Feeling like I've stepped up quite a bit
My frat threw a party last night. I started the night off by being security at the front door. Preventing and yelling at random/creeper/non-student/strange guys who are trying to enter the house always pumps me up and gets some social momentum rolling. Two black-haired Norwegian chicks and a blonde were about to leave the party because they couldn't find a bathroom. I decided to let them use mine so I can get my mind and tongue warmed up.
Some conversation starters and deep divers that I used:
- How is your night going so far?
- Where are you from?
- How is it living in a sorority house?
- Do you plan on staying in Norway after you're done with your studies?
All three were pretty good talkers, so I didn't really need a lot of effort on my part. There were probably only like 5 more questions that I asked. Can't remember.
I tried to incorporate sexual framing:
Girl: This is actually only my second time being inside inside of a frat house. Last time I fell asleep in a room of another frat house my friend is in.
Me: Yeah? Which bunk? (With a mischievous, close-lipped grin)
Girl: NO NO NO not like THAT! I actually slept on the floor. Hahaha, it wasn't like that, there were actually 5 other guys.
Me: WOOOOAAAAH, I didn't think you were like that!
Girl: OMG Noooo, There were girls too!
Me: So an orgy then (it wasn't necessary for me to say this--should've just grinned and maybe looked to the side)
Our conversation was 50% small talk and deep diving, 25% sexual stuff, and 25% racist jokes, and we talked for at least half an hour. Before I had them rejoin the party downstairs, I had all three in my room. I gave one of the Norwegian girls a shot of melon Bacardi for sharing a really good racist joke (I keep a bottle of melon Bacardi and honey Jack Daniels in my room because both taste hella good. Pineapple Bacardi and Oakheart Bacardi are also good). I offered to give shots to the other two girls if they could tell me another good racist joke. Now, both Norwegian girls had hella nice breasts. At least D cups. They were REALLY REALLY nice, and I wanted to play with them. I considered trading tit-play for a shot, but I chose not to escalate because all three were on the chubbier side. Maybe I should've just played with them. Whatever, the night ended very well. Opting out actually made me feel good because I wasn't thinking "I should've done it" but "I could have done it but chose not to. I HAD THE POWER! THE POWER!!!"
Went back to doing security because I just wasn't really in the mood to open the hot chicks yet. I was being fratty-alpha at the front door, and I also kicked a guy out of the party by yelling at him and pushing him out through the crowd. I guess that caught me some attention. While during security, I turned around for a moment and noticed a very attractive blonde just standing in the walkway, leaning against the wall on her shoulder, and looking at me with some fairly seductive eyes. I feel like if I turned up my game to the max and greeted her, I probably could have bedded her. However, I've met her at a kickback the week before, and she was quite nonchalant and not very talkative that night. It was one of those interactions where the conversation lasted for as long as I asked questions. The conversation was basically:
Me: standard question
Her: response
Me: deep diver off of that response
Her: response with not enough details to dive further
Repeat,
We maintained eye contact for about 3 seconds, during which I debated: "I could probably end up boning her tonight. Should I risk another one-sided convo and a possible night ender?" I chose to continue security because it was necessary. The rest of the frat bros were too intoxicated to guard and were likely to let in creepers. There were quite a bit of non-student creepers that night.
I was soon relieved of my position by a frat bro who sobered up.
Three beauties:
I noticed a VERY hot blonde, Jessica, on our front balcony earlier in the night. She seemed bored, and the guy she was talking to had about 3 feet of distance in between them. There were two other attractive girls next to Jessica who were talking to each other. There were also 2-3 other guys standing next to the guy who was talking to Jessica, but they were talking among themselves instead of engaging the other 2 chicks. I grabbed a frat bro and opened the two girls because IF YOU'RE INTERESTED IN A GIRL, BE TALKING TO HER. IF YOU DON'T, THEN MY FRAT BROS AND I WILL. Even if you're with your homies/bros, focus on the girl. You can hang out with your friends whenever you want whereas the party or whatever could be the last time you ever see the girl.
Me: HI, what are your names?
(Consciously made sure to have semi-sexy smiling eyes + sexy close-lipped smile + my natural, slow-paced, deep voice. Quick name introduction took place between us 4. I just ignored Jessica because she was in mid convo with the dude)
Me: Cool, I thought both of you were very attractive, so I wanted to talk to you. Tell me something interesting about yourself.
(I'll call this girl Temecula because that's where she's from. Temecula told me what she was majoring in, so I began deep diving off of that. My frat bro started talking to the other girl, who looked a lot like Lorde. Both chicks were flattered and smiling)
Yeah, I decided to go very direct because it's powerful. A lot of guys were just standing around staring, and I knew there would be very lame approaches, so I wanted to come in with a bang. Actually, one of the Norwegian girls from earlier was telling me about how some guy approached her by telling her how rich he was and if she married him, she could have anything she wanted. Wow...
I sat down on the balcony railing (I think this was called locking in), so that it felt like I was the prize or something like that. Jessica's and my backs touched =]. Probably about 3 minutes into the conversation, Jessica stands up and sorta joins our foursome. We exchanged names and shook hands. She then pulls Temecula and positions her away from me so that Jessica is in the middle between Temecula and me, with Jessica's back facing me. Jessica tells Temecula something in her ears, and Temecula stays in position. Jessica now moves to where Temecula used to be and joins in on Lorde and my frat bro's conversation. I reengaged Temecula, but I was very much enjoying what Jessica was doing.
