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She's in love with another man. In bed, she says "this is wrong/this feels wrong" What would you say?

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Space Monkey
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The current chase article seems to be about objections when she you are taking her home https://www.girlschase.com/content/girl-has-boyfriend-3-things-do-and-7-things-not#persistent

You: Come with me, let's steal away into the night.
Her: I can't... I have a boyfriend.
You: It's okay, he'll never know.
Her: But *I'll* know.
You: So will I. We can share it together as a secret.
Her: [laughs] No!
You: I don't think you'd be laughing if you weren't interested.
Her: I'm laughing because this is ridiculous.
You: You're laughing because you're too excited to contain your laughter. Now let's go.
Her: [laughs] I am not going anywhere!
You: We'll go for five minutes and then you can leave if you want to.
Her: Okay. But ONLY five minutes!
You: Cross my heart.
Her: [laughs] Okay, let's go.

The article above is about a boyfriend, but let's say more generally she is in love with another man in general.

However, what if she makes objections in bed itself? What might you say to something like "this feels wrong"
after making out a bit?
I imagine this is the end of the line most of the time. But let's say you are curious what would happen if you persisted- what would be some go to choice of words to persist?

Offhand, I can think of a few options - what do you think of the below and do you feel there are better options?
1. Say nothing, keep escalating (not possible if she is pushing you away)
2. Trying to convince her that it is okay to be free / love freely (could make her counter/dig into her position more with logic though)
3. Say something like "You're enjoying it. You can tell me to stop at any time." -> though it seems like she might just say stop right there in response
 

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However, what if she makes objections in bed itself? What might you say to something like "this feels wrong" after making out a bit?

From a field report I wrote last year:

before I put my penis inside of her. She asked me if I was clean. I said yeah I'll show my record if you don't believe me. Then I asked her if she was clean. She said ya, but she still wanted me to use a condom. This made my my dick flaccid. I couldn't get it up knowing I was about to have some wack sex. And we just kind of awkwardly stood there staring at each other. This made her unhorny and then she mentioned this guy she had a crush on. And apologized to me. Now guys without experience might get angry at this stage. Unsure of what to do. Why did she bring me home [or go home with you] if she's got a crush on another guy? But you need to recognize what's really going on. basically. She's just not horny right now. You gotta chill. Make her horny. Then escalate.

So what I do is, I say "that's awesome. I haven't had a crush since 4th grade". Tell her that story. Then Tell her how I've never had a girlfriend. Then talk about the closest girl I ever had to making a girlfriend. Who also had pale skin like HBpale. I told HBpale, I had a photo of her (ex fuckbuddy) on my phone. And what I liked about pale skin is that when you spank it, it turns really red. That turns me on. I show her the pic of my pale ex fuck buddy, and my target replies "she's gorgeous". Which she is. I like showing girls this pic because it shows girls I'm able to get girls of this quality, which raises my smv in their eyes. The photo is also a naked pic of her on the bed. So now I can see HBpale is getting turned on. And I'm turned on as well. So despite her just telling me she had a crush on some dude a couple minutes ago , all I had to do what flip her on her stomach. Raise her ass, And spread them legs, then fuck the shit out of her.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Beyond Borders

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I never try arguing a woman into physical escalation with logic.

My go-to any time she brings up something like this is "you don't have to do anything you don't want to." This usually makes her head spin a bit because women are used to guys being needy and pushy - but after you say it just keep on doing what you're doing and gauge her reaction. If she continues to talk like that or goes cold, take a break and then re-escalate again later like nothing happened.

Once she's horny (and/or interested enough) being into some other guy is irrelevant. Period.

Alternatively (especially if I've got some drinks in me), I'll just give her a sly grin and make fun of her, but that takes a bit more thinking on your toes and kind of depends on what kind of banter you've got going on with her already.
 
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