The current chase article seems to be about objections when she you are taking her home https://www.girlschase.com/content/girl-has-boyfriend-3-things-do-and-7-things-not#persistent
The article above is about a boyfriend, but let's say more generally she is in love with another man in general.
However, what if she makes objections in bed itself? What might you say to something like "this feels wrong" after making out a bit?
I imagine this is the end of the line most of the time. But let's say you are curious what would happen if you persisted- what would be some go to choice of words to persist?
Offhand, I can think of a few options - what do you think of the below and do you feel there are better options?
1. Say nothing, keep escalating (not possible if she is pushing you away)
2. Trying to convince her that it is okay to be free / love freely (could make her counter/dig into her position more with logic though)
3. Say something like "You're enjoying it. You can tell me to stop at any time." -> though it seems like she might just say stop right there in response
You: Come with me, let's steal away into the night.
Her: I can't... I have a boyfriend.
You: It's okay, he'll never know.
Her: But *I'll* know.
You: So will I. We can share it together as a secret.
Her: [laughs] No!
You: I don't think you'd be laughing if you weren't interested.
Her: I'm laughing because this is ridiculous.
You: You're laughing because you're too excited to contain your laughter. Now let's go.
Her: [laughs] I am not going anywhere!
You: We'll go for five minutes and then you can leave if you want to.
Her: Okay. But ONLY five minutes!
You: Cross my heart.
Her: [laughs] Okay, let's go.
The article above is about a boyfriend, but let's say more generally she is in love with another man in general.
However, what if she makes objections in bed itself? What might you say to something like "this feels wrong" after making out a bit?
I imagine this is the end of the line most of the time. But let's say you are curious what would happen if you persisted- what would be some go to choice of words to persist?
Offhand, I can think of a few options - what do you think of the below and do you feel there are better options?
1. Say nothing, keep escalating (not possible if she is pushing you away)
2. Trying to convince her that it is okay to be free / love freely (could make her counter/dig into her position more with logic though)
3. Say something like "You're enjoying it. You can tell me to stop at any time." -> though it seems like she might just say stop right there in response