may set a precedent where you cave to her demands, and she will whine even more if you don't. But I don't know what kind of girl she is like.
What you really need to be doing I think is sensing this and giving it to her (or not) before she ever brings it up.
This is why it's very important to have a very clear idea of what you want out of your time together in the MLTR.

Most of the time, they have some intuition of what's going on. A few times, I become so much pressed with questions that I can't just deflect. In this case, I will just say the truth, plainly and simply. At this stage, they more or less already know the answer. And surprise, they are usually just fine! And keep coming back for more. LOL.

What's your experience? Curious to hear!

Yeah most of my girls are fine with this arrangement as long as you're not mixing up different levels of commitment, or leading her on and then breaking her heart. I tend not to talk about it, I display my intentions through my actions rather than my words.

Best thing when they ask for exclusivity and you can no longer deflect is something like "I really like you, I like X, Y, Z about you and I love the time we spend together. However, I'm not ready for something exclusive - I'm not that kind of guy. I understand if that does not work for you and what you want - if you must leave I understand, but I really hope you don't." She may have a rather strong emotional reaction after this. Be there for her, hold her close if she starts crying or feeling low. I've also had some girls jump on my cock and give me the best sex of our time together right after saying this....so it depends. Some girls will also drop off after this, so be mentally prepared.

I've also tried telling girls upfront about what I do - sleeping with multiple girls and having multiple girlfriends. I've found it rather bad to be completely, utterly honest and upfront most of the time. Maybe it's just where I live, but a lot of times this leads the girls to start asking even more questions about other girls (jealousy and frame control attempt) or resenting me slightly because they think I'm manipulating them somehow.

 

[Seppuku]

September 21st - Back from the Philippines

On the occasion of the Eid Al Adha our offices were closed for about ten days, so I took the chance to travel - to the Philippines again.

Friday 9 to Monday 12 - three nights in Manila with my GF Lucy
Lucy is a beautiful, very sweet woman, emotionally very stable and even (no mood swings, no drama), with a large loving heart. I was with her from February to July last year as she was working in Qatar - all our interaction fully documented on this journal. She returned to the Philippines after her contract was finished, and since then she prepared for, and successfully interviewed for a cruise ship waitress job - her dream job for her. In October last year, as we were physically separated for three months, she was unhappy with our long distance situation. Since I had no idea how our path could possibly cross again (back then) I decided to end the relationship formally. About a month later, she resumed some sporadic communication with me. On my last trip in Cebu, Philippines, in June, we finally (happily) met again, slept together one night and decided to keep things open.

As part of the professional training for her new cruise ship job, she is currently staying in Manila, Makati area, so I decided that I would take the chance to explore this part of Manila a little while seeing her. We're staying in a one bedroom suite in a 4 star hotel. Greenbelt and Glorietta Mall are absolutely huge, amazing shopping centers, it really takes days to explore. And at night we have our sexual time.

She will soon be gone for a 10 month trip around the world. Before we separate, I tell her: "you and me, it’s open deal. There is no promises, but the door is open, we continue to communicate. Please keep in mind the pros and cons of being with an older man. If, along the way, you find a man that can offer you a more satisfying deal (marriage and kids), then please keep an open mind about it, and as for me, I will understand. And if, along the way, there are temptations, I won’t be the one asking you questions." She understand the deal loud and clear and she seems fine with it. No closed door this time.

FR: A fun interaction with the sexy cashiers in an Apple store
This happened on my first day in Manila, Lucy was not with me at the moment. I like very much the idea of involving a third person into my pick up of a pretty woman.

I'm checking out an item at the cash counter, and there are two sexy cashiers there. The security guard is just next to one of the girls. I ask him "Hey man, did you ask her name? She’s pretty!", and making sure she hears me. Smiles. "No sir, I didn’t ask, because she’s married!". "Hey, just because she’s married doesn’t mean she’s not pretty!" Laughs. Turning to her: "Hey what’s your name" she tells her name... "Well, XXX, you’re very pretty!" Turning to the guard "You see?" Laughs. The other girl hears us and is laughing. "Oh now we have a problem, because I said this one is pretty, and I didn’t say to that one!" Coming close to the second one. "What’s your name?". She says her name. The first girl exclaims: "She’s married too!" "Oh you’re married too! Everybody’s married here!" Laughs. "Well, you’re pretty too!" Everybody laughs. I take my stuff, pay, and go.