Frat bro: What's your favorite dinosaur? (He's the cutesy type, and some girls just love it)
Lorde: (Thinks. I think she answered. I don't remember)
Frat bro: Mine is (I don't remember what he said. Most of my attention was on Temecula) because something something
Jessica: (Something along the lines of "Ha. Ha. Cool dinosaur. I don't know dinosaurs. That's cute. Okay" then grabs both Lorde and Temecula by their arms and walks away.)
Wow. I fell in love a little. My frat bro was kinda shocked/WTF?! while I was just laughing. I was amazed and excited. I followed them. Kinda felt like a creeper because they knew I was tailing them. They went upstairs to the bathroom, but luckily it was occupied, so they couldn't escape from me into the bathroom. MUHAHAHA (evil laugh)
Me: Jessica, I really don't care if you're attracted to me or not, but I just had to tell you that I really admire your protective, bossy personality. It's just fucking awesome.
Her: Aww, you're so cute and sweet. (Instantly melted and smiled and gave me a hug)
Me: Alright ladies, take care of yourselves and have a good night.
I bounced,
Came back down to the party, realized I shouldn't have left them, debated if it'd be weird if I went back up, went up, all 3 were in the bathroom, so came back down because it would definitely be creepy if I was waiting for them outside the bathroom. There were other attractive girls in the crowd, including that blonde who gave me those seductive eyes at the front door, but Jessica's personality really hooked me in. I noticed the two Norwegian chicks sitting by the patio, and one of my frat bros was free, so I decided to introduce him to them. The three girls came back down and returned to the balcony as I was wingmanning. Some more time passed. I spent it doing more security and debating whether I should go back to the balcony. Then I saw Jessica taking Temecula back to the bathroom. I checked in on them, Temecula was about to puke, so I got them water. I forgot what I said, but I basically communicated to Jessica that I wanted to talk to her and get to know her, despite her telling me that she's been in a relationship for 4 years.
Went back down, decided to wait for Jessica to come back down so I could catch her, realized Lorde was still on the balcony, so there I went. The dudes were still there talking to themselves, and Lorde was talking in a circle of 2 girls and 1 guy. I interrupted them by grabbing Lorde's arm, saying "Excuse me, I just need to ask you one quick question." I pulled her a little away from the circle and asked if she was single. The guy left to go join the other guys when I did this, and the two girls' eyes widened and sparkled because they overheard me. Maybe I could've pulled one or both of them. Lorde has been taken for 6 years, but told me that Jessica is actually newly single from a 4-year relationship. Huh. How about that? =]
I made small talk plus some deep diving with Lorde until Jessica joined us. I basically told her what Lorde told me and asked for her number. She told me she didn't bring her phone and gave me the runaround and went cold as I persisted. I realized that nothing good was going to come out if I persisted more, so I said "Alright, fuck it. I don't really care. I don't need your number," and put my phone back in my pocket because I stopped giving a shit at this point. I resumed conversation with Jessica. She was quite warm again. About 5 minutes into the conversation, which was going pretty well, a frat bro who was walking down the sidewalk asked if I wanted to come with him to go get some food. I told him to give me a minute so I could say my good bye to Jessica. I walked closer to Jessica (I was originally only about a foot away from her) and gave her a hug. HOLY SHIT. She just felt so damn good in my arms. LIKE HOLY FUCKING SHIT. Her smell (strangely good mixture of perfume and alcohol), her arms around me with just the right amount of tightness, her squishy breasts pressing on my chest...I just kept holding onto her, and she didn't mind. While in the hugging position, I lifted her up and yelled "I'M KIDNAPPING YOU!" and started walking away. I wanted to follow through with that so badly--take her all the way to my room. She just laughed and yelled "YAY!" I remembered something from one of RSD's Owen's YouTube videos and decided to do it: while still in the hugging and lifted position, I walked toward the balcony railing and yelled "YOU'RE SO FUCKING HOT I'M GONNA THROW YOU OFF THE BALCONY!" She laughed again and yelled "WEE!" I put her back down on her feet, and we broke off from the hug for a second--our arms were still around each other, but our torsos were separated with about 6 inches of space between our faces. We locked eyes. The thought of kissing her just popped into my mind when she came back into me for a tighter hug. Her head was right above my shoulder, then she tilted her head and rested it against the side of my head. OH MY FUCKING GOD. I did not want to let her go. I really didn't want to. But I left her anyway after another 30 seconds of hugging or so. She didn't want to give me her number earlier, and I didn't feel like asking again. I wanted to just carry her to my bed and fuck her all night, but she was drunk and I would've felt uneasy about it afterwards. So we said our goodbyes, then I joined my frat bro down the street for part 2 of this night.
I cold approached another attractive blonde girl during the part 2. I have a date with her in a couple of hours. I will be posting a FR/LR soon.
Lessons learned:
- I need to get my social momentum rolling BEFORE the party starts. Most of the hot girls come to the party early, realize that most guys are too pussy/awkward to talk to them, and leave.
- Persist
- Life is composed of memories. If you're presented with the opportunity to create good memories, do it.