LR: September 13th, Anna - prostitution that doesn't say its name
In Cebu, now September 13th. Late on the previous night, I got in touch with Anna on WeChat. She was the one contacting me in fact. We exchange pictures, chat a little, then agree to meet on the next day 11:30am for a coffee. At 11:30 I go to the agreed coffee shop, and she’s not here. I get my coffee and my lunch, then proceed to my day. In the afternoon she messages that she woke up too late and missed the time. We reschedule for 4:30 pm. This time we meet at my coffee shop. She’s pretty and sexy, with very nice sizable boobs - very uncommon in Asia. She’s touchy with me immediately. She touches my forearm when she speaks, then presses her boobs "accidentally" against my arm. Later I notice how she subtly tries to bring my attention to her boobs. We order some coffee and iced tea. We sit side by side and have a little chat. It’s very comfortable. I get her to speak about herself and her family. Interestingly she came to Cebu to escape the supervising authority of her elder brother. It also appears from the discussion that she is chatting another guy staying in the same hotel as me. She describes the relationship with her ex BF as "Friend with Benefits".

When we finish our drinks we go for a little walk (hand in hand), then after ten minutes she suggests we go to my room and watch TV. Alright, I was planning to bring her there anyway : -) . When we reach my room she removes her shoes, sets herself in my bed and opens the TV. She’s in my arms, head on my shoulder, we’re watching TV. On my first attempt to kiss she pulls back and says she wants to watch TV. I stay next to her for a little while - she's still watching TV - then I decide to pull back. I get out of the bed. Check my tablet. Then return to her "so you came here to watch TV?". She asks: "Do you want to have sex now? Like Friends with Benefits?" I say yes - for me it means uncommitted sex. I start kissing her, then her large boobs and nipples. She undresses, then me. I suck her boobs, then finger her. She comes very fast. Start again. She’s gaining momentum. I put condom on and fuck her.

When we’re done, I explain her how WeChat is full of ladyboys and hookers. "I’m not into hookers" I tell her, adding that I don’t pay for sex, at least directly, although it’s ok with me to treat her with a dinner after. She jumps in, saying she wants me to pay something. She said I agreed to "Friends with Benefits". LOL we have a different reading of the term. I now connect this with what she said earlier about her BF, and her older brother watching on her. OK I agree that I won’t take her to dinner as I planned, but pay 600 pesos instead (that’s 13 dollars). My first time to pay for a hooker, on a misunderstanding. She was pretty and sexy, very nice tits, and she cost me much less than many dates I had in Qatar. But that's a new, original definition of "Friends with Benefits"!

Later on, I seem to remember her and browse my WeChat, and yes, it's not the first time, although under a different profile. When I was in Cebu last summer, she already friended me in WeChat, but we only got to actually chat back in March this year (I was in Doha) and we even had a video call.

FR: September 14th, Rowena
I met her on Tinder on the 12th, and we initially agreed to meet on the 13th. But I was busy fucking Anna, it was too late to confirm the appointment after Anna left, so we finally meet the 14th, 7pm at my usual coffee shop. That evening I was having the symptoms of a cold, runny nose, sneezing etc... Not ideal, but I've got to try my best.

She’s quite pretty. Very soon she becomes very talkative and excited, she's very curious to talk about France and french language, etc... She becomes touchy (incidental touching in conversation). The hook point comes very late (maybe an hour into the date?) when she finally asks if I return to France after Cebu. I say no. She asks if I return to Japan. No. etc... Then I finally tell her that I live and work in Qatar. When we leave the coffee shop I have an attempt at taking her hand, but she doesn’t want to give. After that we have dinner. She becomes more touchy with me. When we leave the restaurant she finally agrees to give me her hand. But she’s so excited and talkative that she cannot keep her hand in mine too long.

There are many positives and negatives already. It took her a long time to reach the hook point. Plus, she's not taking my hand right away and not following my lead easily. On the other hand she is very excited, and touchy around me. I think I could get her but it would take me more dates. Plus, I now have this cold. So I decide not to pursue. At her suggestion, we end up in another restaurant having glasses of wine. My chance to get to know a new cool place to hang out in Cebu, and just enjoying my time for tonight.

LR: September 15th to 18th, Jackie
Excellent and fantastic experience with this beautiful and sexy 28 years old woman. I end up spending the remaining of my vacation with her. Here is the link to the LR: The Self Pulling Beauty

I am still in touch with her in spite of the distance, and hoping to meet her more in the future.

Other girls
Miss Z. This one I was keen on seeing again. I engaged her a week before coming and she seemed cool about meeting again. When I arrive in Cebu, I ping her on Whatsapp. My message is read, but unanswered. On the 14th, at night, she texts me and asks if I'm here. We chat a little then we agree to reconvene on Whatsapp the next day and setup a meeting in the evening. However the next day when I text her a precise schedule and plan, my message is read and unanswered. Whatever??? As per my usual, better to lose the girl than to lose the frame. No answer from her, so I don't chase more. Instead I got this lovely night with Jackie, a much better deal in fine.

Genna. My brief GF from last year. We got cold in March, but she warmed up back to me in July and since then. It seems she won't have time this time, as she's very busy running her various businesses.

Charlene. My LR from last year in Singapore. She's back in the Philippines and we had agreed on meeting on Saturday 17th, in Manila. However I'm now really enjoying myself with Jackie and prefer to extend my stay in Cebu with her one night. I invent an excuse and cancel the planned date with Charlene.

Gianna. My current GF in Doha. She's getting really crazy. She doesn't like the idea of my vacation in the Phiippines. Well, sorry darling, I'm living my life the way I want now, and not according to other people's wish. But I try to saty nice over text and manage her emotions. But there are times when I'm not available for chatting (e.g. busy fucking another). She gets crazy about my silences. Since I came back, our interaction in Whatsapp has become very weird. Sorry darling, I don't do bad feelings. I won't be managing your feelings now, either. Accept or leave.

Mary. My other FB in Doha seems still cool, but is on linear response mode only. I text, she texts back. I don't text, she doesn't. The early FB crisis maybe? I'm still undecided how much I'm going to push for this.

Note: As always, here and elsewhere I'm making up all names.

 

[Seppuku]

September 26th - Girlfriends update

Life is interesting

Gianna. She just blew a fuse. She was not OK with my trip to the Philippines - feeling very insecure about it. Just the day I left, she sent me a picture of the Lacoste polo she just bought for me. Why this sudden rush to buy me a gift out of the blue, before I embark into a ten days trip abroad? Then when I was there, she was texting me every day - and just going crazy whenever I was not answering. After I got back, we texted very little, then she made me a little drama that I was not texting her the first, then just decided to go silent. I tell her "OK. Whatever" and just ignore her silence. After four days she finally breaks the silence. Normal texting then resumes as if nothing happened. We are due to meet this evening. Planning to take her to a restaurant, then bring her home and remind her of the feeling of my dick inside her.

Mary. She has been very cool with my absence. No daily text, just respecting my time. And when I was back she starts texting me again. The communication resumes well, and we agree to meet on the Friday evening. I take her home, we have a brief dinner, then I remove her clothes one by one and enjoy the sight of her superb body in underwear. She definitely has one of the most superb ass I ever got close to. She is my sexual plaything and she is just fine about it. I take her to bed, remove this cute red pantie and fuck her good. The best position is to lay her flat on her belly, then take her from behind. The sight of her magnificent round ass, plus the angle, I come very quick. One note: while she seems to enjoy the fuck, she gets tired of it, if it takes too long. Well, fair enough, we keep it short then - like 15 minutes or less.

Jackie. My superb sexy thing from the Philippines is a very High Sex Drive freak. In the course of the three nights we spent there she probably had about 50 orgasms in total, no kidding. She's adept to daily masturbation (her middle finger is called Daniel) and she's even addicted to online porn. Incredible. After I returned to Doha, we organised a video call. The minute she sees me, she starts squeezing her boobs, drop her clothes, lay naked on the bed and masturbate in front of the camera. Got a nice screenshot She comes several times. Today while I'm at the office she just sent me a picture of her pussy on Whatsapp. We are talking about a short weekend together in November. I will need to start having vitamins right away if I want to manage her appetites


My other recurring girls (Lily and Ginger) are both back to China so I won't see them any time soon. I have a time slot for a third girl in Doha now... and therefore building up new dates.

Roslyn. Failed date with this sexy 24 years old Kenyan. We have been sporadically in touch in Badoo since June, but after I return from the Philippines I get back to her into serious chat. We quickly agree on a date, and connect on Whatsapp. I'm due to meet her on Thursday 22nd, at 7 pm, at her place. I'm there in time, text her that I arrived, then wait. The message is unchecked. Given that she is doing night shifts, I'm guessing that she is still sleeping. After 20 minutes with no sign of life, I text her "Someone still sleeping. I'm going to do the same" then return home. While on my way back, she texts me that she just woke up (like I guessed), apologizes and says I should have called her. It's too late, now I'm halfway home. I tell her we'll meet another day, and leave her tons of texts unanswered. No need to go arguing anyway. Three days later (Sunday) I text her a "good morning" and my message goes read but unanswered. Likely autorejected, what a pity.

Upcoming date with Joan. Another good looking Kenyan from Badoo, 25 years old. I'm still not over my African moment lol (Gianna and Mary are Kenyan too). We're building up a date on Friday evening (her day off). From my experience it's a little dangerous to setup a date too far ahead, normally it's in the next 48 hours. Tons of things can happen in the course of five days. Let's see.

 

[Seppuku]

October 3rd - Weekly update

Alright, another busy week Two new lays this week, let's start.

LR - Chinese woman Jasmine
On the 25th, that’s also about when I start chatting Jasmine on Badoo. She quickly suggests we can meet. I arrange the date on the 28th evening.

She’s 39, clearly older than my average girl, but she looks still ok on pictures, so I decide to give it a shot. I take her at 8pm at her place. She’s dressed in tight trousers, her shirt shows boobs, she has long hair, she’s feminine and thin. As soon as she’s in the car, the vibe is good. She’s actually the first to touch me with a quick caress on my cheek. I tell her I just shaved. She briefly puts her hand on my thigh then puts her hand into mine. Wow she’s already escalating me.

I drive her to the Kempinski, we go to the other bar (I’ve been too much to the Z Lounge recently, so I need to change). We sit side by side. She’s very touchy, I run my hand in her hair or over her shoulders, she takes my hand and press it briefly against her boob, I place my hand on her legs, etc... At some point she turns her lips close to mine, I briefly kiss her.

There is not much deep diving, the connection is already here. We enjoy the drinks, take pictures, watch the live band. She’s on her WeChat posting pics of our cocktails, and she has loads of guys sending her likes. A message comes up about a guy asking her to give his address so that she comes. LOL. As she browses through pictures on her phone with me, she accidentally run into a pic of an erect dick. I laugh. "You have guys sending you that?". Well, in Qatar it's all the time, and the girls are saturated with these pretty gross requests. Good for me, that's why I get all the girls.

She now asks how many girls I brought to this bar. Good, she’s getting the picture. I scratch my head, pretend I’m deeply thinking, then start counting on my fingers. One, two... Three... Scratch my head again. Five, ten, twenty. She laughs and says bye bye, then turn away. I say "OK, bye bye" and turn away too. After 20 seconds she takes my hand back in hers.

To pull or not to pull, that is the question. But she’s very much into me, and so excited, it would be very impolite of me not to pull her. I also know that if I leave her cold after getting her so excited, I won’t see her again. So pull it is. I settle the check (it’s very little thanks to the ladies night complimentary drinks). I take her hand in mine and lead her to my car, then drive her straight to my home. No question about where we go, good. When I reach my building I tell her we’re going to listen to some music. She’s excited and asks me again how many girls I have brought here. "Many".

At home, she literally jumps in my arms immediately. There will be no lengthy escalation. She grabs my dick and puts her nipples in my mouth. She gives me a hungry blowjob, wow, an experienced woman. I take her to bed, puts on a condom, then penetrate her. She screams her pleasure. Now about my experience, she’s sexy and kind of cute, but naked she’s not that pretty. It will be a one timer. I drive her back and kiss good night. Bye bye.

LR - Joan
Another 25 years old Kenyan girl. Here is the LR: Close Encounter of the Third Kind

Wow I really love these girls, they have no problem with their sexuality. We go on a date, the vibe is just good, I take her home, escalate her and fuck her. She is another High Self Esteem, High Sex Drive girl. Stamina required for the ride. Kenya is now officially my second most fucked nationality, after Philippines and before China. If we keep on seeing each other, I will now be having three concurrent Kenyan girlfriends. I love you girls.

Girlfriends
Gianna, my 27 years old Kenyan girlfriend. On the 25th, she comes out of the blue after four days of silence, and resumes chatting like nothing happened. We setup a meeting on 26th. That evening I ask her to come by taxi at the Mariott at 7pm. She’s super classy with a white dress and heels. We have a dinner at the italian restaurant then we walk back to my home. I undress her, suck her boobs, lick her, then fuck her for the rest of the evening. I drive her back then at 11pm I’m home. On Oct 1st, she comes at my place around noon and we spemd the rest of the day together.

So... the relationship finally resumed, but I can still feel all her insecurities. All this time, I had ZERO questions about my trip the Philippines. Although she suspects my background activities big time, she doesn’t want to know the details.

Mary. 28 years old Kenyan. She's the perfect Fuck Buddy. Her face is cutish but not super pretty, and she always have crazy hairstyles. BUT. She has one of the sexiest body of all the girls I had. Long legs, wide hips with round, firm ass. Thin waist, very little body fat. Nice firm boobs, apple shaped, medium sized. She is sweet and submissive, always laughing and in the good mood. She is usually available after 9pm, but prefers to be back home around 11:30pm. So our meetings are very simple. I bring her home, around 9:30 pm. We have a quick dinner. I remove her clothes one by one until she's fully naked. I enjoy touching and watching her perfect body. Then I take her to bed and fuck her doggy style. Thanks to her tight pussy, I come very quick, it's so damn good. We lay a little bit. 11pm, time to dress up, I drive her home. We meet once every 7 to 10 days, and up to now there's no complaint or little drama unfolding. Low Sex Drive Women will give you a peaceful relationship, but not necessarily less pleasurable sexual experience.

On the radar
Miss L. I have been in touch lately with a 27 years old Qatar Airways stewardess from the Philippines. She seems a real beauty. I have never tried a flight attendant, it would be nice on my book. There has been a few selfies exchanged but so far no agreement for a real life meeting.

Roslyn. Contact been restored with this Kenyan girl with whom I almost went on a date two weeks ago. She just couldn't wake up in time from her nap, and I was already on my way home. Incredible, she's the one late, but she's the one upset. LOL. I am hoping that the situation can be salvaged. Let's see. I could really put my hands around these shapes.

In the distant loop
Lucy my ex ex GF. She's no longer ex, since we resumed sexual intercourse. It's now officially "open".
Jackie (my LR) is also still in the loop. Not sure if we'll do that weekend in November. Let's see.
Lucille, my orbiter since May, has popped back in my Whatsapp. I'm so cruel. So much devotion, I really should reward her with a special treatment of mine.

 

[Seppuku]

October 12th - Another busy week

Tuesday 4 and Wednesday 5 - Failed booty calls. On Tuesday I try to get Mary come home, but in the evening she feels lazy to move out of home. I then try to get Gianne coming overnight after work, but she already has plans to go out in club with her girlfriends. On Wednesday I test grounds with Mary again, and she feels like coming. Unfortunately, this precise day her job finishes past 10pm. It’s too late. No luck! I will keep my blue balls for another few days - there's a second meeting planned with Joan on Friday.

Thursday 6. FR - Roselin. On Tuesday, my August LMR popped back on my Whatsapp out of the blue after almost two months. She sends pictures and tries to get me coming out with her girlfriend to the Jazz bar. That’s where Gianna’s friend is working, so I can’t go there and decline. On Thursday, I return to her and arrange a drinks date out with her. It’s a catchup date, to get our interaction back on track after two months.

I make sure to put things in the sexual territory from the first, by touching her legs as soon as she gets in the car. Touching is all about wrapping it up in good mood. I initially lay my hand on her thigh, palm upward, to hold her hand, then quickly reverse side, touching her leg, with her hand on top of mine. As long as the good vibe is there, everything is possible. When she gets out of the car, I notice this tight short dress is shaping up her oversized ass nicely. She knows I noticed, and smiles, so I say "wow" and gently touch her ass. We walk out of the car, and I lead her by the hand to the Kempinski Z Lounge, one of my favorites. We get a nice private seat, she sits near me and I have my hand around her hips, sometimes going down for her ass. She likes it and put her head on my shoulder. Talking about "what happened last time" (i.e. my failed escalation) I tell her straight that I’m no bullshit man, that I’m not ashamed of my desire as a man, and that if we were alone together I would do exactly the same, again. "Just be aware of this". She then asks why I returned to her. LOL. I tell her that it’s her who returned to me, and that it was best this way. "It had to be coming from you" I say. Later on in the evening, she questions again with "why I returned to her". Whatever, girls need to feel and frame it like they’re chased, even (and especially) if they’re not. She tries to push the friends frame, which I decline ("friendship doesn’t work between man and woman") but then she says it’s either friend or enemy. She also tries to push the relationship frame. I tell her that she has a very black and white way to put things, with no room for nuances.

The vibe is otherwise very sexy and flirty. I touch her ass, her boobs, etc... She "incidentally" touches my dick. Later on she touches it purposely. She says she likes me and that I’m messing with her mind. When I mention that she was not feeling comfortable with me last time, she says she is. I tell her that I won’t be begging her for sex, it has to be coming from her too. Essentially I’m preparing her for the next time, there will be no ambiguity when I invite home.

It's late and she has plans to join a girlfriend in a club. She tries to get me coming with her, but I decline. I suggest she comes along with me, but she really wants to go dancing. Date finished, alone in the elevator, I my hand is running on this huge ass of hers, and she briefly wraps it around my dick and shakes booty. I put her in a taxi then return home. Overall very sexy and sexual mood.

She mentioned other date ideas. She’s going out Saturday with a group of other girls, some of them pretty and sexy. I tell her that I would certainly enjoy being in a middle of sexy girls, but also that girls do like me, so I might be distracted and not giving her as much attention as she expects. She laughs and agrees it’s best if I don’t come (truth being, I already had plans for that Saturday). What then happened on Saturday is that my plans were cancelled at the last minute. Roselin did call me and said she was with a girlfriend, about the go to the Villagio Mall, and suggested I come along - no more mention about going out with the sexy girls. That sounded like calling for a taxi driver, so I declined. She is still trying to frame me in a friendly context. Game not over.

Friday 7. Second evening with Joan. We reach my home around 7:40pm then work in the kitchen for the dinner. I sense her initial reserve when I get closer to her, so I start very gently, and as I see her becoming more receptive, I take her in my arms and kiss her briefly. We eat in my living room, and things get warm relatively quickly. Soon, she’s over me on the sofa, with her massive boobs hanging over my nose. We end up dancing naked. I take her to the bedroom and the serious things start - a massive fuck festival lasting maybe 4 hours in total and two rounds of fucking. She comes maybe four or five times in total, my own orgasm is ecstatic. Her enormous boobs are such a pleasure.

Saturday 8.. Another failed date with Roslyn. Things had been warming up with Roslyn, my failed date of two weeks ago. BTW I take the chance to remind that all names are made up here. This girl (Roslyn) is not the same as my Thursday date (Roselin) but their actual names are very close, just spelled a little different. So the contact had been slowly restored with Roslyn after our faied date - she didn't show up after 20 minutes, so I left, only to find out (too late) that she had been oversleeping. Excerpts of the texting that ensued to restore contact:

Oct 3:
Her: Anyways I didn’t apologize last time because I was not at fault in the first place. If you really wanted to meet me you would have called me if you see I wasn’t online. That’s what anyone would do [not technically true. She did apologize back then]
Me: So you’re still upset? I’m not. But I disagree. I make a point to be on time at appointments as a token of respect to other people. I expect the same in return. But I’m not upset. I hope you can manage to go over it.
Her: I’m not either but (more of same blah blah, she has no data plan)
Me: Yes. I didn’t know about your data plan. It looked like your phone was off. Let’s move on please

Oct 4:
Me: OK, let me know when you’re not sleeping or working and let’s talk on phone

We get a brief call on Oct 5. We meet (by voice) for first time. On October 6, she texts "So when am I having the date?". We agree on a date Saturday 8th, around 7pm. This time I tell her I will call, and I tell her to have an alarm clock. She sounds excited. I am too, can’t wait to put my hands around these African shapes. BUT. On the said day, she texts to say that she's sick with high fever. So no luck for this second time around! Game not over.

Sunday 9. Lately Gianna my girlfriend was sounding a little entitled, so in order to put her back in place, I temporarily and unilaterally downgrade her from my prime Saturday time (my day off), and insert her on Sunday evening instead. No question from her, good. She comes on Sunday and frankly we have a lovely evening. She's wearing a very sexy underwear. We have a delicious fucking session - maybe two hours. She's a fine, sexy African lady.

Monday 10. LR - Lisa from China

She’s the one contacting me in WeChat on October 6. There is a little exchange over the week end, then we start getting into basic get-to-know chat on Saturday evening. She sent me one picture of her, from a little afar. Seems pretty, but needs confirmation. On Sunday we go on texting while I’m at work. I throw the idea of meeting up, she seems cool. I send her pictures of the Kempinski Lounge, and she seems to like. Then I suggest Wednesday evening. She says "Will see". Oho. I immediately respond "OK, we see another day then" and switch off. She comes back to me on Monday afternoon. She finally sends me a picture from close, and she seems cute enough. She says she saw my pictures on my WeChat wall. "Now that you saw my pictures, you don’t need to see me in real (wink emoji)", I tell her. "Yes I want", she replies. I proceed to set an appointment for the same evening.

We meet at the city center shopping mall at 8:30pm. She’s on time, cute and elegant but looks slightly older that the announced 32. I can tell she immediately likes me. She gives me her hand with no hesitation and we walk towards the Kempinski hotel, a 10 minutes walk with her heels. In the Lounge, we sit side to side. It is quiet tonight, ideal for a date. I lay my hand on her leg as we speak, and she’s fine with it. She’s giving me a massage on my hand. She’s 32, has a 3 years old boy, separated from his dad, and in Doha looking for a job. I know she’s into me, so when we finish drinking our glass, I propose her to come to my home and listen to some music. We walk about ten minutes to my home.

We reach, I put some music and she lays her head on my shoulder. With my hand on her thigh, she caresses my hand and has a comment that my hand is soft. "But I’m a man!" I tell her, as I put her hand onto my dick to prove my point. She laughs, she now puts her hand on my dick by herself, and starts stroking it. "It’s huge!" she says. Well, I’m only average size, I tell her. But she insists "for me it’s huge!". I joke her: "Maybe it cannot enter inside?" She laughs. She’s now working on my belt buckle. I help her and unzip my trousers. She’s now seizing my dick through my pants. "OK, I’ll show you my bedroom". I lead her to my bedroom. But she goes to the toilet first, and I decide to do the same. Unfortunately after peeing, I lose my hard on. We’re now in the bed, she’s over me, and she’s gently touching my chest with her hanging tits. She works diligently her tits all around my body, and soon I’m hard again. Condom on, and she finally gets this penetration that she’d been craving for. She comes, I make it quick.

The experience was medium from my point of view. Maybe it is time that I up my standards a little, like only 7+ girls. This girl, and the other Chinese two weeks ago, were a 6.

Tuesday 11. Mary, my sexy FB. When she comes out of the taxi, I can't help noticing how sexy she is with her long legs, wide hips, thin waist and round butt. We have a lovely sexy time together, I like making her my sexual plaything, and she likes it too. I ask her to undress and spend some time unashamedly contemplating her sexy body before taking her.